Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

I've been trying to get my husband to try it. Still working on him

No one as of now but would like to experience it for the first time

No one in my family knows. My best friend knows, and a few that I have talked to on here. I wouldn't say it's a fetish just yet. I have only had 2, and that was fairly recently. Up til recently, it was just a fantasy, and something that she and I had talked about (but not doing it to each other). Another member on here skyped with us and pretty much the next thing we knew we each have had two. We gave them to each other, but only with him watching on Skype. I kind of like it, but it's still to new to tell for sure. I know I would enjoy it more if it was a man, rather than my best friend doing it to me. But no, no one in my family knows.

Mom & Dad, bro, sis, cousins, neighbors, and most especially, my sweetie

My aunt knows, my ex knew and anyone who I have been intimate with knows. I keep my bag in the shower just for that reason.

I tried to explain this fetish/desire with my hubby without much success. He knows but won't acknowledge it. Other than him, just my friends here on Zity.

No one knows of my fetishes especially the enemas. no friends no family or former coworkers. it is private, people on here know and my partner he is international and we are both swtiches. i have no sexual secrets from him.my family , friends are very vanilla.

Just my friends here know of my enema enjoyment

Two old gf's, and one lady co-worker. Gave the one old gf a enema with some clitoral play and said she hadn't orgasmed like that in years. 😜

I'm very much in the same situation as you, DAW.

My Aunt and next door neighbor who spoke about it at the neighborhood Christmas party 2 years ago. Said if I needed help just ask.

Not all that different than DAW in my case. Told my then to-be -wife years ago about my enjoyment of enemas, at which time she said she was fine with my fetish. Has turned out totally different over the years. Zero interest whatsoever by the wife. So....like many on this site, I'm strictly solo when I have the opportunity.

Outside of the Zity community no one knows of my interests, not even my doctor. My wife has never been interested in sex of any type and now is physically unable to do much at all; I have had sex with others who enjoyed it, as I did. However, I have asked a friend to give me an enema but we have not had a chance to execute a plan. He isn't into enemas but is curious why I am, so,…..? We'll see what happens.

My wonderful lady sort of knows and is happy for me to have loo time and go for colonics. I came out about it to my fabulous RN neighbour some time ago and I suspect that at least three of the colon hygienists I have been to have a pretty good idea, but they are far to professional to mention anything. Ummm!!

No one, since I only started practising regularly after my divorce

My close friend knows that I have a kind of pharaphilia, but I didn't say what exactly i'm fixed at.

My ex and my wife know. My ex wasn't all that thrilled about it but knew. Now my wife on the other hand.... I introduced her to them and we both take and give them to each other. It gets pretty hot when the kids are at their mom's, especially if they spend the night.

More ex-GFs than I can readily count, current friends, and anyone who steps into my home bathroom and sees my bag and tube hanging off my towel rack. I no longer feel it's a secret worth hiding. After all, it is a valid health issue and as important to me as my toothbrush. If it engenders conversation, sobeit!

My wife knows, but probably not to the extent I actually have it. I liked enemas since childhood but thought I was the only one. After the Penthouse letters I got enough balls to approach my wife with the idea of recreational enemas. While she participated a few times she eventually told me to do what I want in private, but don't ask her to participate. She said she just couldn't get past the fear of accidentally making a mess. I think she thinks I have an enema occasionally, like once a month or so. I think she would be surprised it is often several a week. She doesn't ask and I don't tell.

My doctor asked if I was troubled by constipation. I told her not often but when I am, I prefer a warm water enema to a laxative. She said she would prefer I got more fiber instead but did not tell me to stop enemas. But again, I am sure she would be shocked if she knew how often I do it.

Very early in my dating I told my wife to be that I had been raised on enemas by my mom and my aunt and my two sisters also received enemas at the same time if it was a scheduled Saturday enema time or other times when I was sick. She told me right off that she and her sister had been raised on enemas and douches since early childhood sometimes as punishment and always done is a rough way. Her parents were very sexual and didn't hide their sexual activities from their children. They were expected to go to bed and to sleep and not to be snooping around their parents but they always peeked and could hear the noises of sex.

That conversation was such a relief and even though she is not as much into the kink as me, she still will have enemas from me now and then when she really needs them and will give me nice gentle soothing erotic enemas when I need them. Pretty lucky for me I think. When I retired and took the training for colon hydrotherapist I let a number of family members know about it and it was very interesting to see some of their reactions. Of course there is a lot of interest and curiosity from close family members.

Right now, it's my father, who raised me as a single parent and introduced me to enemas.

And my husband.

My husband and I have discussed when and how to let my twin daughters see me taking an enema. We both realize it is only a matter of time until they see it

Last time I did a full cleanout the dog actually tried to tell them and they just were not sophisticated enough yet to know to follow him If they had been 2 o 3 years oler and figured out his body language he would have told on me!!

Now that they are starting school, I think it's time to stop shielding them completely. Worst case scenario would be a walk-in during retention. I have to figure out a way to make it into a teachable moment without actually encouraging them to take an enema neither one needs.

In most ways it's good that they both seem to have Mom's innate curiosity. This however is one place it could blow up on either or both of them One of them at least and sometimes the other one, also got the double dose of plain ole stubbornness that both parents seem to have.

SOOOO I don't really know yet but probably the next time I take an enema I will probably just casually leave the door open at a time when they will both be around and just explain everything as I go along, let them see the whole process try to read both sets of body language and facial expressions and go from there.

@LisaK I'm curious, why do you have to tell your kids at all? Children should learn how to respect privacy and let their mother have some 'mommy-time.' And parents do 'adult things' that needn't be be shown or told to their children.

And why does the dog want to tell your daughters that you are taking enemas???

The kids will go everywhere in the house eventually. It's better to be honest with them That way when they are teens they will be less likely to hide things from their parents.

It has to be normal for them to be open within the family at that point. Too dangerous otherwise.

In the end, the ABSOLUTE WORST thing that could possibly happen is that they get to 7 or 8 and have never seen or talked about what An enema is or what it does or how to use one, and they are home alone or the parent that IS home is distracted, and they essentially do what my father did with a 4oz bulb and get curious and decide to try it. A OZ BULB AND A 2QT BAG ARE NOT THE SAME THING! Least of all at that age.

If they get curious, and one of them at least seems to have inherited her Mom's curiosity, that interest in EVERYTHING that got me my college degree. I REALLY want them to come to me and talk about it. I can't say in that situation whether I will or won't give either or both an enema they don't actually "NEED. " I'll have to figure that out as I go along,

Clearly what my father went through having to hide everything from his mom was just plain wrong and unhealthy!!

I want to avoid that at all cost. And twins generally, identicals especially learn form and listen to each other more than they do their parents anyway. Last year, when my son was born I got one twin to go from saying "mom's Baby" to saying "my Brother" and she started correcting her sister. That said openness is going to be healthier for them both physically and emotionally.

As for the dog, I'm the alpha female of his pack. Dos are very loyal to their own pack and when you form a bond with that dog, what you are really doing in the dog's mind is becoming a higher ranking member of the pack than he is.

Part of protecting the pack is notifying the other members when they sense a danger to the Alpha male or the Alpha female. Because in the dog's mind the future of the pack is in doubt. with a male it might be an opportunity to be the new alpha or at least move up in rank.

Not to worry he was signaling my husband to follow him to me. My husband read the body language and checked in to make sure everything was OK!

Pretty sure my colonic irrigation therapist knows, or has guessed based on her experience and my inability to disguise the joy I get from her treatments. Other than that, no one. Very careful to hide the evidence when the GF, friends or family come over. Bury that gear deep. I might tell the GF if I thought she would be into it, but after ten years I know better than to roll those bones.

I haven't ever told anybody. I have posted a few ads on craigslist looking for playmates I get a lot of responses but none of them ever actually showed up to play. The secrecy makes it exciting but it also makes it hard to get what I want. I'm a little embarrased about my interest in enemas and that also makes for more excitement.

Only online kinksters like you all know of my enema fetish. I'm grateful for you all here, but nevertheless still feels very lonely...

I posted on this thread awhile back that only my ex-GFs and -wives know about my enema interest. Having read ppillowrock and a few others here, I just thought it time to add like them how grateful I am to have our Zity enema, et.al. community to be aware of it and talk to. Still alone looking for a partner, but so glad to know you all and reveal and discuss things with you - a true blessing.

Eric

NOBODY! Well, just the people here.

Just people on this form..

The members on Zity and I've told my husband....unfortunately he just thinks it's weird.