Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

No one in my personal life except for my wife. But then she doesn't know how much I REALLY like it when she gives them to me. She won't try one, but when I can talk her into giving to me she does a fantastic job of it. I like a series of three, soapsuds, saline rinse and coffee. She uses a long douche nozzle that she pumps in and out and twirls around while giving me a wonderful hand job... oh yes...

My wife knows I have used an occasional enema for constipation but has no clue how many, or how much I enjoy them for all the other reasons!

My red enema bag is hung in the bathroom at least half of the time. And wouldn't you know....that's the time when my granddaughter HAS to use our bathroom. (It's closest to the living room.) She has seen the bag hanging up ALOT. She's 29 years old and a nurse so she may think it's for medicinal purposes only. We keep her little girl every day after pre-K so she's here almost daily.

Now, as far as knowing I "get off" on enemas, only one person knows.....my Hubby.

I used to hide my enema bag but now I'm getting to old to care.

I used to hide my enema bag but now I'm getting to old to care.

I guess that is about the only advantage to getting old is not giving a crap. My wife has had a few enemas from me over the years, the last one being over 20 years ago. She knows I think they work well but really has no idea of my proclivities regarding the bag. I don't even bring it up anymore with her.

MY wife knows I give enemas to myself but doesn’t know I come in here or how much I enjoy giving them to myself

My deceased wife knew I took enemas. She did not participate, but then she had both celiac disease and collagenous colitis, not a combination that would tolerate enemas. I recently broke my personal secret to a new companion of mine, who did not seem terribly concerned, as she was sharing some personal secrets with me, which included that she had enemas for a colonoscopy, but didn't find the process terribly erotic. But at least, early on, I let her know, rather than hiding it. For me, this revelation is absolutely the first time someone in my community knows about my fetish. And frankly, it's a bit scary.

My mother did, when I was a kid living at home, as several times I accidentally left my bag in a folded up bath towel. I would later find it on my bed. Never a word said. Several girlfriends did. One enjoyed them, another got completely hooked on them. My current wife knows. She tried it out for a couple of years and then lost all interest. My doctor knows. I suspect she knows it’s a fetish, but it’s never been brought up as such. One of my wife’s friends knows simply because she, too, is a klismo and my wife knew about her love for enemas before we even met. We’ve discussed them and talked about various equipment. She is really into coffee enemas. I am, too. I think that’s about it.

Mom knew, I think, but never said anything. I know my grandmother knew, because she caught me starting an enema one summer afternoon in 1957. First I got a good spanking, then she taught me the proper way to give myself an enema. Later the same week, she took both my brother and I, to her bathroom and taught my brother how to give himself an enema using me as her subject. The next summer she taught our sister how to douche and give herself an enema. I always thought mom had grandma teach us, because she was an RN back in the 20’s and 30’s. Anyway, as teens, we gave each other enemas after school a couple of times a week, before our parents got home. The douche/enema bag always hung in the shower for all to see who used the bathroom. One day after school my girlfriend was over, saw the bag in the shower, and approached my sister, because her period had just started. She was having cramps and needed an enema, as her OB/GYN had suggested for cramp relief during her period. She told my sister, she didn’t like the way her mom gave enemas, an asked if my sister wouldn’t mind giving her one before she went home. My sister gave her a couple of enemas that afternoon and the next month, my girlfriend ask my sister once again, if she wouldn’t mind giving her an enema. My sister told her, you need to let my brother give them to you, he gives real good enemas, and does them for me, whenever I ask. The rest is history, my girl friend and I gave each other enemas till we went our separate ways after High School. My wife was given enemas as a child and really didn’t like them. The year before we were married, she and my sister roomed together. She, like my girlfriend from my High School years, had trouble with cramps during her period and learned from my sister to use enemas during and just after her period. After we were married, we played around with enemas for sexual pleasure, and they became a part of our sexual foreplay. She also used them for cramps an constipation during her period, and I used them for constipation. After we had kids, their Pediatricians preference was enemas over laxatives for constipation in children. Therefore, they both received enemas growing up, and became aware mom and dad used enemas as well, before age 10. Oh, I almost forgot, back during High School my girlfriends younger sister caught us giving each other enemas one afternoon at her house. We had forgotten to lock the bathroom door and were both nude, when she walked in on us. My girlfriend was on the toilet release her first enema, and I was in the process of hanging her rinse enema. Before my girlfriend got out the words, “get out of here” her younger sister was stepping out of her jeans an panties and said, “I need one too”. When she had all her clothes off a second later, she got in the knee chest position and I gave her her sisters rinse enema. She stayed in the bathroom that afternoon till I had received a couple of enemas from my girlfriend. She wanted to give me one of my enemas, but big sister wouldn’t let her. I got to give my girlfriends younger sister enemas from time to time afterwards, however my girlfriend never allowed her younger sister give me an enema. Now, if only I could go back in time...

My mother knew I "liked" enemas considering my lack of protesting as a child, getting caught in the middle of one when I was twelve and she came home earlier than expected, the infamous wine enema with my sister, and other signs I was giving myself enemas. Did she know how often I was doing them? Maybe. Would she have considered my enemas a fetish at the time? Probably not. I was just a teenager experimenting.

Of course my husband later learned about it. Yes, by then it was a fetish and over the years it grew. There are a few other people who know or suspect I "occasionally" give myself an enema but they would be shocked to know how often, and why I do it.

recently broke my personal secret to a new companion of mine, who did not seem terribly concerned, as she was sharing some personal secrets with me, which included that she had enemas for a colonoscopy, but didn't find the process terribly erotic. But at least, early on, I let her know, rather than hiding it. For me, this revelation is absolutely the first time someone in my community knows about my fetish. And frankly, it's a bit scary.

You've gotta let her know that they can be more fun than that. Either she got them from herself (which I think most of us know is awkward the first few times) or from a nurse who probably wasn't trying to make it nice, and maybe not even comfortable. One reason I hope that if my wife ever needs enemas I'll be the one to give them to her.

My wife knows I take, but I'm not sure if she knows that there are more reasons than just me getting backed up.

No one knows except the zitybiz community. My wife knows or thinks I take them occasionally. I will sometimes leave the bag hanging in the shower. In the late 50s early to mid sixties i received from mom and aunt assisted, they had to know I liked them because I would get an erection just about every enema!! Of course it didnt help that my aunt was a beatiful woman and would sometimes have some nice cleavage showing.

@Wolf2007

'My deceased wife knew I took enemas. She did not participate, but then she had both celiac disease and collagenous colitis, not a combination that would tolerate enemas. I recently broke my personal secret to a new companion of mine, who did not seem terribly concerned, as she was sharing some personal secrets with me, which included that she had enemas for a colonoscopy, but didn't find the process terribly erotic. But at least, early on, I let her know, rather than hiding it. For me, this revelation is absolutely the first time someone in my community knows about my fetish. And frankly, it's a bit scary.'

@Wolf2007 don't let that go at all and do follow up with her on that subject of your enemas and that it is your 'opinion' that she was right to not think them erotic, especially the way she got them. And then follow up with saying that if she had been given them properly and with the right amount of care and attention that she just may think differently about enemas. But agree with her that what she experienced was purely a medical procedure and you understand her thoughts but wished she could view them in the light that you do and personally appreciate for yourself. 🌹 You might even add as an after thought that to yourself enemas are extremely intimate and involve a great deal of trust between those who share. Then admit that you took her into your confidence and hopes she understands how much courage and trust it took you to tell her about your enemas. 🌹

If she's worthy of you @Wolf2007 🌹 she should see your sincerity and not be dismissive of how you feel about your most intimate secrets.

If she doesn't she isn't worthy of you. 🌹

This thread stirs memories of past live conversations about enemas with a few trusted friends, even fewer were women. Sometimes the topic casually surfaced among others at a party. Well, I never had reservations even with unknown people.

Answering the question, not many but quite a few actually knows. Not counting the dozens of threads, posts and chat since the 'net pervaded our lives, that is.

Oddly enough, among family members only Mom knew. (My parents and almost all the relatives passed away by now BTW.)

The first coming to mind are my bandmates. We often rehearse at my place and within each session more or less everybody - besides myself - would pay a visit to the bathroom. My travel syringe is always parked inside the shower stall's tiled wall and even if the door glass is frosted anyone would immediately recognize the unmistakable outline. Moreover the bathroom's wall unit is where my enema gear is stored (not stashed). Whether anyone among all my other friends or the occasional visitor did ever open its door to peek inside I don't know; anyway there are no keys or latches. In the event, that would give the peeker a definitive answer to possible puzzling questions! Yet I had to wait about two years, until we acquainted with each other enough, way beyond our practicalities, before replying to some casual remark one night before packing up. That night all of a sudden it seemed that every band member had something to say about as soon as the conversation started to veer toward various health issues. Funny. 😁

Oh, the fellow members to my SIG also know. Of course I'd add… 😉

My wife knows of my anocentricity and enema kink. It adds a frisson to our sexy conversations.

No one in my day to day life knows of my like of enemas. I would love to meet a woman with similar interests.

Boyfriend know but hé still clean himself in thé shower

You might even add as an after thought that to yourself enemas are extremely intimate and involve a great deal of trust between those who share. Then admit that you took her into your confidence and hopes she understands how much courage and trust it took you to tell her about your enemas. 🌹

If she's worthy of you @Wolf2007 🌹 she should see your sincerity and not be dismissive of how you feel about your most intimate secrets.

Dear Ms. Lila, you were right on target, for she brought up the subject within this past week, admitting that she knew nothing about enemas, but wants to know more and, when we are better acquainted, she would give me one. Needless to say, I am heaven with that comment, for it means we may just play with enemas in our future. OMG, am I ever one happy camper!!

Dear Ms. Lila, you were right on target, for she brought up the subject within this past week, admitting that she knew nothing about enemas, but wants to know more and, when we are better acquainted, she would give me one. Needless to say, I am heaven with that comment, for it means we may just play with enemas in our future. OMG, am I ever one happy camper!!

Way to go!

Dear Ms. Lila, you were right on target, for she brought up the subject within this past week, admitting that she knew nothing about enemas, but wants to know more and, when we are better acquainted, she would give me one. Needless to say, I am heaven with that comment, for it means we may just play with enemas in our future. OMG, am I ever one happy camper!!

@Wolf2007 once this woman gets to know you better and takes that next step of giving you an enema, she will see how intimate it is and the happiness it brings to you. ? It may be that she gives you several enemas before she has a go at your giving her one, but it would be well worth it. ? ? ? Keep the release of your enema private with air freshener handy ? and let her become accustomed to the very thought and process.

And it may be that she will not find having an enema from you to her liking, but if she finds you enjoy that deeply intimate act and she wants to give you pleasure, then it will be great. ? ? ?? ? ?

One question I'd like to ask you @Wolf2007 would be how did she bring up the subject? Under what context or setting?

I am very happy for you! ? ? ?? ? ?? ? ?? ? ?

Best of luck!

PS - And you may want to have an enema or two prior to that BIG DAY and the one she will give to you. ? ? Just a suggestion.

PS - And you may want to have an enema or two prior to that BIG DAY and the one she will give to you. ? ? Just a suggestion.

I was going to suggest that. Just do it before you see her. 😉

Keep the release of your enema private with air freshener handy ? and let her become accustomed to the very thought and process.

One question I'd like to ask you @Wolf2007 would be how did she bring up the subject? Under what context or setting?

I don't smell on expulsion. And we had a very private talk weeks ago when we both discussed our own fantasies.

I’m not sure if it counts, but someone found and took one of my enema DVDs. This happened years ago but it still makes me go FML when I think about it.

I kept my enema fetish secret from the time I was 12 and began to discover self-enemas. There was always so much shame around them. Could stem from my mom making me take a 1 qt enema after catching me playing with the thermometer at about age 5. Or when her and my 'stepdad' one of her od boyfriends, got together after catching me and a friend playing Dr with suppositories and enemas at age 14. They came up with a plan to 'cure' me of my strange desires

They decided on a program of:

(3) soapsud enemas a day for 3 days

(3) soapsud enemas a week for 3 weeks

(2) one soapsud + 1 tapwater enema 1x / wk for the rest of the summer.

I had seen this recipe before. It was in an old Merck manual she had from the 40s I think. I was scared, I only liked little enemas, and then only occaisionally. No amount of complaining, whining, crying or begging would change her mind, I think she enjoyed it at least a little. After about a week and a half of this, I was not only used to this, but looked forward to it. She relented and stopped doing them after about 10 days with the threat that if caught again, I"d be taken to the hospital for a lavage. Took me years to figure out what that was.

Anyhow, I"m older now and keep it a secret from no one. My secrecy had already cost me an important relationship early in life and I didn't want to let it ruin another. I've written a lot about enemas online, I"ve even taken enemas for the camera and had it posted on a few porn sites making no effort to hide my ID. I've finally come to terms with the fact that I'm a klismo and always will be. I"m no longer ashamed and feel so free now.

I’m not sure if it counts, but someone found and took one of my enema DVDs. This happened years ago but it still makes me go FML when I think about it.

So you have DVD's of giving yourself enemas. Very kinky!

So you have DVD's of giving yourself enemas. Very kinky!

It was Enema Nurses 2 ?

It was Enema Nurses 2 ?

You were in "Enema nurses 2"

Awesome

You were in "Enema nurses 2"

Awesome

Yes, I was ?

Wife knows I use them but nobody else. She tolerates it but doesn’t know I chat in here.

My mom

Fiancé

Last girlfriend And her best friend

First girlfriend

Mistress I had.

The only ones that know about my enema fetish reside right here at Zity....I have friends that know about some of my other kinks, but enemas stay right here where I am almost friends who truly understand. And my cat of course, but I know she won’t ever tell (and she’s seen it all)....