Where is the younger generation? 20s-30 max?

I'm a female in my 30s

A few things, I was an exception in that I have been on this site since my 20's and even now there are a few people in their 20's but, especially for women, things like kinks are not explored until later. Just takes time to put societal norms aside sometimes.

That is correct. Young people usually want to conform with peer group members, with ideas and notions they were raised by. It takes a while, often too long, to get over those confines put on the young by society.

That is one way to interpret the old saying that youth is wasted on the young. They don't know about the things that could be optimally enjoyed and experienced with a young and vigorous body. And aside from that, most are far too busy with other more mundane things like finding a job job, getting married or kids and such.

I am 37. But I have been on this site since I was 22. Mostly a lurker until I started meeting people from here 5 years ago. All the younger peeps are on Fetlife. Actually, more of the action is on Fetlife.

Smart devices are here to stay so getting used to using them is more normal.

I've been an early PC user and have 5 in total at the moment, desktop and laptops. They are like my nuclear carrier battle group and frigate squadron put together, IT-wise.

But I would have to be in very very dire straights before I ever use, let alone purchase, one of those overly expensive, rinky-dink smartphone devices … 😃 😃

Thinking about it, Back between 2015 and 2016, When I first joined Zity I was part of the 20-30 age group but now I'm in the 30-40 age group…So I guess the 20-30 age group maxes out as they aged…

We are here! There may not be too many of us but I know we make up a small minority on here. I've always felt like I could get along with anyone be it my age or older than me, and I enjoy interacting with everyone both on here and in real life. I think the majority of Gen Z is on mainstream social media rather than here.

Re: @GraceT , Welcome to Zity. While I am a little late I didn't see you here beforehand.

I know what you mean with your comments regarding FetLife. I belonged once.

Zity is a LONG way better than FetLife. All sites that have to do with subject matter like Zity and FetLife have some who are crude and rude, but Zity is a long way better than FetLife or most other sites of this nature.

Hope you are here for the long haul.

I’m 25! I‘d love to chat with folks close to my age as well as those older! I always appreciate those who have more experience than me

We all used to be “the younger generation” once in the past… Time flies though and there's nothing we can do about.

I think the younger generation sees older people as perverts. They think the men just want to get into their pants and the older ladies are just old bags. Do not see the older generation as people with a lot of information that can be shared or are professional that can also share information about real life situations and or happenings.

This happens in most any situation. I jokingly said to a young lady at a customer service counter “if I was 30 years younger I would ask you out” she gave me a very dirty look. So I said “too bad honey, Good Bye". It is a stigma that has been in society for a very long time.

I think the younger generation sees older people as perverts.

Funny, I'll take that as a compliment.

Back in my day, older folks thought all of us younger teens and twenties were sex nuts, rutting around like naked hippies in a public park. And us younger ones in turn thought they were all fuddy-duddies who'd given up on sex and fun. Straight-laced squares who disapproved of sex on principle.

But there is something in what you say. I find that younger people (in general) are turning into prudes and discarding all the (fun) freedoms we aspired to in my younger days, things like not making gay, interracial or anal sex illegal in many places, allowing the sale of erotic/pornographic material, showing nudity in the media without people having an apoplexy and so on …

It's really disappointing.

I can't see my kids ever having the specific kind of bottom-centered fetishes I developed over the course of growing up. My temperature was taken rectally routinely until the age of 6-7 and then intermittently until age 9. When my oldest child (now 1😎 was born, his pediatrician encouraged us to take his temperature rectally. (I left that to my wife, not wanting to have anything to do with a procedure that had come to have sexual insinuations for me.) But then we moved cities when he was 2 and switched to a new pediatrician and she was opposed to rectal temps. So my two daughters (14 and 10) never even had the experience of having a thermometer inserted in their bottoms. When I was 8 I got a penicillin shot in my rear end because of a recurrence of strep throat--I know my sister had gotten one the year before as well. My kids have had strep throat plenty but never a shot. When they thought I might have appendicitis at age 12, or when I was having digestive issues at 16, or again when they suspected appendicitis at 25, I got a DRE. None of my children has ever had a rectal exam. And even now, in my late 40s, the only recent I've started receiving annual DREs (I had one just last week) is because I am considered high risk for prostate cancer. They don't do this anymore for most men. Finally, I was spanked regularly until I was around 6 and then intermittently until my last spanking at age 11. We've never spanked our kids in anything but a playful way. I'm sure it's possible one or more of them might be sexually aroused by the butt, but it just won't have any of the associations it did for my generation and earlier.

I think the younger generation sees older people as perverts. They think the men just want to get into their pants and the older ladies are just old bags. Do not see the older generation as people with a lot of information that can be shared or are professional that can also share information about real life situations and or happenings.

I agree many times. It seems the younger feel, think, they found something “new”. But it is just recirculated by whatever is the latest and greatest media of popular choice.

First thing that comes to mind when reading the title is that the younger generation may not likely be as much into medfet since times have changed and many have not been able to experience the thoroughness that we once went through, back when we were fully disrobing and there was more “hands on”. With today's physicals featuring no undressing at all, it seems unlikely, though not impossible (especially if they've had to endure a medical procedure), that younger folks would be into medfet

26 here

I’m 67, and I would love to see posts from young people. Are they not attracted to a site like this? I thought that they might find rectal temperature taking to be ancient history, and not relatable. But there’s something for everyone here.