Men using vibrator on women

Oh yes! My lover goes crazy if I touch her love button with a vibrator and place a finger in the right place. She is not really into water sports but this makes her orgasm so hard she squirts and pees. We both enjoy her going over the edge 😃 .

I have always enjoyed using toys on my female partners, it is much more fun that way. Going shopping for toys with my past girlfriends was also fun, then the rush home to try them out.

I love using them on my wife. No problem with it here. She has several of the small ones. She always brings them on vacation and short trips so we can play and will use them during the drive on herself.

We have a large selection of sex toys and than we have the exam room that is well stocked with med fet toys as well. We go in cycles. Sometimes we will play with toys every time we have sex for a while and then the thrill wears off and we will try something else. More to answer the question, I have no issues with using a toy or a vibrator on her. She enjoys it, I enjoy it, whats not to like.

Sexual-Love is like meal, you like to change of menu, you don't need every day a Five Stars menu, you don't want every day the same, there are menus for winter, spring, autunm, winter and fast food is so good some times.

But each time you need veggies, meat and fruit. You can drink water or wine, having a pousse-cafe or not, sometimes been a little bit dizzy for the lady is enjoyable for both (when the man is dizzy don't hope a strong erection) changing and evoluting are two musts.

My first wife and I used a number of different toys from back in the days when it was difficult to find them and they were crude at best. Started with old huge vibrator clamped on the back of the hand with springs (I think) and the hard vibrators that looked like flashlights. When I found the magic wand Mr Hitachi become somewhat of a god in our house.

Time and life moved on and I lost her several years ago. Eventually I connected with a younger woman (to me) who although a widow was relatively naive (that old catholic guilt trip). I eventually introduced her to the Magic Wand. After I finally convinced her that I was not going to try to push it up in her, she let me try it on her clit. It didn't take very long to turn her into a real screamer. She was an enthusiastic user almost to the end.

Being type 2 and well past my prime I need all the help I can get. Getting my partner off, is always my goal. The better job I can do the more I get to play.

Many years ago I persuaded my wife to try a vibrator although initially she was reluctant. She didn't want to accompany me to buy it so I went alone. That night she tried it but didn't enjoy the rigid plastic. We left it for a few days and then, after consuming a bottle of wine, she was enticed into the bedroom and she tried it again, this time enjoying the sensation and "came". The following night we experimented again, this time with me handling the device, and she told me she preferred me "vibrating" her clit, allowing her to completely relax. That's the way it continued.

My wife let me use a vibrator vaginally on her several times, but I am not sure just how much she enjoyed it. I KNOW she really got off on it anally. I would use a vibrator or a vibrating butt plug while she masturbated. Very intense. We usually followed it up with some great sex! Per your question - didn't make me feel inadequate at all. Enjoyed seeing my wife getting intense pleasure.

I like to play with a vibrator on my wife and she likes me to do it. I would like to have my wife sit on my lap facing forward my cock in her ass and then one hand playing with her boobs and the other using a vibrator on her pussy. This hasn't happened yet but hopeful one of these days.

I like vibrators used on me as well! @BKuggs uses them on me and I love it! It doesn't substitute for him, but it sure adds to the fun!

My gf loves it when I get the toys out and play with her. No, it doesn't make me feel like I can't satisfy her

I want the lady to get off any way they can. I want them to have the best experience that they've ever had. You need to pay attention to their body language and ask frequently how it is working. You might need to move it up or down, lighter or harder, right or left. It ll depends on the mood and the clit. Many guys will pull the macho "I can do that with sex", but I don't know a guy out there that won't go to half mast sooner or later. Being old certainly speeds that process so suck it up and get er done.

My wife has always loved me using toys on her. And i have always enjoyed doing it. Even better is when i go to bed and hear the noise that tells me she couldn't wait and she has started using one already.

A man would happily use a vibrator on his woman if he understood that the goal was mutual satisfaction. I don't know any guy who can compete effectively with a good vibrator in my opinion as a female.

I love using a vibrator or toys on a woman , after all its the end effect thats important....and its all about bringing pleasure between two people

We never owned one. With her strict upbringing I doubt she would ever have allow me to use one on her anyway. While we were married, I did not even know where any adult shops were located to buy toys.

I agree with Moppys. When I am with a woman, I want to give her pleasure. I want to see her moaning, etc. So if a vibrator will help with that or give her more pleasure, I am all for it. I have also found that the more pleasure I give her, the more pleasure I am going to get back. Also if we both enjoy the pleasure we give each other, we will wanting to get together and do it again. We may become enemates.

Both my wife and I LOVE using vibrator(s) on her, it's the only way she can orgasm! As a bonus, she uses them on me to help me orgasm as I masturbate myself! Sometimes we each use a vibrator on ourselves, or on each other, as we watch each other orgasm!

As well as my medical instruments and equipment I always take a vibrator with me to a play exam appointment. A play exam is normally very sexually arousing for the woman and because of that they want the appointment to end with an orgasm or two for them. I nearly always give the first orgasm with my fingers and most women climax very quickly, instantly in some cases. The second orgasm always takes longer but I normally get them there again with my fingers. Some women want a third or more orgasms and at that point I will use the vibrator as it give the extra stimulation they need to reach another climax. I have a rechargeable Swedish vibrator the Lelo Gigi, it is designed to stimulate the clit or G-Spot, it is very effective…

I’d love to experience this.

I'm all about satisfying my partner, so if she wants a vibrator, she gets a vibrator!

Oh wow, this one strikes a cord! My poor wife is unable to cum with my anatomy. I feel horrible for her as I’m sure it has been nothing but frustration for her over the past 30 years. No wonder she dreads the weekend mornings when I come into her bedroom and slip under the covers next to her. She won’t move. So needless to say, on the rare occasion when she does ‘say yes’, she knows a pinch or two of my nipples will finish me quickly. I’m simply conditioned to then reach for the vibrator, place it on her clitoris, allow her to grab it in a huff and reposition it, and then she closes her eyes and imagines she is with her boyfriend instead of me. Does it hurt my pride? Of course, but it’s not the vibrator that does; it’s where she goes in her mind (with him) as I’m laying beside her. After she returns home, I’m not allowed to ask where she has been or about their time together. I dread doing her laundry for fear of what I’ll discover, namely, her underwear and it’s contents. Males, like me, usually come to terms with our shortcomings long before we find someone willing to marry us. So, it’s an acknowledged trade off that we learn to live with.

@rodjerkerr If you can't satisfy her with your anatomy -and using the vibrator makes you feel inadequate - try oral sex on her. It's intimate, it's YOUR tongue - and you're involved in bringing her to orgasm. Even if she uses the vibe on her clit - get down there and help!!

@Rigel, yes, thanks, I love to be on my knees between her legs too. Her scent and taste drive me wild. But, frequently, she will push me away before I even get close. I don’t question anything but I usually know why. I know better than to ask questions for which I already know the answer.

As you might imagine, long ago, I understood that I would need to become effective with my mouth and tongue to make up for other inadequacies.

My goal has always been to please the woman to orgasm, the best I can. Most of the time I can hold on until we both orgasm at the same time. At the times when I can sense that she's not really into the zone, I go to “plan B”. I use the vibrator and it has always managed to get her to “hit the high note”. I feel great knowing that she's satisfied and she will always reciprocate. I should mention that she has used our vibrator on me as well. Sometimes we will share it and mutually masturbate!

I thoroughly enjoy using toys on my wife, and she enjoys it as well. It does not hurt my pride at all because in the end (as many others have stated) it's all about what brings us both the most pleasure. We have a variety of toys (size and use) and some she has penetrated me with. I honestly love using the biggest toy on her (probably twice my size) and seeing how much she enjoys being stretched much further than I can do on my own.

Love this topic. I've got to say, I used to stray away from toys like vibrators because I felt like they took away from that pure, esoteric feeling that comes with physical contact with another during sexual intimacy. I was wrong ✋️🙋‍♀️

In fact, the addition of vibrators and the like, further enhance that erotic intensity. My husband asked me why I seemed to enjoy it more than sex but that's not necessarily what I meant. A vibrator just is a constant and uninterrupted gratification of that particular feeling that I need to get off at times. Nothing, however, can replace our sexual intimacy, whether we're making love or getting downright naughty.

Hope that makes sense. Love having these kinds of conversations and delving into the why behind the what's of our desires and inherent human qualities. 😊

Sharing a vibrator is a lovely thing. A vibe can be enjoyed together, alone, in various places (ahem!) why wouldn't one induldge with a play partner?

I’ve masturbated my wife both with and without a vibrator, both before and after sex. Never made me feel like less of a man. In fact, we’re thinking about getting a Lovense. Toys can be the secret sauce to a healthy relationship.

Never had a problem using toys with women. Anything that increases her pleasure, why wouldn't you? Lovesense is a good buy @Rigel. I can definitely recommend that and I am sure some others on here can too. 😃