I guess I'm an anomaly here.
I would absolutely love an incredibly intimate, clinical, yet going FAR beyond what is actually required at a "real" exam. For example, incredibly personal, humiliating questions pertaining to physical/sexual development (I'm a grown woman, that doesn't matter now), sexual history, sexual interests. Enemas (we all know Gyno exams don't require that), having a breast exam that involves bouncing, jiggling, and all kinds of boob fun. A vaginal exam requiring sexual stimulation response or just being completely exposed for an extended period of time while the doctor does whatever he wants to with me.
For me, this has absolutely nothing to do with sex or romance. In fact, the idea of that makes me cringe, literally. Gives me the creep chills. Now, I absolutely masturbate to this scenario all the time and have incredible orgasms. But, it's completely separate from sex for me.
This is a fetish I've had for years, and I do not ever want to be attracted to, romantically touched (kissing, caressed) by my play doctor. However, if HE were doing those things to me (excluding kissing), or even if he required me to do things to him (jerk off/blowjob) as part of the exam (with good reason, which would have to be believable and creative, obviously), I would very gladly do it.
When I was younger (20), I made the mistake of having a boyfriend "play" doctor with me. I couldn't ever separate out the "Doctor" role versus my lover, and I became unattracted to him, so much so, that I ended the relationship.
Anyhow, hopefully, someone/somewhere can understand what this ramble means.