I always liked it when I was spanked by my mom, during my younger days, and up to age 20. Not that a spanking from mom didn't hurt, because they always did, but I liked my mom's method and prespanking ritual. Let me explain:
My mom SPANKED, she never beat or abused me. All spankings from mom were given over her knee with the palm of her strong right hand. Also, mom only spanked children on the seat of the pants, never bare bottom.
When mom decided I needed a spanking, we would go into a private room, and she would always announce that I was going to be spanked. Then she would sit down, extend and pat her lao and say over you go, young man. Once across her lap, mom always asked if I knew why she was going to spank me. I was always required to answer that question. Then she would adjust my position on her lap and ask if I was comfortable. Once I told her that I was comfortable ,she always said "here we go", and dependent upon the offense I was being spanked for, mom would always deliver 10 or 20 sound spanks to the seat of my pants. As I mentioned, she had a very strong right hand, so twenty spanks nearly always brought me to tears, even when I was in my late teens.
When the spanking was complete, mom always hugged me, but always let me know that I would never be too old, or too big to be taken over her knee, whenever she thought it was necessary. My mom spanked me many times, always using this procedure, and I am sure I deserved every spanking mom ever gave me!!!