Enemas, need or a want?

I feel there IS a difference between a physical need and psychological want. I can be bound up inside and need a laxative, but I prefer an enema for its quick and predictable results -- not thinking about anything else but calming an upset stomach and getting rid of what needs to come out.

On the other hand, there are occasions when my thoughts seem to grab hold of my emotions, and I find myself feeling out of sorts and wanting an enema and some me-time. It can be a oasis in my day that refreshes my mind, as well as settles my insides.

I take enemas because I want them and enjoy them more than I can begin to describe. I always associate them with sexual, sensual gratification, whether self administered or at the hands of an inventive, affectionate female partner. If you are into enemas the way I am, you don't need any excuses such as health reasons! :-)

For me it's a want.

Both, I’ve had constipation issues as far back as I can remember, plus being anal erotic at the same time, which I hid. Meaning, I always liked the enemas I was given for this condition, but always put up a fuss, even getting a spanking a time or two, to hide that I liked receiving them. I sometimes wonder now, if I didn’t hold back as a child, knowing it would cause me to receive an enema.

Then as teens, my brother, sister, and I discovered the sexual pleasure aspects of enemas after school while our parents worked. For example: Once or twice a month, I’d ask my sister to give me an Ivory Soap enema, when we got home from school, to releave my constipation. Even though the enemas in the beginning were purely for health, my sister would always receive several from me, when mine were done, because, she liked enemas as much, if not more, than I did. Therefore, we were both nude when giving or receiving. As we got older, the enemas became more sexual, and the more my sister and I were getting turned on by the start of the first rinse enema. The enemas had become for both of us... for health and sexual pleasure at the sametime. By the started the second rinse enema, there was no health aspect to it, it was purely sexual pleasure for me and my sister knew it. Then, it was her turn to have some sexual releaf.

60 years later the only difference is, the enemas are all solo. I miss my sister and ex wife as givers, times change!!!

For me it's Want pure and simple! I can go without for a few days and then when I wake up in the morning all I can think of is feeling a nice warm enema (usealy ☕) filling me. It just starts the day off right.

I can't remember ever needing one - always a WANT for pleasure of prep for anal play.

I have given them to ladies who get very aroused by just thinking about getting them. They got them as children and were imprinted just like I was. The lady in my story "The Enema Rookie" was like that. She got enemas in childbirth and it was just another medical procedure but get her in a room with a guy holding an enema bag and her mind went crazy. In her case adding a paddle at some point was introduced because her mom paddled her when she wouldn't take her enema and I suspected that it might get her juices flowing.. Boy did it.

I have no medical reason to have regular enemas but sometimes want is so strong it becomes need. I remember a few years ago I was sitting at my desk at work when I began thinking about how my husband was going to be home late tonight and I would have the house to myself for several hours. A perfect time for a leisurely enema, or two, or more. Sitting there anticipating how that was going to go made me wet and a trip to the ladies room to put in a panty liner was required to prevent an embarrassing wet spot from showing through my slacks. We weren't super busy so I told my boss I had a headache and wanted to go home early. Without hesitating, he said, "Go."

Since then there have been numerous times that once I get it in my head that I want an enema, it becomes priority #1 to arrange the time to do it.

I have no medical reason to have regular enemas but sometimes want is so strong it becomes need.

Well said!!

@Cheryl77177, what you described so well is exactly what happened to me today. I was onsite at one of the agencies I freelance for and as my mind wandered momentarily, the thought of how nice a leisurely enema session would be simply swamped my senses. I didn't particularly need an enema, but the thought of enjoying an afternoon of enema bliss simply became so strong that nothing was going to satisfy me but a warm enema.

I headed home around lunchtime and got out my bag and nozzles and got down to business. Now, 3 1/2 hours later I am cleansed and refreshed and feeling better than I have in days! Sometimes, those wants turn out to be just what you needed!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

This day and time its definitely a want with all the research and what we have discovered

I would think the vast majority of people on this site just want an enema. I don't believe there are a lot of medical reasons for an enema and the likelihood of people requiring enemas would be a very low percentage. I may be wrong, but I think most of us on the site are here because we enjoy an enema for our own pleasure. Personally, I just want to take enemas. It may become a need if I really, desperately, want one, but it isn't necessary and I will survive without it.

No I don't need enemas for a medical reason. Yes I need and want enemas for the relaxing effects and the cleansing of my bum hole for anal play. Enemas are a must anal hygiene.

I just discovered enemas a few months ago. I feel like it's a whole new world. I don't "need" them, but gosh, I want them! I feel so naughty! So glad I discovered this site and that I am not alone.

Marsha

What you "need" marsha, is a good hot spanking before your enema, Naughty Girl!

My sub has it for both, a need and a want. If I take too long between enemas he gets cranky and sometimes backed up. He doesn't say anything until he's being/been filled. Then I know it is a good feeling to be filled.

It isn't always about the sexual satisfaction of the enema combined with an orgasm. The feeling of being filled and cleaned out can relax and comfort him.

Years ago as a young child, enemas were a need for me, or at least that's what my folks thought. Today, enemas are strictly a "want" about 99.9% of the time. As it turned out, my folks unknowingly or unwittingly introduced me to a life-long pleasure of enema enjoyment.

Hi Everyone, for me it is both a need and a want--more often times than not though, it is almost always a want and as others have said here, the want actually becomes a need .....Today is July, 11th ,2018 and this morning I am off from work all day long and I want a series of erotic enemas, however my want turned out to be a need, as I tried having a BM on my own and , I am more than a bit bound up, so my want is now more of a need and to be honest, I am looking forward to the enemas I have planned for myself.....I have my IV pole out , along with my Higginson pump syringe, my 28 French colon tube and an array of barium , fluted end , enema nozzles.....I will be taking no less than 4 enemas this morning and plan on a total and complete clean out .... I am feeling more than just a bit aroused as well as I sit and type this, totally nude, looking out my bedroom window, I am also feeling a bit exhibitionistic and am thinking I need to take these enemas so that anyone just driving by-- might just get a glimpse of the hose and nozzle hanging out of my fanny....This has its own " turn-on " factor in and of itself....I love showing off my bare bottom doing my favorite thing, which is of course the erotic enema play .....So my first enema of the morning this morning will be one of me kneeling in a chair placed near my front bay window, on a bath towel, my totally naked bottom facing outwards so that if someone looked hard enough, they could easily see me getting the filling I am craving and needing ......I might even decide to venture out on my deck towards the rear of house, after I have a few quarts in me , with the hose and nozzle left in place, and take in a bit of sun, all natural while the enema solution works around deep inside of my body.....Feeling this erotic and wanting only to feel the deep intensity that a good filling , hot solution enema can bring .....This mornings enemas will be solo, sadly, but maybe someone will show up unexpectedly and catch me like this ( I can only hope !! ) .....So those are my thoughts on this , and I am now more than eager to begin my long morning enema session ....My nipples are totally erect, along with my clit, and I am wanting to feel that first initial gush of solution as begins to rocket deeply into me as my fill begins ... Have a good day everyone and enjoy the waters as they flow !!

SOOooo hot, EL Mature woman! I'd love to cruise by & see your upturned bottom, nozzle firmly implanted, with the hose trailing up to a full enema bag. Your post reminded me that I'm WAY over due for a series of GOOD enemas. Between work & cleaning up the yard from the March 2nd 'nor easter, I haven't had 2 minutes to myself. Our area got clobbered in that storm. Thank goodness that project is just about done.

I live on the other side of the state, but it would be worth the drive to catch a glimpse of you getting a large, soapy enema 😁 Hope you feel like a $1,000,000 by the end of the day!

Best,

vapor

Post #151 reminded me of a time a while back when I had the day off but my wife had to work. As soon as I woke up and saw it was raining I decided today was enema day, even though I just had a healthy, natural BM when I got up. Today my want quickly turned to need.

Although I like walking around the house naked during my enema series I would not think of doing it in front of the window where someone might see me. I think the public is a bit more accepting of seeing a naked woman than a naked old man. Just saying.

I don't remember how many enemas I had that day but it was several and I felt refreshed after them. It just reinforced my opinion that you don't have to be constipated to "need" and enjoy a good enema.

Just for fun thats why i use them just for fun just for fun

Big believer here in the need of them for good health. Nothing like an old fashion clean out on a regular basis.

Ivory soapsuds and water until clear about every 6 months. But in between very few weeks a good SSE also.

Hi E-fans/ I've been off-line due to computer issues and I've missed some great enema dialogs. Even though my battle with cancer is on hold while in remission, an enema at least two to three times a week became necessary. Between pain med.s and nutrition drinks poured into a stomach tube, my colon was impacted almost daily. I must tell you how wonderful it was to finally have a normal bm after months of treatment. That being said, I also hate taking laxatives. I made no bones about having my enema equipment hanging out in the open for all of my caretakers to see. How liberating this was! Thanks to my fetish or should I say extreme fondness for enemas, I had a number of good bags and nozzles on hand for the task. Now I'm back to having my enemas for fun as well as maintaining good colon health. Thanks to all on Zity who make this site as good as it is. MRay. p.s I did miss you!

MRay, great to have you back with us. I pray that your cancer never comes back. After my colon cancer, I was told that 5 years was my target to be declared in remission. I've made that, but have to irrigate every 3 days, due to L.A.R.S. (lower anterior resection syndrome).

I was told if I would agree to a colostomy, I could stop the irrigations; I told them I was just fine with my enemas!

God Bless you, sir!

Always needed but sometimes not always wanted by some. Oh well needs to happen regardless. Nothing like a good cleaning out which makes them fell so much better!

I don't know that I need them physically, yet I always feel more energetic and just a general sense of well being after a couple of enemas.

For me they are a great way to unwind, I enjoy my enemas much like a massage.

I think sometimes needed and also wanted to just give them for a good cleaning out. However way there were always given regardless of the need. It something that had to be done just bear and grin I guess you would say!

I think sometimes needed and also wanted to just give them for a good cleaning out. However way there were always given regardless of the need. It something that had to be done just bear and grin I guess you would say!

How do you separate the two???

Especially that deep inside the psyche?

Even if you CAN should you?

How do you separate the two???...

Even if you CAN should you?

Trust me, if you ever really need an enema then you will see how it works.

As far as can, can't help you there. I do know that the more I need something done the less I want it in the Zity/Fetish sense.