Where is the younger generation? 20s-30 max?

Enema kinks still show up in my generation (I'm in my early 30s) but its less because of clinical use and more related to prep for anal, so its not often a main focus so much as adjacent to other things.

You also tend to see it more often in LGBTQ kink circles, which tend to be more cautious about where we hang out online for a number of reasons, mostly comfort about your right to exist not suddenly becoming a topic of debate.

You also won't see as many people identifying themselves as sissies in my generation, you are going to see people coming out as trans or being “femboys”, they want to celebrate their femininity rather then be humiliated as emasculated, failed men.

There is a generational gap but its not necessarily about prudishness here (although pureteens are a topic of discussion in the LGBTQ community every June but thats something else). I feel its more that the foundation of a lot of kink culture has changed in some very fundamental ways, largely because people's experiences have radically changed over the past 50 years.

You also won't see as many people identifying themselves as sissies in my generation, you are going to see people coming out as trans or being “femboys”, they want to celebrate their femininity rather then be humiliated as emasculated, failed men.

In my time, some decades ago let's say, I really wasn't aware of sexual choices like being a sissy or such. It just didn't seem to show up in the books or magazines I read or in imagery that I found.

Perhaps it just wasn't something that people liked to mention. After all, I am talking about the time when being openly gay or lesbian was already considered very audacious and bold.

Anyway, now it appears that some commentators, sexual researchers and such, surmise that the present-day, relatively increased incidence of men expressing their femininity is due to the influence of female liberation/female empowerment in which some men appear to willingly submit to situations of subjugation to females. In previous eras this might have been described as a variation of masochism.

I do now see a much greater incidence of imagery of sissies, trans, fembois and more and more when placed in a chastity device of some sort.

Perhaps ultimately, the choice of terms like sissy, trans, femboi etc is a question of semantics, like homosexual being replaced by gay or all the confusing discussions of correct LGBT nomenclature.

I am in my late 30s, and as nice as it is chatting, communicating with those close to my age, I see value in communicating ect.. with someone experienced.

Someone who could show me the ropes. At the end of the day age is only a number and depending what your into some one more experienced with enemas for example could turn into hours of fun and multiple orgasms.

When I was your age , I had the desire and I recall buying a publication called Enema Thrills in an adult book shop , there were ads for videos from Tyler Labs for enema videos . I remember the ads would show doctors giving ladies enemas . I use to watch a factory on the weekends , that produced cold medications and it had a medical office , I would imagine myself being in such an office checking out a lovely lady , then giving her an enema . It took a few years , but I eventually , was able to act out my fantasy . The main thing is that back then , social media was not available , like it is today and we had to count on paper publications and paper publications were not easy to find and were few and far between.

In my time, some decades ago let's say, I really wasn't aware of sexual choices like being a sissy or such. It just didn't seem to show up in the books or magazines I read or in imagery that I found.

Perhaps it just wasn't something that people liked to mention. After all, I am talking about the time when being gay or lesbian was already considered very audacious and bold.

Anyway, now it appears that some commentators, sexual researchers and such, surmise that the present-day, relatively increased incidence of men expressing their femininity is due to the influence of female liberation/female empowerment in which some men appear to willingly submit to situations of subjugation to females. In previous eras this might have been described as a variation of masochism.

I do now see a much greater incidence of imagery of sissies, trans, fembois and more and more when placed in a chastity device of some sort.

Perhaps ultimately, the choice of terms like sissy, trans, femboi etc is a question of semantics, like homosexual being replaced by gay or all the confusing discussions of correct LGBT nomenclature.

I think its worth noting the influence of otokonoko (male-maiden) works from Japan as an influence, it has existed in a proto form since atleast the 80s with “Stop! Hibari-Kun!” But became a proper genre of its own in the early 2010s.

A lot of people from my generation were introduced to Japanese animation with Toonami in the 90s early 00s, later generations grew up with ready access to it via streaming and the internet.

“where's the younger generation”? You ask?, Getting thier brain washed by all the social media apps… thats where they're all at.

Some of enema lovers has received enema at child, and they're eager..

Some of the young ones have sex more usually, and don't fall here.. The more you life, the more kink you need..

Some are here!! We found many of them, just need to select profile.. But they become older each day..

I think its worth noting the influence of otokonoko (male-maiden) works from Japan as an influence, it has existed in a proto form since atleast the 80s

You're right about the Japanese influence in Manga and such. Their illustration style lends itself well to depicting nebulous gender sexuality, perhaps an offshoot from their relatively late portraying of female characters on the traditional stage by (young) male actors. And of course from a different appreciation of same-sex sexual activity.

I do come across many present day Japanese vids with feminized young men who often come over very convincingly as female.

Lol! We are older now!

Seriously, I asked my 21 year old daughter why don’t her crowd is not into medfet. Her and friends tried Medlife and but they did not like all the sexual propositions, especially from a lot of old guys. She says the other issue is that most of the people on here are not local so you can’t hookup for kinky play. She is into BDSM.

They sort hang out with other locals. She asked how many people have I met live here and I said just one. She said a lot of people here just want to hide behind the computer and never come out and actually play. I could not argue with her on that. We bought a whole house and converted it into a clinic and we could not get anyone to come out and play. She says we have APPS if we need a hookup. We are looking to experience our kinks with others not spend a lot of time talking about it.

I guess we might need to turn our exam room into a dungeon.

Going back to the original topic… A lot of the topics discussed on this site are practices (corporal punishment, rectal temperatures, enemas, suppositories, uselessly intrusive gynecological examinations…) that were common (at least some of them in some countries) and socially accepted decades ago, but that has largely fallen out of fashion for decades now.

It seems to me quite normal that younger persons who have not been exposed to these practices, nor heard of anyone around them who experienced them, would not fantasize about them.

(In fact I even have seen some younger people on this site claim some of these practices did not exist! Ah, the certainties of youth…)

Pecan Nutjob, I agree with you. I have rectal cancer and I have only been examined rectally twice in over a year. It is all about lab tests and scans. It seem like doctors don’t have the assessment skills that the older doctors learned.

The shelf for rectal laxatives gets smaller and smaller with passing time. You can’t spank your kid or they will call child protective services on you. It seems like we are moving away from less intrusive methods.

Kids never experience enemas, suppositories, intrusive medical exams, spankings and etc.

@medfedcouple, you're so right. Things have changed a lot.

@DrC And generally for the better. It is a good thing, I think that young women & even teenage girls are no longer forced to undergo a full pelvic just to get contraceptives prescribed (in addition to the discomfort and stress caused by the exam. It also deterred some girls from getting efficient contraceptives). But … of course it reduces sources of fantasies.

It seems that in the old days, in some countries, gynecologists expected women to get completely undressed (perhaps socks on). Again … this would seem preposterous today I think.

@pecannutjob, I didnt mean it in a bad way. Just making a statement that things have and will be changing in the near future.

I get what you are saying and you have no reason to apologize for wanting to connect with your own age group. One of the main reasons you see so many older people here is that those of us who are now 50s-70s grew up in a time when physical exams were often more detailed (pre-HMO days) and with much less (often no) concern for a kid/teen's modesty. I was fully nude for physicals both in front of family members at private doctors and also for school sports physicals. That rarely if ever happens now.

My take is it goes back to a simpler time when we played doctor and patient (no video games back then) and enemas were a part of every kids life. A fountain syringe and water was a minimal cost and drug companies didn't make money on 1 time sales. Kids soon learned the correlation between sex and enemas at an early age. I never lost this association nor the anticipation of a good enema when administered by another, (e-nurse or e-mate, older or younger makes no difference). Those of us who are older (over 50) would love to interact with younger members and we have a wealth of information and experience to share with them. My humble advise is to cultivate friendships with the different age members and thereby gain a wealth of knowledge which should be of use to you in the future, perhaps in finding an e-mate of your liking.

Hey all, 24 here, there are more of us than you think. We are just better at hiding ourselves than our previous generations. 😃

Another one is me, 25. I guess the youngers are bit shy.

Hey everyone. I am 21. Most of my medical fetish roleplay experience has been with people 30+ years older than me and I have always been quite comfortable with that.

I wonder if the perception that there are fewer younger people on here is related to the fact that full medical examinations at school are a lot less common than they used to be. At the private school I attended in the UK, we had thorough annual medical examinations and this definitely sparked my interest. I suspect that the majority of people of similar age to me in the UK were never thoroughly examined at school and thus missed out on that spark to kindle their curiosity in this stuff.

Late 20s, would mind to chat.

At the Florida E-Fest that just happened the other week there were 4 people that were under 30. ( out of 31 people there )

The youngest was a beautiful 21 year old lady that was very into enemas and anal play. When I asked her where her enema interested got started she said she read about them on the internet at age 14, got the equipment and tried them on her own. She told me from expelling that first one she knew she loved them.

In my 45 years of enema meetings I've given enemas to a full range of ages, so there's young people enjoying enemas out there

I wonder if the perception that there are fewer younger people on here is related to the fact that full medical examinations at school are a lot less common than they used to be. At the private school I attended in the UK, we had thorough annual medical examinations and this definitely sparked my interest. I suspect that the majority of people of similar age to me in the UK were never thoroughly examined at school and thus missed out on that spark to kindle their curiosity in this stuff.

I think that is true. Most of the people I see for medical exams are those who remember routine school medicals. Many of the younger guys I see have had medicals at private school, which sparked their interest

Such a mood.

I suppose a lot of our experiences with stuff like traumatic doctor's appointments and corporal punishment were slim to non existent while the older generations got more of it.

Glad to see a bunch of younger people here tho

To answer the thread's title question, I suspect most are too busy having sex to write about it just yet, there's a strong element of old members' nostalgia for long past experiences here, not to say that's a bad thing mind.

Plus an awful lot of the past experiences that people wax lyrical about here are things the younger generation will rarely experience, being dodgy stuff society protects against nowadays.

To answer the thread's title question, I suspect most are too busy having sex to write about it just yet, there's a strong element of old members' nostalgia for long past experiences here, not to say that's a bad thing mind.

Plus an awful lot of the past experiences that people wax lyrical about here are things the younger generation will rarely experience, being dodgy stuff society protects against nowadays.

My impression from many posts I have read here by younger members describing their experiences in the 1990s or so, seems like they thought medical experiences involving nudity, rectal temps, suppositories etc to be far more traumatizing and outrageous than people of the older generation thought these things to be.

Even things like nude swimming at the YMCA or in some schools, seems hard for some of the younger generation to believe was normal and routine.

Even things like nude swimming at the YMCA or in some schools, seems hard for some of the younger generation to believe was normal and routine.

That and other long past “normal” activities of the past are not believable to even some of the older generations. Things are “normal” in different areas and different countries.

That and other long past “normal” activities of the past are not believable to even some of the older generations. Things are “normal” in different areas and different countries.

That is certainly correct when talking about different countries. When we moved to Belgium and I told fellow students that nude swimming at the Y back across the ocean was mandatory, they truly did not believe me at all. The looks they gave were mortifying, as if I were boasting that the streets were paved with gold.

However, the posts here on Zity I was referring to were of American members or at least they had little American flags next to their profiles. So I was trying to keep it confined to the same country.

It used to surprise me that young women on the Internet have little or no clue what an enema is. Actually, I shouldn’t be surprised because most kids growing up in recent years are not likely to see an enema bag at home. More likely it would be a little green box with a Fleet bottle inside.

So it is also unlikely when Mom isn’t home that little darlings would sneak into the bathroom for some fun playing with Mom’s syringe. It’s a lot what they are exposed to growing up. I made certain that both my girls received the most factual, sensible information regarding their health – enemas included.

So I’m not surprised when my older daughter calls me to chat and says she was having an especially bad day. She had just given herself an enema and was feeling better. She was feeling all “bunged up“ and needed to do a cleanse. Sounds just like Mom.

A few things, I was an exception in that I have been on this site since my 20's and even now there are a few people in their 20's but, especially for women, things like kinks are not explored until later. Just takes time to put societal norms aside sometimes.