Wow, might as well ask why WOULDN'T a man enjoy giving a woman an enema - what's not to like!? A few of my reasons :
- Very simple - she’s naked. I adore the female body in all its curves and soft spots and hidden treasures. I’m never going to see my lover naked and NOT enjoy it or be aroused!
- It involves her butt. I LOVE female asses, so ANY activity thats focused on her butt is absolutely going to arouse me! Soft cheeks, spreading them open, exposing her sexy rosebud, touching it, playing with it, sliding first a finger (to fully lube her of course!) and then the nozzle going in... Mmmmmm.. delicious!
- It's SO intimate! It will cause a loud, messy, bowel movement, something that just about everyone is embarrassed or secretive about. She’s opening herself up for my eyes and ears to BE with her as she performs her most private intimate act. (I like to be with her as she expels, rubbing her tummy, massaging her breasts, holding her, kissing her, easing her through any cramps... SO intimate and bonding!)
- It can be controlling or dominating, if you want to make that scene. What could be more controlling that to ‘force’ someone into performing a most basic private bodily function, in you presence, against their ‘will?’ And she’s LETTING me do this to her...
- It can be ‘torture’ and pushing someone to the edge, if you want it to be a punishment. And again, she’s letting me do this to her, submitting to me and any form of control I want to hold over her.
- It's submissive. Even if its not a real D/S or punishment enema, it's still submissive to be so vulnerable around your partner. Knowing that she wants to share this very intimate act with me, wants to be this close to me, wants to experience something sexy and kinky and naughty and taboo with me is so very exciting and enjoyable.
- It's orgasmic. I like playing with my parter with my mouth, tongue, fingers, toys so that she orgasms during an enema. And I LOVE helping/watching her cum! A woman in the throws of a passionate enema orgasm is just the sexiest thing ever!
- It leads to sex. After my partner has some experience with orgasmic enemas I will turn the enema session into sex, by entering her pussy as she fills up with water. I’ve written here elsewhere how fantastic that is for both of us.
- It can be caring/nurturing. I’ve only given a couple of non-sexual enemas and they were enjoyable as well, but certainly not as much since the reason was due to her discomfort with constipation. So while it wasn’t "sexy" I enjoyed caring for my partner and helping her feel better.
- And finally, it just looks SO DAMN SEXY! A woman with a nozzle and tube up her butt, a bag hanging nearby, waiting to be drained into her bowels... then seeing the bag empty, the bulging pouch of her full tummy, knowing the warm sexy pressure she feels within... damn, it's just SO erotic and sexy!
So... I think that's enough reasons for men (or mainly me) to LOVE giving a woman an enema! Now if I could only find one... LOL