Has anyone been examined by a parent?

I don't know about examining, but my 13 yr old was diagnosed with priapism issues and since he is deathly afraid of needles, I'm the one who gives him the injections. Don't know if anyone is familiar with what that involves.. But it's definitely different lol

I don't know about examining, but my 13 yr old was diagnosed with priapism issues and since he is deathly afraid of needles, I'm the one who gives him the injections. Don't know if anyone is familiar with what that involves..

I'm sure we can imagine what that entails. But it does sound very odd that a parent (?) should give injections, especially for something like this.

Got any more info or details?

@Charlotte70: You're lucky it was just the tape test. At school once they sent us home with a letter to give our parents. I had no interest in what it said. I gave it to my dad when I got home (mom was at work). It was a notice that there was an outbreak of "worms" at school and described just how the parent should exam their child for it. I wasn't expecting THAT from my dad, or mom for that matter. And then a follow up a month later.

No.Never examined by a parent or relative, but some of these accounts (of those who were) are fascinating. Thank you so much everyone for sharing such intimate details.

Until 12 mom often inspected me after bath.

My friend and I recently took part in a poverty simulation which both our mums were volunteering at. One of the parts of the simulation was to visit a medical tent which both our mums had been assigned to. My friends mum was a nurse who we met first and asked us some questions. After questioning us she said we needed to be seen by the doctor and led us to a small room which was done out like a doctors surgery. We were in there alone at first before my mum came in wearing a white coat and with a stethoscope around her neck (Littmann no less). I could feel myself going bright red and felt really awkward! There was also a medical bed in the room and she said, perfectly in role, 'Hi im Dr Thompson (not her real name), sorry to have kept you waiting' She asked my friend to sit on the bed first and asked him some questions before giving him a 'check up'. She felt the glands in his neck, looked down his throat, into his eyes and ears and used the stethoscope on his front and back. Then it was my turn and she did the same with me. Very awkward

Never, by any relative. Just by my doctor.

No, I have never been examined by a parent or any family member.

Never been examined by parents, but had to do some examining once.

Due to family situations we ended up adopting our granddaughter as a baby and raising her. During her mid to late teens I was a single parent. While there was never anything inappropriate, of necessity we were close and she certainly felt comfortable coming to me with any problems or questions.

On one occasion when she was 16 or 17 she came and told me that it was very itchy and uncomfortable "down there". I asked if she had any associated discharge and she replied that she "wasn't sure". I asked her if she was comfortable with me taking a quick look and she said "anything to get rid of the itching". I directed her to go to her room and remove her jeans and underpants and place a towel over herself for modesty. When I came in I had her lay back and lifted the towel. Sure enough she had a white, distinctive-smelling discharge which I recognized as a yeast infection. I told her to get dressed and we went to the drug store for some over-the-counter Monistat which relieved the itching and cleared up the infection in a couple of days. We also talked about her wearing cotton panties which "breathe" much better than the polyester ones. As far as I know, she hasn't had one since.

Never been examined by a parent.

When young parent was present when I was being examined, often naked, by the Doctor.

My father used to examine me until I was 16. Coz he was a nurse, now he is retires. He open a clinic in our home.

Anyone have any fantasies where they examine a family member (cousin, aunt, etc) or been examined by one in real life? Had a friend who's dad was a doctor and he would always do her sports physicals... i bet that was a strange experience. I asked her one time if he simply filled out the paperwork and she said that he actually did an exam... didnt' get any details though... 😢

Short answer is no. Longer answer is that at a physical exam once when I was 15 or so, the doctor had my mom come in so he could show her something with the base of my spine. So, me...chest lying on the exam table, pants and underwear down, bent over. He was quite thorough in showing her what was there. Humiliating for us both I think

Never had the experience myself but a (female) classmate in middle school’s dad was the school doctor and she always used to get both regular school and sports physicals at school with the rest of us. I always thought that it must have been odd that her boyfriends, prom dates, etc. had likely been examined by her dad.

Mom = Nurse

Dad = Doctor

Me = Doomed!

Enough said?

I always thought that it must have been odd that her boyfriends, prom dates, etc. had likely been examined by her dad.

The thought of that is kind of hot actually. I can picture it now. Her boyfriend knocks on the door to pick her up for a date. When her dad answers the door, he gives the boy a good top-to-bottom look, probably thinking to himself "I know exactly what you have down there and you better not think about using it on my daughter."

No, I never had that happen to me.

Due to having a tight foreskin ,my Dad used to check it often ,

No, and that would be creepy as my parents were not "medical" people.

My mom is a nurse, so often she'd do whatever she could to not have to take us to see a doctor.

The only thing regularly examined by my parents was my report card. Since school was just ok and I never did a lick of homework my report cards were never what over achievers like Susie would call very good. I agree with Bridgette and CJ that child fetishes have no place here and should be left out. This is a very specific fetish site and children have no place here and even a hint of impropriety could bring unwanted attention. Common sense people.

Yes, parents perhaps examine infants who need such monitoring. Beyond that infant age? Questionable at best and abuse at worst! Take your child to a legitimate doctor if genuinely concerned since the doctor can do whatever follow up testing might be necessary. As an adult at age 60 I can make informed consent decisions. An underage child can not and should not be put in questionable situations EVER! As I teacher I have seen and reported these legally and would absolutely do so again without hesitation. I'd suggest you keep these stories to yourself and a VERY close circle of friends. This site is for adults only - ID required! The sane rest of us want nothing to do with illegal.

anng said

. . . . As I teacher I have seen and reported these legally and would absolutely do so again without hesitation. . . .

Interesting.

As a nurse and mandated reporter, I would NEVER make any type of legal report because no one ever has all the parts of the story. I have seen "legal reports" RUIN families and disrupt the lives of the parents and children.

"Guilty until proven innocent" is how those groups work.

As a nurse and mandated reporter, I would NEVER make any type of legal report because no one ever has all the parts of the story. I have seen "legal reports" RUIN families and disrupt the lives of the parents and children.

You also said that you didn't agree with Ted Kaczynski's brother turning him in because family comes first. That is true but turning him in saved lives. The fact is there are instances where parents are abusing children and educators have saved them. Can it turn into a witch hunt and unjustified nightmare? Sure. I think you are smart enough to tell the difference. Don't make me paddle you.

Susie, I too was a teacher and fully aware of the results that an accusation of child abuse could bring to a family. But I can tell you , when you have a 4 yr old in the bathroom, with bruises to her inner thighs , and crying that it hurts to pee because her labia is raw from “ uncle tim” putting his something there you can bet your ass I reported it. And I would do it again in a heart beat.

You also said that you didn't agree with Ted Kaczynski's brother turning him in because family comes first. That is true but turning him in saved lives. The fact is there are instances where parents are abusing children and educators have saved them. Can it turn into a witch hunt and unjustified nightmare? Sure. I think you are smart enough to tell the difference. Don't make me paddle you.

Good memory. I did say that and I stand by it.

Have me on your side, and NO ONE will be more loyal to you than I am.

It should come as no surprise that for me, the needs of "the many" do NOT override the few to whom I am loyal.

. . . it should come as no surprise that for me, the needs of "the many" do NOT override the few to whom I am loyal.

@SwitchableSusie Seriously?!? FUCK LOYALTY!!

So if you know a serial killer/rapist is in your family you say nothing? You know a brother is setting up to go Vegas style hunting and you let him?? That's asinine!

Sure hope your daughter just didn't happen to go to that concert at the last minute, or was walking down that Toronto street... but if she was, oh well, she was just culled like the rest of those innocent people.

Pleased to meet you Susie (my fellow mandated reporter),

Please be aware that I will continue to report direct evidence when I see things that I am morally, ethically and legally required to report. I will be honest in reporting ONLY what I see or hear directly from a vulnerable child. I will not guess beyond that in my own written or oral testimony though I may think things to myself. My purpose in reporting is not to senselessly destroy a family, but to sensitively stand up for a child I care about. To do any less than report when necessary would be a violation of every ethical standard I am obligated to uphold. I can only wish other mandated reporters were willing to do what is right when their well tuned senses told them that the hard response in a difficult situation was the best and only acceptable response!

@SwitchableSusie @bridgette 100% with you on the reporting issue UNLESS it is obvious physical abuse in which case NY State Law mandates I report it based on the account of the victim, or it's my arse. I would never report anything based on "gut" or "hearsay" or third party information. I need to see it and hear it first hand. To do otherwise @anng is speculative and destructive!

I like pedophiles. They are careful drivers.

The drive slowly as they go past schools.

WTF????????? I have never been so disgusted at something on this site as I am now.