The only good thing about having had a hysterectomy is that I no longer have have to worry about using either.
I only use tampons.If he is around I some times get my husband to put in a tampon or remove it. I do not get turned on by it and he isn't turned on by it either. But I think it is nice of him to do it for me.
I have changed pads on several ladies. Loved doing so especially when belted pads were available. Have also changed tampons on a few ladies. Had a gf a few years ago who was having her period and had a Kotex tampon inside. About midnight I woke up and decided to change if for her and try to not have her wake up. We both slept nude and it was summer. I gently spread her legs and pulled down on the string. Came right out. Inserted the new one and went back to sleep. In the morning I showed her the tampon in the garbage and she looked so surprised. She had slept through the whole change.
When we had sex during her time of the month my wife would remove her tampon in the bathroom and after we were done I got to insert a fresh one in her. It was fun because she used the kind without applicators so I got to finger her as part of the process. I always enjoyed it and was never put off in any way.
TamponsI love having my tampon changed by a lover, or me doing it to them. I hated having to pull out my tampon in prison so I could have a cavity search.
I wear tampons, tampax super plus specifically during my period which last 6 -7 days, i wear kotex or bodyform panty liners all the time for vaginal wetness but heavier kotex ultra during my periods which have always been heavy
I'm not a big fan of tampons, but have started using them sometimes when the flow is really heavy and I'm going to be away from home for a while. I always have a pad on, though!
I always thought tampons were better for my ladies. Of course pads were needed once in a while. I enjoy seeing tampon strings at the nude beach. I'd be interested on your thinking on that. I think it would be nice to put small beads, or sparkles things or even small bells on the strings. After all if you've got it flaunt it!
Pads mostly, usually Always brand because they seem to feel dryer. I usually don't use tampons but I do carry two in my purse for emergencies. I do use a tampon and a pad if I am going to be out a long time and I know it will be hard to find a convenient time or place to change. I use Playtex deodorant types. Tampons while swimming obviously!My husband is well aware of my periods. He like to "help". Most men are turned on and fascinated by the whole thing.
I'll use tampons most of the time.I usually start my period in the middle of the night though, so I'll wear a pad when I know it's due (I'm fairly regular) and for the first hour or so use that (until I wake up).At night, I use both. Because I'm paranoid.I prefer tampons because, again, I'm paranoid. I'll shift in my chair at work of college and worry that means I'll have moved my pad to an awkward position, and then go and check in the bathroom to make sure I'm not leaking... Which is about as much fun as eating staples.But then, I haven't ruined a pair of panties in years, so clearly paranoia pays off at times.
I had a hysterectomy a few years ago, so thankfully I don't need to think or worry about that any more. Prior to that I used tampons and pads as I had a very heavy flow.
There's a few mentions here of the Diva cup. When I was of that age I tried one. Everything worked as it should, except- and this is something every woman should be aware of- You can feel your own flow, and suddenly realize need to empty it. The lady's room is multi stall....it's pretty full, so on removing it you get blood all over one hand. Now...you cross the common area to the sink...with a bloody hand, and carrying something that looks like a dead rat.....Back to the subject at hand- Tampons, and pads depending on the part of my cycle, and month to month fluctuations.I think every woman has let their partner at least remove their tampon.
I remember a man with a period fetish asking me about the most important thing for my period.Painkillers, chocolate, caffeine, and bed. In that order.He wasn't impressed with my answer, and clearly wanted to hear 'Diva cup, tampons, pads, etc.' But honestly, murderous rage and unexpected and inexplicable tears are just as much a part of periods as blood!
I remember a man with a period fetish asking me about the most important thing for my period.Painkillers, chocolate, caffeine, and bed. In that order.The most important thing for my period was working hard for the first 8 to 10 hours. It kept my mind off of the pain and discomfort of my period. I usually got alot of work done that first day. lol
I usually use a playtex tampon for my period. I rarely wear a pad but on occasion if my flow may be heavy. I love for my boyfriend to change my tampon as this usually progresses to much more. Usually I will let him pull it out and he likes to smell it then we proceed to have some wild period sex and then he inserts a new one at the end.
Tampons. To me they feel better than a pad. My husband has taken them out quite a few times when he wants sex and I’m on my period. I wish he would change them for me, it would be so hot. But sadly I don’t think he’s into that.
Tampons. To me they feel better than a pad. My husband has taken them out quite a few times when he wants sex and I’m on my period. I wish he would change them for me, it would be so hot. But sadly I don’t think he’s into that.@Zoey789 I’ve changed a few tampons and its fun! Is there a reason you don't ask him? He’s your husband, give it a try! How about the next time you have sex on your period, and he removes your tampon, when you are done having sex, hand a new one to him and say ‘you took the last one out, wanna help with this?’ Or something like that. Keep it fun and playful or sarcastic. “Hey, you took it our, you gotta replace it!” He obviously isnt ‘creeped’ out by your period, so maybe he even wants to, but thinks you’ll think he’s a freak. You rarely get the things you want if you never try. Good luck!
On many occasions I have pulled a tampon out for the lady and that leads to some very exciting and enjoyable sex. Also may add a spanking before or after removal of the tampon.Then there is a very nice warm and invigorating shower which leads to both of us very clean and satisfied. And while in the shower if I have her real excited I will give her a couple of warm enemas, clean her out, and return to bed for some fun anal sex. And yes, after the shower I will insert a tampon for her and talk to her and tell her what is next.
Tampons are definitely my preferred choice. I hate the feeling of a pad between my legs or against my skin. I am not a happy camper if I have to wear even a panty shield on those barely or spotty days.I have only had one lover remove my tampon once, it was a bit unexpected In the heat of the moment but sooo incredibly sexy!
While I was Married (23 yrs) + livid for 5 first before married I changed my wife's (ex now) from the first month we moved in together until she stopped (had to get a hysterectomy age 46).She knew when dating how I was intrigued about both pads and tampons when she would wear either and when we had sex ,I always would take out her tampon or of her pad and wrap/roll it up.Then month we moved into our first apartment together (1st ever lived together ) I asked her about maybe 4-5 days while still unpacking ,I said kinda thinking she might think I would be a freak " Listen ----- do you think when you have your period you would let me take care of changing your Tampon or pad ,even when not having sex...... She stopped and put down a box and said "Go For It,as often as you want".I got to know her cycle ,she used pads when it was near the due date ,I would put in one of the 12 pairs of her "Period Panties" old ones she used, would have them on the bed with her night shirt every month, when she came home from work would change her tampon (& pad heavy flow day) Before we had kids on the weekends I used to be having a coffee and I knew when she finally woke up because I could hear her pad making noise like a kinda diaper sound as she walked down the hall. She would normally last 4/5 days max and for approx 20 + years I missed maybe 10 complete cycles due to work travel. She said to me about 5-6 years just around time we got married how it kinda made her feel like a rich women able to have a maid to pamper her like the rich ,I laughed (since I just got turned on every month ,still do at times !)
I used both pads and tampons when I was on my period due to over flow and leaking. I have always hated having a period and couldn't wait to go through menopause. I am on a medication right now that keeps my period from happening even though I am not going through menopause. I hope to stay on it until I actually do go through menopause.Mashie
I thank-yo CJ1999 she did know it turned me on ,but at same time was my way to show appreciationI have to say one of her close friends she told said would never let Husband do WAY WAY TOO Personalanother close Friend said she Only WISHED Husband did it '''so guess jury outThank -you again CJ1999
I use both. I don't like wearing tampons at night, since I'm afraid of having them in too long, so I always wear pads to bed. Then during the day, I'll go back and forth between pads and tampons. I've noticed that tampons can hurt if they're in for too long, so I think about my schedule for that day and if necessary, I'll wear pads then, too.
I am way past periods, but when I was younger and single I wore a sanitary belt and pad. Changed to tampons after I got married. Back in the day that was normal.
Annab: Was it due to the belief that only non virgins could use tampons and that women had to remain virgin until married?
I always had light periods, guess it was because I was always playing some kind of sport, thus It was tampons. About ten years ago I stopped having periods all together but got a surprise about a year ago when I had a period but have not had one since.