Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

2 ex girlfriends

Current girlfriend

And on female friend who asked if I knew anything about them. Then proceed to buy her a bag and teach her

My wife, who also uses enemas but not nearly as much as I do, knows. That's it. I never discuss it w anyone. That's why I joined Zity. No one knows me and I don't know them, but it gives me a chance to learn and understand that I'm not alone. Being able to discuss it here has helped me understand and accept my self.

Someone mentioned their "straight friend" who knows because of the ibs connection with her daughter. So she knows of your medical use of enemas but does she know that it is also a fetish ? Also when i die i want to be reincarnated as your next cat...LOL

My mother, my wife, all of my children, a former girlfriend, some of my very best friends, everyone here, who cares :-)

. Oh, and my ever so nosy cat.

I think my cat knows virtually all of my sexual secrets. She watches everything and seems to be able to read my mind at times. Uncanny how she can almost sniff out my mood and turn up at my private moments ... ha ha

Funnyabout "Cats!!!" I think my cat Lucky is a "voyeur!!" Whenever I prepare an Enema and get everything all fixed upon the bed......she props herself up at the foot of the bed, Purrs and "Watches me!!"

with a "Click!!!!,"

highwater

I,ve told no one .My wife will have nothimg to do with ass play of any kind! If I ever told her how I love enemas she,d really freak out. I never had occasion to mention this to anyone else.I think my mom knew as I would often have the old sham bellyache as a excuse for a enema and she never refused.Jim

Absolutely no one. My wife has absolutely no interest in any kind of ass play and would most likely freak to the extreme if she knew.Zity is like a new lease on life,I really enjoy this site and hope to become more active as I overcome my shyness.Thanks guys,Jim.

Only my dog and online people. I like to take an enema in the knee chest position. The dog will scratch at the door if I close him out. Most recent enemas have been taken in this position with him either wrapped around my head or under my belly. I definitely get licked in the face. He knows all my secrets. If I want to masterbate in bed, he'll insist on being in my lap. If I'm putting in or taking out a plug he's watching and licking my leg. Weird dog but I've accepted my lack of k9 privacy.

Answer to query: no one except all former exes and two ex-wives. A couple of ex-GF's and my most recent ex-wife were actually very good and enthusiastic about it and took delight in immobilizing me in rubber and enemas and seeing my reactions (including, of course, how well I could get her off after being filled!).

Cat thread: my large orange shorthair Garfield (real name, actually likes lasagna) is obsessed with staying in the hot, humid bathroom whenever I take a shower. I've taken to looking for him before I start 'cause if I don't, he'll be scratching at the door or putting his foot under it trying to open it right after I get soapy. These days, if he's awake and sees I'm getting ready for an enema in there, he just comes in, sits on the towels I meant for me and enjoys the show! I have to admit it's a pleasant, slightly surreal feeling to be lying there filling and anchored to the bag with a rectal nozzle and have him decide that this would be a good time to come over and rub his body hair and face on me. He hasn't tried to crawl up on my chest or belly which he frequently does in the living room, but if I wait long enough, I'm sure he'll try it one of these days! This will certainly require a post-enema posting along the lines of "The effect of cat weight and movement on fill rate, volume and retention time in the belly-positioned feline on human enema subjects."

Eric

I've been giving myself enemas for 35 years (I'm 71 now) and not a soul knows. The first 21 years it was an on and off situation as the opportunity presented itself; but, over the past 14 years I have been giving myself enemas 3 - 5 times/week and have loved every second of them. I am definitely in the closet as I know my wife would think I was crazy.

All my old girlfriends knew I was into enemas. My wife is totally aware of my interest but she does not share my hobbies.

So I manage to stay in the game. 😉

My wife knows but doesn't participate - at least not when I take a series of enemas. If anyone else knows, they're either been snooping in our bathroom cupboard or have remarkable deductive powers. I have a degree of megacolon, so have to take psyllium husk daily for my bowels to move at all. My colon just fills right up until I start to leak without much urge to empty it. So - a nice BIG enema every week keeps me going. Often I don't shit at all between enemas owing to another malady that requires occasional codeine pills to handle it. But my trusty Fr 42 colon tube gets right into my caecum and sorts it all out.

Recently, my wife has her own bowel problems. We're both in our late seventies so no big surprise. Unfortunately it would be a breach of confidence to tell how I have helped her, but my kink is useful.

Johnny

I've been giving myself enemas for 35 years (I'm 71 now) and not a soul knows. The first 21 years it was an on and off situation as the opportunity presented itself; but, over the past 14 years I have been giving myself enemas 3 - 5 times/week and have loved every second of them. I am definitely in the closet as I know my wife would think I was crazy.

Do you REALLY think your wife doesn't know but she just hasn't said anything to you?

The fact is, I know the existence of EVERYTHING in my house except for what my daughters have locked in their closets--but I have a good idea of their private possessions because of conversations we have had. I know everything my husband has because we use everything together and he doesn't have anything locked up that I don't also have a key for.

Women know what's inside their houses. Yeah, we're sneaky bitches.

Do you REALLY think your wife doesn't know but she just hasn't said anything to you?

Yeah, 1000% certain.

Do you REALLY think your wife doesn't know but she just hasn't said anything to you?

Sometimes it is hard to tell. You can't very well ask to validate a suspicion on your part, now can you? I think in general you can say that spouses are often clueless about each other, totally clueless. And that in other instances paranoia reigns, with small inconsequential things being taken out of context, blown up out of all proportion and interpreted in the most uncharitable manner. Then they think they know, but don't really.

My wife of course and some of our friends from the seventies,all female and i know for sure they were users then. All are still in contact, but don't talk about the enema anymore. Shame I am a better listener now. wish I had pursued it way back when.

Only exes (wives and girlfriends) as far as I know. None of my friends know unless they've snooped in my bathroom, and I consider that unlikely since us Texans are big on respecting other folks privacy.

No one knows except my doctor.

I was badly constipated after a hospital stay last year. I'd had morphine and we all know what that does. When I was discharged I phoned my doctor to tell him how badly constipated I was. I was too nervous to tackle my constipation myself without consulting my doctor because of the surgery I had had. At first he suggested suppositories but then to my surprise he suggested a Fleet enema that I could buy at a pharmacy. I have to admit I was a bit surprised but then he said an enema would be by far the better alternative. I think he was a bit hesitant to suggest an enema but then he was great. He even said an enema every now and then can be very beneficial instead of relying on laxatives. In reality my doctor is amazing. He went on to say its an old fashioned alternative that is beginning to find favor again. And he gives himself an enema for constipation which explains why he suggested I try enemas. He doesnt know I'm a member here but hey he doesnt have to know everything. Its just great I share my enema successes with him.

I think enemas are far more common than is thought. Its certainly an easier way to overcome the dreaded constipation and its enjoyable too.

I had a colonoscopy earlier this year and when I told my doctor I had had a rough time with the "cleansing prep" he suggested a series of enemas next time. He's going to give me a plan which I'm really happy about.

Now thats something to look forward to.

Gosh it just occured to me.

I wonder if my doctor is a member here.

I have got a matured sex partner, she not only knows about it rather she also indulges in the play whenever we meet for sending intimate times

No one other than a few people that I have either chatted with her on zity or other sites, or that I have had the opportunity to meet.

My ex-wife knows, and my current SO knows. I use enemas almost exclusively for help with IBS, as I have found that it helps ease the symptoms when it flares up. Also my SO's niece knows that I use them, because she suffers from IBS, and I told my SO she could discuss it with her niece and suggest she try them. Other than that, I think the use of enemas are like any other personal care/ hygiene that we need or like to perform on ourselves. Not necessarily topics of conversation except for those who are like minded and have questions about it, or have a fetish they like to share.

Same as redbag in ny.

Not many people know the "secret".

Just a few playing partners.

JockP: I had a similar experience following surgery: constipation, glycerin suppositories did not work (my wife was reluctant to try an enema at this point, because I was just ouf of the hospital, so she tried suppositories first). My wife then gave me an enema. When my doctor asked me later how I felt and if there had been issues, I mentioned the constipation. She asked how it went. I mentioned the enema. She did not bat an eye and asked whether after the enema I still had constipation signs.

Now the way I said it in French could be interpreted either as: my wife brought an enema to me from the pharmacy, or my wife injected the enema into me. I'm unsure what the doctor understood.

My younger brother. He and I have talked about it as adults.

My wife, and I have mentioned it to one of my daughters. Neither are impressed. And, of course, all those Zity-ites who have come across my profile or chatted with me.

Cos

Basically I am in the closet about this. Only people who know are those here or on the web (anonymously) and a few I have paid to give them to me. Not something I am willing to share with friends or family, might change perceptions of me to them. It is still a taboo subject to most people. I don't think most people tell others of their sexual activities even if they have several children. A lot of things are just private. Intimacy is one area that can be very private. Enemas and sex I believe fall into that category. Even health issues can be a private matter. Not too many people tell everyone they've had a STD. It is strange that a lot of people, me included, get administered to by a complete stranger (at least the first time) rather than someone close to them. But to me, somethings are just meant to be kept secret from most people.

Only me, I did not even meet anyone with whom I could share it. So I signed up to this page.

Nobody knows but one domme.