Why do men enjoy giving an enema to a woman?

I love giving an enema to my wife, but every one was because of a constipation issue. She has a great butt and i love the entire process, but i don't think she was turned on by any enema, just a way to eliminate a problem. T

That's about right for my wife too. To bad she isn't turned on by them - could have lots of fun, but at least I'm able to give to her...

Do the men also enjoy being present while she expels the enema??

Do the men also enjoy being present while she expels the enema??

If she doesn't mind or actually enjoys it, then yes I do. I've never been so lucky, but would like to with my next partner. I'd be happy to return the favor. If we were playing Dom and sub, it would also be lovely if she gave me some fellatio while she's expelling. Or just to prolong the fun, vanilla or D/s, let her waddle over to the commode with her distended belly and sit down, but then make her hold her enema with the DBC balloons in her butt still inflated until the fellatio gives me an orgasm, then let her expel.

Eric

Do the men also enjoy being present while she expels the enema??

Sure, why not? 😉

Hhhhmmmmm..... why ? Because women have such great looking derriere's. That maybe need a little spanking just to warm everything up... then you need to lube everything up before the nozzle.

@ericmacson ..... I insist on being there.

After giving my wife an enema, i always hang around to measure the returns. She has zero problems me being there while she expels. Her problem normally is some of the enema "hangs up" causing a rapid return trip maybe an hour later. We have learned this the hard way, so we stay close to the toilet for a good 2 hours after the enema. This issue takes some of the "acceptance" of the enema out from a time stand point. If we have a firm time point, an enema usually does not happen, accidents are a huge barrier. I have varied the soap levels, the volume levels, but still the problem of late enema action still occurs, and it's causing a problem with me giving her enemas, understandable, she does not want the accidents.

I have never had an enema from another person. My girl friends and I have played together but I never thought of giving or receiving an enema from them. We enjoy our relationships and bodies. I will have to think about (and read other's experiences) about a man or woman giving me an enema. I never thought about an enema being sexual.

Speaking only from my own experience, when my husband is giving me an enema, there is a feeling of caring and even love between us. And if he is aroused, that's perfectly fine with me. I know he is enjoying giving the enema because we have joked about it, even times when he's coaching me to retain, and I want to jump out of bed and run to the bathroom.

He wants me to feel better, and if he's aroused, I like that. More than once after I've had an enema, we've enjoyed some terrific romps. If there's a better way recovering from feeling down in the dumps, I don't know of one!

I will have to think about (and read other's experiences) about a man or woman giving me an enema. I never thought about an enema being sexual -

To be invading another's secret taboo place is very sexual, at least to me. I've had some great sex after giving don't get me wrong but to me giving is number 1.

Nothing more beautiful or sexy then a female ass staring you in the face.

My sub likes watching videos of ladies receiving, so why would he not enjoy doing the same to me. I'm pretty sure his reaction would be much "firmer" to be actually doing the enema to me.

I am just not ready to submit myself to that. I promised I would let him know when that changes. 😉

Much of my enjoyment comes about by giving pleasure and/or relief. If an enema, or oral and digital stimulation, provides either, I suspect there will be some reciprocation in most cases!

@Vicki_V, I could not have said it any better!

If hubby gets excited while giving me an enema, then that makes two of us who are excited...and if we end up enjoying the entire process, then it was most assuredly a "win-win"!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

You need not ask. It’s a beautiful sight and the arousal is great

I have to agree. I absolutely hate them, even though I let my late partner give me one a decade or so just to make sure I still hated them after 40 years. I then paddled her and gave her a 4 quart enema just for suggesting it. I dislike them greatly but sure love to insert a nozzle.

I've made some seven post in this thread and I still find myself thinking about this question... guess it comes down to something I love thinking about and wishing to do... I know my mom was into enemas, but if there was anything sexually exciting about them, both she and my father never let on. The only one time I saw a bit of slip up was when he home on day, excited and said he got them... that turned out to be a set of rectal dilators - seeing I had seen them, my mom said they were to help with her hemorrhoid problems..

@ ericmacson..... I insist on being there

Vato,

I'm happy to be quoted or opined on, but why did you refer to my name in this response? Thanks,

Eric

My sub likes watching videos of ladies receiving, so why would he not enjoy doing the same to me. I'm pretty sure his reaction would be much "firmer" to be actually doing the enema to me.

I am just not ready to submit myself to that. I promised I would let him know when that changes. 😉

I understand about you telling him when or if you're ready to let him give you a sexual enema (truthfully, I hope it's soon, as I'd love to read about it here). What do you mean about him having a "firmer" reaction, just that he'd be more severe or dominant than you are when you give it to him? Or that giving you an enema would result in him getting a firm erection? Or something I haven't thought of? Thanks,

Eric

For me, it's mostly because it's naughty and different. I've been into enemas basically my whole life while every woman I've been with has never heard of or less likely had one. So it kinda ups the naughty/ kinky factor for both of us. Fortunately I've had some great success when it comes to introducing enema into play. I also like hearing and watching her reactions while her belly inflates.

This thread goes hand-in-hand with one that asks, "Are girls more likely to get constipated and use enemas than men?', - so perhaps women are more open apt to mention constipation problems to the man in their life, wetting the man's interest in giving his gal an enema...

A bunch of great , well thought out, interesting, thought provoking answers, but, I think in addition to what has been posted, men just like sticking things into women's holes. 😉

A bunch of great , well thought out, interesting, thought provoking answers, but, I think in addition to what has been posted, men just like sticking things into women's holes. 😉

Now that might be the understatement of the week. There is nothing finer than making a lady bare her secret place and have it be penetrated. Hell yeah

A bunch of great , well thought out, interesting, thought provoking answers, but, I think in addition to what has been posted, men just like sticking things into women's holes. 😉

Ahem, you know I think there are many woman who like having things being inserted into there holes... 😃

Ahem, you know I think there are many woman who like having things being inserted into there holes... 😃

I agree. Men enjoy giving enemas to women to pleasure them, satisfy their eroticism. A lot of men enjoy playing viewing, penetrating a women ass and enemas are a good venue for doing that. Others will do it as part of a dom/sub theme - but I still think they both reap some enjoyment from that as well.

Now that might be the understatement of the week. There is nothing finer than making a lady bare her secret place and have it be penetrated. Hell yeah.

And you put it even more elegantly and erotically in an earlier response but adding how you enjoyed watching, feeling and hearing her squirming and moaning as she struggled to accept the filling. Yes, me too, exactly.

Ahem, you know I think there are many woman who like having things being inserted into there holes... 😃

I agree. Men enjoy giving enemas to women to pleasure them, satisfy their eroticism. A lot of men enjoy playing viewing, penetrating a women ass and enemas are a good venue for doing that. Others will do it as part of a dom/sub theme - but I still think they both reap some enjoyment from that as well.

My ex and I used to give each other enemas mixed with our other preferred kinks, usually with me as the sub. But she loved taking them as my sub, too -we both enjoyed experiencing what the other was enjoying too. But almost the very first time I saw my college GFs anus while enjoying looking at all her other features down there, I knew I wanted to use it for our ("vanilla") pleasure. Much later on I started doing the D/s enemas. That was the early '70's and it took a long time but eventually I got up the nerve to ask a GF about it and the rest is history. My first erotic enema I gave a GF was about 1978 and haven't stopped since.

Thanks for the reminders.

Eric

My wife struggles with constipation, treats it with stool softeners and senna. If no results, she will ask for an enema, which I am very happy to give. She does not like enemas, so it's the last resort for her. This time I gave her 2, first, a 1 ½ quart ivory soap enema. It took about 6 minutes to get it all in with a lot of complaining on her part. 3 minutes retention, then release. After about an hour (she takes a long time to empty, and has accidents often), I gave her a 2 quart ivory soap enema. This one went in easily, no complaining, 3 minutes retention, then release. All done in an hour with no returns or accidents. She was ok with this enema(s), if this process continues to work out, I will get to give her enemas more often, and several @ a time!!

@trw428: I gave her 2, first, a 1 ½ quart ivory soap enema. It took about 6 minutes to get it all in with a lot of complaining on her part. 3 minutes retention, then release. After about an hour (she takes a long time to empty, and has accidents often), I gave her a 2 quart ivory soap enema. What you wrote sounds so much like my own experience with my wife… She's never able to take a full bag right from the start and have to work up to it like you did…. Also, when we first began she had only used plain water enemas… it was most exciting to introduce Ivory soap and Dove soap enemas.

@sirensong knows how turned on I get when when we play with enemas…. I love how sensitive her breasts and pussy become after I massage her beautiful bottom, and gently stretch her hole to receive the nozzle. When we're playing with enemas, it feels like the whole love-making experience is in slow motion. Hmmmm, tomorrow's Sunday, @sirensong, wanna play?

@sirensong knows how turned on I get when when we play with enemas…. I love how sensitive her breasts and pussy become after I massage her beautiful bottom, and gently stretch her hole to receive the nozzle. When we're playing with enemas, it feels like the whole love-making experience is in slow motion. Hmmmm, tomorrow's Sunday, @sirensong, wanna play?

@geminitom You're a very lucky man, I'm jealous. She's a VERY BEAUTIFUL woman!!! 😜😉

As to the question about men wanting to be present at expulsion:

My reasons for wanting to give my wife enemas/suppositories is that, for me, it emphasizes her softness. She is quite muscular (wonderful!) so, physically, there isn't much softness.

But, giving her a rectal laxative emphasizes the concept of softness in combination with her femininity and her most excellent muscular legs and bottom. She may not be real soft on the outside, but, she is really well-curved everywhere with beautifully large, firm leg and butt muscles. For me, the suppository/enema, emphasizes her softness inside. thus emphasizing her femininity.

I realize that we are all soft on the inside, and I love to be laxed, too, by all methods, with or without diapering. But. as I say, it emphasizes the relative softness at least in concept, of a female.awake or asleep. For me, being laxed emphasizes my human softness and submission.

Sometimes I receive a non-prescription drugged enema, which happens, for me, within 10 minutes of the 4.5 oz. sized, sedative enema.

I like the idea of her taking control of me, before my lights go out without warning.

I hope that this post is relevant in this discussion. If not, I'll trans-post it, wherever I'm tole :-)