Going in dry

It is had enough at first when lubricated up to the eyeballs. The alternative makes my eyes water.

GyneDoll: Your description is outstanding. Sorry about the blank posts.

I guess I will jump on the bandwagon and say never try anal unless you use lube.

Anal sex can be very pleasurable if done right. And lube is essential to doing it right.

You don't have to use a huge amount. Put some on your finger or two and lube the anus and penetrate the anus and make sure there is lube all the way into the rectum. Then lube the penis completely from head to base. I use the same amount of lube on myself as I do when masturbating.

Now you are set to enjoy some incredible sex.

Ouch omg hell no that would hurt bad.

Going in dry is a man's way of asserting dominance over the women. It's not sex, it's BDSM. It hurts like hell, and makes even short strokes awful.

If a woman is into being dominated like that, fine...but not my ass.

@Buttwoman This is not BDSM, I have been into BDSM for more than half my life(57) actively and it is where you read it in fiction. Anyone who does it for real and thinks it is right is an idiot! BDSM is not about harming someone!

I play too. Right in BDSM is the word sadism. 99.9 percent of people in the world think sadism involves hurting someone. You and I know different. That is all. Use a different word if you like. Going in dry is...not nice. Going in dry is like discovering the easter bunny is not real. Going in dry is like fingernails on a chalk board. It's just words.

Edit- I agree, in this politically correct world we cannot tolerate a flogging that hurts. Our dom must make imaginary flogging sounds, but never, ever make contact.

Just a little precum on the head and patience; not only doable - it's really hot. Cock. Not toys. Now excuse me while I go play with myself.

My guy has a really tiny penis, but even so, we never did it totally dry. Instead we used my vaginal juices and his pre-cum as lubricants.

Hi dear ones , as I've not done anal sex I have done a lot of anal play of different kinds and I have learned a long time ago that slick is better than dry . The drier you are the more difficult and more resistance you will encounter . Plus you can cause bruising , excessive unnecessary stretching of the skin at the anus opening , swelling , hemoroids , fissures, etc. . The tighter you are the more resistance you will run into also . The idea is for the person who wishes to do anal or even many other sexual activities , you need to protect yourself from injury . We want to enjoy the fun not the pain at least not a lot of pain and we don't want to hurt ourselves do we? So for myself anyway , I like slick and easy and smooth . I guess I'm a little pussy but I'm that way you know and my anus hole always let's me know what it likes and doesn't like . Just my experiences with sex toys and enemas to help caution you and help you have a more enjoyable and safe play time. Luv ya - PleasureGirl .

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That’s a good way to tear the lining of the anus and rectum. Not a good idea. Need at least a little lube.

I couldn’t even imagine it dry, it hurt like hell and he used lots of lube then.

There might be a few, VERY FEW (masochistic) women that might enjoy/want the pain of dry anal, but that is NOT something you just decide to try!! It CAN lead to possibly severe injury, and is NOT a part of regular BDSM - the pain from a spanking is totally different!

That said I have on occasion had anal sex just using spit or precum (I produce a lot), and it worked out fine. Of course I would have stopped and gotten lube had she felt uncomfortable or in pain.

MEN - DONT EVER DO THIS thinking she's your submissive and so has to just 'take it!' It is SOOOO wrong!

I don't think you could get in without lots of pain. I prefer using lots of lube makes for a whole more enjoyable time for me.

When my wife is in the mood her anus naturally gets moist. When the tip of my touches it, it gets wet and opens up and I slide right in!

She's usually having a rectal orgasm within a minute, which makes her even wetter which makes her come more! It's great!

The thing is, she gives me a primer oral session first. She loves my gorgeous cock in her mouth. It makes her vagina and ass wet and she usually does finger massage of her anus while she's blowing me. When she's ready she gets on her knees and I gently and easily slide into her ass. Soon after I'm easily full depth.

All it takes is a little saliva to get started. We sometimes use lube just for a fun enhancement and a different slippery feel.

What I perceive as going into an ass dry is not using any additional lubricant other than saliva or natural wetness in anticipation of the penetration.

Agree?

Examples: My wife loves anal. She never did it until she did it with me. Now she prefers it to vaginal sex. Never needs any supplemental lube, and I'm no pencil dick for sure!

Several other women I've been with in the past also didn't require supplemental lube for anal sex, in fact none of those needed lube. I guess I simply have what it takes to turn them on.

My wife was in her late 20's when we met. She would be on top of me in her vagina and would have to get off of me when she got scared of the intensity of a feeling she never had before. Actual vaginal orgasms. She eventually got used to it and stayed on top and enjoyed !

Anymore, I'm in her vagina or ass and she's coming within a minute and she keeps coming until I come!

Plenty other women I've been with previously: 'How do you make me come so much?'

Guess I like to make it enjoyable for both!!

Not even sure why you’d do that unless you intend to hurt the person. Giving or receiving wouldn’t be any fun..

Always lubricated for anal intercourse though not always with store bought lube. Two women I dated were usually dripping with vagina juices mixed with my saliva after lots of foreplay, so no KY or Vaseline needed for anal sex with them. Though the lubing up process is fun foreplay too.

The only time I penetrated someone dry was with my finger on a girlfriend, who was very anal oriented, liked being punished, and loved embarrassing sexual situations. She was due for a spanking one night but my roommate was home unexpectedly so we couldn’t make noise. Instead I put her over my lap, pulled her panties off and put them in her mouth, spread her cheeks, and slowly pushed my finger in her completely dry anus. It wasn’t easy and she was squirming and trying to tell me to stop. After several slow dry “strokes” of my finger in and out, I stopped before she could get too angry then I started caressing her pussy and one thing led to another and both of us were very happy by the end of the night. Later she said the finger fuck in her asshole hurt but admitted that it was very hot and that she liked it.

Sorry, I am getting to the age where I NEED lubrication for ANY sort of intercourse. Without lubrication it ceases to be an experience I would choose to undertake! It just plain makes sense to make the experience as pleasurable and safe as possible, but I’ve decided I am officially getting old these days!

Going in dry....are you crazy sounds like something the idiot in the white house would say

Carla and I tried this maybe a dozen times 20-25 years ago, about the midpoint of our 40 year anal only courtship and marriage. This was well after she had thoroughly acclimated to anal intercourse. It's something totally committed monogamous couples might find safe and pleasurable as an occasional variant. For the past decade, at least, we've gone in the opposite direction -- an eight ounce Passion brand liquid lube enema which Carla expels just before I sodomize her every Sunday afternoon.

My wife always likes to give me oral before intercourse, vaginal or anal. It makes her pussy and ass wet enough that she never needs any lube, including anal

When I play alone I never allow myself to use lube. I get a toy lined up and pressed against my anus and as my pussy juices drip down and coat the toy and I focus on deep relaxing breaths it will eventually start to slip deeper into my body.

Giving or receiving, a little lube enhances the pleasure. Too much decreases it.

I would expect the answer to be, No lube? No thanks!

In another topic, the title escapes me, it is suggested a woman should spread her legs so her man can have his fuck. Whether she is interested or not. I would guess things would start out dry, uncomfortable, and discomfort for her. Only enhancing the lack of interest in sex I would say.

Eventually the pussy might start to produce lubricant, but the pain and damage, mental and physical, has already happened.

Best to use lube or do better foreplay to get some natural lube. Then one might get some sex more often…possibly. No promises.

Unless pain and dominance is what one is going for.

You wouldn't drive a new car without any oil. Then again, cars now a days are a pain in the ass as well. It is good to think about having a friend, and going for a ride. Mmmm.

My male motto:

... never dry

... much lubricant is a guarantee of unadulterated pleasure for both.

I’ve done it with a Trojan and no additional lubricant. (He may also have spit? I am not sure.). I suppose that’s not technically dry because the condom is “lubricated,” but. It’s pretty dry.

I love sparsely lubed anal. Unfortunately it’s not compatible with condoms and lots of toys, but, I’ve found a tiny bit of Vaseline to be a great choice because it greases things enough that I don’t tear or bleed, but there is no slippery splooshiness like there would be if you gobbed on tons of ordinary liquid or gel lubricants like most people do. Again it certainly is not fully “dry,” but it can feel like it!

My two cents is approach sparsely-lubed anal ridiculously slowly, and understand that you’re probably not going to be able to just pound away as normal, even once you manage to work it in. But if intensity is what you’re looking for, you can find it doing this!

Not advisable, had a very bad experience my first time because of that!