Enemas, need or a want?

Great topic, Need or Want? I have both needs and wants. With a slight IBS-C, I found a weekly enema was something that eliminated those trips to the doctor for anti-biotic Cipro which was needed to solve IBS infections I had twice a year. Something in my diet was causing it, but no one figured out what it was. My answer was the weekly enema. I also enjoyed mild enemas since youth, and the opportunity to continue my interest satisfies that. Usually just tap water and salt, but about once a month a good Soapsuds enema (SSE) satisfies my body and mind. Mind? Yes there is a connection between my urges and head. It's complicated, but many of you share the same condition. The after feelings are great too.

My answer , like many responses to this thread question , is ' both ' . My home enema journey began because I did have constipation issues as a child which gradually diminished as I grew older however my mother's enemas were still administered as she deemed ' as required ' which was often . In retrospect , I became ' klismo 'at an early age such that today the ' need / want ' for an enema intersect where one may seem the other and vice versa .

I'll keep this one brief. It all started as need very early in life...then I decided that there were moments of pleasure; like the closeness bonding with my very busy Mother trying to keep my sister and me above water. that then, later in life became pleasurably in its own way. --now "want"? Probably.

the boxcar

Not a habit but bcause i suffer constipation real bad i have to have enemas to help me clear out the fecal matter that plugs me often. it sucks but i feel so much better when i get it done .

OK... ???

Glad you feel better after an enema.

I have damage to nerves from being molested as a kid... I have to have them or pooping is near impossible

Health male's posting 107 hit the nail on the head or me and I suspect many others. Our moms or oher care givers during childhood were the deciders as to whether the enema was needed. I doubt that many kids would sat thy wanted the enema. Those who did could always pretend to object.

@Kayleigh said

I have damage to nerves from being molested as a kid... I have to have them or pooping is near impossible

That's unusual. What happened?

Do enemas have any benefits for diabetics?

If so, how does it work?

MissStress said.........It isn't always about the sexual satisfaction of the enema combined with an orgasm. The feeling of being filled and cleaned out can relax and comfort him.

I agree. 99% of my lifetime enemas have been strictly from desire, either for an orgasm aid or just for a good satisfying filling and hold to scratch my lifetime enema itch. Very rarely have I ever really needed one, almost always for a pre-procedure cleanout. As much as I adore orgasms during enemas, sometimes I'll actually get to the end of a large and long-retained enema and wind up not masturbating or at least not orgasming that time. And it's still very pleasant and satisfying just to have had the experience of being filled and a long hold and release. It satisfies some need for the enema even without the sexual release every time. I can always orgasm during my next enema or in between enemas using some non-enema kink stimuli like rubber and sneakers and a plug. Enemas by themselves have always been a very sensuous and satisfying experience for me ever since starting my iwn at age 15. Same goes for colonics which are sometimes even more satisfying than enemas, though I do really enjoy the customized enemas I can do to myself or from a trusted Domme partner in the past. Because it's public, I've never orgasmed during a colonic, but almost always after I get home. Having a strong sneaker fetish, I always wear sneakers to a colonic and they let me wear them during the treatment, so it's a nice little additional erotic incentive to orgasm when I get home. Even if I don't on a particular colonic, it's a satisfying experience.

Eric

@HorPeg said

Do enemas have any benefits for diabetics?

If so, how does it work?

NO

Its not what you put up your ass, it's what you put down your throat that counts in diabetes.

For me it is a need and I also want them I have chronic constipation and I take enemas daily sometimes twice a day those are the want enemas

I suffer from lifelong constipation. I love my enemas but I couldn't function without them.

MissStress said.........It isn't always about the sexual satisfaction of the enema combined with an orgasm. The feeling of being filled and cleaned out can relax and comfort him.

I agree as it applies to me. Some days that clean, calm feeling I get is just what I need with or without any other activities. I don't require enemas for health conditions but some days my "want" becomes "need", if you know what I mean.

Both. I love the euphoric feeling of the water hitting my prostate and also the relief of when I’m constipated. Wonderful feeling in both scenarios

For me it is a need sometimes and a want at others, sometimes I use enemas for the colon cleansing benefits, other times I just want to nice relaxing hours spent having an enema.

@Lostleaf You and I are in the same boat, sister.

HUGS and Play smartly and safely,

Megan

I neeed and want a enema all of the time.. its a primal thing for me, and im glad my mom got me started. now that im older, its just goyyen better

If you want to feel better, and you need an enema to do that, is that a need or a want?

Very well said LisaK :-) I ALWAYS want one

It’s always a ‘WANT’ for me. Participating in the Chat here gets my desire going. By the time the crowd leaves the room, there is nothing I can do to suppress the desire to fill my enema bag and enjoy a good SSE. I don’t need it but I sure want it, very much.

I think that mine is all want. Even now I still want to be filled, made to undress, kneel knaked head down and wait. Not sure I will ever get over that desire. At the same would love to be the one saying get undress and kneel and to a female.

Because I eat a relatively healthy diet, and start every morning with roughly an 8 oz glass of prune juice, I never have a "need" for an enema. But do I want an enema? You bet!

If a want becomes strong enough does it become a need?

I have a spinal cord injury so probably 6 times out of 10 it’s a functional need. There are definitely times though, when I don’t really need one, but I enjoy the self care that comes with it, or I want to feel cleaner or lighter. When I first started, i didn’t at all care for them so it was always when I had a need, a big need, but as I learned to make the process easier and better, and it felt better, I started opting in when the need wasn’t as urgent. That certainly does blur the line between need and want!

I want a session every now and then. A few years ago I used to be able to self administer, and had a routine of once a week I would take care of myself. Like many others here in zity, my wife definitely will not assist me, so, when I was able to do so while she was not home, I did. However, about three years ago something changed an my B.M.s were getting harder and more difficult to deliver. I brought it up to my GP (who I see every 3 months anyway for medication prescription) and he chose to put me on Poly Ethylene Glycol daily. While this stuff is advertised as a laxative, in my case it mere restored the softness, didn't do much for the regularity aspect (which I didn't actually have a problem with anyway.) Also, my MS has eliminated my ability to self administer. I do miss the feeling of wellness that seems to come after a good session of enemas. So definitely, I want them, because of the improvement in how well I feel after..

Cos

I sure I've posted on this before, but it occurred to me that mostly a want, I always seem to feel better after a couple of good enemas. Maybe there was a need , just not a urgent need.

To this day never ceases to amaze me how such a simple thing can be so nice. I'm a coca cola guy. An enema is like an ice cold coke on a warm summer day.

Only thing better would be to have a gal administer that had no problem knowing I would enjoy the experience 😃

For me it is a life requirement. I can not even imagine life without every day enema. I think I would burst without it. I know if I'm just a few hours late, then start my problems. Oriental philosophers have applied it since ancient times. Today it is a popular way of detoxifying the body.

I do not "need" an enema. I WANT an enema. Just the thought of being made to strip to nothing and laying on my tummy on the bed waiting for her to enter the room holding a full enema bag KNOWING that all that warm soapy water is going to be flowing deep into me drives me crazy. Usually, she would tell me in the morning that she was going to give me an enema some time during the day starts the anticipation clock. It can be five minutes from the time she tells me or it can be hours later. I GO THROUGH THE DAY...............waiting. Sometimes when I come home from work, the empty enema bag is hanging in the IV stand in the bedroom. Then I will be told to remove my clothes and assume the position. I would lay there naked on my tummy with a couple of pillows under me raising my buttocks making them a target.

She would come into the room with a smirk on her face and remove the open top enema bag from the stand and go into the kitchen. I would hear her move around and open the faucet. When I hear the faucet close, it was a matter of time before she would come in holding the bulging full enema bag in her left hand and the hose and nozzle in her right hand. She would re-hang the bag on the IV stand and prepare me for the soapy enema. Who would NOT WANT THAT?

Definitely in the want to experience catagory