Sex or No Sex in a Play Exam

Isn't that cowgirl? 😉 And would you have or have you become interested in Shibari or Kinbaku-bi?

What is TES?

TES is The Eulenspiegel Society, a very well known BDSM organization in NYC since 1971.

https://www.tes.org

It is similar to The New England Dungeon Society in Boston since 1993.

https://www.ne-ds.org

I am fair at ornamental shibari, but VERY good at ensuring you won't be going anyplace after I tied you up. Once I was tying people up, I did think it would be nice to have the ropes form pretty patterns. Like I said, I am OK but not anything to write home about with ornamental rope bondage.

My husband gives me all my play exams and by the end I feel turned on so I want to jump on him. I think it is just what happens after the exam and I think it is fun if I some times stay in the character I have been playing for the exam. It can make the sex exciting in a different way because it is still the role play.

No sex. I'd want to keep it as clinical as possible.

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A play exam very often follows the same format as a real exam and real instruments are used, so depending on how serious you take the roleplay it can be as clinical as you want. However it is not a real exam and sexual arousal is optional for the 'patient' and quite often inevitable. So it depends on your definition of sex I guess.

Never actual sex. Only "semen samples" and if play is intense enough a prostate massage to restart the patient.

Keeping the over-examination bordering on abuse but never crossing the line from impersonal examination to anything overtly sexual is key.

For me is no sex, removes the fun aspect of cmnm.

Of course the patient must provide a semen sample, so a handjob is required, usually helped with a prostate exam.

The whole point for me of a play-exam would be the arousal, the sexual thrill. My doctor could make the exam as clinical and professional and realistic as he liked, but after I think there's have to be some sort of sexual relief for me otherwise I'd just explode from pent-up horniness.

What form that relief would take would obviously have to be agreed to / wanted by both of us. It could be anything from me touching myself and bringing myself to climax as my doctor watches (perhaps while he steths me, making it an 'extra' part of the exam itself), to rampant full-blown sexual intercourse - and anything else in between.

When I do a play exam, I prefer the exam not to end with sex as such. though it may end with a "sperm sample" produced while I watch, or possibly assist.

Depends. As a ‘patient’ I always expect a semen sample to be taken. If there’s simpatico and we discuss it could be more. One doc watched me give a sample, which was hot. Most provide a ‘helping hand.’ One play doc edged me with toys for about an hour and made me beg for release. One had me penetrate him, another penetrated me, another penetrated me with different dildos....Overall, repeat visits provide opportunities to explore boundaries and for me, it’s led to a lot of fun. I’d say be flexible.

My Doctor makes me produce a semen sample for him either by using his hand to stimulate me or a vibrator on the underside of my penis glans which required no attention to my penis shaft and a healthy sample!

I would feel very frustrated if he didn't permit my very necessary release!

At the end of the examination, as a doc, I always ask for a semen sample.

There's never sex between me and the patient.

Depends on the patient's desires. As Dr., I can go either way.

Most of my exams have ended with a sperm sample, by manual stimulation. This allows the doctor to collect the sample properly and check for proper stimulation reaction from the penis. I have never had "sex" per say during or after an exam, but depending on the situation, I may be open to it.

I like the Dr to examine me and as part of my exam bring me to orgasm. Later we take care of jom.

Sexual stimulation but no actual sex other than masturbation to climax by the patient.

In an exam role play I think it should end with the collection of a semen sample obtained through masturbation either by the patient masturbating while being observed or the doctor masturbating the patient.

On an exam I think there should be no sex, with this act ending up taking the game's grace

My rule is that the patient’s wishes control as she tells me the limits before we begin.

My desire is to bring her to orgasm as part of her pelvic exam, but it is her choice.

Many times she reciprocates with her hand or the like.

I will say that I have had patients change their minds during the exam...to my joy.

On a further note on this subject, the crumpled paper gown (and what it represents in the med fet mind) is always worn or around and a part of either or both of our orgasms.

As is my trusty stethoscope.

And on a thst note...I had one patient who wanted my colds stethoscope on her bare chest as I used my other had to complete the pelvic massage and bring her to orgasm...her nipples got so hard and she grabbed the stethoscope and held it very tight to her chest as she moaned in joy,.,I remember it to this day!

Sex has never been a part of my play exams as either the doctor or the patient...I prefer Exams to be as realistic as possible (within reason). As for relieving myself, every time I’ve been a patient for a play exam, I typically Masturbate as soon as I get home lol. If I’m the doctor, I’ll usually refrain; it adds to the realism and sexual tension.

No sex on role-playing. Sex will destroy the erotic feeling distance between doctor and the patient.

A day or a game without sex is like a food without a spice.

At least one person always orgasms at the end of our Playing Doctor. It's a play exam and play is supposed to be fun. I save the "real" doctor exams for real doctors, which aren't all that fun.

I think it should be a realistic exam role play experience

I think it comes down to whether both parties want to participate in sexual activity some people do some people don't.

I would think that this is a topic of discussion before the appointment. Having said that, there is always room for the "accidental" orgasm during a particular procedure. In addition, orgasm might be something the doctor needs to evaluate - perhaps in a kind of diagnostic where the patient masturbates, has any kind of "stimulating" examination, or be told they need to produce "collection material" for whatever reason. The situation is as open as is the imagination of the med-fet doctor/patient. More often than not, the males in my exam often have ejaculations without touching themselves. That is not only a compliment but a HUGE turn on for me (as a part of the power exchange the male is often "embarrassed" by having ejaculated over the floor/tummy/exam table, etc. It is a fantastic addition to the scene - some are so "turned on" by realizing their medfet in real life, others find it impossible to control orgasm while having their genitals examined, or - my favourite - the DRE.

As I always recommend, the more you can discuss the scene the more powerfully satisfying it will be for everyone involved.

No sex but an ejaculation is a great way to end an exam 😃

If I were the patient during a play exam , sex would not be part of the overall date. Would like a thorough exam and at some point a stress test , which would include some sort of release . If doctor or nurse required sex as part of exam or test , patient would comply with their orders , but would not be a requirement from this patient

I normally don't have any sex with my patients (male or female) but I really like if they have an orgasm during the examination. So I normally masturbate them or ask them to masturbate.

I would want to be made to orgasm as part of the exam.

I normally don't have any sex with my patients (male or female) but I really like if they have an orgasm during the examination. So I normally masturbate them or ask them to masturbate.

I think it all depends on what was discussed and planned ahead of time. There really is no right answer to this since every situation is different. The key is to lay it out ahead of time and if you still aren't 100% sure have a safe word. I would think in a typical play exam, while an orgasm during the exam with or without toys might be the norm, I think sex should be saved for later if at all.