Spanking - Anyone like to be spanked

I love a nice bare ass over the knee hand spanking and also giving the same. It has been a while since having either as unable to find a discreet and willing partner.

I like to be spanked. I will take it anyway I could get it, as my husband is vanilla and not into ANY of this.

My fantasy would be a spanking and a fingering at the same time, building to orgasm!

I totally agree with this. I have heard of submissives being ordered to spank themselves but I just can't see it as anything close to a good butt welting by someone else.

Yes, I cannot dominate myself.

Me: "Shut up and take it, stop crying. We're almost done."

Me: "Okay..."

Me: "Hold my beer."

Yes, I cannot dominate myself.

Me: "Shut up and take it, stop crying. We're almost done."

Me: "Okay..."

Me: "Hold my beer."

Yes just doesn't make any sense to me but then I am mostly an enema guy with some spanking and correction tendencies. I wouldn't claim to be an expert but I am partial to a nicely reddened bottom. I'd be interested to hear from a couple of Doms on the subject.

Spanking is very much about someone else doing something to me. Psychological not just physical. So the idea of self-spanking doesn’t work for me.

Re: self-spanking

It works if its done on cam with the Dominant watching, instructing and talkimg throughout. I have done a lot of real life adult spankings, as well as occassional "cam sessions" and can say it works if done right. Ive had Doms tell me to give myself xx number of swats and if just one smack is too soft Ill have to do them all over. I use a long handled thick paddle, have to bend over in front of the camera, and deliver the spanking. I have blistered myself from these types of sessions, which usually draw out to over 100 swats with corner time before, during and after. I can honestly say I've had a redder bottom after some cam sessions than I have with some real sessions. And you can actually walk away from such a session with the same "punished" feeling as you get from real life.

No Thanks! That is something I do not care for. My husband is the same.

My wife got curious about spanking from a ShadowLane ad in Cosmos. We ordered a couple videos and tried role-play spankings. Ended up we both got silly and laughed and lost the "moment". Just didn't catch on with us so we went back to vaginal, anal, oral sex, butt play and butt licking!! That floated our boats. 😄 We were very sexually active but not nearly as adventurous as some of the other sick, perverted, twisted, pathological, adventurous and WONDERFUL members here! 😄 Sometimes I think we missed out when we were younger and wish that we would have got more involved in some of the BDSM activities I read about here.

I like to be spanked. I will take it anyway I could get it, as my husband is vanilla and not into ANY of this.

My fantasy would be a spanking and a fingering at the same time, building to orgasm!

I would love to have you naked over my knee, one hand firmly spanking your reddening ass and the other teasing your clit. While reminding you if you struggled I would have to remove my hand from between your legs in order to hold you in place.

I haven’t been spanked since I was a child but fantasize about it all the time. I fantasize about being scolded and forced OTK of a male dom who lowers my panties, spanks my bottom and then spreads my legs and checks my slit for wetness.

In response to "liking to be spanked" this question should be included within, "during erotic play, lovemaking or sex." So with that being duly noted having ones bared butt well spanked during erotic play, hot lovemaking-sex or giving their partner a spanking on their bared butt is a highly intimate, and often very arousing. Additionally this "sharing" is a sincere expression of trust which in turn leads to a much more in depth relationship. I am certain most Zity members will agree that there is "closeness" that naturally develops from being able to accept and "like-enjoy" a bared butt spanking from "only them."

Well I've expressed my view about this age old method of discipline or correction and I'll add which has been well verified as being utilized for much more enjoyable activities too!

For me I don’t like being spanked at all and never have. I was spanked growing up all for discipline and it hurt really bad. So now I don’t want it rather it be sexually or punishment. Now what I do like or don’t mind even enjoy doing is talking about when, how and why I got them. That’s why I enjoy posting on this site even though it may not be completely for it but I feel I can post my past experiences and some people may enjoy reading them.

On all fours,across lap,diaper change position. Guess the answer is a resounding yes. Fretter

LOVE SPANKING. Both receiving and taking. One of my major fantasies is to being caught for shoplifting and made to receive spanking and humiliation to avoid being reported to police. Where I will be made to undress in phases to completely become naked, spanked over the knee, caned in bending position, and even branded on ass 😋

In addition to my 4 posts on this: My spankings can be for punishment or Foreplay! Oh and just because she CAN and WANTS TO!!!

She found that she gets WET & I ( used to 😢) get HARD from spanking me 😃!

After the few REALLY severe spankings she has given me, just thinking about each one, gets me excited and I MUST masturbate!

Yes but it’s only happened to me once. It was an amazing, cathartic experience. Would love to be spanked again.

I’ve spanked and caned a few women so looking back I wish I’d asked them to do it to me. Another regret of youth.

I havent had a good spanking since i was little ... mom used a belt. She also gave me enemas when i didn't feel good that really created my primary fetish. Now I fantasize about seeing someone to get an enema and have them make me take a belt spanking first .... telling me that if i take the spanking good I will really enjoy the enema they are about to give me.... (just got hard writing that)

Hell yes i like being spanked just can;t find a person to do it i am 67 years old my dad spanked me when i was growing up he usually left welts on my ass with his belt and

I do like a good spanking, mostly I like to be disciplined which would involve a spanking whether it be by male or female position and implement would be their choice as would severity depending on the offense also being spanked just because they can would be up to them.

I do love to be spanked but it has to lead to a some type of sex. I don’t like to be spanked just for the sake of spanking and I don’t like spankings hard enough to leave marks for more than a day.

Nothing beats a good otk bare bottom spanking, i never find it sexual in anyway but i enjoy the anticipation of.waiting to go across a lap and being admonished before the first spank hits my unprotected bare bottom and the corner time after i have been spanked to think about why i was spanked and to think about my actions so it would not happen again.

This is one of those questions I wish I could just put someone inside my head to understand, because so few “get it”. Spanking to me is a necessary part of life. It can be erotic to think about, but spanking that is erotic is a turn off. A spanking must be proper, ritualized discipline given by someone in authority. I am straight and married, and my wife is not an authority...therefore she does not spank me. So, because I wouldn’t want to be flirting with women and open that avenue of temptation, I get spanked by men, however I have no attraction to males. Do I like it? Well, yes and no. I crave the discipline, and do relish the thought of being spanked, but usually when it’s going on I’m not enjoying it and wishing it would end. And if you had told me I would spend my adult years being spanked by choice as a child or teen I would have probably not believed you.

I love being spanked, not hard but just enough to get my bum a little red.

My fantasy is to have it as part of an evening of humiliation where I am only naked lady with 3 or 4 clothed men

A friend of mine in Durban South Africa was out drinking on Friday night with her husband and a group of rugby playing friends. They all came back from the evening for a few more beers at their house. All of a sudden her husband bent her over, pulled her dress up and her knickers down, and spanked her in front of the other men and women present. She said it was humiliating having her bare bum and pussy on show to all of their friends and being spanked, but on the other hand she did admit that it made her wet...

Hey jinger. Well said. I feel the exact same way.

I crave to be spanked to crying, be held and comforted. I would be given my "nuk" (a bite guard because I grind and clench my jaw at night. I suck this and fall asleep) after my spanking before being comforted.

Yes I would like to be spanked on my bare bottom. I have never bin spanked since I was 12 my personal fantasy is to be paddled on my bare bottom by a well experienced spanker must be a man

I need a good over the knee, bare rear end spanking several times a year. Everyone needs a good spanking to restart their engine. Nothing severe, but a good 15-20 minute trip over the knee does the trick. The hand works great and. A few implements if my attitude really needs adjusting.

I really enjoy spanking - both giving and receiving. In an earlier post, jinger noted that she preferred it to lead to some sort of sex. I guess that's my preference, too, but have thoroughly enjoyed instances where the spanking did not have a sexual ending. As long as it results in at least one of us (preferably both) having a red, stinging bottom, then the season has been a success.

Thinking about it, I'd love to try some light spanking. Regardless of the gender, I'd love to be place over someone's lap and spanked bare bottom. Nothing too painful but just some light spanking. Just to dip my toes in the water.