Where is the younger generation of medfetters? 20s-30 max?

When so many here are older and more experienced in the arcane and obscure subjects discussed, younger zity folk logically would tend to be less forthcoming I'd guess. It doesn't mean they aren't here. Maybe they are just quietly absorbing the information. Some practices, enemas for instance, have been much reduced in public acceptance in recent decades. As opposed to their very common usage in the 70s and earlier. Other subjects like adult baby/diaper interests seem to have a younger following. You can be sure that whatever your interests, kink is not going away…period!

I remember well the enthusiastic reception I received when I first arrived at Zity. I was amazed that so many “Zitizens” stepped forward, introduced themselves, and helped bring my fantasies from idling ideas lurking in my mind's eye to enjoyable online roleplays! I feel I must not be selfish, and “receive” without “giving,” if I am to uphold the idea that Zity is a place for “friendly and active kinksters!” Therefore, I propose the following “scene” for any interested members of the “younger set"….

You open your Monday morning paper, and are stunned by the front page story which announces:

“The county Department of Health announced yesterday that an employee of Sid's Drive-in Shake Shack has tested positive for hepatitis. If you or someone you know patronized this establishment within the two-week period which ended last Friday night, you are urged to report to the Public Health Clinic at 123 West Grove Avenue for preventative treatment.”

(This idea is courtesy of an actual local event in my own history)

“Affected” individuals may schedule an appointment by PM to my inbox.

Very cordially yours,

“Nurse” Katy

The things is, one needn't necessarily be exposed to any of these things/practices and yet still develop a liking for them.

Yes that’s definitely true, but I still think that a larger amount of people develop their fetishes from real life experiences than from reading about them in books.

Sup everyone.)

I'm just 19, a typical student from Russia and really willing to find anybody who'd be my patient. . .

Unfortunately i'm not a real doc and i don't know too much special medical words and terms, but i'm working 'bout it!!

Yes that’s definitely true, but I still think that a larger amount of people develop their fetishes from real life experiences than from reading about them in books.

People should read more books. You can find a far wider range of experiences described in them than anyone could experience themselves in a lifetime.

To be honest, a big problem with some of these kinks is they take a great deal of experience to be considered proficient. As a young person, I'm really interested in things like rope bondage and medfet, however, I know it would take me a considerable amount of time with a mentor to feel comfortable playing doctor. Give it time.

Been here awhile, but haven't posted. I do appreciate this place, I'm 24F.

To be honest, a big problem with some of these kinks is they take a great deal of experience to be considered proficient. As a young person, I'm really interested in things like rope bondage and medfet, however, I know it would take me a considerable amount of time with a mentor to feel comfortable playing doctor. Give it time.

Kids play doctor all the time. It's probably one of the first things they do in the way of sexual exploring.

I must say, I think this is the most useful and profitable thread to come across zity.biz in a while!

Kids play doctor all the time. It's probably one of the first things they in the way of sexual exploring.

Do kids still do this though? I never did (but I also had few friends). If you're not forced to completely strip and have your genitals touched at the doctor's anymore, if rectal thermometers and enemas aren't used and kids never have things inserted into their asses, there's nothing to mimic, is there? That's what playing doctor is, mimicry. I only know of it from old sorts of jokes and references.

Edit: To clarify I mean the sexual exploring way. I played doctor with all clothes on, using my little doctor kit. Looking in eyes and ears, listening to the heart and checking reflexes was basically the extent of it.

The younger generation is well represented among the Zityzens, but there are many who don't state their age in their profile, so it's not easy to identify them. I understand that young people prefer to have to do with their peers and so it is also for some of the "old". Sometimes I appreciated comments that I wanted to reply to but I held back thinking that maybe she (or he) is 40 or more years younger than me and might feel disturbed by me. Update your profiles maybe even stating that you don't want messages from people who may be the age of your parents or grandparents and everything will be easier.

Hugs.

I heard someone was looking for me (25 years old) 😉.

All jokes aside,

In the last years/decade, general exams became less common over here, for children. And the exams that were done became less embarrassing or were done with more privacy. Speaking for myself, my medfet started with an embarrassing experience. So that could be an explanation, for less people between 20 and 30 years of age, who like medfet.

Besides that, the younger generation have other ways to communicate so not necessarily Zity.

So I would say, the younger generation is there, but maybe not so open about it, and not as large as the older generation.

I agree with @agracier that doctors and nurses will still be played. There are so many examples from TV with the many hospitals that playing that way will go in the way @arika describes.

I am thinking that anyone who left school between 5 and 10 years ago, and probably longer, as a guy has probably not experienced dropping their underwear and coughing, or other intimate examinations that were done in the 1970s to possibly sometime in the 90s. It is different for women as they visit gynaecologists. There is plenty to read and view with regards what used to happen, and I'm sure many of us develop fetishes for things we have never previously experienced by finding out about them subsequently.

@Examined And even then, I hear that gynecologists nowadays try to make intimate exams less embarrassing (in the old days, some asked the woman to fully disrobe, etc.) and require fewer exams (some decades ago, gynecologists enforced doing a speculum exam for prescription of oral contraceptives, which is not a medical necessity; or did a pelvic / speculum exam on teenage girls, etc.).

I guess it goes both ways though on here, I’m only 19 and want to understand and recreate my experiences I had at the doctor, when playing doctor and with my stepdad. And I don’t think that could happen with someone who isn’t at least into their 40’s or so. Some of it may be because what I experienced was done by older people and I just became submissive to people who are older than me.

I think there are quite a few younger people here, me included. Medfet is for everyone😃

Mid twenties. Probably shouldn’t state my age I joined lol

21 here! Willing to chat with anyone about our experiences.

29 years old over here! Been into enemas since I was 15, starting off as an inflation fetish before realizing how good enemas feel. Now I love them and take them when I can. I do a full clean out a few times per year.

As someone who turns 26 here in a couple months, I'd say we're here. Honestly I think that everything boils down to one of two main causes as far as younger people being involved here goes.

Number one is a simple lack of exposure to related content and experiences due to shifting societal norms and trends. Things like enemas, suppositories, rectal temperatures, nude medical exams, etc. are fast becoming parts of a bygone era. Their popularity and actual legitimate usage was already well on the way out when I was growing up. They simply aren't done anymore nowadays, outside of maybe extremely specific situations in a hospital setting for serious/major issues.

The second is that dedicated forums like this one are aging technology that just aren't part of the popular culture anymore. Conversations and interactions are done on different, newer, trendier platforms like reddit/discord/etc. The days of imageboards and dedicated forums are bygone for a vast majority of people my age and younger.

Conversations and interactions are done on different, newer, trendier platforms like reddit/discord/etc.

Whatever they do on trendier, newer platforms, it sure doesn't have much to do with a conversation.

The second is that dedicated forums like this one are aging technology that just aren't part of the popular culture anymore.

The technology here seems pretty up to date handling and manipulating large amounts of data and users across multiple languages and platforms. Granted, it caters to a specific crowd - but there are still lots of forums that do that in business, science, sports, hobbies etc. Not sure what you mean by the 'popular culture" - are you talking content or or structure?

Most of us have moved to Discord servers, its easier to communicate in real-time and has a lot more functionality than forum boards. Stuff like video streaming, voice chat, and playable audio/video embedding makes it a bit more enticing to the next generation.

Most of us have moved to Discord servers, its easier to communicate in real-time and has a lot more functionality than forum boards. Stuff like video streaming, voice chat, and playable audio/video embedding makes it a bit more enticing to the next generation.

Guess my being “not so young” is showing through. 😀. Thanks @Peppy_Pepper

43 here, been a member since. .. 25ish? Without a break and not looking at my profile yet.

I’ve been on and off this since since I was 19!(34 now). I think It takes most younger people some time to fully realize their sexuality. Even if they know they have a particular fetish, there might be a sense of embarrassment that comes from fully acknowledging it and exploring it more deeply. We’ve all had those conversations with people who’s said something along the lines of: “I never Really felt comfortable exploring my sexuality until much later in life”.

My main fetishes, for footed blanket sleepers and medically required masks, came to be well before I truly understood sexuality. I'm 45 now and was 9 or so when I remember getting so excited about seeing a girl my age in footed pajamas. And that night was very embarrassing. When my babysitters daughter came out wearing her pink, footed blanket sleeper (zipper front, vinyl soles and toecaps. Very 80's, but I still like them that way mostly), my heart slammed into overdrive, my breathing was elevated, and I kept discreetly sneaking looks at her over on the other couch (this was in a living room, while we watched TV). I seem to remember my babysitter asking if I was OK.

It took until the late 90's (early/mid 20's age) for me to actually feel OK, or even consider, going to fetish websites, thinking maybe these strong feelings as I described above were fetishes. First a Yahoo! group centered around young women in footed pajamas. Then some Japanese site called “Maskgirls”. I'm not sure why all of a sudden I was interested in exploring these feelings as fetishes. Maybe just desperation and wanting to enjoy my full being and knowing I wasn't alone.

I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but yes, I feel like I've “lost time”, so to speak, by not knowing about fetishes until so late. I feel like the general concept should have been addressed in my sex ed. It would have made my adolescence more enjoyable, and adulthood far more so.

I'm 19 and beginning to explore after realizing I'm hooked on certain aspects of medfet. I think a lot has to do with our parents and grandparents beliefs and if they carried on to us. I am referring to methods like rectal temps, enemas etc. Personally, there are many more of us “young people” out there and here than you may think that are Gen Z and have either experienced the “old school” ways, and, or are on here. As one of my profs said, “The pendulum swings on most things every 20 years”. Maybe it's starting to, or has swung already. I know I am not alone at least and that is a good feeling. Thank you all!

Personally, there are many more of us “young people” out there and here than you may think that are Gen Z and have either experienced the “old school” ways, and, or are on here. As one of my profs said, “The pendulum swings on most things every 20 years”. Maybe it's starting to, or has swung already. I know I am not alone at least and that is a good feeling. Thank you all!

I'd put the pendulum swings at more like 40 to 50 years. And seriously, members here would not be happy at all if the sexual morality pendulum were to swing back to the times when I was young: hard to find erotica, no depiction of genitalia or pubic hair, homosexuality still punishable by law in many otherwise enlightened countries, birth control hard to get if not outright banned.

We are headed back that way, not to an enlightened and more free future.

I wish the pendulum had stopped swinging around the 1990s, before the New Prudery was becoming so apparent.

To address the title of this thread, I would imagine that, instead of sitting around reading about our kinks, they are out doing them.

@agracier …. And seriously, members here would not be happy at all if the sexual morality pendulum were to swing back to the times when I was young ….

For me it's a paradox - I love the way the censorship of the 1950's made the little nudity I saw all the more super exciting, and how just seeing a gal in her bra, girdle, and panties was ever so exciting as I dreamed of what was kept hidden!