Going in dry

Any of you girls like this? Is it even possible to get it in?

I can only speak for myself here, but here are my thoughts.

I LOVE anal sex, and I do mean love it. However going in dry I would think for anyone would hurt like an SOB and could quite possibly do some real damage.

I also think it is possible to get in without using any lube, but again, that would be very painful, maybe even for both parties involved, and again might possibly cause physical damage if not mental damage.

As a nurse, I wouldn't recommend that. Just sayin.

Mashie

Not having some kind of lube is means anal sex is not going to happen for me. There has to be some kind of "slippery" to get that cock in. It would be too painful to ever think of doing it again. All of the pain wouldn't happen just during the sexual experience. There would be reminders for sometime after each time I went to the bathroom.

Not saying there are those out there who do like or enjoy unlubricated anal sex.. All the better for them so they can get their kink on. Will be interesting to see others responses to this.

I am sure I would not enjoy anal sex dry at all. I think it would just hurt and make the anus sore after, and I bet it would cause injury. It is not for me thank you.

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I don't recommend going in dry without lube. You can probably get it in, but it does not feel very good for her later.

Going in dry is so good as hard slamming your head against a concrete wall, so good when you stop !

Going in dry is so good as hard slamming your head against a concrete wall, so good when you stop !

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Mashie

Thanks for the replies ladies, you see I have received a request to go in completely dry and force it in. But I have my concerns that it will lead to permanent damage, and I wouldn't wish that upon her. And frankly it sounds like an impossible task to actually get it in, in the first place. So this only confirms my suspicion, maybe use just a little bit of lubricant if she wants a lot of resistance.

But if there is a lot of resistance, doesn't that make the risk of injury even higher?

All the responses seem to interpret the question as applicable to anal sex. However, the OP's user name is RTdude; that tells me he may be asking about the use of a rectal thermometer without lube. The answers may be the same, but I wanted to point out that there could be a different way to read the question.

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All the responses seem to interpret the question

I see your point, but I still think the ladies have interpreted the question correctly. He asked

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Any of you girls like this? Is it even possible to get it in?

... and he did post it on the 'Anal Sex' board, so I think it was reasonable that everyone understood it to actually be an anal sex question. If he had posted on the Rectal Temperatures' board, I'm sure it would have been a different matter.

I wouldn't even try this. No interest at all and that is the opposite of the point. The more you lube the rectum the better it is, even just from the standpoint of foreplay.

Hmm, I think I will have to decline this request. Seems unanimous from these replies that it's a very bad idea.

RT, please explain that to her in a way that comes across to her that you are declining her request because you care about her and you are afraid of hurting her, or even damaging her.

Women are tricky, and if it's something she wants she may say things to you to try and change your mind. She may tell you to spit on it and that will be enough, or she can. She may tell you that your precum is enough, or other such things. Trust me when I tell you, not enough unless she frequently enjoys baseball bats or giant over sized zucchini back there and even then I wouldn't try it.

So, seeing as how women are tricky and we can be manipulative when it comes to getting what we want, and I can say that because I am a woman, stand your ground and tell her it just isn't in either of your best interests.

Mashie

Mashie

After reading this I will not comply with the request, I don't wish to harm anyone. But I will make sure to make her understand why this would/could cause exactly that, harm. I'm pretty sure she doesn't want a ruined sphincter.

My experience is that it is possible to get the glans in by using only "natural" lubrication, as in the penis has been lubricated by rubbing on a very wet vulva and/or fellatio. But that does not count as "dry", and this does not include intercourse - just getting in.

Anything beyond that will probably be unpleasant for the both of you.

As a man who's both performed anal intercourse with women and as a man who happens to enjoy "probing around" down there myself, I can positively attest that without tons of lube, it ain't no fun and potentially injurious to delicate tissues. It's not about friction or rubbing down there, it's more about frictionless sliding around.

RT dude, maybe you could try it but use a little bit of lube to make it a slight bit slick. But then it wouldn't be slip and slide slick. Is that making sense? Then it would feel "dry" but yet you'd not do physical damage to your partner. Just an idea. You can always add more lube as you feel it is needed.

The anus is simply not designed for penetration as it produces no natural lubricant of its own. Nothing good can come of this lube-free adventure. Pain is the least of your partner's worries; hemmirhoids, bowel perforation, etc. the list goes on and on.

This is not something worth trying.

Possible yes...it is ok. But, it is almost like when you half ass (no pun intended) anything else...it's just not as good if you don't add a bit of lube. =p

Neither my husband nor myself are interested in going in dry into either of us. It would be difficult at best even with a solid metal bar.

Lots of lube rules!

If she insists maybe try a finger or two first. Less risk while gently re-calibrating her imagination more in line with reality...

Did this once and it was too painful and not enjoyable at all!

My girlfriend's vagina gets really wet when she's excited. She enjoys the stimulation of my penis inside her, but she really prefers anal sex. Insists on it, actually.

Since my penis is usually pretty slick from her vaginal juices I have no problem sliding into her bottom without adding any lube. I really appreciate her wanting my penis in her anus, because being inside her vagina is akin to my screwing a glass of water - warm and wet, but next to no friction for me. I have no trouble unloading in her rectum, though.

Never tried it and can't see how either person would like it. I have anally penetrated women without artificial lube, yes, meaning a mixture of saliva and vaginal wetness and that was more than sufficient. Have also used KY and Vaseline. When one particular woman used to fuck me with her strapon, she used KY. Just can't imagine doing it dry.

Why oh why would you want to ? Part of the pleasure of anal is the preperation , a big yummy part actually . To go dry would just be painful for both , I cant see how it could be enjoyable at all. Long , slow lubing , rubbing , massaging, sooo many enjoyable elements .....yum!

The request for dry entry sounds a little masochistic, and i mean that in a good way. She sounds like she is requesting to be treaded rough, she wants to submit, and looks forward to enduring the discomfort in a submissive way. I agree with the general opinions already posted here, that dry ass fucking is not a good idea, and most certainly neither of you would enjoy it. But you could still give her a good time back there, with a similar level of "friendly" rough action.

You could require her to do a few warm water enema rinses in preparation, and simply use plenty of lube on the nozzles.

You could use lube and a butt plug to get her ass relaxed and ready.

Then when it comes to fucking there would be a little bit of lube in place, ready to help ease you in.

Have fun, but be smart and safe.

Never tried it and I wouldn't want to. Anal sex is best when your partner is relaxed and "warmed up" with plenty of foreplay. After that lube aplenty is essential. I want to enjoy it as much as partner and I don't think I would enjoy having hard cock forced in dry if he managed to.

If she wants to try then guess can but I think unless really like pain she will prob halt proceedings.

Anyone suggesting "going in dry" ought to have their head examined. This is the sort of thing that occurred in Nazi death camps with all kinds of objects.

Yes it is possible but very traumatic. My first experience taking anal sex was with an older man who I thought did know more than I did but

I was wrong. Plus it was my first time for anal sex. Thankfully he was not large or thick. We did fool around for about an hour before he had me roll over on my belly and bring my knees up. He said using saliva will loosen me and make it slick for his penetration. But let me tell you he was wrong. When he started to push the head in I could tell i was so tiny back there and told him to stop but he didn't listen and continued.

The only saving grace is when i tore a little and the warm blood made it slippery and helped when he kept pushing harder inside. Finally he was inside all the way and it did hurt like a lot. But once he was inside and slowly moved back and forth then a bit later it did feel much better and I did like it. Just in the beginning it hurt like the worst. I am certainly glad he was not larger or thicker.