My mother's aquaintance with my mother present. She was a gynecologist. The first home visit she made was when i stayed home from school one time when puberty was first hitting. I was very shy about my body because it was changing a lot very quickly. I was just having a stomach ache and my mothers friend was visiting. She offered to see what was wrong and treat me and it turned into an extremely humiliating exam.
I remember they both came into the room and my mother was telling me it was going to be a quick checkup by the doctor.
It turned into my shirt being lifted up all the way and my little budding breasts exposed. My mother had not seen my body since i was a small child so I had started crying because it was embarrassing. I knew it was going to get bad when they started commenting on the changes and she started touching them and examining them. This all happened in my bedroom on my bed so i felt extremely vulnerable. I can still remember her warm fingers on my little nipples and palpating my brand new little breasts.
She then pressed down on my tummy and asked my mother if i was constipated.
I tried to push my shirt down at some point but was stopped by my mother. So my buds were just exposed for a long time.
When it got really horribly humiliating was when she pulled my pajamas down to give me a suppository and my mother stopped her and told her she had seen me itching down there. Thats when she said she might as well give me my first exam down there. I had a small bush going already and i remember trying to sit up and pull my clothes back on but my mother held me down and told me to stop and behave and that it was a quick checkup.
That's when i started really crying and they undressed me fully, like stark naked so i couldnt try to cover up again. I was hysterical because again i was embarrassed of all the changes in my body. The thing i most wanted to hide and when she exposed it i wanted to die of humiliation was my clitoris because it was an outie. I remember being held down by my mother as her friend touched everything, spread my lips, ran a finger up and pinched my clitoris up to open the hood and made comments about my exposed pussy as my mother watched intently, saying i had a larger clitoris. She made me put my feet together so they could see better and spread me open stretching me so everything was visible. I couldn't stop crying. My mother was trying to shush and comfort me but she was watching intently at the same time with a smile and nodding along to the doctor which made my stomach sink because i was absolutely mortified.
I couldn't even really see what was happening because i would get pushed down every time i tried to look.
I just remember a lot of intense heavy periodical touching down there, her asking when did the hair start growing, that it was unsanitary to keep it full like that and if that was where the itching was. My mother asked me and i didn't answer in defiance which was worse because the doctor had some sort of cream in her bag and she said i could shave the hair if it was irritating but if it was my vulva she would put the cream on. My mother spread my lips wide and the lady put the cold cream everywhere it even got on my clit and she rubbed it in thoroughly. I was crying very hard and trying to move away from their incessant hands, telling them through hiccups it was just the hair not anywhere else but it was too late and they followed my hips moving away, held me firmly down, my mother spread my lips uncomfortably wide and the doctor finished spreading it all over my small pussy and clit. She told my mother to teach me to shave if it was in fact the hair. then i was turned around and given a suppository.
Later that night my mother walked in on me in the shower and shaved my pussy saying we need to listen to the doctor and even though it was a little hair it was dirty. I cried so hard because everything was more visible, especially my clitoris poking out and i felt so exposed. She started shaving me fully regularly after that.
I keep my pubic hair fuller now in defiance of that and because shaving it fully still reminds me of how humiliating the whole ordeal was and because I'm still embarrassed by my outie clitoris because the rest of my pussy is so small compared.