Enemas, need or a want?

The time during Thanksgiving four years ago when I was feeling bloated and so sick that I could hardly get out of bed, I told my husband that I "needed" him to give me an enema. No thought of a want. In that few minutes when he was in the bathroom getting everything together and I could hear him running water into my syringe and sloshing around the bar of soap, I sensed the "want" beginning deep within. First the physical need, then the feeling of want which becomes an emotional need. Oh, the mysteries of our mind!!

There are times, like right now, when I can feel my skin getting clammy, my air holes closing up and my sinuses screaming for relief. Yup, gettin' a cold. I NEED an enema. I find that a series of enemas will start my body on a road to healing. I'm going to ask my dear wife to help me today. I'm sure she will, even though enemas are not something she enjoys herself.

Most times, I'm very healthy and I WANT an enema. I love the closeness and warmth that comes with a warm, sensual enema. When she lubes my bum, the feelings send me through the roof. When the water starts to flow and the pressure builds and her hands are all over me, the feeling is indescribable. Sometimes I wait for her to go out, then I take many enemas in the time I have alone. I like that, too, but it's different. If I have my choice, I always like to have a helper, because I love giving, too. One thing's for sure... if I'm gettin', she's gettin' too!!!

So the answer to the Q is … both! I much prefer to be feeling well so that I can really enjoy the feelings, though.

For me, it a want thing. I enjoy a good enema.

For me there has always been an ' overlap / grey ' area as to need / want . What began in my childhood was a need from my mother's perspective due to my constipation issues . The need for my constipated colon cleansing continued but over time and due to frequency of administrations became a ' want ' experience as well . The scene became very desired with emphasis on the physical , emotional and erotic sensations generated by the well given / received enema .

Definitely a want to experience the pleasure but in the process probably helps keep everything in check! Nothing like the pleasure of warm water gently flowing into the colon!

For me it's both I want and need to keep my bowels in line.especially with my job.

I need an enema regularly because of constipation from childhood, and long ago learned that a dose of laxative makes for an embarrassing lifestyle. But quite early on, I found an emotional need for enemas as well, and I suspect the two are now well and truly linked. The feeling of lightness and peace after a substantial dose of warm soapy water is now a strong emotional need but the simple need to unblock hard poo is still an issue! So is the masturbation that follows (never had much joy trying to masturbate during). Masturbation to follow has been a habit since teen years - the instruction to go and lie down for a while was happily followed! So as others have noted on this interesting thread, our needs and wants do tend to fuse over time....(happily).

For me, the need/want factor falls ,under "I want an enema." I could rationalize it and say that I need an enema because I have fought with bouts of IBSC, but I just enjoy a warm soapy enema to begin the process of cleaning out my bowel so that I can avoid dealing with the constipation.

@h2elady

Big believer here in the need of them for good health. Nothing like an old fashion clean out on a regular basis.

Ivory soapsuds and water until clear about every 6 months. But in between very few weeks a good SSE also.

I couldn’t agree more! I get ivory until clear about every 6 months and a good soap suds enema at frequent intervals in between. I sooo love the extra strong soapy, frothy enemas I get in the series for the total cleanse. I love the final one or two when I expel and the force causes the commode to fill with suds.

How do you separate needs and wants? Especially in times like these?

I suppose that I never really physically NEED an enema. I mean, I don't think that I've ever been constipated. Truth is, unless I'm using a public restroom, I usually sit down to pee, and every-time that I do (which is often as I drink a lot of liquids), I poop some. But since I'm relegated to only having any type of sexual activity with myself (my wife's libido went of permanent vacation post-menopausal), there are times that I need the erotic release that comes with enemas and the "playtime" that comes afterward.

My mom was a very strict about giving them regularly rain or shin.

I was given plain water enemas twice a week (Wed and Sat) starting as far as I can remember from about age 6 and have continued the practice with and occasional Ivory soapy one if I felt the need/want for a more thorough clean out. My mother and grandmother thought enemas were the cure all/prevent all for what ever ails you including correcting an occasional bad attitude!! lol. I have to way the practice seems to have worked as I have hardly ever been sick (perfect attendance in school!!). Now the question was....were enemas needed or wanted? I would say from the age 6 plus one day, I derived pleasure from them although it was not until about the age of puberty that I really began to understand what the pleasurable feeling were all about. My childhood innocence was allowed to remain so until then. So I would say that since I always have enjoyed enemas, I think the answer would be more for pleasure than a need. Denise

In my formative years the category was one of ‘ need ’ as I lived in my early life with some real constipation issues . As the enemas progressed I came to realize another component of the procedure in which I came to accept , embrace and actually desire a cleansing enema as administered in the home . My life journey with respect to the enema from about the age of nine years old became a convergence of ‘ need and want ’ from which I still derive much pleasure today in my later years . I think for many here the ‘ need / want ’ is one of overlap as per the discussion posts by both women and men from the many shared personal histories including present day practices .

For this girl(myself), it is both. I have had a constipation problem, since infancy. So my RL mommy, who I still live with along with my older sister, still use enema's and suppositories on their baby girl (me). When I haven't had a messy diaper within 3-4 days, yes I am still diapered. Then I am given a helper, as they are called in my home. So sometimes it is for need, but sometimes I just become a very fussy baby girl, and get a helper!!

Enemas are pleasurable for @sirensong and I, but I also feel lighter, cleaner, more relaxed, and overall heathier. And my system bounces back vigorously for a few days after I have been given an enema. And, since her surgery a couple of years ago, I think @sirensong experiences the same. So, I'll call it a need…..❤️😈

Rarely if ever is it my idea. Sometimes need a bit of smooth talk and romance to surrender. Often @geminitom he will tell me how much better will feel. But, when he arouses me I am a more willing participant.

Rarely if ever is it my idea. Sometimes need a bit of smooth talk and romance to surrender. Often @geminitom he will tell me how much better will feel. But, when he arouses me I am a more willing participant.

Sounds like my wife and I. Her way to ask for an enema is to complain she feels full 😃

I think mom ,grandma and my aunt had many ideas of why I needed enemas as the baby in the family many ideas and many enemas. So that’s kind of programEd into your thought process and the want becomes conditioning to taking them. I think they had reasons and wants for their enemas as well don’t you you know they enjoyed it to. So I like enemas and don’t need any other reason than that and I will cum during the session I bet they did when they ran solo don’t you think ? Aunt Peggy was a master at volume when the open top bag emptied she would add like a cup or two more at 17 I could take 4 quarts she was 5’2 “ and could take four quarts at 105 pounds. Maybe it was foreplay for when my Uncle got home. If you like it and I do like it seems we all liked it so you do it. Yes it’s want for me

Although I do enjoy them for me enemas are more of a need in order to wear my plugs for extended periods. But on occasion I will get the urge for one even if I don't need it so I guess the answer is need with the occasional want.

The need is applied whenever the horns grow out of control which is at least once a week and because of that, I really want one to take care of that need.

While I get constipated more frequently now that I'm older, most of my enemas are taken just for the fun of it. I find the whole experience a pleasant bit of eroticism.

It is true that the “need” has increased with age. Having more time for personal enjoyment, the “want” is also increasing.

What better way to multi-task than satisfy both aspects? The best improvement may only be a massage and reciprocation from another who also enjoys that simple pleasure and procedure. A few shits and giggles sure provides some unique benefits!

All I know is that I really want them. I dont know why exactly. It's just so immensely satisfying--especially if it is administered by a stern lady.

Always: want. Every one for 54+ years. Very rarely: also medically needed.

You might argue that my enemas the last few years are needed, as at age 69.5+ I’ve developed severe ED from decades of AD meds use, but among 4-5 other ones, enemas were a fetish for me long before then, since age 15. So it might be a stretch.

Eric

I have very rarely needed an enema, in the sense that no other medication would have solved the issue. Perhaps only once: I was under painkillers, reeling from the effects of surgery after a biking accident, and laxatives had had no effect.

There have been a few other times when the enema was probably the fastest way to get me to “go”. I mean, why suffer when there is instant relief available?

While I was constipated not infrequently as a kid, I, thanks goodness, am no longer so as an adult.

In my world want provides the need for me.

I had bouts with pockets in the colon which caused cramping. I was seeing a naprapathy and recommended weekly cleansing enemas of salt and baking soda and an occasional soapsuds enema. I started doting those and since have not had any colon discomfort with the pockets. Colonoscopies showed that I did not have inflamation. Now, I do the cleansing enemas every two weeks. I have had colonic irrigations in the past but have found that 2-3 enemas of 2 qts each work jus as well. I also use metamucil weekly. I have regular normal BM in between. I take the enemas as prevention

For the most part all my enemas in my younger years were sexual. Only in recent years have they become a real need.

Need and want for me

I have the strongest need to feel that wonderful sensation of the warm soapy water slowly flowing into me that fullness feeling I can only feel with an enema ..yes enemas have become a sexul way for me to feel….yes chastitytraininghas definitely increased my needs so much.

I received enemas as a child from my mom I couldn't stand them but ones they stopped at around age 11/12 after a few weeks I started craving them and soon started sneaking them solo .

Once my wife started chastity training and feminizing me Enemas became very Very sexul. I do love the clean empty feeling after yes it is a wonderful feeling