Why do men enjoy giving an enema to a woman?

Let's be honest here: Nobody likes rimming, fingering, or fucking a dirty booty hole.

I never thought of giving a woman an enema she asks for is dominance.

I feel that I am helping her to get relief from discomfort she is experiencing.

My current lady friend who asked if I would give her a series of enemas on my next visit, needs relief from the difficulties she has that are created by the medications she takes.

In that situation, she is trusting me to do an intimate thing but it’s for medicinal purposes. I don’t know if she gets significant arousal from the process but she does want me to lubricate her before each of the three bags I give her - two soapy bags and a water rinse.

I don’t think she realizes I’m giving her three enemas. I tell her I’m going to give her a three-bag enema in series to give her the most relief.

She does tell me that she feels great after her enemas and she has taken a warm shower. I top our session off with a full body massage with her favorite lavender lotion.

If she says her anus and rectum is sore, I lube her with hemorrhoid cream, which she finds soothing.

If she let's me cum in her butt I'll take her out to McDonald's for breakfast afterwards. I'm classy like that.

The first time my sister and I gave each other enemas by ourselves happened after school one afternoon when we got in from school both constipated not realizing the other was in the same condition. The problem was mom and dad's house. It only had two bedrooms and one bathroom. Hence, my siblings and I shared a bedroom until our mid to late teens. So, when we got to our bedroom that afternoon, I told my sister I needed the bathroom and why. She replied, “I’ve got the same problem.” Paused a moment, then said, “Tell you what, I’ll give you a couple of enemas then you can give me a couple.” I liked the idea an agreed, besides, I missed someone giving me an enema and I suspect my sister did too. Hence, the offer. That settled, we took all our clothes off and went to the bathroom. An hour and half later we had given each other a soapy then a rinse enema. Afterwards, we both took a shower an went back to our bedroom to put our clothes on. This started our after-school activities that lasted until we graduated from High School. In the beginning our enema sessions started for health issues but as we got older and hornier, they became more for sexual pleasure than for health.

A year or so later, my girlfriend was at my house after school one afternoon. Her period had started at school that day and was having cramps. Having seen the enema bag hanging in our shower, she asked my sister to give her a couple of enemas. My sister did and told her about our after-school activities, telling her, “You need to ask my brother next time you need an enema. He gives them to me whenever I ask. You won’t be sorry you did.” A month or two later, she did just that. Like with my sister, they started out being for health. But as we got older and hornier, they became more for sexual pleasure than health. Both of us really enjoying our monthly enema sessions together.

Have given 200 to 250 to late wife and 2 former girlfriends. I like fannies and legs. With the wife we had regular sex afterwards.

With another, she liked anal intercourse, this cleaned things up, she would get like a vise grip on me and have several orgasms.

The other was beautiful, ex-dancer/massage therapist.

I enjoy the view, hopefully she likes it enough to return the favor. It’s because she trusts me enough to share that part of her with me.

UMMMMM!!! Lots of ex wives in these posts.

Because the view is wonderful, also like giving them oral while filling them. 😜

I'd hate to guess, but I would imagine it's some combination of a proxy for anal penetration and vicarious pleasure (if the man enjoys receiving enemas as well.)

I do enjoy giving enemas and indeed I like penetrating people with dildoes too… so I feel like it's fairly similar to what a man would want. But I can't know for sure.

@VermouthEnemaKatie

you are spot on;

at least from my point of view...🌹😎

Well I really like enemas and have only given my wife a few because she really doesn’t like to receive but she will try one occasionally, first time she was laying on her back with her legs pulled back and I must say her presenting herself like that was awesome and when I started inserting the douche nozzle in her bottom I thought my dick was going to explode. also have had her on her hands and knees and also laying on her side with her leg pulled up. I guess really I like her presenting and surrendering her bottom to me wether I’m inserting a douche nozzle, dildo or butt plug I like it all

I enjoy giving women enemas because it puts me in complete control of a woman who is exposing her private parts to me and consenting to the invasive water I'm putting in her bowls. As part of her opening up, she will allow me to touch and massage her body. It puts me in the position to stop and restart her enema, and consider if she needs a second enema. Through enemas can become dominant, as being generally submissive.

I have only had the opportunity to admiinister to a woman on a very few occasions. I am not sure that “enjoy” would describe my feelings, altough obvioiusly facinated and excited by the rare view of a female anus I would hope that my satisfaction and enjoymant of administering to either a woman or man would result in their enjoyment, stimulation and maybe some understanding of how enemas have been such an influence in my life for over fifty years.

I love when I receive an enema from a man. I love the control he has over me although I‘m sure I would love it just as much if a woman gave me an enema 🍑💦😈

@chelle300 Right, the enema is about yielding control about some intimate bodily functions.

One of the problems that cause more trouble in women is their relationship with the intestine. I have verified it in countless cases and, when you enter into confidence, it always comes out :-)

It happened to me, therefore, with some of the girls I dated, that I was able to be named as their "spa doctor", which was the definition with which they called me in these particular games.

Giving an enema is exciting and fun. The exciting part is the vision of these beautiful little asses wide open and exposed, with their throbbing little hole and their pussy well exposed, accompanied by the vision of their face and expressions that make up a mixture of fear and pleasure.

Yes, because the first enema I administer it with the woman in a kneeling position and with her face on the carpet, while the second (after they have got rid of the first), I administer it with the girl in a supine position, with her legs raised and held by her in place.

It is also fun because their hopping "ballet", waiting for the toilet is always very similar, for all of them. A kind of rain dance. And in fact, then, there is rain.

Because she enjoys permitting me to do so!

First off, my enema device preference would be an enema bulb…and having an attractive female, across my lap, face down alone, would raise my heart rate and blood pressure. The visuals of thoroughly lubricating her bottom, and pumping my finger in and out, and slowly rotating it, would be another turn-on. The finale, of slowly penetrating her anus with the nozzle, with a bulbous tip, and inserting it, to the ‘hilt’, and finally burying the entire nozzle in her, so the only visual left, is the large red bulb, snugged-up between her tight buttock cheeks. By then, we're both turned on, and breathing hard and fast! Wanna hear more?

Is it common for a man to be aroused when giving a female an enema? I hope so, and I believe it’s a healthy reaction. I know that my guy is aroused, and I’m delighted at age 60, keeping myself in shape and looking good, that he is!

Well, id suggest a high percentage of people have sex of some sort, And of these we can ignore the male / male sex ,, leaving the m/f intercourse followers, who choose vaginal only, then theres men like me who really adore the female anus, which im sure many dont go near . I find it a more secret spot and feel so pleased to enter it, with my enema tubing, starting of course with lots of well lubed fingering, then giving her a belly full of warm soapy water, while i massage her belly and clit, im also quite happy to stay and watch her ass explode on the toilet , or in a diaper if shes into that .

@Vicki_V Is it common for a man to be aroused when giving a female an enema?

Yes and then some in my case. I love masturbating while giving a woman enemas - but have to be careful not to climax, as once I do, I feel guilty for the pleasure I'm having and lose all interest in continuing. This only happened once - the gal was in position with a bulging full enema bag hanging over her and I stroked myself too vigorously and I came before I even started the flow. The gal realizing what happened and my loss of interest said to me, “well best not to let an enema go to waste” and she released the clip and gave herself the enema.

Hi Tennessee21,

The answers to this question seem fomidable and many, … like Lucy flipping the pages of time…

Id,Ego,SuperEgo: first floor… One of the first things in development, and a milestone, is control of our bowels. Wetting a diaper is much different than soiling with excrement. Hence , the enemate is giving up this primordial control, and is stripped down to, or less than the Id. Ergo.."According to Freud's psychoanalytic theory, the id is the primitive and instinctual part of the mind that contains sexual and aggressive drives and hidden memories, the super-ego operates as a moral conscience, and the ego is the realistic part that mediates between the desires of the id and the super-ego"…. And… the enema makes one give up parent and adult ego states, and Be The Child in ways like no other… “The three ego states are called - Parent, Adult and Child ego states. These three ego states comprise individual personality. Each ego state is an entire system of thoughts, feelings, and behaviours from which we interact with one another.” Next floor…

The first floor answers are the basis for BDSM of the second floor… now it's the struggle for or giving up control learned on the first floor… D/s now is in play. Giving up primordial control of your bowels to another is one of the most devoted things a sub can do… and one of the most freeing for the sub. Women and men love D/s roles because it lets them step away from the responibility of their pleasure (and adulthood) and let someone fling them around the universe of feelings without any responsibility or guilt. “I ate that donut because you made me… not my fault! I love its texture and sweetness though!!” push the button, Lucy.

Third floor… now we learn Power Exchange! The learnings of the ground floor and second floor are the foundation for SHARED roles… the Power Exchage… an Ego function. The forces inward burst outward in a more conscious level… "I am giving you the control over one of my most basic functions… because that makes me feel good, I have no responsibility, and now I am childlike." … and … “I am taking control of your mind, fabricating a reality beyond your control… I accept your gift and will lead you safely but intensely through that you seek and love!” Next floor…

One can't always be sure that pressing the elevator button will be rewarded with that expected… we plummet to the basement… now there is darkness. S/m is upon us. S/m is like D/s but reversed .. tummy bulging with a massive enema.. .. now “pain focuses me into the pleasure, I need that, I want that, even though it's not logical.. pain brings everything more vivid… I feel pain --released, owned, loved and cherished! If you love me, take me there, please, see past your human inhibitions! ” … and… “I am strong enough to hurt you because I love you, and it's what you crave and want and need… and it fills my need to pull two wings off the butterfly… and watch her flutter in her plight. I will spank you while you fill, and give you the pain that releases you to orgasm, to happiness, to punishment you deserve or have earned. I question not how or why you are wired this way… you are not broken… you don't need to be fixed, just respectfully hurt and enjoyed” … and then in the cooldown embrace be brought back up out of the depravity and darkness… rejuvinated, sharply aware, ready to deal with the challenges, injustice and inequlities of navigation in the real world… next floor, please.

We rocket to the Fourth floor… the learning and teachings below us have, no matter what our orientation or gender, brought us into the soft focus of the Fourth Floor… here the ritualistic takes over and one partner crafts the rewards for the enema experience for the other… No longer an assault on the senses in the basement… it's soft music, a scent of latex and warm memories of childhood for many of us. It now becomes childhood… safe, warm, cuddled, protected, given this enema because it is good for us… relieves an illness, restores a function, it's soft music, and rosepetals, and a warm bath afterwards… it's mutually medicinal, shared and the giver enjoys the role of bringing that tenderness forward… the receiver basks in it's glow… we can visit, … but we can't return here forever… push the button, Lucy…

The Fifth Floor… has no boundary or ceiling. It is open to the stars, but never shared by the rest of the world…. all the teachings below us have translated into intimacy. All the feelings below are wrapped into one word. A partner, without definition of role or gender, exists with another in the most intimate of settings. The shared intimacy is the one driving force of the Fifth floor. You have reached the stars, Lucy.

So when the question is asked “Why do men enjoy giving an enema to a woman?” one must frame the question as “Why does one partner or just one, enjoy giving or taking an enema?”

I submit that it's because before them is a Five story building with one hidden floor and a keypad to the cosmos… unique in that, one, … or two, … or however many will fit in the elevator car will enter… and someone will push the button, Lucy….

You just reminded me of how much I hate shrinks ……

As you will know from earlier posts on this thread, I thoroughly enjoy giving women enemas, but I have added a new preliminary step.

Once my lady is nude, I take some initial time to massage her stomach area below her navel to just above her pubic bone in an attempt to feel any stool in her colon.

In these areas, the skin is a little firmer than the empty areas. I find this “examination” highly exciting and exploratory.

Of course, many times my patient wants to feel the area too. Then we are both excited. My repeat ladies will usually ask if I will be using my colon tube for stool that high.

I love feeding the long tube into her sigmoid and up her descending colon, so yes. I use that fat, long tube for her second bag and use my butt plug shaped nozzle for her first.

This adds some time to our enema sessions and I get extra time to look at and watch her gain arousal and vaginal wetness.

No lady has complained about the amount of time I spend lubricating her and relaxing her sphincter muscles.

Vocally I encourage her to relax while I’m doing that and, if she looks very aroused when I start the enema slow flow, I encourage her to masturbate if it will add to the enjoyment of her enema series.

Because all the lubing, and oral with it is over the top! 😜

It’s understandable why intimacy is arousing. But also- 1. you have a woman who has agreed to receiving an enema. 2. Then she undresses. Bare bottomed. 3. She gets in position exposed. 4. You get to not only see her opening but lubricate it. 5. You get to stick an enema nozzle in. I could go on but you get the idea. There’s five reasons men find giving women enemas to be arousing.

Many reasons. Anal penetration. Great visual. Lady's often make great sounds and get very wet / turned on, from getting an enema ( even when they don't want to or expect to ). Seeing the enema swelled tummy and knowing what she's experiencing. Knowing how great she'll feel when it's over. Knowing how great an orgasm can be, when an enema is involved…

Knowing that I'll do it “right” so she'll like it as compared to someone who rushes it.

There's a few