Going in dry

Actually winced a little Inas when read that glad that experience didn't turn you off anal for life.

Had he been larger could have been a nasty injury :s

Actually winced a little Inas when read that glad that experience didn't turn you off anal for life.

Had he been larger could have been a nasty injury :s

Well I think it was a nasty injury anyway if he made you bleed. I think he was just bothered about enjoying himself and he did not care if he was hurting you. I hope you got rid of him quick after it happened. My husband made my first anal sex wonderful and I can not imagine him ever being as selfish as that man was.

That's a great way to get an anal tear. How insensitive and selfish.

No. Going in dry is a straight way to anal trauma.

Btw, if any man wants to feel like woman during anal sex in dry, he should fuck the wipe of vacuum cleaner. Dry, of course.

Inas: My lack of experience during my first attempts at anal sex were more cause for me to overdo lubrication and preparation than the converse... What a silly man!

When I was a young wife, 18 years ago, I would've passed out just from the suggestion of it. Now? No. In some situations I demand it. But that's if I'm in that head space where I need it to be painful. Just depends. Doesn't seem to bother the husband. He knows I'm a little off...

I cannot even imagine it. When I was bi I tried it twice. His dick was so coated with KY the second time it was dripping. Both times it hurt so bad I cried.

Tabitha32: Not only does it take lubrication, it takes also a lot of relaxation...

No. 'Nuff said.

I think Natalie said it best: Dry anal sex can only lead to anal trauma. Use copious amounts of lube.

Lube... lube... lube. However much you thought was enough, use twice as much. Anal was made for slick pleasure, not dry pain. Saliva, a variety of fun oils and lotions and the wide variety of "personal" lubricant products are there for a reason. Enjoy rather than enduring. The answer to the question is clear... "yes, it is theoretically possible, but why?"

Play nice! W

Saliva can be an effective pussy lube if you need it.

Saliva is NOT a good anal lube.

One woman I used to have regular anal intercouse with released a lot of pussy juice during foreplay. Plus I always rimmed her beforehand for a long time. So by the time we got to the assfucking, there was so much natural wetness around her anus that we never once used artificial lube. The juice and saliva were more than sufficient. This was only true of this one girlfriend. With the others we always used either KY or Vaseline.

I just have to say , by my own experience , that if my enemas and anal training are regular the less lube I need.

I only like it lubed, otherwise it's just uncomfortable.

I would never try anal sex with a woman without lots of lube. Or a guy for that matter, it's supposed to be enjoyable and comfortable. Wouldn't want to inflict pain on anybody or myself. Although I've never given anal to a guy yet.

No way. ?

I've once done it with a butt plug and it was not enjoyable

I prefer to be lubricated. It is more comfortable, and when not lubed it is more difficult to get the thing in. I once had a prostate exam in England and the doc put just a wee dab of lube on her finger - I could feel every molecule of latex as her finger entered!! Ouch!!! For long-time partners I understand crisco is great for whichever lipid-friendly object is inserted. One of my wife's ob/gyn docs said she and her husband preferred crisco as well. The fact that regular sexual intercourse in heterosexuals is accompanied by various amounts of natural vaginal lubricant ought to be a lesson about going into the anus "dry" or not. You don't really want to hurt anybody, and going in dry puts both parties at risk for a bad time. For males especially, a scab on the "instrument of nature" doesn't really work well!!

No man (or woman if she is going to have anal sex with a girlfriend or boyfriend/husband) should EVER hurt his woman by opening her anus dry. Its unthinkable!!!!

It's a tiny hole and you have a big dick, so be kind, gentle, considerate and use a LOT of lube and she might just love you forever.

@Inas2016 --your writing about that experience with that old guy made me hurt just thinking about it. What a terrible first experience.

No way it hurts me just thinking about it.

Very bad idea.... could cause lasting damage to rectal tissues.

Never ever ...

Why in the world would you want to tear up the playground? Part of the fun is getting that puckered rosebud opened up and all slippery. My experience says that as you lube her and prep her with fingers, whatever comes next is that much more fun. The women are all thankful that you take that time for her.

Getting a big stiff member inside a dry pretty pink bung hole would be similar to attempting to operate your car's engine without oil. I'd say you have a better chance of seeing Moses! You can't play a good round of "Stump Poker" without a hand full of bearing grease or Vaseline either! No oil=engine damage! No anal lube=better head to drug store or Walmart! No, not to find a person that's looking for that type of punishment! For lubrication items!

@inas, I hope you don't see that guy anymore as his callousness and lack of concern for your health and well being tells me he isn't right. I took my time and warmed my girlfriend up to anal slowly over months as she had never done anything anal. It is both preparing physically and mentally, to wake the person up to anal and to make it enjoyable. Some people have the trouble of separating fantasy from reality as it might be cool reading someone doing it but much different in the reality of it. Many elements much fall into place to make things work and it is not a contest of how fast you do it either. Taking the time with someone, building that trust, working to make it enjoyable for both should be foremost.

I would think he raped her when she said stop and he didn't

That is my observation and opinion

I'm sure if you polled the men here, you'd find they had several experiences as the SECOND man to try anal with the women they meet. I cannot tell you what a waste and how screwed up these women's mind are from these A-hole men that ruin these willing and compliant women that have had this otherwise enjoyable experience turned into a fearful experience.

I've heard the stories of women that like this kind of play....but never actually met one myself. In overcoming this fear and the pain, it takes perseverance and a willingness to go slow. Are we willing to cultivate this acceptance from the woman we want? If you are, then you might find a very eager woman to offer you this prize.

Duh. Can't think of anything worse, or dumber. Would you use your hand, dry?

More duh. Can't imagine the crassness of it.