Where is the younger generation of medfetters? 20s-30 max?

I am admittedly in that 40-70 year old age range, but I rather doubt I could have been an involved Zity member in my younger 20 yr old days. I was busy with work and far too uptight and repressed to let myself enjoy a “Zity lifestyle“ when I was younger. Who knows where I would be now if I had started way back then? (I am thankful these days for the concept of making up for lost time.)

Lack of imagination? To caught up in everyone looking at “me”

I am 22 but I’m a patient for play

For me it's a paradox - I love the way the censorship of the 1950's made the little nudity I saw all the more super exciting, and how just seeing a gal in her bra, girdle, and panties was ever so exciting as I dreamed of what was kept hidden!

I'd put that down to being young and full of (unrequited) lust, not to censorship.

Besides, I put that argument down to jiu-jitsu style prudery. One pretends to be enlightened and free-thinking and all, while re-introducing the old censorship rules like they were something desirable.

I'd put that down to being young and full of (unrequited) lust, not to censorship.

Nope no so; at least for me… how to I know you might well ask, because it wasn't too long thereafter when nudity became more commonplace in the 1960's and once I got to get my wish of seeing all, and having it all; it just was not that exciting. Seems I like what I can't have.

I'd put that down to being young and full of (unrequited) lust, not to censorship.

Sorry @reddevil , I'll agree with @agracier on that. Even today, I find partially or enticingly clothed women as -or more - exciting than some pornography. Also, the girdle ads weren't a form of censorship - they were simply trying to sell girdles!!!

Sorry @reddevil , I'll agree with @agracier on that. Even today, I find partially or enticingly clothed women as -or more - exciting than some pornography. Also, the girdle ads weren't a form of censorship - they were simply trying to sell girdles!!!

Now when it comes to girdle ads - turns out censorship played a big role in how models in those old ads could be posed. Live models had to be posed so that they appeared like mannequins rather than live women. Funny thing, I actually found those stylized poses to be all the more erotic.

24 here

Old people ,me included can do neat tricks that frustrate young people like multitask ,read maps or roll down window and ask a local( recalculate this GPS) write in cursive , and so much more ,younger people are more mobile and nomadic thanks to cell phones ,laptops and “gig“economy’s , us older types are more grounded in place by obligations like jobs , mortagages etc but that is also changing very rapidly as good sustainable jobs are disappearing or being exported and the settled people are being churned up by life and everyone is getting poorer or swimung madly against both the wind and tide to stay afloat , what older people like me are going to have to learn about again is staying home ,at one time I lived in my 1982 Honda Civic in the parking lot of the company I worked because an apartment was unavailable or unaffordable , would dramaticly increase your gas mileage insurance wear and tear on vehicle and subject to commuter times aka bumper to bumper traficc , the plus side it was a private parking lot cops couldn’t come and ticket or harass you , and I was always first in and last out of work , now having said that I will say a cell phone would have been incredible talk text read watch tv would have been awesome especially in the winter when the sun was setting as you ate lunch !

Perhaps that did not play doctor/patient when they were younger.

Perhaps that did not play doctor/patient when they were younger.

That would be a shame and an indictment of how values and customs are not changing for the better … ha ha ha

20 here. Literally just turned 20 a few days ago. I actually found the site from a post on FetLife. I love the site seems hard to find one dedicated to medical fetish. Honestly all the people besides the ones here who are my age that I’ve spoken with have thought medical fetish was weird. So that might be the issue too. You can think my mom for my fetish lol. Got to go with her to an exam. As well as my sister a year or two after. I love playing too. Don’t have anyone to play with in real life but do online a lot though I wish I did have someone in real life.

I love the site seems hard to find one dedicated to medical fetish. Honestly all the people besides the ones here who are my age that I’ve spoken with have thought medical fetish was weird.

I've been on-line since the mid 90's and always been on the lookout for all kinds of sites of course, but also medfet. Others have come and gone for various reasons, many others seem to confuse sex with doctors/nurses as being medfet, one or two others are still around but without much activity.

Seems like zity is just about all that is left, but it seems to have attracted many serious people who are seriously aware of what they are looking for.

I'm 33 and I've been in the medfet and bdsm scene since my early 20s.

35 here and, though inexperienced in terms of actual play, I have a number of medfet interests.

27 and have loved medfet since I was 12 honestly

I don’t care about peoples ages honestly. I was a bit put off by the amount of men at first but I’m loving being on Zity now, compared to Fetlife.

I’m in my late 60’s, and I feel perfectly comfortable talking with all ages, provided that they’re legal adults, when it comes to sex. I would have no idea, if someone under 40, would even be familiar with rectal thermometers, and things that were experienced in prior decades. Also, there are so many rules today, that I’m wondering if young adults might be apprehensive about openly discussing certain issues, especially with the social media spies, in corporations.

I'm 25 (26 in a couple weeks)! Would love to get to know more people closer to my age.

Exams themselves have changed. Most of us got into medfet when we were children or more often teenagers. I got into medfet when I was 13 and I began discovering my body and masturbated and even touched myself every night. That exploration was like a big secret for me, then when I was 13 I had a physical exam with my brother and my mother accompanying us to the exam room. Suddenly my brother and I were wearing just our underpants and that submission (every female was completely dressed while every male was in briefs only) began the process. Nowadays my nephews 10 and 12 are gowned and consent is asked for at every step. So to a large degree the submission of doing exactly what the doctor wants with the humiliation at being nearly naked for a stranger who feels up every inch of your barely clothed body is gone. So IMHO this is why we see people, like myself, who are in the 50's and greater

Hi, I'm 28 yo and am exploring medfet. I actually don't mind older folks here, I actually like age gap, because it's much more normal in medfet, young doctor and 45 yo woman for example; older woman would rarely engage in sexual acivity with 15 or 20 years younger men, but during exam she will get nude in front of them.

Also, I feel majority of exams were much more detailed back then, and doctor cared less for patient's dignity, which fuels my medfet, so I love to hear stories from 40+ yo people.

Right here!

Hi! I'm in my mid-20s. I'd also be interested in connecting with folks who are closer in age. Cardiophilia is of special interest to me.

@Heart2Heart

I appreciate all your responses. I read each one.

One thing I just want to add. Most (if not all) of you seem to think medical fetishes have to do with “sexualism”….But does anyone here enjoy listening to someone's heartbeat simply because it is the “music” of life? Not because of the fact that your hand is near the breasts or some sexual mindset, but simply just because you just love the sound the heart makes?… or performing full-body physicals simply just because you want to care for someone's well-being in that sense… Does any such person exist? I'm curious!

Most definitely do exist you have described me to a tee I love medfet because I love looking after people

Perhaps that did not play doctor/patient when they were younger.

If they didn't they missed out on alot of fun.🤣🤣🤣

Enema kinks still show up in my generation (I'm in my early 30s) but its less because of clinical use and more related to prep for anal, so its not often a main focus so much as adjacent to other things.

You also tend to see it more often in LGBTQ kink circles, which tend to be more cautious about where we hang out online for a number of reasons, mostly comfort about your right to exist not suddenly becoming a topic of debate.

You also won't see as many people identifying themselves as sissies in my generation, you are going to see people coming out as trans or being “femboys”, they want to celebrate their femininity rather then be humiliated as emasculated, failed men.

There is a generational gap but its not necessarily about prudishness here (although pureteens are a topic of discussion in the LGBTQ community every June but thats something else). I feel its more that the foundation of a lot of kink culture has changed in some very fundamental ways, largely because people's experiences have radically changed over the past 50 years.

You also won't see as many people identifying themselves as sissies in my generation, you are going to see people coming out as trans or being “femboys”, they want to celebrate their femininity rather then be humiliated as emasculated, failed men.

In my time, some decades ago let's say, I really wasn't aware of sexual choices like being a sissy or such. It just didn't seem to show up in the books or magazines I read or in imagery that I found.

Perhaps it just wasn't something that people liked to mention. After all, I am talking about the time when being openly gay or lesbian was already considered very audacious and bold.

Anyway, now it appears that some commentators, sexual researchers and such, surmise that the present-day, relatively increased incidence of men expressing their femininity is due to the influence of female liberation/female empowerment in which some men appear to willingly submit to situations of subjugation to females. In previous eras this might have been described as a variation of masochism.

I do now see a much greater incidence of imagery of sissies, trans, fembois and more and more when placed in a chastity device of some sort.

Perhaps ultimately, the choice of terms like sissy, trans, femboi etc is a question of semantics, like homosexual being replaced by gay or all the confusing discussions of correct LGBT nomenclature.

I am in my late 30s, and as nice as it is chatting, communicating with those close to my age, I see value in communicating ect.. with someone experienced.

Someone who could show me the ropes. At the end of the day age is only a number and depending what your into some one more experienced with enemas for example could turn into hours of fun and multiple orgasms.

When I was your age , I had the desire and I recall buying a publication called Enema Thrills in an adult book shop , there were ads for videos from Tyler Labs for enema videos . I remember the ads would show doctors giving ladies enemas . I use to watch a factory on the weekends , that produced cold medications and it had a medical office , I would imagine myself being in such an office checking out a lovely lady , then giving her an enema . It took a few years , but I eventually , was able to act out my fantasy . The main thing is that back then , social media was not available , like it is today and we had to count on paper publications and paper publications were not easy to find and were few and far between.

In my time, some decades ago let's say, I really wasn't aware of sexual choices like being a sissy or such. It just didn't seem to show up in the books or magazines I read or in imagery that I found.

Perhaps it just wasn't something that people liked to mention. After all, I am talking about the time when being gay or lesbian was already considered very audacious and bold.

Anyway, now it appears that some commentators, sexual researchers and such, surmise that the present-day, relatively increased incidence of men expressing their femininity is due to the influence of female liberation/female empowerment in which some men appear to willingly submit to situations of subjugation to females. In previous eras this might have been described as a variation of masochism.

I do now see a much greater incidence of imagery of sissies, trans, fembois and more and more when placed in a chastity device of some sort.

Perhaps ultimately, the choice of terms like sissy, trans, femboi etc is a question of semantics, like homosexual being replaced by gay or all the confusing discussions of correct LGBT nomenclature.

I think its worth noting the influence of otokonoko (male-maiden) works from Japan as an influence, it has existed in a proto form since atleast the 80s with “Stop! Hibari-Kun!” But became a proper genre of its own in the early 2010s.

A lot of people from my generation were introduced to Japanese animation with Toonami in the 90s early 00s, later generations grew up with ready access to it via streaming and the internet.