Where is the younger generation of medfetters? 20s-30 max?

Seriously, I asked my 21 year old daughter why don’t her crowd is not into medfet. Her and friends tried Medlife and but they did not like all the sexual propositions, especially from a lot of old guys. She says the other issue is that most of the people on here are not local so you can’t hookup for kinky play. She is into BDSM.

They sort hang out with other locals. She asked how many people have I met live here and I said just one. She said a lot of people here just want to hide behind the computer and never come out and actually play. I could not argue with her on that. We bought a whole house and converted it into a clinic and we could not get anyone to come out and play. She says we have APPS if we need a hookup. We are looking to experience our kinks with others not spend a lot of time talking about it.

I guess we might need to turn our exam room into a dungeon.

Going back to the original topic… A lot of the topics discussed on this site are practices (corporal punishment, rectal temperatures, enemas, suppositories, uselessly intrusive gynecological examinations…) that were common (at least some of them in some countries) and socially accepted decades ago, but that has largely fallen out of fashion for decades now.

It seems to me quite normal that younger persons who have not been exposed to these practices, nor heard of anyone around them who experienced them, would not fantasize about them.

(In fact I even have seen some younger people on this site claim some of these practices did not exist! Ah, the certainties of youth…)

Pecan Nutjob, I agree with you. I have rectal cancer and I have only been examined rectally twice in over a year. It is all about lab tests and scans. It seem like doctors don’t have the assessment skills that the older doctors learned.

The shelf for rectal laxatives gets smaller and smaller with passing time. You can’t spank your kid or they will call child protective services on you. It seems like we are moving away from less intrusive methods.

Kids never experience enemas, suppositories, intrusive medical exams, spankings and etc.

@medfedcouple, you're so right. Things have changed a lot.

@DrC And generally for the better. It is a good thing, I think that young women & even teenage girls are no longer forced to undergo a full pelvic just to get contraceptives prescribed (in addition to the discomfort and stress caused by the exam. It also deterred some girls from getting efficient contraceptives). But … of course it reduces sources of fantasies.

It seems that in the old days, in some countries, gynecologists expected women to get completely undressed (perhaps socks on). Again … this would seem preposterous today I think.

@pecannutjob, I didnt mean it in a bad way. Just making a statement that things have and will be changing in the near future.

I get what you are saying and you have no reason to apologize for wanting to connect with your own age group. One of the main reasons you see so many older people here is that those of us who are now 50s-70s grew up in a time when physical exams were often more detailed (pre-HMO days) and with much less (often no) concern for a kid/teen's modesty. I was fully nude for physicals both in front of family members at private doctors and also for school sports physicals. That rarely if ever happens now.

My take is it goes back to a simpler time when we played doctor and patient (no video games back then) and enemas were a part of every kids life. A fountain syringe and water was a minimal cost and drug companies didn't make money on 1 time sales. Kids soon learned the correlation between sex and enemas at an early age. I never lost this association nor the anticipation of a good enema when administered by another, (e-nurse or e-mate, older or younger makes no difference). Those of us who are older (over 50) would love to interact with younger members and we have a wealth of information and experience to share with them. My humble advise is to cultivate friendships with the different age members and thereby gain a wealth of knowledge which should be of use to you in the future, perhaps in finding an e-mate of your liking.

Hey all, 24 here, there are more of us than you think. We are just better at hiding ourselves than our previous generations. 😃

Another one is me, 25. I guess the youngers are bit shy.

Hey everyone. I am 21. Most of my medical fetish roleplay experience has been with people 30+ years older than me and I have always been quite comfortable with that.

I wonder if the perception that there are fewer younger people on here is related to the fact that full medical examinations at school are a lot less common than they used to be. At the private school I attended in the UK, we had thorough annual medical examinations and this definitely sparked my interest. I suspect that the majority of people of similar age to me in the UK were never thoroughly examined at school and thus missed out on that spark to kindle their curiosity in this stuff.

Late 20s, would mind to chat.

At the Florida E-Fest that just happened the other week there were 4 people that were under 30. ( out of 31 people there )

The youngest was a beautiful 21 year old lady that was very into enemas and anal play. When I asked her where her enema interested got started she said she read about them on the internet at age 14, got the equipment and tried them on her own. She told me from expelling that first one she knew she loved them.

In my 45 years of enema meetings I've given enemas to a full range of ages, so there's young people enjoying enemas out there

I wonder if the perception that there are fewer younger people on here is related to the fact that full medical examinations at school are a lot less common than they used to be. At the private school I attended in the UK, we had thorough annual medical examinations and this definitely sparked my interest. I suspect that the majority of people of similar age to me in the UK were never thoroughly examined at school and thus missed out on that spark to kindle their curiosity in this stuff.

I think that is true. Most of the people I see for medical exams are those who remember routine school medicals. Many of the younger guys I see have had medicals at private school, which sparked their interest

Such a mood.

I suppose a lot of our experiences with stuff like traumatic doctor's appointments and corporal punishment were slim to non existent while the older generations got more of it.

Glad to see a bunch of younger people here tho

To answer the thread's title question, I suspect most are too busy having sex to write about it just yet, there's a strong element of old members' nostalgia for long past experiences here, not to say that's a bad thing mind.

Plus an awful lot of the past experiences that people wax lyrical about here are things the younger generation will rarely experience, being dodgy stuff society protects against nowadays.

To answer the thread's title question, I suspect most are too busy having sex to write about it just yet, there's a strong element of old members' nostalgia for long past experiences here, not to say that's a bad thing mind.

Plus an awful lot of the past experiences that people wax lyrical about here are things the younger generation will rarely experience, being dodgy stuff society protects against nowadays.

My impression from many posts I have read here by younger members describing their experiences in the 1990s or so, seems like they thought medical experiences involving nudity, rectal temps, suppositories etc to be far more traumatizing and outrageous than people of the older generation thought these things to be.

Even things like nude swimming at the YMCA or in some schools, seems hard for some of the younger generation to believe was normal and routine.

Even things like nude swimming at the YMCA or in some schools, seems hard for some of the younger generation to believe was normal and routine.

That and other long past “normal” activities of the past are not believable to even some of the older generations. Things are “normal” in different areas and different countries.

That and other long past “normal” activities of the past are not believable to even some of the older generations. Things are “normal” in different areas and different countries.

That is certainly correct when talking about different countries. When we moved to Belgium and I told fellow students that nude swimming at the Y back across the ocean was mandatory, they truly did not believe me at all. The looks they gave were mortifying, as if I were boasting that the streets were paved with gold.

However, the posts here on Zity I was referring to were of American members or at least they had little American flags next to their profiles. So I was trying to keep it confined to the same country.

It used to surprise me that young women on the Internet have little or no clue what an enema is. Actually, I shouldn’t be surprised because most kids growing up in recent years are not likely to see an enema bag at home. More likely it would be a little green box with a Fleet bottle inside.

So it is also unlikely when Mom isn’t home that little darlings would sneak into the bathroom for some fun playing with Mom’s syringe. It’s a lot what they are exposed to growing up. I made certain that both my girls received the most factual, sensible information regarding their health – enemas included.

So I’m not surprised when my older daughter calls me to chat and says she was having an especially bad day. She had just given herself an enema and was feeling better. She was feeling all “bunged up“ and needed to do a cleanse. Sounds just like Mom.

A few things, I was an exception in that I have been on this site since my 20's and even now there are a few people in their 20's but, especially for women, things like kinks are not explored until later. Just takes time to put societal norms aside sometimes.

I'm a female in my 30s

A few things, I was an exception in that I have been on this site since my 20's and even now there are a few people in their 20's but, especially for women, things like kinks are not explored until later. Just takes time to put societal norms aside sometimes.

That is correct. Young people usually want to conform with peer group members, with ideas and notions they were raised by. It takes a while, often too long, to get over those confines put on the young by society.

That is one way to interpret the old saying that youth is wasted on the young. They don't know about the things that could be optimally enjoyed and experienced with a young and vigorous body. And aside from that, most are far too busy with other more mundane things like finding a job job, getting married or kids and such.

I am 37. But I have been on this site since I was 22. Mostly a lurker until I started meeting people from here 5 years ago. All the younger peeps are on Fetlife. Actually, more of the action is on Fetlife.

Smart devices are here to stay so getting used to using them is more normal.

I've been an early PC user and have 5 in total at the moment, desktop and laptops. They are like my nuclear carrier battle group and frigate squadron put together, IT-wise.

But I would have to be in very very dire straights before I ever use, let alone purchase, one of those overly expensive, rinky-dink smartphone devices … 😃 😃

Thinking about it, Back between 2015 and 2016, When I first joined Zity I was part of the 20-30 age group but now I'm in the 30-40 age group…So I guess the 20-30 age group maxes out as they aged…

We are here! There may not be too many of us but I know we make up a small minority on here. I've always felt like I could get along with anyone be it my age or older than me, and I enjoy interacting with everyone both on here and in real life. I think the majority of Gen Z is on mainstream social media rather than here.

Re: @GraceT , Welcome to Zity. While I am a little late I didn't see you here beforehand.

I know what you mean with your comments regarding FetLife. I belonged once.

Zity is a LONG way better than FetLife. All sites that have to do with subject matter like Zity and FetLife have some who are crude and rude, but Zity is a long way better than FetLife or most other sites of this nature.

Hope you are here for the long haul.

I’m 25! I‘d love to chat with folks close to my age as well as those older! I always appreciate those who have more experience than me

We all used to be “the younger generation” once in the past… Time flies though and there's nothing we can do about.