Going in dry

If you are going to do anal with a female why not make it the best you can.

First off do some foreplay. Touch, kiss, feel maybe use a toy or fingers or tongue vaginally to make her feel good.

Next give her an enema to clean her out. Go slow and easy. Be with her and talk to her.

Now use some vaseline to help you enter her ass. Let her lube your penis and hopefully she will feel excited knowing she will be feeling that penis enter her ass and feel so, so, sooooooooooo good.

Try it it works.

So not recommended!!! Give it some foreplay first. Lick it, lube it, finger it, an enema, a little toy play. Relax the whole and it will feel so much better for the receiver and the giver. Just remember the anus isn’t self lubricating.

Nope. That doesn't pleasurable for either party. Lots of foreplay lota of lube

After foreplay that starts off elsewhere and migrates back, when it is time and all I can think or say is just “I need your [insert euphemism here, usually “dick“ if I am in THAT mood/mode] in my [insert another euphemism here, usually “ass”] now, damnit!” Then, yes, it is absolutely something I enjoy.

However, without wind-up? Nope, lube is required.

You want butt sex with a woman, get her to cum a few times first. A few orgasms help relax everything back there and makes penetration much easier and more comfortable. Finger her first too.

A good mechanic always uses lube.

A good mechanic always uses lube.

I’ve heard about that silver goo….

I,m a mechanic lots of lube i was disappointed in what you can buY so i created my own its awesome!

Try Virgin Coconut Oil. Natural, non irritating and we like it a lot

There is a new lubricant being trialled. It is called, “Slipitin” ←------ made ya look. Smile

Its a ‘NO’ from me! Lots & lots of lube before anything goes in my back door💦🍑

I’ve always used some form of lube , when going up a woman’s ass. I’ve always preferred Vaseline. I’ve used their vaginal fluid, and even melted butter in one case. Vaseline works best! The idea is to create an incredible experience, without pain.

I make a mineral oil based lube and change the viscosity it has more lube than vasoline and much longer lasting makes your skin soft after using

Not exactly dry, but we’ve gone from vaginal to anal with no lube other than vaginal secretions as our lube. Never had a problem or painful experience.

Hell, lubing her up is a big part of the fun!

Hell, lubing her up is a big part of the fun!

From the position of the lube-ee I can emphatically agree with that. It feels really good

My man used my pussy wetness to put on this cock and enter me with no additional lube. It felt good to him and sort of tolerable for me. I am submissive and into pain too so it worked for us. He also was very dominant and talked dirty like - open your dark anus dear, no lube but some pussy juice, be a good girl and give your ass to me, be an obedient baby and reach back and open your anus real wide to help yourself.. keep giving ass, you can do it, wider, dear I know you can do it.

My vaginal wetness on his cock was not really enough. I felt every inch oh his cock being pushed in and sometimes it was very painful and I did ask for lube but in most cases he denied my request as my dom and would tell me - we don’t want it to be easy for you, do we. Keep giving ass semi dry, dry, dear, your anus is delicious and oh so tender and my cock has to have it in this semi dry state. It is okay to sob a bit, dear, I get it, pain is normal and hard to take. And with that he’d go deeper and faster. Tears were sometimes part of this anal but I am a sub and pain is a turn on.

No lube …never always use a squirt of lube

It’s technically possible and, like with everything else, someone who prefers the “dry” option exists. If the area has already been stimulated, massaged, played with and/or given enemas with a well lubed nozzle and the receiver is aware of what is about to happen and can adequately relax and position themselves this could be much more doable and even fun, especially if they are used to anal training and have thoroughly warmed up. Generally speaking, going in dry is not recommended and can really hurt both parties (or has the potential to do so). The chances of transmission of STIs and a lot of other conditions that are not strictly considered such increases significantly if micro tears happen, too, so I would definitely avoid it in a casual encounter or in a non fluid sharing relationship (or even when in doubt).

I have enjoyed quite a variety of backdoor activities, including being fisted by my late fiancé, and there was just no way to do most of them without lots of lube.

I’d say that getting my partner to lube me up is a very arousing part of anal play and can make something that is already glorious even better. But that is just me.

I’d say that, like with most things, communication goes a long way and if one is not capable, comfortable or willing to have the “lube or no lube“ conversation, they have probably no business doing whatever else they were planning on doing.

I have experience with anal sex. Dry is an interesting feeling but I prefer using lube

My wife didn’t mind switching to anal after vaginal sex. Her secretions were adequate lube. So not really dry.

No no, allways some kind of lube first.

A gorgeous & experienced lady years ago taught me that when it comes to most kinds of anal fun you can never have too much lube. Whether it was me taking a strapon or plug or giving her an anal fuck she always wanted lots of greasy lube, not one of the water based ones that tend to dry out after a while. Although I would love to have felt my semen ejaculating deep in her rectum she always insisted on a condom which she said ‘made things go more smoothly’ Each to their own but I wouldn't want to try unlubricated anal - if some nice woman is kind enough to let me fuck her anally I would always want to make is as comfortable for her as I could, besides there is something very exciting about watching your cock shiny with lube & a little rectal mucus sliding in & out…

I always use lube for anal sex.

However…. I dated a girl back in my 20s who enjoyed anal with very minimal lube. She was into pain a bit and she called it “A happy sting”. So yeah, some folks out there are ok with it.

The few times I've had M2M anal sex, my partner first loads a lube plunger with astroglide, slides it into my bottom, and shoots the lube into my rectum. He then applies a generous amount of astroglide onto my anus while I do the same to his penis. Then it's onto my back, knees bent, legs spread and as he lowers himself on to my body he tickles my anus with his glans and tells me to relax. Before I know it he's in, and as I grab his buttocks, I'm able to pull him in as far as I can for deepest penetration as possible. Can't imagine doing this “dry”!

I use lube when i play with my thick toys or long for depth play, but when it's just my pool balls or 2¾ steel plug, then it's just some spit.

I guess the guy that fucked me once used his spit IDK.

But I'm a 3.3 inch diameter anal girl.

I have tried to stick a finger in without lube or spit and have not enjoyed it. But I suppose some people might like the sensation…

Years ago me and gf were having hard, HOT sex doggie style. At some point me cock slipped out and went up her butt without me realizing it. We just kept going at it till I cummed, she never said anything about it. Didn't realize it until I pulled out, so she must of been enjoying it at the time. 😜😉

@mike45, That's a fantastic accident to have!

My 2¢ … don't even think about it!

Deb