Spanking - Anyone like to be spanked

I've always had fantasies about being spanked but never have been. Ithink its the one sided control and humiliation i find hot about it, having to do as your told and be spanked in different exposing positions and states of undress.

Never did like being spanked, But now I think about the times I need my father to spank me..I know I need it some days..

It’s does great things to the mind, body and spirit. Nothing like being over another person’s knee, getting the hand or implement applied to the bare rear end. It makes sitting such a memorable event. Everyone needs a good spank. I know I do.

I was spanked growing up at home til age 17. I have spanked many times since then by both women and men. I also spank men and sometimes women as well. It is not sexual for on the receiving or giving end but I do get a sexual high after it is over.

With regard to your question, do I like to be spanked. Yes and no. Yes, even at my age, I have childish behaviors and need to spanked, held accountable. When I know I going to get it, I get excited but at the same time I have butterflies of dread. Anticipation is a great mind f—k. Spankings hurt and are supposed to. A good red sore bottom helps humble me. When it over I feel a level relief and then comes my sexual high. So yes, I guess I like to be spanked but no I don’t really like them.

Ask me again in a few days. I am scheduled to get a good bottom tanning on Thursday.

Yes, very much, and have been fortunate to be spanked (and belted/caned etc) on a number of occassions. I have all sorts of ideas and roles way to many to list LOL. Also enjoy switching it around and dealing with others

I was recently in China visiting a friend and I purchased a very intricately decorated thin piece of wood which turned out to be a ruler on the opposite side. When we returned to the apartment I said that I was going to give it to my friend in the U.S. and who was into spanking. My very conservative, Chinese friend asked about spanking and asked if he could gently spank me. Although very inexperienced I was game. After a few gentle wacks I stood up and he laughed as he saw that I had a hard on. I guess that sums it up! Anyone like to be spanked?

Did fantasizing about, did ask my partner, and he was more than happy to oblige me. I did have one and will have more.

Received my first spanking last week! He bent me over the kitchen table, lifted my skirt around my waist and pulled my panties down to my knees to "frame" his target. I was made to spread my legs so my pussy was peeking through also. The spanking itself was wonderful, my bottom was red and glowing afterwards.

I think the anticipation of knowing a spanking was about to take place was as exciting? or maybe shit scary lol as actually receiving it. For me the part that made me hard in my pants as a youngster was having to sit on my dad's lap, knowing he was as mad as hell with me and about to tan my ass so HARD. I'd have to tell him why I'd been naughty and have it explained to me what I would be getting as a result. Most of my spankings were dealt with immediately with no explanation and no warning but for some transgressions there would be a lead up. I can picture it all, being roughly pulled by my arm or guided by the shoulder and neck up the stairs to mum and dad's bedroom, almost running and falling up the stairs to try to keep ahead of him and crying loudly with maybe a hard swat or two to my behind on the way. Then being hauled up and sat there helplessly with him on his big lap, knowing that at that moment in time he doesn't like me and might not even love as he roughly undoes my pants or shorts and pulles them down and finally upends me across his lap ready for my good hiding. Scary as hell for a child but still sometimes gave me a boner and very erotic now!

I was a bit of a handful growing up and mom believed in spanking as did my mother. While it stung like the dickens, I somehow found it exciting and it actually made me feel closer to my mom as it was never done in anger and I was loved and comforted afterwards even though my bottom was pretty tender at times. In adulthood, I find it to be very erotic receiving and occasionally giving to my husband. Our children have never been spanked......taking away their cell phone is much more effective and I can see why society now calls it abusive but I never felt that way growing up. Denise

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Fantasy?

My boss’s gorgeous admin asst coming into my office and telling me to bend over for a spanking, then she pulls my pants and underwear down and spanks me with her bare hand.

I have loved the feeling of helplessness lying bare bottom over the knee of a take charge woman for a no nonsense spanking. Ah the good old days. It, however has been such a long time ago. I would love to have a take charge woman give me a refresher course in administering a good, sound bare bottom spanking.

Yes I love being spanked . Growing up I always got spankings. At first I did not like them something happened one time and was totally turned on by them. Our spankings were always on my bare bottom till it was bright red and I was always told I getting a spanking cause I had been a naughty little boy. Did not matter if there was anyone over , I still got my spanking in front of everyone exposing my bare bottom to everyone... Now I have to give myself a spanking cause I have no one to give me a good bare bottom spanking. I even like them in different scenarios even as AB regressing back into my childhood. I really need a good bare bottom spanking.

It’s been almost three years since my last post to this thread, and I have not been given a spanking in longer than that.... I must say that I fantasize about it a lot, and it would definitely add to diaper-wearing. A good, hard, full-on over-the-knee spanking, complete with scolding, tears and even corner time afterwards would really do it for me. I think it would even be better without the diaper on (having it unpinned, and lowered so that it can dangle on one leg until I kick it off) would even add to the fun - it could be pinned back on afterwards, holding in the heat and making it difficult to rub my bottom.

I love spankings when it's not my butt being spanked. Tender is my butt.

I happen to like it both ways.... I love a good ass warming. But there is nothing like pulling her dress up, and panties down to expose a spankable derriere....

I do. On my bare bum over your knee.

Yes I love being spanked. Nothing like being scolded and having my bare bottom extremely spanked. The position does not matter. I like having to pull clothes off or underwear down then kicking them off. Then standing in the corner exposing my red bottom to all. Have not had a spanking in awhile and could use one right now.

I love being spanked by an authoritative woman. It's best if after a bit of scolding she undoes my pants and guides me over her knee. I like a long, hand warm-up with occasional pause to caress my stinging cheeks and cool down. Perhaps after I am well warmed, she switches to a hairbrush. The only ways it gets any better is if she's amenable to switching.

Absolutely! I love being exposed and vulnerable. The anticipation and sting of the slap is just bliss.

I would love to chat with females about self spanking and or self punishment...... maybe get some tips. after all what is a good spanking without any tears ?

I would love to chat with females about self spanking and or self punishment...... maybe get some tips. after all what is a good spanking without any tears ?

What is self-spanking???

I don't think I can bend myself across my own lap and spank myself, and demand I hold still, too.

Very few people will spank themselves in dead earnest the way a dominatrix or sincere dominant partner might.

I’ve caught myself reaching around spanking my ass while fucking my wife. In the heat of passion, flailing away, spanking myself silly. It was fun and it felt great. Nothing beats that warm glow of my wife’s spankings, before, during, and after she gives me an enema.

Again ME! Just look at my Avatar!!! A Jay Em artwork of a male being severely paddled, firmly held in place OTK and leg locked by 1 woman, with another woman holding his head in he lap and making sure that he is not going to move out of position, no matter how much he begs, pleads & squirms! REALLY wish it were ME!

Very few people will spank themselves in dead earnest the way a dominatrix or sincere dominant partner might.

I totally agree with this. I have heard of submissives being ordered to spank themselves but I just can't see it as anything close to a good butt welting by someone else.

I always want a spanking but never can find anyone to help. I love giving them also. Always bare ass.

I love to get a traditional over-the-knee spanking, but it's been a few years now.

I'm also partial to a good caning, school-style, preferably whilst bent over a little wooden chair I own; thankfully that's happened rather more recently.

I also enjoy giving both, but that's another story!

Yes, why not being spanked by my partner if he feels like doing so, I won't really mind I find it good from him.