Really like getting spanked, though never was as a kid. All my friends were though and I think that's where my interest (obsession!) started, I felt left out. There are any number of reasons I should have been spanked for as a kid, but never was.
One favorite fantasy scenario is that I'm a mischievous 10 year old boy and waiting for dad to appear in my bedroom, razor strap dangling full-length from his hand hand. He drops the strap on the end of the bed and tells me to get ready while he rolls up his sleaves. Getting ready means I take everything off, except undershorts and I have to lay face-down across the bed. Dad retrieves the razor strap from the end of the bed, positions himself just right to make sure the strap makes perfect contact with my butt. No words are spoken. I'm sobbing and begging before he even gets started. Dad's lickings are never excessive or brutal but you sure know you've been thrashed thoroughly by the time he finishes, usually a solid couple dozen strokes with the strop, occasionally more.
There are endless scenarios in my head like the one above, pretty much all bad boy/strict dad type. I've experimented with male spanking partners in my adult years, though most preferred getting spanked. After those times when I did get spanked to the point where I felt I couldn't take any more, as soon as the licking ended, I then always wanted more. Never tried bondage even knowing that that would be the only way I could likely be given an authentic, "dad is in complete control" whipping, it would start and end when "dad" decided, no breaks, no timeouts, just all out lickings with the razor strap like I heard so many of my friends getting over our growing years, some well into high school.
Making contacts to pursue these urges or fantasies has been tough, few and far between in my corner of New England. Still looking I guess.