Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

My ex Girlfriend is the only one that knows about My enema fetish, She's the one that turned Me on to it!

Currently only my wife..... ( Unless, you count the members of this community and my ex girlfriend of long ago ). My Mother is no longer alive so I can't count her anymore.

I keep it a secret,except to my zity friends

My wife, a lady friend at work who uses them and a female health therapist who is heavy into gut health. She is a very caring and lovely person.

I think that the only to know my e fetish are my ex girlfriends, but only the first one experienced with me with some plays.

I make a distinction between those who know I have an enema fetish and those who simply know I have had an enema or more.

Other than those of you here on zity, only my husband and sister know I take them for pleasure. Those who know I sometimes take enemas include my neighbor, and my best friend. A few years back I admitted to my G.I. doctor that I "sometimes" took plain water enemas for constipation because I hate laxatives. She didn't tell me not to do that but said she would prefer that I increased my fiber intake or take Miralax if needed. What fun is that?

Every gal I've been in a relationship with knew of my enema fetish, as well as any male partners.

I think the only people that know is my wife and the people on here.

Nobody knows for me

My wife still believes I do it for occasional constipation

There have been a few wonderful friends who I shared my enema love with over my last 50 years...probably a dozen or so if I made a list, but the number of people is not so important, as to the particular people that gave them.

Each person I opened up to and asked to give me an enema at the time, gave them to me. Not one, ever said NO. Not one of them seemed to even be surprised or hesitate at that very moment I brought it up to them.

They were both male or female at the different times and there were no sexual relations involved either, which was the way I preferred it to be.

Once I pondered this question...It actually surprised me, to think and realize that not one of those persons denied the request,

yet none of them (but two) that I can recall, had ever even had one themselves.

Frankly, I think the world of people out here, are more receptive to the idea, than we think.

Be encouraged, and do not fear you are "an only one"...a lonely one, there are many of us that are receptive.

Nobody knows it is a fetish

My wife knows I receive enema because she gives me :-)

However she thinks it is only for medical reasons

I hope that nobody knows about it 😃

No one knows that I know of. My wife should have guessed as she found panties, porn and a red bag and nozzle. She never asked why. She cussed me out and was angry but asked no questions. I love her but she is so vanilla

No one knows that I know of. My wife should have guessed as she found panties, porn and a red bag and nozzle. She never asked why. She cussed me out and was angry but asked no questions. I love her but she is so vanilla

Granted this is not the best forum for an accurate sampling, but I would love to hear the opposite side's arguments. I read/hear this kind of thing and translate it into "Not only can I not be bothered to even try and accommodate my partner's desires/likes, but god forbid that I even allow my partner to accommodate them on their own. no they need to ONLY do what I want them to."

You all on here & a few women I've played with, now all in my home state of CA. other than that, a cat. A pet.

Every gal I've been in a relationship with knew of my enema fetish, as well as any male partners.

Should have read:

Every gal I've been in a relationship with, as well all male sexual partners knew of my enema fetish.

The way I originally wrote it makes it sound like I told all the gals I had relationships with about males I was involved with.

Am too keeping it a secret. I go to great lengths to hide it. I'm not ashamed but I dont have the confidence to bring it up with my misses. Iv hidden it from her for 2 years.

It's kind of hard to keep your interest hidden from your spouse, as I found out. I've mentioned how I concocted a story that I needed to take enemas regularly for chronic constipation when I married my 1st wife.. The ruse lasted less than a year, and when I finally mentioned my love of enemas to her, she said she had already figured it out. She wasn't happy about it to say the least, though the marriage lasted some 10 years and kept doing enemas without involving her.

My x-wife knew, thought I was a pervert. My present wife who doesn't care to give or receive an enema. A friend who we both know, she called me one day while I was giving myself an enema and told me to enjoy my enema. I said I wished she was here so she could help and she said she would help or give me an enema. One other friend, both of these are females who know about my enema use.

So as far as I know, only abut 4 or 5 people know that I use and enjoy enemas.

My girlfriend both knows and approves, and she gives and receives them as well

My wife knows of my interest in enemas and has given me some in the past, however she usually prefers me to self administer. She also generally doesn't like to receive enemas except on rare occasions. I feel lucky that she has no problem with my interest and will sometimes say, "Why don't you go give yourself an enema?", which I love. This will often be before our play sessions.

In adolescence, my sister and brother. We gave them to each other. As adults we haven't spoken about it. My wife knows but does NOT want to know details, and certainly doesn't want to participate. Years ago I visited a colon therapist in the Atlanta area and we opened up to each other about our love of enemas. Shortly afterward, she gave up colon therapy and began BDSM sessions. We had a few sessions where we gave to each other, but she was in a relationship with a scary guy and I was afraid to get too involved. Good thing, because I heard later that she got busted. Otherwise, only the folks on this forum.

Have shared this kink with a few exes who I knew would be receptive to it, including one who was REALLY into it. Ideally, would be with a partner who shared at least a couple of my kinks.

My wife of 54 years has known about my enema fetish for 50 years.. she is okay with it but she won't receive unless she's really bound up. She gives me a nice enema and jerks me off or she will watch me jerk off as the bag empties. I think she's a keeper.

No one but you all here, outside of this site I have nobody I could share with, on a personal level I really wish I did.

I've been burned badly so many times it's difficult to get past my own iron curtains to let anyone into my mind and heart.

With that said, I don't go out looking to make friends.

Like I've said many times, "Wish in one hand, shit in the other", you know what I always come away with.

So enemas are not a fetish nor do I absolutely love them, but they are enjoyable. Until recently I only took one when neccessary throughout my life. Yet I am into kink, bdsm, etc., and like many aspects of medical exams. Combining the medical aspect, a little bit of bdsm, and enema. Perfect storm.

Fortunately for me, through my husband, we met a gentleman, who happens to also be on this site, who has becone my enemamate. So he knows, as well as my husband and my best friend.

Except here, nobody knows in my off line life, and I think I'll keep it a secret, because it's a very intimate thing to talk about even only for health reasons, if you don't meet the right person.

Well, right now, only my partner, there have been many along the way that ive met for mostly one off play, and 2 or 3 maybe that ive seen more than once, but none of these are friends, and i dont know where to find them now, i did mention to my parkinsons nurse once that i had to resort to enemas for constipation, and her response was..where did you get them...think she thought i used fleets, didnt seem to understand water from the tap !

So really very few now.

I have been pretty open about my Enema fetish, more in my later years.

Have been married three times. The first only gave me an enema once at the end of our marriage. I decided then that I would bring the subject up before I got married again as this is my dominant fetish.

My second wife gave them to me (and took them) early in our dating life. But as we progressed in marriage, she began to use my fetish against me when we fought. Once we finally split, she told everyone who would listen about my love for enemas. At first I was totally embarrassed, but when a few of her female friends came to with with enema questions and eventually enema play, I knew her evil plan had backfired.

Now my wife and I enjoy enemas in a different way. She does not receive, so instead she lets me play enema games with others. Kind of like an unexpiring hall pass for enemas. This has been the best ever!

I guess my point is to bring up the subject to your lover before thing get too far along. Honesty is the best policy and then there are no secrets. If you can share your enema fetish you can share anything!

Of course my mommy,and older sister and auntie,and my doctor.Because all except my doctor has given me enema's and suppositories to help this baby girl with her constipation concerns since infancy and still to this day.Doctor only because he made the suggestion to my mommy,to assist her with my constipation.