Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

My wife knows that I use them for IBS, but I'm not sure if she knows that sometimes I enjoy the process. I haven't told her about that, partially because it's still back and forth (like it some times, not so much other times).

Years ago, I worked with a nice woman and we (can't remember just how), started giving each other erotic massages at her house. Very quickly, I brought up the idea of enemas, and we got a 2500 cc bag with a nozzle that had a balloon near the tip that could be blown up with a cuff. We gave and received many enemas over the next year or so. A typical session was lying in the tub so that any leakage was of no consequence, and the release was easy and comfortable. There was never any shyness over releasing in front of the other. She also liked anal sex. The relationship was never romantic, but rather provided each of us the opportunity to enjoy unencumbered sexual activity with no strings . She is a nice lady and still a friend.

I am very much "in the closet"... mostly because of embarrassment and perhaps ridicule from friends and family. And, also because the enema from childhood has always been seen as a secret activity. The only person who knows is my present "play mate" who I just met. She is a really nice person and I feel my secret is safe with her.

Attending E-Fests and meeting other klismos thru the internet for years has actually made me waaaay bolder than I used to be.

I actually told a vanilla girlfriend I've had for years and it didn't freak her out. Actually about a year after that she ended up giving me a few, and enjoyed giving

(she had teasing fun w it )

My younger sister and brother know. I accidentally sent my sister a custom nozzles pic in Sept. Her reply. Not interested, but nice

About the only person who doesn't know is ironically the person who gave me my enema fetish, my mother

Enematically

Steve

Switchable, back in August, 2016, you posted the following in response to my claim that nobody, including my wife, knew I was into enemas.

Do you REALLY think your wife doesn't know but she just hasn't said anything to you?

Thought I'd give an update. On New Year's Eve when we continued our discussion of my anal activities and the fact I give myself enemas, she was caught completely off-guard regarding the enemas. She knew I played with toys and I told her I simply wanted the playground to be clean. I believe she said, "I had no idea you gave yourself enemas." Well, she does now. I'm out of the closet and we've opened up our communications to the point I see hope for a return to an active sex life when we return to our summer home and she can speak with her doctor about enemas as a possible solution to her rectal leaking problem - the cause of her not wanting to engage in sex.

Anyway, that's not an "I told you so" response. But, it is confirmation it is possible that things go on in a home that a spouse doesn't know about if one is careful. Quite frankly, I now feel a great sense of relief in that if I'm caught, it's not a big deal any longer. Heck, today while in the shower and making sure the 12" double header was giving me pleasure, she walked in on me to tell me something. Because of the layout of the shower, the location of a towel on the shower door towel rack, and my position in the shower I have no idea if she knew/saw I was playing with a toy or not. But, so far as I'm concerned that is no longer a problem. Freedom is a wonderful thing.

I do not think that any one that I know, knows that I take and very much enjoy enemas. I would like to have a real friend that I could talk to about my enjoyment enemas and anal playtime.

Of those i am still in contact with, sister, my wife, son, daughter, cousins, few old neighbors and our MD. Only the MD bites his lip. The rest have engaged in discussions and a few are also private participants, for sure.

Just people on Zity. Nobody else knows and no one else would understand that I like them and help me out.

Nobody knows about my fetish’s,only my friends here on this wonderful site,my wife knows I like them cause I occasionally talk about them in reference, but she does not know that I take enemas whenever I can without raising any suspicion, cause she would not like that. I thought something was wrong with me, but thankfully I am not alone, the mere thought of getting an enema gets me excited. Rocco

No one knows except an ex girlfriend of mine. But, wouldn't it be funny if most people you know are secretly doing enemas, but no one thinks anyone else is because everyone keeps it a secret. There is a term for this, I can't think of it. When everyone in a room has the same thought but is afraid to say it because they think they are the only one. When in reality, everyone else is thinking the same thing.

My wife who I lost in 2016 my mother,aunts and grandmother and a lady I met here we do enema play every two weeks for three days at a time.Before that a X-ray etc I dated for a while others thought it was gay

No one except friendly people here some partners with I had a relation wich I tried to talk about it and try to understand if there was any interest on it. ...But often I ask to myself if privacy is real nowadays in the Google era..

Just one friend 😃 I just felt like I had to tell someone.I had to get it off my chest

An older sister who had been given her full share of enemas in childhood was not surprised when out of the blue I posed a question of my own enema history. She had decided years before that I liked the treatment more than I let on at the time. She said I seemed more nervous then resisting at the time rom what she gathered.

I have been hosting enema parties for many years, and host two enema groups on FetLife, so I guess that half of the world knows by now.

Three x girlfriends and my mom and my dr knows I take enemas and suppositories

My wife is the only one who knows I take enemas. She has no idea that I come here or watch enema and other types of vids. We give each other enemas for sickness and constipation. She has noticed my woody after an enema so she offered to give me one before sex and I approved. Just getting better all the time!

No one but the people here, for good reason. IF things like this get into the wrong hands it can be looked at in a negative way. This may cost you a job, or sway other important decisions make about you. I would rather not put myself in jeopardy. So, best to keep these things to yourself.

My wife knows I take enemas, but has no idea how much I am turned on by them.

Only one friend knows about it.

My Dad, my Husband and my Aunt in Saskatchewan. She just found out over Christmas when I met finally her face to face and we spent a lot of time talking about my Mom.

I am fortunate the dog can't talk, because he is the one who knows too much!

Just some special people that I know. Unfortunately the general public would never understand the pleasures associated with the enema bag. I will bet if more people would loose the stigma around the enema and just take a couple or experiment with it they would enjoy and accept it. During the 1940s to early 70s, a hanging enema bag hanging in the bathroom was a COMMON sight. So much for the "old days"

The only people I have told are here in chats and the few dommes I have seen years ago.

My significant other knows I take them occasionally, but doesn't like the thought of it. She has no idea I like them so much or that I come here. No one else (besides the people here) know.

No one but the people here, for good reason. IF things like this get into the wrong hands it can be looked at in a negative way

Amen. No one in real life.

In my vanilla life - no one.

In my kinky life - about a dozen.

Mrs LIK knows of my fondness for enemas. She’s taken aback by my collection of nozzles. I’d summarize by saying that she essentially turns a blind eye to it - neither embracing it nor outright condemning it. She does usually enquire whether I’ve leaned myself out if she’s about to slide her fingers or a dildo in my arse whilst grinding her clit on my thigh, so she is certainly not averse to the benefits my enemas can bring about.

Well to be honest, several people know of my huge and intense fetish for erotic enemas ....I live with two very understanding roomie who are also into this fetish, as well as my next door neighbor and a few of her close fiends, as they have been over here and assisted her in giving me enemas on more than a few occasions ....Feeling so submissive for them is all a part of it for me personally ....I like for my enemas to be administered in sort of a strict/ stern fashion and to be forced to keep going even when my poor tummy is so distended I look like I am about to explode .....Yes, I don't care for the cramping an awful lot, but I love how rejuvenated I feel after a series of large volume and intense enemas ......I have both a male and a female roomie and my female roomie is very bi--so when I ask her to please help me with an enema, she eagerly jumps at the opportunity to do so, if she is able to .....I have shared a few sessions with some of her friends as well ......I recently had a session with two of her friends and my neighbor that nearly lasted all day long and almost into the early evening ....I honestly lost track of all time, but I kept track of how intense the enemas became for each of us and it seemed like the more each of us took, the more solution each of us wanted in our bottoms and our bellies ....I know I was given no fewer than 5 enemas and maybe even a couple more beyond that, and the other girls I think had either 5 or 6 each....I know of us wanted that session to end, and I loved being escorted to my bathroom with the hose and nozzle hanging out of me as I made my way there and each of them got to see my bottom wiggling all around the hose and nozzle , and I think this was a turn on for all concerned because of the attention my bottom got with every enema .....So quite a few people know I am into enemas and I am okay with this ......Several people in the past also know of my huge enema fetish, as I have received enemas over the years from many ....I have had people catch me in the midst of giving myself enemas as well .....I will not hide something that is not only healthy for me but very beneficial as well .....Just a few of my thoughts on this thread ...Enjoy everyone !!!

I think only my wife knows. Other than those of us who are here, most people today would think it weird that we give ourselves enemas when we don't have to.

No one in my personal life knows about my enema fetish. The only people that know are the few women that I have played with in the past.