How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

I'm a straight man. I would enjoy being spanked by another man, and have fantasized about it in the past. I say that I'm straight, but obviously that's complicated. I am only sexually attracted to women, but the idea of men doing certain things to me has always aroused me.

My older brother and I were always close and we did alot of stuff together including hunting--We were both adults and while I was not drunk I had drank before hunting----It seemed to show more as we hunted---With out batting an eye he told me to cut a switch --and he would switch my bare butt damn hard. He was always the leader so with protest I cut a 'good' switch cause it was going to be painful and bared my butt and bent over holding my shins and he switched my bare butt damn hard----I did my best to take it like a man and only suceeded partially as my butt was really hurting---He gave it to me damn hard and I totally deserved it as we both take hunting very seriously. We still hunt together alot and I am the most sober hunter in the USA------When we got older (teens) and dad was gone mom would have him paddle my bare butt for serious disobedience so i t was not a complete shock---

Yes I have been spanked before by other men . Most of them were gay and the others were straight like me. It does not matter who spanks me it is always the same.

All of my clothes are taken away leaving me naked. Over there knee I go for a sound spanking. My last was about two weeks ago. I attended a local party were I gave as much as I got.

Mayyybe. The spanking thing might transcend my general orientation in the right circumstances. When I was younger my fears/fantasies about being spanked weren't limited to female spankers. One thing I have thought about is an ageplay spanking session with both a mommy and daddy. Then again, I've always felt open to the idea of attraction to guys, but haven't ever experienced it enough to want to act on it. In any case I think I'd be more open to being spanked by a man than spanking one.

I have no issues spanking either gender. Or being spanked by either, I do find a Spanking from a male to be more severe with no arousal factor!

Thinking of being spanked by another man more and more! I really need and want spankings, however my wife at this time can not spank me! Even severe spankings from another man restraining me!

First let me say that I would likely not even let a woman spank me, so NO!

First, I have no interest in spanking anyone, male or female.

I would be open to being spanked by a male or female, but I can't risk having any marks on me as it would obviously arouse suspicion from my wife.

I've wondered lately what a spanking would feel like at the hands of a strong willed woman. Not a beating or caning, but a spanking by some lady who wants to make a point....sorta like when a child vs moms will occurs.

No interest in a man being included.

Most of us are blessed to live in a society where we don't have to be involved sexually with anyone unless there is mutual consent. Because of that I have decided that the sexuality of the vast majority of people really isn't a big issue for me. Perhaps we can call a moratorium on enforcement activity by the "straight police" if these or similar views are shared by others here?

Spanking seems as though it could be a grey area too. It is possible he just likes consensual violence and the feeling of power. I don't particularly see why others need to get into debating his sexuality and if he is "straight enough to be straight" or whatever. It doesn't affect me, and if you both are comfortable doing that and being straight then why isn't that fine too?

This topic seems to stir up a lot of passionate opinion... I know it seems strange to some, but to me a spanking is just that: A spanking. Being taken over someone’s knee and having your bottom smacked, feeling some pain, and enjoying the humiliation of it all is what counts. Whether you get this on a bare bottom, over undies or pants, or on a diaper, as long as the spanker is clothed the I just don’t see what the problem might be. I’m happy, in fact, that many seem to enjoy a man/man spanking. The image of woman/woman spanking does not seem to raise quite as much noise - I guess women are more comfortable in their bodies.....

When my boyfriend gets cock I have given him some spankings as he walks by me or something, or during sex.

So what? A backside is a backside. A spanking is a spanking.

I am straight and would love to be spanked by a woman. I also have a fantasy of being spanked by a 50+ year old male authority figure. Nothing more than that though. I am always looking at pictures of women while I masturbate to my fantasies. I am guessing this is not normal for a straight man??? What does this mean?

I am guessing this is not normal for a straight man??? What does this mean?

Normal is as one author stated just a setting on the dryer. If your father spanked you growing up it may be missing the intimacy of that experience (I only was spanked 1-2 times a year growing up and certainly didn't enjoy it but being an intense experience it makes an impression). There may be a bit of bisexuality in you too, this is very normal in fact those of us purely gay like myself or purely straight are likely the more abnormal ones. That is not to say that most do not have a solid preference on way or another. Just sexuality is a spectrum, indeed it seems the largest majority of kids these days choose labels that express that they are open. I have had straight men ask me to suck them off saying they wanted to close their eyes and pretend i was a woman. I am not one to question their sexuality but know that prisons prove many individuals can be flexible depending on their options. Indeed one close friend tells me of his scouting days when most all of his friends were in his words were "butt fucking each other in their tents every night and they all grew up up straight and got married". Some people worry to much about what is normal. I hope you stay safe, have fun and do what you need to to find fulfillment.

Just recently after a play exam which entailed me stripping down to my briefs. I was given an exam which started with me stripping down my briefs. Overall the play exam was at least 30 - 40 minutes in duration. After removing my briefs and taking my rectal temperature it was followed by spanking.

I was ordered off the massage table where the play examination took place. My play doc ordered up from the massage table. He took a seat on the nearby couch. Draped a towel over his knee. I insist on having a drape as everything spanking is exciting. As a result usually get an erection prior to any spanking. I was positioned where I was comfortable before the spanking began. He just wanted spank me with his hands . Since this was his first time spanking me he was I had to tell him to him to do it harder. It was a small 4 foot couch so my feet were hanging over the arms on the other side. As he began spanking me hard I felt my erection getting harder and throbbing. It was long after that I came while he was spanking me over his knee. After that he got tissue and cleaned me up before changing positions.

His next position to spank me in was the diaper position. I was on my back on the massage table as he lifted my legs up. This time he used a small leather paddle on me. It was my first time in that position and felt really exposed . After a series of spanks to each buttock turned the leather paddle on its narrow side. Then ran it down my crack . I was amazed I was getting another erection from this stimulation. My legs were placed back down on the table. I was told to bend my knees and put my hips in a pelvic tilt. He donned a new pair of gloves lubed a finger again. Next he inserted that lubed finger into my ass. Using the other stroked me until I ejaculated for a second time in a few hours.

I feel that I must add that although I want and need my spankings i do prefer women, BUT as have had a few sexual experiences with men......... after my spankings i would worship him and his beautiful HARD penis!

It appears a lot of people tend to confuse homosociality with homosexuality.

"Homosociality, by definition, implies neither heterosexuality nor homosexuality", wikipedia says.

@TightyWhitiesDown said

It appears a lot of people tend to confuse homosociality with homosexuality.

"Homosociality, by definition, implies neither heterosexuality nor homosexuality", wikipedia says.

Do you have a reference for that?

I sincerely doubt people confuse the two, in part because practically no one has even heard of homosociality or heterosociality. My husband has almost exclusively male friends and NO ONE thinks he has a homosexual molecule in his body. Likewise I too, have almost exclusively male friends and no one thinks I am a loose woman looking to screw other men. The fact is, if my husband didn't have me, he would be a leader in the MGTOW movement because men make better friends than most women.

I read that wikipedia article and it figures that Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick whose background is in gender and queer studies (why am I NOT surprised about that?) popularized that kind of bullshit. You can look her up. She appears to have been an "expert" in socioshrinkological bullshit.

Do you have a reference for that?

That I do have.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosociality

https://www.google.com/search?tbm=bks&q=homosociality

https://www.google.com/search?tbm=bks&q=homosocial

The term goes back to the 1920's (first recorded use was in 1920) and, if Google Books search is to be trusted, is used in about 400 books published throughout the time, never mind articles.

An example of use (1931): "All four of these factors serve to make social relations between members of the same sex (homosocial relations) easier than social relations between members of the opposite sex (heterosocial relations)".

A prime example of homosocial relations is when guys take a sixpack of beer and go watch a local soccer tournament. Contrary to the theoretical beliefs expressed in some of the preceding messages, such an outing does not have to be underpinned by a secret desire for anal or oral penetration.

Other than oral penetration by beer, that is.

Do you have a reference for that?

That I do have.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosociality

https://www.google.com/search?tbm=bks&q=homosociality

https://www.google.com/search?tbm=bks&q=homosocial

I was NOT asking about the origination of the terms.

I was asking about a REFERENCE for people CONFUSING homosociality with homosexuality.

Why do people have to make up a term for everything! Does it make them famous??? I love Golden Retrievers and have trained them for field trials and hunt tests, they were some of my best friends. My claim to fame is that I am "caninesocialble"! Maybe I'll publish a book on it. I'm sure Psychology Today could have a good run with this!!! 😄

Why do people have to make up a term for everything! Does it make them famous??? I love Golden Retrievers and have trained them for field trials and hunt tests, they were some of my best friends. My claim to fame is that I am "caninesocialble"! Maybe I'll publish a book on it. I'm sure Psychology Today could have a good run with this!!! 😄

GOOD ONE!

I agree whole-heartedly.

Why do people have to make up a term for everything! Does it make them famous??? I love Golden Retrievers and have trained them for field trials and hunt tests, they were some of my best friends. My claim to fame is that I am "caninesocialble"! Maybe I'll publish a book on it. I'm sure Psychology Today could have a good run with this!!! 😄

Oh man, you've got no idea the mess you'd get yourself into if you made a claim for that title.

Animal behavior and animal rescue have become a major status symbol in the past 10 years. With that has come animal celebrities, their books/tv shows, their trademarked methodologies/programs, and relationships with nonprofit animal shelters which are thinly guised marketing for their for-profit media enterprises.

If you called yourself "canine sociable" and tried to make that a thing, the incumbents would spring into action. There would be snarky articles and youtube videos trying to undermine you. They would write boilerplate position statements that de-legitimized you and they would push them out to every animal related organization seeking endorsement. The people holding the animal savior status would use their leverage to ensure that the dog world took a policy stance against you and that canine-sociable could never become a thing.

It's not unlike organized crime- nobody is allowed to do business without declaring fealty to an organization and paying a street tax.

A Psychology Today article wouldn't be anywhere close to how screwed up it would actually play out.

Oh man, you've got no idea the mess you'd get yourself into if you made a claim for that title.

Animal behavior and animal rescue have become a major status symbol in the past 10 years. With that has come animal celebrities, their books/tv shows, their trademarked methodologies/programs, and relationships with nonprofit animal shelters which are thinly guised marketing for their for-profit media enterprises.

If you called yourself "canine sociable" and tried to make that a thing, the incumbents would spring into action. There would be snarky articles and youtube videos trying to undermine you. They would write boilerplate position statements that de-legitimized you and they would push them out to every animal related organization seeking endorsement. The people holding the animal savior status would use their leverage to ensure that the dog world took a policy stance against you and that canine-sociable could never become a thing.

It's not unlike organized crime- nobody is allowed to do business without declaring fealty to an organization and paying a street tax.

A Psychology Today article wouldn't be anywhere close to how screwed up it would actually play out.

Oh boy, such bullshit. This is extrapolation to the RIDICULOUS.

Just let this one die.

A guy can't even be facetious anymore........

(WRT my earlier post)

Oh boy, such bullshit. This is extrapolation to the RIDICULOUS.

Just let this one die.

I took it to be humorous hyperbole.

I love Golden Retrievers and have trained them for field trials and hunt tests, they were some of my best friends. My claim to fame is that I am "caninesocialble"!

Don't hold too much breath for it. According to the theoretical framework suggested by some of earlier posters, you are caninesexual.

I was not asking about the origination of the terms.

I was asking about a reference for people CONFUSING homosociality with homosexuality.

Not to browse all 200 message again, but a random example:

If you are straight ANY sort of "play" with someone that is the same sex as you would not interest you if it does you are not fully straight. End of story, no more debate on the subject is needed.

Now, that's what I call an axiomatic model.