Are you really who you say you are?

It's as I used to say about another site,

(Zity) has many women members. Some even have vaginas.

I thought the whole purpose of this site was to be honest about you and your fetishes without actually knowing anyone on here in real life. So yes I am young woman who is proud to have a medical and abdl fetish, well proud anonymously lol.

Yes I am who I say I am

Some of us may be part real and part fantasy. Does it matter? The brain is a very sexy organ.

It's something that you just have to live with in any form of online exchange as you can never really know unless you have met someone or cammed with them.

I am who I say I am but I am very cautious about how much information I give people about my location etc. I never post face pictures due to the website that I run. I don't want any unwanted attention which is something that has happened to me in the past.

I am a female sex toy reviewer and I do enjoy using sex toys and telling everyone all about it. People assume that as I make a living out of shoving things in my pussy and shouting about it that I am easy which is far from the truth.

Yep, Im Za, but I agree with some of the member, I do not like to expose much myself.....some people here know my face and I have pleaseant vanilla talk with them and sometimes kinky too.....but its me, no fakes, just shy 😃 .

Some of us may be part real and part fantasy. Does it matter? The brain is a very sexy organ.

It matters on Zity.biz because misrepresenting ones sex is forbidden. We don't ask for much information but being truthful about being an actual male or female is one.

Some of us may be part real and part fantasy. Does it matter? The brain is a very sexy organ.

@Susismith Actually IMO I think it does. Protecting your identity by not sharing name/picture/exact location is just basic safety for internet communication. But when actually talking to someone, making up some fantasy traits or experiences or interests is lying to them. Even if you never plan on meeting them the more you talk the more you become friends and the more that these fantasy/lies will hurt them when it’s discovered.

Real people like interacting with other “real” people. At least this is how I approach internet friends.

It's possible that some may create a charade as a woman, however as has been appropriately stated, we are all in here to enjoy our fetishes, share thoughts, ideas, techniques, so I really don't think it matters. Now, that being said, if you get the opportunity for a "play date", yes, it could make a big difference for sure. Butt, chances are an individual under that deception would not meet anyway. Just my thoughts.

I was surprised to see this as I've never come across a post ostensibly written by a female I thought was a male.

The anonymity quotient is so high here, not like we can do some sort of hack magic and show up on each other's door step, I've always assumed people have no need to hide more than we do here (many with obviously made up names) and are gender-wise, at least, honest.

I am definitely a woman and very honest about what I'm willing to share. I do wonder sometimes, about others as well. However, I don't plan to do any live meet ups. If I ever were to get brave enough and then the person turn out not to be what they said, I would be disappointed- to say the least. I do hope that the women and men I talk to, are what they say... but I know this is a kink site and playing out something different, may be part of their kink. As much as I hope to be chatting with what I think I am, I get that there's always the chance...

In this forum, I am always who I say I am in my posts but at the same time, I am also very protective of my privacy.

I am who I say I am. Why would I be someone else on zity, when no one else knows who I am. This is the only place where I can be myself and discuss my kinks honestly. Well I am lucky enough to have two friends that know everything about me. I feel very fortunate to have them for friends.

I am a gentleman as per my profile particulars . My site interests and history have been truthfully stated as per site and my discussions posts . My status is correct as to .... male , straight and widowed . Nothing else left to add . Thank you to all who have accepted my ' friends ' site requests as I have likewise responded to your ' friends ' request as well . I do not think that any of us need to ' pose ' here . I have enjoyed the site and off-site email correspondence with all of you both women and men . Someone has said that ' ' we ' are a very small group of people who follow and practice our mutual interests and ' hobbies ' ' and perhaps that is true . I am pleased to know that I am not alone in what I enjoy and glad that there are others who feel likewise .

I definitely am who I say I am.

It is so liberating to be myself and still talk about things that in the "normal" world would be taboos that I would really find no reason to pretend to be other than myself.

Otherwise I would lose what is probably the best feeling that zity provides me, that is the feeling of not being alone as far as my kinks are concerned.

I'm really Arnold Schwarzenegger.

I'm really Arnold Schwarzenegger.

@Moppys_jalopy I am completely sure you really are Arnold Schwarzenegger, but just to verify, can you please send me a current picture of you and your muscular physique while weight lifting?

BTW, even full beers DO NOT count as verifiable weights.

@Moppys_jalopy I am completely sure you really are Arnold Schwarzenegger, but just to verify, can you please send me a current picture of you and your muscular physique while weight lifting?

BTW, even full beers DO NOT count as verifiable weights.

Sure be happy to. Send me your address and I'll send you an autographed copy. Beers are 12 oz curls. Totally legal.

Yes, I am who I say I am, what would be the point of lying.

Everyone here is here for the same reason, we all have the same sort of interest/ links.

What would be the point of lying, being able to be honest and open about ourselves and our interests and kinks is what makes this such a brilliant site.

As has been echoed before, I am who I say I am

simply because this is one of the places I know I can come in order to be that authentic version of myself. I read and express things here that are far more intimate than I would ever share with the world, or as of now even with a partner. Not being myself here would, for me, defeat the whole point of engaging here.

Just putting everyone on notice - I am NOT Arnold Schwarzenegger!

I am also who I say I am. My avatar is a picture of me and my words are true and real.

I don't recall saying I was anything. I did admit a few times to be circumcised, other than that what's to know?

I really am a fat old man with a little wrinkly one.

Maybe I should add a picture in my avatar.

The OP said: " I see lots of questions from so called females but their questions and how they are worded lead me to believe they are really men."

@TGransGirl said:

Yes, I am who I say I am, what would be the point of lying.

Everyone here is here for the same reason, we all have the same sort of interest/ links.

Most who responded to this thread are like @Transgirl and really are who they say they are (except one yokel who thinks he is Arnold Schwarzenegger 😄 ). But I suspect there are a fair number of Zity members who have a separate agenda and reasons not to be who they claim to be. There have been numerous posts that are outrageously unbelievable - and called out for it. People lie for attention, to exaggerate and other reasons. Maybe their kink is deceiving people, trying to solicit interest in themselves by lying and pretending to be someone else, manipulative. Pretending to be a female to solicit explicit male responses is just one kink - there are others

The OP said: " I see lots of questions from so called females but their questions and how they are worded lead me to believe they are really men."

(except one yokel who thinks he is Arnold Schwarzenegger 😄 ). But I suspect there are a fair number of Zity members who have a separate agenda and reasons not to be who they claim to be.

Well maybe his twin brother.?

I have been wondering the same thing there are some pretty aggressive so called females that I am sure are actualy males.

I have been wondering the same thing there are some pretty aggressive so called females that I am sure are actualy males.

Not all women are non-aggressive... or polite...

If anybody was wondering about me, don’t worry because I am really me ??

Not all women are non-aggressive... or polite...

You must have met my ex-wife!!!!