Who in your life knows of your enema fetish? Who have you told?

I assume my Mother knew as she gave me enemas laying naked across her lap while my little boner dug into the gap between her thighs. For sure she knew when I started ejaculating on her legs as I got older. She stopped them when I was around 13 or so. The only other person is by beloved FWB. From the first time we got together in 1984, we vowed to be completely honest and open about all things sexual. The first time I gave her one, she was hooked on both giving and receiving them.

My wife is the only one that knows about my enema fetish, along with EVERYONE on here. And I hid it from my wife for many years and she found out when I was careless storing (hiding) my gear. Fast forward 10 years from that time and wished I had shared it with her from the start. I would have found out that she was really turned off on the idea of enemas, and we most likely would have gone our separate ways.

I did date a gal before I was married to my current wife that brought up enemas in a conversation once as her sister was in the hospital for liver transplant surgery and was in the middle of getting enemas until clear. I was so shocked that she mentioned it and I just freaked out and did not say a word. Damn! If only I had not been so shy about it, we could have gone on to having enema fun! Hindsight is always 20-20!

Of course that was before the internet explosion and as we all now know thru the internet how many people out there enjoy enemas.

My wife knows I take enemas, but really does not like it when I do.

A female neighbor friend knows, but it's only because we're good personal friends, but not intimately involved at all. We're close enough that we share a lot of conversation, but that's as far as it goes, and that's fine with me. The wife also knows, but she has zero interest whatsoever, so all my activity is strictly solo when I have the private time to indulge myself. Yes, it's frustrating....because I discussed it with her before we married, and at the time, she said she was fine with it. Apparently she wasn't fine with it, but got me to marry her anyway.

Now the technician at Microsoft knows. He was fixing my PC through a virtual connection yesterday and he ran across all the enema videos that I'd downloaded the day before. Although I was embarrassed, I also enjoyed it immensely.

I haven't shared about my fetish with anyone except here at Zity. Because I have received to many negative responses from people I related to in my past, so no one else knows. 😃

No one knows. I'm new here. So I'm sharing it for the first time ever now. Finally feels good to do it too.

My wife knows I take enemas. She believes I take them primarily for wellness - which is good because it's the truth.

She also knows I associate them with sexual well being, because when I announce that I've had a good enema, she knows that's a cue that I'm hoping for some penetration with some of our toys.

She's doesn't participate in enemas with me, so I don't think she comprehends the finer points around volume, temperatures, solutions, nozzle selection, etc.

I think I'm slowly removing barriers, as she is enjoying anal play more and more. She's let me give her a couple small bulb enemas - but only after encountering some obstacles while deeply fingering her ass - not really a beneficial approach as far as anal sex goes, but still a step in the right direction.

My hope is to get her receive a legitimate enema session as a precursor to some good anal sex - so that she has some time to absorb and recover. Then, perhaps I'll be able to share more of the finer erotic points that can be a part of enemas.

Either way - I'm very glad I told my wife when I decided to start taking enemas - so at least I can enjoy them without the fear of being caught.

Only my lovely wife knew. I am now widowed and missing those times together. My GI Doctor knows I use enemas for constipation, but that's all he knows.

Sorry for your loss MrLee.

I, too, am sorry about your loss, MrLee. My wife has a terminal illness and, frankly, I am scared. My medical background is of no help.

My wife has known for the 32 years we've been together that I am interested in enemas. I mentioned it early on hoping she would catch on. Alas, she has no interest in anything anal and only reports that as a nurse she's given thousands and sees them as clinical. I never shared again till about a month ago when I was moved to tell her about my Zity activities. She felt hurt and betrayed that I have taken my interests outside our marriage and we've had daily conversations about it since. I believe she truly is not judging my deep interests which she accepts as lifelong and just part of the fabric of my nature. But she remains resistant to my acting on my enema erotic interests in which she still has no willingness to participate in herself. The discussion is active and ongoing. I have no idea how it's going to end up but I know my interests will not go away. At least they've remained ever present for 60 years.

My wife knows about my desires; she will indulge them on my birthday and on other special occasions.

Now the technician at Microsoft knows. He was fixing my PC through a virtual connection yesterday and he ran across all the enema videos that I'd downloaded the day before. Although I was embarrassed, I also enjoyed it immensely.

That has been a concern of mine too.

I have always felt that if I had a computer disaster, I would have to simply open the computer, drill holes in the hard drive, throw it out and buy a new hard drive rather than have some techie discover my debauched, degenerate, lustful, occasionally illegal, lascivious, decadent, illicit, perverted things on my computer.

That's why I have two hard drive plus cloud back-ups of my data!

I save all my "private" stuff on flash drives and back them up with cd-rw. There is nothing on my hard drive and my browser is set to never remember any history.

My ex knows and damn near every woman I've known "personally" in the last forty-five years. Once a deep, dark secret, I currently hang my enema bag on a bathroom towel rack for all and sundry to see, having finally realized it's no really big deal.

I save all my "private" stuff on flash drives and back them up with cd-rw. There is nothing on my hard drive and my browser is set to never remember any history.

That's a dangerous assumption.

You may THINK the history and other stuff is not on your hard drive, but unless you use something like a Norton Wipe, it is easily recoverable.

Susie: Indeed. Recall how Gary Glitter was busted for child porn... Seems like some computer technicians browse image folders for kicks!

My wife, my ex-fiancée, a "nurse" selling her services at Chicago eFest in (I think?) 2003, a couple of play partners, an asshole who broke into my house once, and probably my mom.

My wife isn't into it, but I've convinced her that they help me with some medical issues if I take them regularly (I believe they do), so she will indulge me regularly. She is quite aware that they turn me on and is OK incorporating them into sex play. I wish she really got into it and would let me reciprocate, but all in all I consider myself quite fortunate.

Other than those with whom I want to share the experience (now only my wife), I play it very, very close to the vest.

My wife is the only one for sure. I am also pretty sure my kids know of my enema interest.. It is not easy to hide your toys from 4 kids and actually I never went all out to hide this anyway.

Bill

I'm in the closet.

For years I thought I was the only one who knew I enjoyed taking enemas but my Mom knew and now my wife knows.

My three cats all know. Two stretch out on the opposite side of the bed to watch (and to not approach me to demand play), while the third awaits by the bathroom door.

My three cats all know.

Cats are so weird! My cat will wait outside the bathroom, too, and bat at me under the door. I can't get a moment of privacy lol.

But seriously, nobody knows about my enemas except you guys on here.

Not many know about my fetishes................a girl I dated many years ago discussed them with me, but we never really got involved with them. Now its just friends/ acquaintances I have made on adult sites. I have made more friends on this site than all the other sites I visited combined. Its easier to discuss it with someone you don't know when you are able to remain somewhat anonymous. as I become more acquainted through internet messaging, I will become more comfortable and possibly meet some I have been messaging with, if we both so desire.......

Easy question for me. NOBODY!!

Ex wife knew, but then she's not a part of my life anymore...

Essentially My father, who raised me as a single parent, My husband, and now as they get older, my twin daughters, if they don't know will eventually find out.

Not sure how to handle that.

I know all children want to imitate their parents, and especially their same gender parent. That is not really good. How bad it is remains to be seen.

On the other side just to have other females who "get it" about enemas, and whom I can talk to would be a plus.

LisaK notes ;

On the other side just to have other females who "get it" about enemas, and whom I can talk to would be a plus.

Well Lisa all you have to do is extend the hand of friendship, as I'm sure there's many nice ladies here that would be prepared to reciprocate / accommodate you. Logical solution i would think ?

I don't know who knows, except a close fried or two and all of my immediate family. I hang my bag up in front of the window while I'm below it, out of sight.

I have been a closet enema freak for the last 20+ years. About as long as I've been divorced and living the single life. That being said, I finally let a sister know I really dislike taking any laxatives and prefer to take an enema. What she doesn't know though is the fact that I have enough enema equipment around to stock a drug store. This includes bags, bulbs, and metal nozzles of a wide variety. MRay.

Just my wife, my cousin and a few dialysis nurses who brought up the subject of constipation. Of coues there are internet friends too.