How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

Men being spanked by other men is hot, lol.

Mashie

@sasknerd52 . . . . . . . who later changed his name and profile to @countryboy28 said

I am always open to spanking or being spanked by a gay or straight man; however, in those types of situations it's more of a fun let's have fun with it type deal. I have also had a few arrangements that were more long term, and that were used to deal with actual discipline and wrong doings.

YOU ARE GAY / HOMOSEXUAL according to your profile.

The thread SPECIFICALLY asks the question to HETEROSEXUAL / STRAIGHT men, which you are not.

Not I had a bad experience with another guy as a kid so no

To stay on topic - no!

There is a separate thread about men getting aroused before, during and after a spanking. https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=70452;last. As @FabSeverus said spanking anyone is close to a sexual act. The OP (from 2009 and who is no longer a member) states a woman sends her straight male husband to him for a spanking, and he leaves with a rock hard dick. Something aroused him! Subtle gay/bi tendencies - or is it just the act of pulling your pants down, being vulnerable and getting spanked??? If you submit to a same sex sexual activity (and I think spanking has a sexual connotation) - you are either bi-sexual or bi-curious and experimenting.

@SwitchableSusie ...

YOU ADDRESSED THE FOLLOWING RESPONSE TO: @sasknerd52 ...

YOU ARE GAY / HOMOSEXUAL according to your profile.

The thread SPECIFICALLY asks the question to HETEROSEXUAL / STRAIGHT men, which you are not.

ACTUALLY, @countryboy28 POSTED THE COMMENT TO WHICH YOU WERE ATTEMPTING TO RESPOND...

I am always open to spanking or being spanked by a gay or straight man; however, in those types of situations it's more of a fun let's have fun with it type deal. I have also had a few arrangements that were more long term, and that were used to deal with actual discipline and wrong doings.

PLEASE TRY TO BE MORE CAREFUL !!

@SwitchableSusie ...

Who is @sasknerd52 ??

No such member ...

Perhaps somebody who bailed on Zity because you (a moderator) inappropriately YELLED (capital letters) your response at him/her?

@BottomFromTheTop said

YOU ADDRESSED THE FOLLOWING RESPONSE TO: @sasknerd52 ...

ACTUALLY, @countryboy28 POSTED THE COMMENT TO WHICH YOU WERE ATTEMPTING TO RESPOND...

Perhaps somebody who bailed on Zity because you (a moderator) inappropriately directed your response to him/her?

Ahem... actually, I have to burst your bubble.

@countryboy28 was formerly known as sasknerd52. Clearly he has changed his display name from what it originally was, as some do. I too read that post, and my memory for names and who posted what is very good.

@DrZ ...

Ah... thanks for confirming that @SwitchableSusie directed her response to a non-existent Zity account.

Members of Zity click on @ user account links.

Ah... thanks for confirming that @SwitchableSusie directed her response to a non-existent Zity account.

Members of Zity click on user acount links.

Er... no. The sasknerd52 display name was changed after @SwitchableSusie made her post. It is the same member account she was addressing, and the sasknerd52 display name was correct for it at that time. No error was made.

It's no one's fault if a member changes their display name, which then has the effect of invalidating any name tags already referenced in posts.

@BottomFromTheTop said

@SwitchableSusie ...

YOU ADDRESSED THE FOLLOWING RESPONSE TO: @sasknerd52 ...ACTUALLY, @countryboy28 POSTED THE COMMENT TO WHICH YOU WERE ATTEMPTING TO RESPOND...PLEASE TRY TO BE MORE CAREFUL !!

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The @sasknerd52 display name was changed after @SwitchableSusie made her post. It is the same member account she was addressing, and the sasknerd52 display name was correct for it at that time. No error was made.

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@BottomFromTheTop -- YOU NEED TO BE MORE KNOWLEDGEABLE BEFORE YOU CRITICIZE PEOPLE

ALSO, It was very sneaky and dishonest for @sasknerd52 to change his screen name to @countryboy28 and to change his profile information after this was brought to his attention.

I will be sure to keep an eye out for any future name changes.

Thanks for that entertainment factor ! Goes to show who should be more careful, especially someone trying so hard to nail a mod! Lmao glad to see karma doing its job !

I have to admit I had a good laugh at all of that.

Mashie

@Mashie. - maybe this thread (or at least part of it) should be moved to the Jokes and Humor section!

@SwitchableSusie ...

@DrZ ...

Seriously?????

Zity allows users to change their Usernames/Displaynames, but doesn't either, 1> update previously posted @'s, or 2> link from the old @'s to the same profiles that previously had different Usernames/Displaynames?

Seriously?????

Even allowing members to change their Usernames/Displaynames on this type of platform/forum/portal is pretty much unthinkable for an IT professional.

Having said that, I apologize for making the understandable assumption that the system works properly, and that @SwitchableSusie clearly _must_ therefore have referenced the Username of another member.

Seriously, @SwitchableSusie, it's presumably not your fault if the system doesn't work properly. Please accept my apology?

However, I am interested as to why you seem to be on a one-moderator over-the-top crusade to compare members' sexual preference identities with their posts in various discussion threads?

Do you really want to tell members that they are never allowed to contribute in a discussion thread if a strict interpretation of the OP/Title indicates that the question was not directed to them, according to their profile? If this is the case, please go back and YELL in BOLD COLORFUL text at EVERYBODY who identifies as female, but has posted in this thread... the OP/Title does not allow for them to participate in this thread.

If it would be helpful, I can even start bringing violations in other threads to your attention... women commenting on OP's/Titles specifically directed to men (and vice versa), straight individuals commenting on OP's/Titles specifically directed to not-straight individuals (and vice versa), etc.

I can bring hundreds of such "violations" to your attention within 24-48 hours! I would start with the fact that you posted a comment in this thread on 03/27/2013, but you identify as a heteroflexible female (according to YOUR profile). You were actually the first self-identified female to post in this thread. Your 03/27/2013 post was NOT made in a moderator capacity. But this thread's OP/Title was not directed to HETEROFLEXIBLE FEMALES like you (according to your profile)... ONLY to STRAIGHT MALES.

I have a Daddy (who is actually 8 months younger than me). He gives me disciplinary spankings that in end have more than a hint of sexuality to them. That said i will ask him for a few swats now and then just because I am extra horny. But both of us agree spanking is meant to be painful and every smack leaves a good hand print. He has tried the good old school strap on my backside but I think there is too much emotional baggage there.

As a straight male, I'm not particularly interested in spanking/being spanked by another male. It reminds me, though, of an old conversation when I asked a lesbian is she would spank a male, and she responded, "Why not? A butt's a butt!" That principle should apply with straight men, but straights don't seem so eager to participate with other males.

Thank you MidSierraGuy for your honest response, I know it has been hotly debated who should be allowed to chime in on this thread but being as it was started by a homosexual and it has never been stated within the subject that both the spanked and spanker are to be straight in this scenario it feels ok to respectfully participate. As a man who has been spanked by those identifying as straight I believe some are truly interested in the act outside the strictest sexual sense. It has been pointed out in prison often sexual intercourse happens not out of innate desire but out of the desire to dominate. For those who are true sadists it may even be that the act of inflicting pain may be a reward that is fulfilling in a way even if actual more traditional sexual activity will not take place due to lack of sexual compatibility due to gender. This is going to be a purely person by person answer because we are all different creations and sexuality can also be very unique. I am a CIS male who is gay (never been with a woman in my life) who likes to be spanked hard like a father might whether or not sexual activity accompanies it. To turn this on it's head I have known of a Lesbian who was very willing to spank any woman or gay male but I did not follow up because that was not something i thought I would be interested in pursuing. I also have talked to guys really into spanking who were drag queens and seriously considered if we were in the same area going for that although in my mind i must admit it would not my first choice. Finally I think of the many Hunky trans males there are out there and say to myself would I be open to it from them. If that handsome "Buck Angel" said he wanted to spank me would it bother me he had a vagina, I am not sure. All I can say for sure is I have been spanked by those identifying as straight and even in here have been told by more than one straight identifying male words to the effect "might be kind of fun".

I am very straight and have searched for a m/m spanking. I do this only because there are so few women willing to give spankings and because there are so few women that have the ability to give a good one. A site called spankthishookups.com is for predominantly m/m Spankers. It's my belief that the majority of men on this site anticipate some time of sexual interaction. I figure that if I am going to present my bared ass to another guy that it, or my balls, will be played with. But it stops there!

@spnkd said

. . . . . I figure that if I am going to present my bared ass to another guy that it, or my balls, will be played with.

That sounds like you're A LITTLE TO THE SIDE of "straight".

Straight guys don't want other guys playing with their balls or ass/anus.

Ask any straight guy here.

Too too true, Suzie. The orientation (or gender) of the person doing the spanking might not matter too much, but managing what could develop post spanking would certainly scare me if my bottom was being scorched by a gay guy. I'd need to be very desperate for a spanking!

I am very straight and have searched for a m/m spanking. I do this only because there are so few women willing to give spankings and because there are so few women that have the ability to give a good one.

Guessing that most dating and/or kink sites have a high male to female ratio. Wouldn't a lot of 'straight' guys become 'bi-curious' or 'bi-sexual' for the same reason - it's easier to find a partner?? There is plenty of hard and soft porn that shows women have the ability to deliver a damn hard spanking.

I did a google search for "spankologist" and the majority of the results were women.

How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

No fucking way.

@Cedar said, 'No fucking way.'

You're too subtle.

Oh HELL NO!!

Straight is an absolute. You are or you aren’t. Fantasies about same sex encounters may or may not cross the line as to being bicurious. Experimenting is definitely bicurious It’s none of my business and I don’t care if you are bi gay or pansexual. The OP asked a specific question. So why worry about a mod and others questioning non straight men responding to a post asking for straight men’s responses? There are a lot of posts asking for women’s responses to topics that slam men who chime in!

I respectfully disagree that being straight is something you are or you aren’t. I feel like it can be somewhat of a spectrum and maybe someone is “straight” but they have curious thoughts sometimes. I wasn’t really even talking about if they should participate in a discussion for straight people or not. I think that’s a little different issue than what I was talking about.

I respectfully disagree that being straight is something you are or you aren’t. I feel like it can be somewhat of a spectrum and maybe someone is “straight” but they have curious thoughts sometimes.

And THATS the definition of bi-curious! I am on the D side of things, but I would never ever EVER entertain spanking a mans butt. It would be an enormous turn off and I have no interest. Sorry, but women only for me!

I'm a straight guy who primarily spanks women, but I've gotten spanked before by men. When I was a kid I got spanked by both parents and never thought of it as remotely sexual .The spankings I like to give and receive tend to be parental-like in nature as well. Over the knee, with the hand, sometimes with quite a bit of roleplaying and scolding. I think it's because when I'm giving my spankings (unless I'm in a relationship) are non-sexual in nature that getting a spanking from a guy the same way is ok with me. When I've had them from women they tend to be more foreplay/erotic or just a little odd/she's not into it, even if I wanted something more real. With a guy, because there isn't attraction there, it can be 100% just a spanking. I don't get hard. He doesn't get hard that I know of. His stays fully clothed. But yet we're both doing something that's hard wired and part of us. Is it sexual? Maybe later when we're alone in our heads. But not at the time.

Of course I'm super choosy. I don't let just anyone spank me. I tend to find people older than me on spanking sites where it's obvious they have as big of an interest in this as I do. The times when it's been a little awkward are when it becomes apparent spanking is just one in a long line of things they're interested in. I have rules. Absolutely no sex and no nudity except what's necessary to spank me. What that usually means is only baring my bottom. You can pull someone's pants down and spank them without ever exposing their genitals in the front. In general this means putting me over their knee and spanking me over jeans as a warm up. Then he tells me to pull my jeans down, so I do to maybe mid-thigh. Then back over his knee for a spanking over my underwear. Finally while still over his knee he pulls down down my underwear far enough in the back to completely expose my butt so he can spank me proper. When done like this he never sees anything other than my butt. I try not to be super particular about it. If he yanks the underwear down to mid thigh, it's usually going to be ok. But I have clear boundaries around parading me around naked vs bare butt. Or standing in front of him with my pants pulled down so he can scold me...big no.

When done right it feels like a very real spanking and I'm able to get into the mindset and it's great. When not done right it feels like an incredibly awkward experience...again rare. The only times for me it's gotten awkward were when it was obvious the guy wanted to see more of me or to have more...but that only really happened once or twice and wasn't that bad. I either quickly corrected it or just pulled up my pants and left. People into spanking generally are pretty nice, respectful people.

Several years ago I met a lesbian who was into spanking....both giving and receiving. We spanked each other on our bare butts numerous times. I don't recall ever seeing any part of her naked other than what I could see from behind, and I'm sure it was the same for her with me. We both wanted very real spankings and because there wasn't any sexual tension, again, it sure felt like one. Did I enjoy seeing her bare butt? Sure. I think she enjoyed seeing mine too. But it wasn't sexual. We both just had the fetish.

Honestly I don't want anyone to be too in their head about a spanking. Should feel real for both of us. If I guy says I have a cute butt or that it's very spankable I take it as a compliment just as someone woman getting a spanking from me would. If he rests his hand on my behind while he scolds...fine, it's part of it. I've only spanked a guy twice though...both times it was a switch situation and kind of taking one for the team. Didn't do a thing for me.

I told someone once that if someone else was to walk in on us (God forbid) during a spanking I'd want it to look exactly like a dad spanking a son back when it was more acceptable. Pants pulled down just far enough to bare his butt. Not abusive. No hands going around to touch his junk. Just a spanking. Anything more than that and I'm not interested.

This is a long post, but wanted to share my thoughts.

Thread Query: Want to spank or be spanked by another man?

Answer: NO, NOPE, NUNCA, NEVER, NEGATIVE, NYET, NADA, NOT GONNA DO IT. I am a straight switch male.

I was twice asked to form a threesome with two other couples for sexual enjoyment, the first very straightforward sex of various kinds, the second in order to give the woman a MedFet exam, give her enemas and eventually fuck her in front of her cuckold husband. The first I really didn't enjoy much at all, as the BF decided what we could do with the woman/GF and it was not much, so I left. But just having him in the room was unpleasant and unsettling to me.

The second one I enjoyed as far as doing a complete physical exam on the wife and giving her an enema and then PIV with her while cuck hubby watched. It was even nicer with her since she consented to buy and wear a pair of new white Keds canvas sneakers during the evening, which is one of my favorite kinks. But then he wanted to get involved with things like sucking me or penetrating me while I did things to his wife, so I thanked them and left. The second, cuck guy, was well-groomed and pretty handsome, and I was definitely horny, but not for another man.

Eric

I have several gay friends that I like a lot, but no way would I allow them to spank or touch me.

I don’t even like a male doctor touching me.