Are you really who you say you are?

Brilliant! You make the point so well. Thank you Mashie.

I still can't fathom this behavior at all because it would be my assumption that people on here would eventually want to meet up with someone of their gender choice who also shares their common kink?

Good points indeed Mashie.

But from where the assumption that people here would want to meet up with anyone else on the forum in real life? I would cringe at the idea alone. I've always essentially seen forums as places to have discussions, swap ideas, present images and stories, pass on links and also to play theater, to assume a character trait(s) that you are not like in real life and then to be able to dispense with all the restraining conventions and expectations of accepted behavior that society expects of people interacting in the social sphere. Here, on a forum, we can play the theater of the mind and be someone different than our daily, boring everyday selves.

Naturally and without a doubt, if people do have the expectation of meeting others in real life, then misrepresenting your gender is a very stupid and bad idea, obviously.

But no offense intended, I would not really wish to meet anyone via the forum. It would only complicate how to live my life. But, and this is an important but, coming here is a good way to be someone different for a while ... or at least a bit different and less guarded about personal thoughts and desires.

I would certainly want to meet up with someone whom I've got to know by exchanges here and on other chat platforms.

I understand this isn't for everyone but even if the intent is not to meet surely you would want to know the person you're interacting with is actually who they say they are. There are those who seem to get their kicks by deliberately lying to others.

but even if the intent is not to meet surely you would want to know the person you're interacting with is actually who they say they are. There are those who seem to get their kicks by deliberately lying to others.

Sure, deliberately lying and leading people on is not the most admirable kind of behavior. And I wouldn't care to interact with anyone doing that on any serious level either. But here, on the forum, everything is posted so that everyone can read it. So that makes it sort of like lying in public, as politicians far too often tend to do. Meaning that sooner or later the more honest version of things does come out. And as with politicians, the exposure of deceit is often gratifying to behold and a pleasure unto itself, it will certainly generate more than a chuckle or two.

As for private chatting, one on one, I have little experience with that regarding medfet and such. And if you're ever planning on meeting someone, misrepresentation is a very very bad idea.

All of this aside, I too have noticed posts on the forum here with obvious misrepresentations of gender. New member introductions is where I see it from time to time. I suppose some new members don't really always have a good handle on etiquette ...

I totally agree it is a huge issue on any public forum the other issue we are more likely to see on a board like this is people claiming to be a medical professional to give them for the lack of a better word a better chance at meeting someone for play or just for chat and that can be a very dangerous thing espically if a so called medical professional gives advice to someone cause they saw on the internet it's a safe thing to do and the person does it cause they think it's safe cause a so called nurse/doctor on here said it is and something bad happens.

Anyone taking medical advice from a site such as Zity Biz, wonderful as it is would be misguided.

Genuine medical issues and symptoms should be referred to medical professionals rather than asking for medical advice on a website such as this.

One must navigate with the certainty that many are misrepresenting themselves. But me? No, I'm me.

I am who I say I am, and keep in mind that there are some transgender types on this board that blur the male/female line a bit. I do agree though, some posts strike me as having been written by men when the profile claims to be female.

I'm male, but have a strong feminine side.

Honesty is always the best policy - otherwise, things always come back to nip you in the a**. That being said - yes, I am all woman (looking down at my bare breasts and bare pussy). Was born a woman, I'm still a woman - and proud to be a woman! I feel no need to be anything but what and who I am - and I appreciate honesty from others.

This is, obviously, one of the problems of internet chat rooms or venues like this one. The one thing I like about this site is the honesty and openness. I am sorry of naïve and have always been the type of guy that simply takes a person words as fact. I am learning to be more alert while on the internet. I just don't want to turn into James Bond and be suspicious. Unfortunately, there are people who enjoy misleading people and outright telling lies on the internet simply because they can.

I'm sure there are a lot of people with fake profiles but I certainly am who I say I am

I guess it's very difficult to know and I suppose it depends on peoples motives' and what they are looking to get from the site. At the end of the day it's got to be a lot easier to be honest and open and I'm sure if people followed that policy then everybody would get a lot more out of the site based on truthful and realistic experiences. I find it a lot easier just being me.

I use a silly nickname, but the rest is very real..

Yes I am and some of my friends on here can vouch for me. If you're on a site such as this and you have a fictitious name, why do you need to lie about your gender or anything else? Just my take on it.

Keep lying. sooner or later it will bite you right in the ass. that is a fact. I'm a man and I'm keeping it that way. hopefully I'll meet someone on this site that will see what kind of person I am.

Yes, I am exactly who I say I am and hide very little because I really have nothing to hide. I have given full account of who I am and have only changed my name to protect the guilty!

All me. Probably shouldn't be so open with my pics but...fuk it. Can't post em on FB and I like em. So y'all fellow freaksters enjoy! I'll keep posting them.

Many of us have done allot of work to find out just who we are.

That said, I'm not sharing my real name and address here or on other social networking sites. The experiences I relate are true, names and certain identifying details have been changed to protect ME and my friends/lovers.

Yep 100% female

I have no gender. But if I must tick a gender box, I tick male. As for what's between my legs, why is it such a massive big deal? Get to know me a bit, and I might just tell you.

Personally, I believe there are only an actual 10-12 biologically born XX chromosome women that have ever participated in all the websites I've ever frequented. The glut of wannabe women on the internet is beyond the pale of reason. I'll talk to anyone, have role-played with "women" I am absolutely sure are really men but why they feel the compulsion to be dishonest is beyond me.

For the record, I am almost exactly who I say I am with the slightly altered bit here or there to obscure my identity and privacy. Some might go so far as to say I've misremembered some details rather than lied. But I'll straight up tell you I never put my real birth date on anything.

but why they feel the compulsion to be dishonest is beyond me.

Maybe it's not so much a compulsion to be dishonest, but perhaps simply a compulsion, much like that felt by transgenders. Taking the step to really and truly physically change your gender is enormous, even going partly the way and just assuming secondary sex characteristics is a huge step as well. Yet given that there are so many around who have taken these steps, probably there are many more who simply yearn for very temporary sex changes, who haven't what it takes to sever ties with a previous gender, who just wish to assume the persona for a while ... with nothing malevolent intended, just as a way of relieving the inner urge.

Perhaps it's a bit sneaky, but I rather think that all of us here are sneaky in a way, hiding very essential parts of ourselves - for good reason mostly.

And I'm also sure that pretending to be of an opposite gender, male pretending to female, is a way to getting lots more response ... that obviously also happens ... but if it does, it's usually easy to spot and if not, well then, there goes a good actor/actress ...

It's a funny name I use. But in reality I'm 100 % anal male and a respectable guy sharing my most inner obsession enema fun. Cars, profession, wealth, helps one. But in realty being open, honest to me is.

Rockdoc is real... as are many of the other very wonderful people I've been lucky enough to meet and count as my friends. And obviously, so am I, though these are just words on a screen- I could be anyone. References available on request though! 😉

Being serious though, it's a big world out there. And some people aren't what or who they say they are, whether you meet them online or in person.. As I say to people who ask- never invest or give more of yourself than you can afford to lose until you are sure they are the sort you can trust. And, similarly to my experience of the RL kink scene, anyone on here who is genuine will not mind taking things slowly/talking on skype/providing references if the friendship should progress to meeting. Be very wary of anyone who won't- I may just have a nasty, suspicious mind, but this is potentially my safety on the line here. Why on earth would I take a risk, or, for that matter, ask or expect anyone else to?

Rockdoc is real...

I'll second that, having seen him head and shoulders on cam, he truly is real lol

I have met with caz on more than one occasion and I have seen every inch of her.

She is definitely who she says she is and she is a first class patient.

She can also conduct a realistic thorough examination.

I have caz's permission to post.

I'd love to meet like minded people here in NJ so we could vouch for each other. Maybe a medfet munch?

I am what I am dears and if you want to see more, feel free to look me up on Fetlife as ElaineW...

Elaine

I haven't been sure of who I am since 1972, waking up in Letterman Hosp. with no memory of the last 12 daysl