Why do men enjoy giving an enema to a woman?

There is very little that is as bonding as having a woman either draped across my lap or in a Simms position waiting for me to insert the nozzle.

It takes immense trust for a woman to submit to this and I am always honored when they do.

I have been giving two ladies monthly enemas for over eight years now and both tell me the same thing, It's the bonding that pleases them most, followed by the sensations they feel as I pump the fluid from a Higginson syringe.

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It is an intimate act that breaks down barriers. It takes something personally private and turns it into a thing between “us”

@LaxMe you wrote that sometimes you receive non-prescription sedative enemas that put you under in about ten minute. What is the brand, please.

To answer the question , why a man enjoys giving an enema to a woman ? My answer is , I enjoy making a woman feel better and helping a woman maintain a healthy lifestyle . To care for a woman , is a very rewarding experience , for me .

Challenging question. I suppose you end up with as many different answers as you get responses. Intimacy, control, eroticism, love, caring, but mostly I think pleasure…hers and yours. Personally I often think (rightly or wrongly…and probably wrongly) that a woman receiving an enema from a loved one, close and trusted friend, etc. might be experiencing all or many of the pleasurable and erotic feelings as a man in the shared experience. This being the case, it should be a gratifying thing for both the giver and receiver…and the end result is at least pleasant feelings and hopefully more gratifying shared sexual intimacy. Besides, it's just plain fun!!

The pleasure can be mutual, knowing you'll receive one shortly after adminstering one! 😃

What can be better than a situation where you have your wife naked, you have access to her most intimate parts, you get to fill her with some warm liquid, and if many women are like my wife you manage to get her horny in the process for which you are appropriately rewarded afterward. In other words, what is not to like?

Watching there nipples get hard the heavy breathing and the wettest is awesome

With my first 2 wives it was the trust they put in me as I gave them enemas (I was the first to give them enemas). Their allowing me access to their most private areas of their body was a real turn on for me. Making sure to make it a pleasurable experience for them was my goal and it sure works well. I'm getting hard just writing this with the great memories.

For me, it's a combination of power and intimacy. It has always fascinated me how something so simple and seemingly innocuous as water can get someone's undivided attention and render them totally submissive and turn them into a begging mess within a short time when it's injected into their rectum. Also, let's face it: are there many things more primordially intimate than claiming total power over someone's bodily functions? Not a lot, for certain.

My pleasure from giving an enema to a woman comes from knowing that she is also enjoying it. If not, I don't do it, as I ghet no pleasure at all from domination or control.

I enjoy giving enemas because there is an expression of trust and intimacy seldom equaled in any other circumstance. Add that to all the other reasons expressed in this thread.

I am not the handsomest-looking man available. I don't get to date very beautiful women. I do meet average women who seem grateful for my attention. The average woman has a different definition of sex than you would expect from the more beautiful women. Many average women do not want to have sexual intercourse. There are the usual concerns about disease and pregnancy, but there are additional concerns. Average women fear that men are just using them and have no long-term interest. Average women find it easier to enjoy an enema. there is no fear of disease or pregnancy and they can always tell themselves that they are doing this for medical reasons.

After I give the woman an enema, I give her oral sex. this distracts her and allows her to hold in the enema longer. When she has an orgasm, she also gets a powerful urge to expel the enema. I accompany her to the bathroom where she has an explosive bowel movement. These women meet with me on a regular basis. It is the new normal.

Its the pain and pleasure i give.

The reason that I like to give an enema to a woman is for two reasons. The first one is that I also like to give an enema to another man. The second one is that I also like to receive enemas from both woman and men.

It is the feeling of the one giving the enema having a little bit of control over giving the other person, woman or man, the enema when I am the one giving it. It is the feeling of my giving up a little bit of control when I am the one getting the enema from the woman or the man. In addition, I like both giving a group of women or men enemas and receiving enemas from a group of men or women.

What I get out of it when I am the one giving the enema is knowing that man or woman I am giving the enema to will be nice and clean down there when it is all over. When I am the one who is getting the enema, it is the feeling that I will be nice and clean down there.

Does that answer your question?

I can't answer that cause I never gave an enema to a lady, but I have some friends here that I would enjoy to try it for sure 😃 cause I know they will like to receive it.

And it's really enjoyable to read the answers of this topic, and I agree with most of them…..its a time when the woman “surrender” (i dont know if its the right word, sorry I am brazilian) and let the partner gave her pleasure…..needs lots of trust in my pov.

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I must say I enjoyed seeing them squirm around as they fill up. I also do enjoy a good expel

Because it is the last explored frontier. There are women out there who don't let guys near this area.

Because it is the last explored frontier. There are women out there who don't let guys near this area.

Boy that's the understatement of the year!

In 18th century art, enemas from a male to a female were euphemism for sexual intercourse.

I always enjoy being with a naked woman! Distracting them by playing with their nipples or just massaging them is a turn on, watching the squirm as they fill up and if the want to touch me that is the best.

In 18th century art, enemas from a male to a female were euphemism for sexual intercourse.

Makes perfect sense. The nozzle is phallic, the liquid is the semen.

Being a woman, I cannot really tell why men enjoy giving a woman an enema but I can tell you for sure my husband sure enjoys to the utmost in giving me an enema while laying over his lap. Perhaps, it is the willingness to submitting to him without complaint or reservation whenever he tells me that I am going to get an enema from him which is pretty often!!

Being a woman, I cannot really tell why men enjoy giving a woman an enema but I can tell you for sure my husband sure enjoys to the utmost in giving me an enema while laying over his lap. Perhaps, it is the willingness to submitting to him without complaint or reservation whenever he tells me that I am going to get an enema from him which is pretty often!!

It's the fact that bare naughty bottom is giving up it's darkest secrets. I love that sight. He is a lucky guy and he knows it!

My wife enjoyed taking enemas for a while. She liked the idea of ‘playing dirty’ and trusted me. Like "Moppy" says it's an awesome sight!

@Tenessee21 it's largely the same reason performing other examinations on women is so fun. Making a woman shbmit to something that embarrassing and intimate is highly erotic, especially if you make them get naked and bend over for you!

Giving a women oil-massage and anal-massage….entering her rectum for nearly one hour is the perfect preparation for a very large warm enema….a soapy one first…

Why do men like giving a woman an enema? Who’s kidding who?

It‘s rooted in fetishism, sex and attraction to the opposite sex or in many cases the same sex.

I have female friends who asked me out of physical needs if I would help them with a personal problem. Turned out the problem was constipation.

I’m pretty sure that they enjoy receiving as much as I enjoy giving but that subject has never been discussed.

They do, however, keep asking when they are uncomfortable. I shyly agree to help them.

Simplest version, at least for me, only heterosexual in my case, YMMV:

1) Sex: Normal male libido: woman in foreplay, arousal and sex makes profoundly erotic, satisfying movements and sounds.

2) Enema: Male klismophiliac: woman getting enema from prep through expulsion makes profoundly interesting erotic squirming, movements and sounds from enema.

3) Sex during enema: Aroused male klismo performing both at once, sex with woman getting his enema: add together all the above. Combined eroticism and enjoyment may even be much greater than simply additive. Case closed.

Assessment and discussion of said woman’s reactions and enjoyment: new thread, possibly longer.

Carry on……………..👍🏻😉❗️❗️❗️

Eric

I never thought of giving a woman an enema she asks for is dominance.

I feel that I am helping her to get relief from discomfort she is experiencing.

My current lady friend who asked if I would give her a series of enemas on my next visit, needs relief from the difficulties she has that are created by the medications she takes.

In that situation, she is trusting me to do an intimate thing but it’s for medicinal purposes. I don’t know if she gets significant arousal from the process but she does want me to lubricate her before each of the three bags I give her - two soapy bags and a water rinse.

I don’t think she realizes I’m giving her three enemas. I tell her I’m going to give her a three-bag enema in series to give her the most relief.

She does tell me that she feels great after her enemas and she has taken a warm shower. I top our session off with a full body massage with her favorite lavender lotion.

If she says her anus and rectum is sore, I lube her with hemorrhoid cream, which she finds soothing.