Has anyone been examined by a parent?

I like pedophiles. They are careful drivers.

The drive slowly as they go past schools.

WTF????????? I have never been so disgusted at something on this site as I am now.

WTF????????? I have never been so disgusted at something on this site as I am now.

I'm pretty sure it was meant as a joke. You know, those things that you say to elicit a laugh or chuckle from someone else.

I like pedophiles. They are careful drivers.

The drive slowly as they go past schools.

WTF????????? I have never been so disgusted at something on this site as I am now.

I'm pretty sure it was meant as a joke. You know, those things that you say to elicit a laugh or chuckle from someone else.

YES, THAT WAS A JOKE.

These days everybody want the cars to drive past schools at three miles per hour to protect pedestrians who don't look where they are going.

Yes, the 3 mph was also a joke.

This is also a joke:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zv9ntbp5aFY

Everybody is so serious lately. Sometimes you just have to laugh.

I took it as a joke. Gallows humor.

Gallows humor is only really appreciated by those who are very familiar with the person making the joke. Otherwise it can fall flat for others who haven't had the pleasure of staring into the abyss while it stares back at you.

@anng I liked this:

I will not guess beyond that in my own written or oral testimony though I may think things to myself. My purpose in reporting is not to senselessly destroy a family, but to sensitively stand up for a child I care about. To do any less than report when necessary would be a violation of every ethical standard I am obligated to uphold.

I hope that those people you report to have that same dedication and caring approach when they do their investigation. That bit about "... my own written or oral testimony ..." tells me you are willing to stand by your own words.

@Cedar, the "pedophiles drive past schools slowly" was in the joke thread and another member originated the joke. I just copied it!

I don't think you have to be so familiar with the person making the joke, you just cannot be a social justice warrior and you have to know how to laugh! 😁

I don't know Andrew Dice Clay or Louis C K and I think their dark humor is hilarious.

I took it as a joke. Gallows humor.

Gallows humor is only really appreciated by those who are very familiar with the person making the joke. Otherwise it can fall flat for others who haven't had the pleasure of staring into the abyss while it stares back at you.

That is the sort of thing my husband says about things like this @Cedar.

I hope that those people you report to have that same dedication and caring approach when they do their investigation. That bit about "... my own written or oral testimony ..." tells me you are willing to stand by your own words.

Yes and this too.

I thought I had seen that before, but I couldn't remember where. I suffer from CRS which is a milder form of CRAFT. 🙄

I believe it was in a string of @WET jokes.

@SwitchableSusie this is true:

I don't think you have to be so familiar with the person making the joke, you just cannot be a social justice warrior and you have to know how to laugh!

That is true and I am not an "SJW". DOM, probably. 😉 That would be, Dirty Old Man. I just realized that may have a different connotation here.

That is the sort of thing my husband says about things like this @Cedar.Yes and this too.

@Amethyst then he is lucky to have you in his life.

I don't see anything funny about it. Especially since my bio sister killed herself because of childhood sexual abuse.

It is no joke and I am sorry to hear your sister killed herself. It definitely happens. This is a subject that the members here are obviously passionate about and has resulted in some heated discussion. I don't take anything said here personally because this is the place to say it and everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Be courteous and we can all just get along.

Peace

Moppy

@SwitchableSusie this is true:That is true and I am not an "SJW". DOM, probably. 😉 That would be, Dirty Old Man. I just realized that may have a different connotation here.

Dirty Old Man is DOM

Dom is the masculine equivalent of Domme

A person can be a DOM, Dom or both.

I would draw a Venn Diagram for explanatory purposes but there isn't an image attachment option on this thread! 😁

the "pedophiles drive past schools slowly" was in the joke thread and another member originated the joke. I just copied it!

Most read posted words for face value. Not everyone reads or cares about the joke section on zity.

The rules to report are in place for a reason. Those who should report and don't get themselves in deep trouble. Do what you feel is best, but don't complain if you get in trouble.

Most read posted words for face value. Not everyone reads or cares about the joke section on zity.

They don't when it is in the joke thread.

Some people have zero sense of humor.

I'm not a moderator here. This topic is one that does hit some raw nerves of those members that suffered from child abuse of any kind.

I do not believe that any zity.biz moderator would intentionally want to hurt any member who is sincere in what they post.

I am also under the assumption that there is a code of some sort between Moderator to Moderator that if they have a concern with something one or the other does or does not say, that they would handle it in a PM. Not out here in the open forum.

Of course that would only apply if one Moderator had a problem with what the other Moderator said.

Or did I get that wrong? I do that sometimes. 😉

If you really want to get offended...google "Pedophile Jokes"

We never spanked our Kids - except once. Our youngest created a scene at the grocery store - running off and hiding because my wife wouldn't get him a cupcake. Finally when checking out (this was during a snow storm and my wife was in a hurry) - she said "Come on Bob, let's go". He screamed out "You're not my mother - I don't know you!" My wife said I have to do something (why me?) so I scolded him for disrespecting his mom and gave him three mild swats on the bare butt with a hairbrush. Fast forward several years to Junior High. Bob got suspended for fighting. When in the principals office he started crying. When asked why he was so upset he said it was because his father beats him and exaggerated the one spanking he got - and also implied it was recent. The principal reported me to child services. I had three or four visits from them and was probably put on a "list".

I was ok with the principal actions, what if was true and and a child got hurt because of his inaction. But the Child services treated me like a criminal. A real jerk abusing power.

@gwhap I hear that:

I was ok with the principal actions, what if was true and and a child got hurt because of his inaction. But the Child services treated me like a criminal. A real jerk abusing power.

The department of social services in my area is full of people like that who don't do their jobs right and come off high-handed. I think you are so right in how you feel. It could have been handled differently. They just didn't want to take the time.

When I read that post from @SwitchableSusie I understood it was just irony and it was not serious. I think when reading a post it is important to see what it really means.

When I read that post from @SwitchableSusie I understood it was just irony and it was not serious. I think when reading a post it is important to see what it really means.

But to some they read it totally different than what was intended. Hence the posts following susie's initial post.

Some people have zero sense of humor.

I come for the fetish, not for my daily comedy.

A clearer statement or a wink would have possibly indicated for sure that irony was the intention.

But to some they read it totally different than what was intended. Hence the posts following susie's initial post.I come for the fetish, not for my daily comedy.

A clearer statement or a wink would have possibly indicated for sure that irony was the intention.

Don't be ridiculous.

There are joke, music and other threads that have nothing to do with fetishes here.

People need to wear their big girl pants and be prepared for whatever is written. Someone said "Don't read what might annoy you."

The fetish stuff that is written about here is positively disgusting and revolting to most people. The jokes and other comments are tame by comparison.

I think that your "Beyond" crosses the line. What happened to me with spankings and rectal temps actually happened and was not sexual in nature. Anyone else will have to speak for themselves here.

gwhap said

We never spanked our Kids - except once. Our youngest created a scene at the grocery store - running off and hiding because my wife wouldn't get him a cupcake. Finally when checking out (this was during a snow storm and my wife was in a hurry) - she said "Come on Bob, let's go". He screamed out "You're not my mother - I don't know you!" My wife said I have to do something (why me?) so I scolded him for disrespecting his mom and gave him three mild swats on the bare butt with a hairbrush. Fast forward several years to Junior High. Bob got suspended for fighting. When in the principals office he started crying. When asked why he was so upset he said it was because his father beats him and exaggerated the one spanking he got - and also implied it was recent. The principal reported me to child services. I had three or four visits from them and was probably put on a "list".

I was ok with the principal actions, what if was true and and a child got hurt because of his inaction. But the Child services treated me like a criminal. A real jerk abusing power.

. . . and that's the problem with children's services and other governmental agencies butting into family affairs.

They never know the real or entire story.

While I agree (and vehemently disagree) with @SwitchableSusie on many things, the pedophile driving past schools was a joke. We have freedom of jokes, even tasteless ones, in the USA. Some are offended. Others aren't. On some other subject the tables will turn.

Although my opinions are very strong on this subject (just read my posts) I though her joke was funny. Life sucks at times... laugh a little.

the pedophile driving past schools was a joke

Thank you for your common sense and humor on this!

. . . and that's the problem with children's services and other governmental agencies butting into family affairs.

They never know the real or entire story.

They were told the real story - just refused to believe it. They assumed the worst. They inspected both of our kids rooms, may even have talked to some neighbors. My impression was the woman was not a very bight person who was touting her power or perceived power.

Sounds like I was luckier than SS friend who was attacked for leaving her child while getting the mail!

They were told the real story - just refused to believe it.

That is yet another problem innocent people have to face when the government gets involved in family matters.

There are joke, music and other threads that have nothing to do with fetishes here.

People need to wear their big girl pants and be prepared for whatever is written. Someone said "Don't read what might annoy you."

I am looking at your pedophile comment as it stands. Peophile is something that is listed as "no no" in zity rules. Those having experienced it, don't consider it a joking matter. In the joke section it can be avoided. But on the regular forum it shouldn't even be.

The title " has anyone been examined by a parent" gives no indication of the comment that was made. I only came into the discussion because someone pointed out a comment was made on the thread that I should be seen. I keep an out for comments that might be against the rules.

I think we all now understand that the comment made was not meant to be taken literally. Let us consider the true context. It was indeed gallows humour, as @Cedar pointed out. It was simply a wry comment that by driving slowly past a school, a paedophile would be contributing to road safety, while ignoring the greater problem of predatory behaviour. It clearly wasn't trivialising or dismissing the seriousness of that issue. On the contrary, it was actuially drawing attention to how serious a matter it is, so let us get real here.

I think it's time to now let this point go and allow the thread to move on.

@Amethyst summed it up perfectly!

Anyone here that knows me knows I don’t jump on the popularity wagon, I rarely hold back, and I definitely dont kiss ass. I can get very passionate about some topics, especially when it involves children.

Susie and I are often on opposite sides of the playing field with some topics and sometimes she just ruffles my feathers ( and I think she takes some pleasure doing so 😉 ) but she has never disrespected me.

It was clear that she was joking and her post did not a neon sign, stating so. Some people need to take the sticj out of their ass if they thought differently.

As far as saying this is a fetish site to only talk about fetishes , give me a freaking break we talk about everything including the weather and recipes , that are not even the topic ! ( and for those who disagree go back and look at some of your own posts and quit the self righteousness , its bull shit)