Where is the younger generation of medfetters? 20s-30 max?

We are here! There may not be too many of us but I know we make up a small minority on here. I've always felt like I could get along with anyone be it my age or older than me, and I enjoy interacting with everyone both on here and in real life. I think the majority of Gen Z is on mainstream social media rather than here.

Re: @GraceT , Welcome to Zity. While I am a little late I didn't see you here beforehand.

I know what you mean with your comments regarding FetLife. I belonged once.

Zity is a LONG way better than FetLife. All sites that have to do with subject matter like Zity and FetLife have some who are crude and rude, but Zity is a long way better than FetLife or most other sites of this nature.

Hope you are here for the long haul.

I’m 25! I‘d love to chat with folks close to my age as well as those older! I always appreciate those who have more experience than me

We all used to be “the younger generation” once in the past… Time flies though and there's nothing we can do about.

I think the younger generation sees older people as perverts. They think the men just want to get into their pants and the older ladies are just old bags. Do not see the older generation as people with a lot of information that can be shared or are professional that can also share information about real life situations and or happenings.

This happens in most any situation. I jokingly said to a young lady at a customer service counter “if I was 30 years younger I would ask you out” she gave me a very dirty look. So I said “too bad honey, Good Bye". It is a stigma that has been in society for a very long time.

I think the younger generation sees older people as perverts.

Funny, I'll take that as a compliment.

Back in my day, older folks thought all of us younger teens and twenties were sex nuts, rutting around like naked hippies in a public park. And us younger ones in turn thought they were all fuddy-duddies who'd given up on sex and fun. Straight-laced squares who disapproved of sex on principle.

But there is something in what you say. I find that younger people (in general) are turning into prudes and discarding all the (fun) freedoms we aspired to in my younger days, things like not making gay, interracial or anal sex illegal in many places, allowing the sale of erotic/pornographic material, showing nudity in the media without people having an apoplexy and so on …

It's really disappointing.

I can't see my kids ever having the specific kind of bottom-centered fetishes I developed over the course of growing up. My temperature was taken rectally routinely until the age of 6-7 and then intermittently until age 9. When my oldest child (now 18 )was born, his pediatrician encouraged us to take his temperature rectally. (I left that to my wife, not wanting to have anything to do with a procedure that had come to have sexual insinuations for me.) But then we moved cities when he was 2 and switched to a new pediatrician and she was opposed to rectal temps. So my two daughters (14 and 10) never even had the experience of having a thermometer inserted in their bottoms. When I was 8 I got a penicillin shot in my rear end because of a recurrence of strep throat--I know my sister had gotten one the year before as well. My kids have had strep throat plenty but never a shot. When they thought I might have appendicitis at age 12, or when I was having digestive issues at 16, or again when they suspected appendicitis at 25, I got a DRE. None of my children has ever had a rectal exam. And even now, in my late 40s, the only recent I've started receiving annual DREs (I had one just last week) is because I am considered high risk for prostate cancer. They don't do this anymore for most men. Finally, I was spanked regularly until I was around 6 and then intermittently until my last spanking at age 11. We've never spanked our kids in anything but a playful way. I'm sure it's possible one or more of them might be sexually aroused by the butt, but it just won't have any of the associations it did for my generation and earlier.

I think the younger generation sees older people as perverts. They think the men just want to get into their pants and the older ladies are just old bags. Do not see the older generation as people with a lot of information that can be shared or are professional that can also share information about real life situations and or happenings.

I agree many times. It seems the younger feel, think, they found something “new”. But it is just recirculated by whatever is the latest and greatest media of popular choice.

First thing that comes to mind when reading the title is that the younger generation may not likely be as much into medfet since times have changed and many have not been able to experience the thoroughness that we once went through, back when we were fully disrobing and there was more “hands on”. With today's physicals featuring no undressing at all, it seems unlikely, though not impossible (especially if they've had to endure a medical procedure), that younger folks would be into medfet

26 here

I’m 67, and I would love to see posts from young people. Are they not attracted to a site like this? I thought that they might find rectal temperature taking to be ancient history, and not relatable. But there’s something for everyone here.

Where are the younger patient/docs 35 and below just curious seems like everyone is older?

I’m just a regular member, but Check the personal ads under medfet. You might find some there.

With many of today's physicals being uneventful, compared to how they used to be, being a medfetter can be a slowly dying art. Hard to develop a fetish if you don't even get undressed or touched.

Just like the dying art of developing a jockstrap fetish, which once upon a time, used to be a requirement to be worn for gym in some schools, to the extent as to be subjected to jock checks, where guys had to reveal at least part of it to show they were wearing it.

I'm a few years out, but still under 40. It is interesting that there aren't as many opportunities to stir up those medical fetish desires. Most exams don't even have people get undressed anymore.

I'm one of the younger members on here. Open to chatting!

I am under age 30 and due to life's circumstances and experiences I have been through my share of old school medical exams.

24! 😊

(Kinda to be expected. Medical exams are nowadays typically less intrusive and more considerate of patients' privacy, including for children. Less trauma created, less fetishism. Same for corporal punishment.)

Almost 26!

27 living in Germany here.

Oh, where in germany?

22 and also in germany here

This is a long thread so a lot of the reasons why so many younger people are not here has already been covered. But, for those who are new and have not seen all the comments here, I can totally see why MedFet isn't appealing to younger people because going to the doctor nowadays is a joke. The days of doctors being able to spend quality time with patients started to go downhill (in the U.S.) in the 1990s when the Clinton Administration started to insert itself, micromanaging doctors under managed care. After the Clintons left, nothing changed under the Bush, Obama, Trump and the current administration. In fact, it's gotten progressively worse.

The last two so-called physical exams I went to, they didn't even take my vital signs?!?! I went in there, answered some "wellness questions" and was told to go to LabCorp and get a blood test. Hell, I could have done that myself without wasting my time at the primary care doctor if that's how it's going to be. The sad thing about today's state of healthcare is what can be missed when doctors actually examine patients.

Sorry for the downer post but that's what healthcare in the U.S. is like these days.

The last two so-called physical exams I went to, they didn't even take my vital signs?!?! I went in there, answered some "wellness questions" and was told to go to LabCorp and get a blood test. Hell, I could have done that myself without wasting my time at the primary care doctor if that's how it's going to be. The sad thing about today's state of healthcare is what can be missed when doctors actually examine patients.

My last, just under a week ago, had BP taken, heart listened to, weight taken, blood work taken, and standard questions asked (mammogram, colon cancer screening, light headedness, head aches, chest pains, shortness of breath, ect.). No ears, eyes, or throat check. It just isn't quite the physical or check up I expect.

That, as has been said, maybe affecting the interest in medfet. The senses are not being stimulated as they once were to create the interest, desire.

quality time with patients started to go downhill (in the U.S.) in the 1990s when the Clinton Administration started to insert itself, micromanaging doctors under managed care. After the Clintons left, nothing changed under the Bush, Obama, Trump and the current administration. In fact, it's gotten progressively worse.

Just so you don't the impression that only Americans are getting the fuzzy end of the medical (fetish) lollipop, this micromanaging of medical care, making more stringent rules and regulations, even limiting the number of students allowed into medical school by country, is happening in most of the Western world.

Governments, or let's say bureaucracies everywhere in the world, have the (annoying) tendency to assume stricter and stricter control over any and every blessed thing they can. This doesn't happen only in the US.

Americans often identify problems or their annoyances by using sitting presidents as reference points. Usually the problems and annoyances we face come from other sources than a single guy playing the Big Cheese or a specific administration. These things usually happen because of other factors like economic imperatives in implementing cost savings or (foreign) competition forcing companies/economic entities to adopt more cost saving policies.

These are, unfortunately, world-wide problems. Not country, nor administration specific problems.

If anything, blame globalization and the internationalizing of just about everything.

At 83 I experienced the "golden age of health care". For 30 years my physical felt like a physical. I walk in his exam room, he's sitting in the corner looking over my file folder and says "take em off, all of em" and I go sit on the exam table naked. He rolls his stool over in front of me and asks a few questions then begins going over my body and in it with a finger. Then he comes back to the front and sits there talking. I sit there for about 30 minutes giving him plenty of time to study my naked body. When I leave I feel if there was any thing wrong or questionable he would have found it.

Ten years ago he retired but the timing is suspect. In the summer of 2013 I aked him if I should be looking for a replacement and his answer was "hell no, I'm not retiring yet". A couple months later my wife was in and she came home saying we have to find a new doctor, he's retiring on December 31. That just happened to coincide with the date the new federal mandates took effect.

Now the PCP is nearly worthless, all she does is heart beat, breathing and blood test reading. I have to make my own appointments with other specialists like dermatologists, urologists, etc. How am I supposed to know if I need to see them, I'm not a doctor.

Government ntervenes itself into societal problems without often providing realistic solutions. They only seem to offer one and only method of solving a problem by further encroachment, curbing our choices, limiting resources and expanding an already failed bureaucracy of their own creation. Such draconian methods result in higher taxation and poor consumer satisfaction. I don't have much of an answer regarding America's solution to it's health care crisis but there is one unfathomable truth (IMO): Sometimes throwing money at a problem is not a solution. Regretfully that is what our government does.

So is the consensus that since the Government has fucked up medical care the younger generation is not learning to enjoy Medfet?? I'm not so sure I buy that (the conclusion not the premise!). I don't know the demographics of Zity but it seems to have more older (>40) members than 20-30 year olds so it would appear on Zity there is less interest by the younger generation.

At 83 I experienced the "golden age of health care". For 30 years my physical felt like a physical. I walk in his exam room, he's sitting in the corner looking over my file folder and says "take em off, all of em" and I go sit on the exam table naked. He rolls his stool over in front of me and asks a few questions then begins going over my body and in it with a finger.

In the future, that we won't yet see I fear, people will look back on such hands on physical examination with the same amused disdain that we do at Victorian doctors fumbling about under dresses or at doctors from prior to the 18th century prescribing a good blood letting or a leeching cure.

We'll probably get more comprehensive and in depth examination from medical pods or robots in the future, with better results most likely.

So is the consensus that since the Government has fucked up medical care the younger generation is not learning to enjoy Medfet??

i've just seen this thread and confess i have not read but a few of the comments, so cannot respond to the "consensus." But, this comment did catch my attention. i work as a critical care nurse in a mid sized teaching hospital, i've worked there for nine years now. i am daily (truly) impressed by the Certified Nursing Assistants (CNA's) that i work with. >80% of them are in their early 20's, some younger. They work a 12.5 hour shift answering call lights, wiping dirty butts, endlessly changing and cleaning up people who have wet and soiled themselves. Taking difficult people tangled in wires and hoses to the restroom. Dealing with people who are often mean and inconsiderate, people who are verbally abusive are a normal part of our day, some throw things and try to hit or kick us, spit on us. We always have a some of this kind of patient on the floor, it never goes away. Yet they daily return to the job, and for 12.5 hours are kind, considerate, professionals. It never ceases to amaze and encourage me that this generation has wonderful people of substance.

i have also sometimes wondered if some of them may be a bit kinky, but none of them ever lets that part show. We all have a bit of a macabre and different sense of humor. It comes with the territory, part of a coping/survival mechanism me thinks.

i have found many of these younger people to be mature beyond anything i had at that age.