Women & Enemas - Why are most women put off by enemas?

Not necessarily THAT many women today. The enema seems to be making a small but steady return, based on a growing number of younger, health-conscious women who are seeking alternative ways to help manage GI, headaches, menstrual and other conditions with minimal use of drugs.

Still, I think that getting a woman to get past the “That’s gross, I’d rather die” stage is a roadblock for a variety of legitimate reasons that have been discussed on this site. No argument here. Each of us is different, and what is felt by one cannot be automatically applied to another.

And so it is with a newbie who is introduced to the enema. “The first time was awful. I was anxious and feeling vulnerable laying on the bathroom floor. I asked myself why am I doing this?” Her initial experience with enemas could have stopped there, and with some women it probably did.

However, with others who endured the experience and ventured to try it again, there appears to be a gradual progression from disliking it, to “this isn’t so bad,” to liking it – even for some, forming a loving relationship with her enema bag.

That’s what I’m seeing in some of these YouTube videos and reading the personal experiences of a woman who is discovering the enema that usually begins for her health. Where it goes from there is her personal choice. Each woman has a story, most of which are kept private even among girlfriends, but I sense they are happening in growing numbers.

@Vicki_V even for some, forming a loving relationship with her enema bag.

Yes! That's the way I feel - standing and holding up my enema bag while I'm connected to it and soapy water is forcing it's way into me. I go so far as to press the bag again my face and kiss the bag!

Does anyone have any data to back up thie OPs assumption? I don’t see this as true.

I have been getting them since I was 5-6 with a bag. I don't think they are offensive at all. If anything a healthy addition to your life and well being.

If a woman decides to try more natural and holistic remedies for such maladies as an irritable bowel and GI upsets, which seem to be very common these days, chances are that a naturopathic doctor will give her the option of trying enema-related therapies as part of her “toolbox.” If she is open to the idea of taking an enema, she may find relief with this protocol, as I have.

Women do not find it romantic or sexy. I feel very horny when I see a woman do it but why? Been that way for years

Women do not find it romantic or sexy.

There are many, many posts by women here that do find enemas romantic, sexy and stimulating.

This site shows us that many women enjoy enemas; but finding one to connect with - well that's a different story.

I think reddevil has it right. ON THIS SITE, there are women who enjoy getting and giving enemas. But in the outside world, those like us are a small minority, probably less than 10%. So, the chance of you finding one like us through casual contact is very slim.

Chances are low but I'm still digging for her

Just had a discussion with a lady friend two days ago who asked me if I was still taking enemas. I admitted I was and she asked when, how often and what was the result.

I told her I enjoy a three-bag series most of the time because the three bags get me clean and relaxed and I enjoy a sense of euphoria when I’m finished.

She admitted her tummy and skin felt remarkable after I gave her her first enema in a three bag session but she didn’t remember a sense of euphoria.

i explained that she was constipated when I administered that series, which was her first enemas ever and not knowing what to expect probably prevented her from truly relaxing and enjoying the experience.

I told her I would gladly give her another series and I would be sure to take things slowly while lubricating her anus and rectum and massaging her sphincter muscles to ensure the nozzle insertion was comfortable.

I also told her that her relaxation would help me insert the nozzle into her sigmoid colon, which would make taking her enemas more comfortable and effective.

I explained that this procedure was known as high enemas that cleaned her colon higher up and certainly helped her achieve a euphoric experience.

Then she asked if I would give her another series of enemas when I came back to visit. I assured her I would help her but she would need to concentrate on relaxing her anus and rectum and allow me time to thoroughly lube her and massage the sphincters to loosen them for her comfort.

She said she would relax and trust me. We ended our conversation with the caution that we would need to take our time, go slowly and work toward making this series of enemas a pleasurable experience.

She said, “Ok. It’s a date.“

ON THIS SITE, there are women who enjoy getting and giving enemas. But in the outside world, those like us are a small minority, probably less than 10%. So, the chance of you finding one like us through casual contact is very slim.

Yes @reddevil and @Cheryl77177 Zity.biz is a very special instance where the numbers do not match the real world. Most women do not find enemas enjoyable and will avoid them at pretty much any cost. We get to hear a very skewed view.

I am one Zity.biz member that does not like to receive enemas.

@MissStress

I am one Zity.biz member that does not like to receive enemas.

As the old cliche says: “It's better to give than receive”.

Most women do not find enemas enjoyable and will avoid them at pretty much any cost.

I am one Zity.biz member that does not like to receive enemas.

Well, what will you do instead of this one in the case of a constipation?

@Enema_lovin said,

Women do not find it romantic or sexy.

My sister, girlfriend, girlfriend's sister, wife, and wife’s best girlfriend all found enemas sexy. When I was a teenager, I couldn’t get enough enemas and my sister, girlfriend, and girlfriend's sister were no different. They all loved their enemas, and they were purely for pleasure other than during their periods. However, there is one caveat. This was during the late fifties through the mid-sixties. Today, I think it’s something most women keep private and just don’t talk about, even among friends.

@Enema_lovin I would have never thought my wife would come to like, maybe even love enemas. But today, she either gives me an enema or gets an enema probably once a week or every other week on average. We both love it and it turns both of us on. That being said, I was very patient. (maybe a little too patient) I started by asking her to give me an enema and for a while, I was was the exclusive recipient. Then I got her to try it. And it has lead into other things such as toys and anal sex.

So my advise is to keep looking. Don't be afraid to ask. But be prepared for “No” or “I don't think so.” I think there's many people (male and female) out there that “no” may change to a “OK. I'll try it.” But at the same time, I think there are also a lot of people that “no” is also a hard no that will not change. I think the catalyst for my wife was seeing how much an enema turn me on.

The body has more erogenous zones for woman than men. Maybe, I like men, woman do not need to explore their anal side because they can enjoy vaginal sex and stimulation to their breasts. However, for those that are willing to exploreI submit that enenas given right can intensify a woman’s orgasm. The problem with enenas is that after one needs to get rid of it and thatv association for many I would think diminishes the desire. But other than than that aspect, assuming one does not enjoy that part, it can be quite pleasurable

I've been thinking, why are most women put off by enemas?

I know so many men, who are afraid to broach their wives, lovers, girlfriends with the subject. And rightly so. A woman could be totally freaked out by the thought and never look at you quite the same again.

My wife is exactly the same, she had seen me doing one in the shower one night as part of my prepping for some mild anal play, so a few nights later we was having a bath, and the topic came up, i just told her not to say anything until she had one as well.

I got my enema syringe from the toy box and asked her to bend over, i inserted the stem using some soap as lube, and squeezed the water in while she was holding it in, then i told her to push, and out it came, almost clear water, BUT she thought that it was just a bit weird.

I am not saying that i am a freak for enemas, i don't see them as being anything other than a requirement for prepping for anal play and pegging, and i certainly don't get any kind of pleasure from having one, and i find them to be a dam nuisance to be honest, but a bloke has to do what a bloke has to do.

I have met exactly three women in my life where the topic of enema came up.

The first always insisted on cleaning up before sex as you finger everything, including your butt. She insisted on mutual enemas until clear liquid came. She loved anal sex.

The second also wanted anal sex, and I was able to convince her that you had to do a small enema beforehand. But she didn't want to give me one.

The third is my wife. And that lasted at least 10 to 15 years until we gave each other enemas. Today she loves the little ones for herself, and the big ones for me.

It took a long time, but today she just thinks it's awesome.

I think you shouldn't throw the door into the house. Anyone who practices imaginative sex will surely find a way to work towards the issue of enemas.

I have been in a few relationships where anything anal was a no, over time I have dated 4 ladies that took and enjoyed enemas. I had one coworker I knew took them but she never spoke about it. I helped her move and a box was buzzing with a small collection of toys. Next to the vibratory was a huge JBL bag. At the time I had no idea what it was, and all she said was,"don't you get any ideas". The other 4 kept it hidden and only came out them letting the secret slip. All 4 watched to see if I would be put off. I would always say wow and pretend I was innocent of enemas in hopes of a private show. It worked with Stacey and she gave me a class on how to use it right there. But true it was a closely held secret.

Wow, that's something new to me. i've never knew this before i found this site because of the way i like it and all the enema porn i've seen. and now i see how many male users here and it's not bad at all. lol

Only con about an enema, for me, is that i wish to not see stool at all. i wish i can not to eat just to not shit, plus my reason for enema arent even for cleaning.

i do remember the first few times i tried an enema it felt like a bad, bad idea. Because i couldn't hold it in, couldn't risk spitting out wet poop water and i couldn't get all the water out at once and it'll have to go to restroom constantly, and mostly THE NOISE IT MAKES.

What else can people do for cleaning before having anal if not taking an enema?

Did you hate something the first time you tried it? Everybody has a story. The first time I was on the zip line, I was terrified. However, if you needed to do it again maybe you didn’t hate it quite as much, but you did it anyway. By the third or fourth time, it didn’t seem as terrible. Not in every situation, but it does happen a lot.

That’s how my doctor describes the protocol if she recommends that a patient try a probiotics retention enema treatment for some bowel disorders. The vast majority of her patients are women. The process getting them to try and be comfortable with the therapy (they need an enema bag or bucket, and a bulb syringe) can take a while, but in some cases the same women who are defensive at first are the ones that can’t wait to recommend it to others.

Vicki:

I did not like the idea of getting an enema when I was growing up and was happy that they grew more and more distant as I got older. Note that I have posted elsewhere here how it was a sorority sister who told me to take an enema for my PMS symptoms. At first I was really put off by the idea, but finally tried it in desperation, but it worked and I was hooked. The next month it was a bit easier and soon I was looking forward to one where I'd do two each month, only one for PMS.

Now fast forward several years and I was married. My husband was making cocktails one evening and made me a martini which I likened to paint remover. Years later it's something that I will order often. Go figure.

A Martini is like a women's breast “One is not enough and three are too many.”

@Emom At first I was really put off by the idea, but finally tried it in desperation, but it worked and I was hooked. The next month it was a bit easier and soon I was looking forward to one where I'd do two each month, only one for PMS.

So true! I remember being so nervous, even frightened, when the nurse who was caring for me at home said she had an order from my doctor to try giving enemas to unblock me. She didn't want me back in the hospital or ER. I was really put off by the idea. Two weeks before I was given a Fleet to prep me for surgery, and it was awful. Angie, my home nurse, said she could give me a shot to relax after I saw the bag hanging over me (one of those large hospital disposable types, and it was FULL), but teaching me breathing exercises calmed me down.

The first enema was very uncomfortable, and I didn't want another one. However, Angie persisted, and something “sparked” within me during the second enema that I had never felt quite that way before. I wasn't “hooked” immediately, but I was well on my way there.

PS: As for the martini, I don't think I'll ever order that again! Lol

I love 'em. If anyone I was with would bring it up, I would be happy as a clam.

Whatever floats your boat😇😜😈Are “most” women put off by enemas? Zity responses from women seem to contradict that assumption.

Are “most” women put off by enemas? Zity responses from women seem to contradict that assumption.

Have to agree with that, but women on Zity are a select group of kinksters - are they representative of the women population in general???

I love 'em. If anyone I was with would bring it up I would be happy as a clam

@chelle300 Well if I'm ever in your neighborhood. 😜😉

@Rigel but women on Zity are a select group of kinksters - are they representative of the women population in general???

Yup - you are right in my opinion; truly a select group here!