Sex or No Sex in a Play Exam

As a patient, I like to orgasm during the exam as part of the exam. If I'm the doctor, I certainly don't mind providing my patient an exam via masturbation. I have never had sex as part of an exam.

It seems to me that the "no sex" policy is preferable during a play exam with a stranger. Otherwise, one would just have "sex" with his or her partner. I don't think that indiscriminate sexual relations is such a great idea. It also seems to alter the nature of the exam experience. From what I have been reading, the anonymous doctor role adds a great deal of tension to the experience. Add to that, male or female doctor to go along with the male or female patient, and you have a very erotic situation developing. The occurrence of orgasm for the patient may or may not be part of the exam or may just happen as a consequence of the exam. Either way, it appears to define the essence of the "play exam" and happy memories!

I don’t want a exam to turn into sex. That would take away from the realism.

I would want to have to provide a semen sample for the doctor,and tell him/her what im thinking about while bringing myself to orgasm

Have not during exam but afterwards has happened. I would have to see how things progress. Once I had sex prior to exam.

Everything depends on the playmate and what relationship you have with them, if any….

For me as the patient definitly no sex during the examination. Its embarrassing being sexuell aroused in front of the doctor. But i dont know what happens when the doctor want to see my erected penis or asks me to give a semen sample.

I prefer a realistic medical exam so no “traditional” sex involved but I love the masturbation at the end for an ejaculation test and semen check.

If I’m having catheter play with someone I trust and enjoy , yes definitely sex. After it’s removed I’m climbing all over them sigh

Medfet for us consisted of anal and vaginal inspections etc. - you probably wouldn't call it a real medical exam/fetish but my wife would lie on her back with legs raised as if in stirrups and I would probe and “inspect” - she did the same for me. Same with massage therapy for stiff joints, sore muscles etc. - It ALWAYS ended up with sex. That's why we did it - it was a form of foreplay.

It can be. It depends on the relationship and the agreement that should be made beforehand.

No sex for me as part of the exam. But no issues if a semen sample needs to be supplied to make sure everything is working right.

Depends on the relationship and what we are both comfortable with. Definitely no intercourse.

Yes, sex of course.

My meetings with medfet patients and nurse outside hospital started with a detailed full history and physical examination mixed with some tease, build up and later with a strong orgasm with or without sex…

I always discussed about sex/no-sex even prior to play.

As a play doctor, I stay dressed in my scrubs or lab coat during an exam, so there’s is no overt sex during a scene.

There are cases though that the patient will need to provide a semen sample, and that’s is extracted generally via me masturbating him. Sometimes that includes my finger still massaging the prostate during that part of the procedure. So this is probably off the scale of being realistic, but it is fun.

I would consider being masturbated or even being watched while masturbating during a role play examination is a form of sex…I assume what is being referred to here is penetrating sexual contact with a penis into a rectum or vagina.

I would like to have my play exam end in sex. But at the very least have to give a semen sample at the end hopefully assisted by the doctor.

Realistic only, no sex.

I have only been in the role of doctor, not patient. And I have only examined females or trans persons, never a cis male. That being said, I enjoy sex and have no objection to it happening, but the decision is 100% the patient's. I always let them know beforehand that there will never be any obligation on their part, no reciprocity required.

@female_patient

It can be. It depends on the relationship and the agreement that should be made beforehand.

clear … nothing happens without an agreement!

It depends on my relationship with the play doc. 99% of my med play has been with my husband so yes there’s sex involved. For the 1% I’ve done both sex and no sex

Hmmm… I would suggest that you define sex. Having intercourse is something that rarely (I would almost state never) happens in my practice.

But I do make my patients have an orgasm when needed. Making them masturbate or treating them in another way.

For a male it is needed to see the sperm.

For a female it can be needed to see how long it takes, how sensitive it is, how her wetness develops, etc.

If I like the play doctor, or nurse you bet.

I have only been in the role of doctor, not patient. And I have only examined females or trans persons, never a cis male.

What's a cis male when it's at home?

@Dr_Philip a cis male is someone who was born male and has all the usual appendages.

@Dr_Philip a cis male is someone who was born male and has all the usual appendages.

@LordJim2

But in their mind they relate to being a woman?

Not necessarily. @Dr_Philip Just means physically they have male anatomy. Has nothing to do with their gender identification.

The term is used a lot when people are looking for partners and are particularly looking for people born either male or female.

Anyway, that is my understanding of the term. I am open to anyone else's interpretation.

Here is Merriam-Webster's definition: “Cisgender: of, relating to, or being a person whose gender identity corresponds with the sex the person had or was identified as having at birth.”

My play doctor is also a real doctor although not my GP. He enjoys our sessions as its an opportunity for him to act out on things that he wished he could do during an exam and I like that idea that there is a degree of realism by being on the receiving end of those things that you wish a doctor would do to you. Although sex has evolved as a result of the exam it is not the primary purpose. Much of the exam is obviously erotic whether I climax or not is left up to the doctor.