When was your last adult spanking and why

I've received a few spankings as an adult, but not many. I'm 56 yrs old and a man. The first one was right after I got out of the navy at about 22 yrs old. I went to a whore house in Tijuana, but I didn't want sex, only a BJ. I told the whore that after we undressed thinking that would be ok. It wasn't. She got up, went into the next room and then came back in with a man holding a big thick paddle with holes in it. I pleaded that I'd have intercourse, but he flipped me over on the bed and paddled my bare ass about 10-15 times on each cheek. Man, did that hurt!

The 2nd time I was at a massage parlor. I was probably still about the same age as above The "masseuse" was in her fourties and well built. While laying there I reached up and squeezed her ass. She warned me that if I did it again I would get spanked. I thought she was either kidding or it would just be a little light nothing play. Again, I was wrong, She reached under the bed and brought out a hair brush. When I protested she said tat if I took it like a man I'd get a good massage afterwards but if not then the session was over. So I let her do it. This was even worse than the first spanking, and the massage after wasn't all that great. Needless to say, I never went back.

Then when I was about 30 and fairly newly married, I was home alone and decided to see what my wifes panties felt like, so I put them on (I'm not a cross dresser, but I was curious). Guess who came walking in the room at that very moment! She was pissed and told me to take them off while she fumed about it. She wouldn't talk to me the rest of the day, and then the next morning she told me if I was going to act like a child she was going to treat me like one. She made me take off my clothes, pulled me over her knee and gave me about 100 or so very hard slaps on each cheek with her hand. She told me the next time it happened she'd use the hair brush. It never did.

I think I've learned my lesson, although I went to a massage parlor last week and squeezed a little butt. No repercussions this time.

I got spanked by my ex regularly because he just enjoyed doing it....otk, on the bare...with plenty of rubbing among the spanks.

Four nights ago-- I failed to plan for an upcoming trip that led to extra costs. I got 44 whacks with a paddle otk and a dozen strokes of the cane over a bed.

Two days ago. I was at a spanking event and was led by the ear to a table in the common room and made to bend over with my upper torso flat against the table.

No warm up, just a full swat with a jokari shaped lexan paddle over my shorts. After a through blistering ( at least thirty hard licks) down came the shorts, then the same number on my tight underpants. By this time I was feeling what I thought was the full force of that paddle. When the underpants came down I learned just how much one of those lexan ass busters can hurt. I am usually very stoic during a paddling but this time I had to let go which brought the attention of the room to my plight. I would come up on my elbows and he would push me back down onto my chest and say that will be extra, then he would encourage me to vocalize but stay put. After at least thirty plus the extras for trying to rise he said you are pretty well marked. I was not crying but I came close in front of all those people.

The only worry I have is that I am scheduled for a full punishment session Friday, four days from now. That is going yo be a real test of my fortitude. I so dread it that I am having engorgement of the veins in a certain body part.

I went to the bathroom where they thoughtfully provide a full length mirror so one can inspect the damage. I had the full post paddling kaleidoscope, from red to deep purple, most of the purple on the outer sides of each cheek, very evenly balanced, I might add, and a deep red in the center. He painted a beautiful picture on my ass which I am still wearing today.

This morning. I was a bit depressed and morose. She has a surefire cur for depression. It is across the bed with several different paddles applied to the bottom and a thin leather paddle to the balls.

My guess is about 25 with 4 or five different paddles the thin on to the balls until pleasure her while she sits on my face. It doesn't matter if I cum she goes on with the thin paddle until she is paid in full for having to punish me.

I was severly spanked a month ago. I was deceitful for weeks about how many home chores I completed throughout the days and I would go out with friends and spend money without asking. I abused my internet and reading books privileges. I lalso lied about taking my meds on time.

I confessed one night when I thought he drank a little more than usual before bed and wouldn't spank me and would be too hung over to spank me in the morning. He proved me wrong.

He was so pissed he sobered up quickly and spanked me over his knee till my butt was literally blistered with the leather paddle, rubber strap, and rubber loopy. Then he made me spread my legs and he strapped the inside of my thighs.

The next morning I got an OTK spanking with the dreaded wooden paddle. I also got my mouth washed out with soap for lying. I was grounded from the internet, books, and friends until the first of Feb. I haven't slacked off on anything nor have a lied since then. I did recieve one maintenance spanking last week but those usually end with fun activities.

I get my naked butt paddled about once a yr from my wife of 40 yrs--It is a very happy marriage however, once in a while i have earned a bare ass paddling--It happened last summer I had it coming in spades and my bare butt hurt plenty

I am 58 years old, and have had a spanking fetish since the 5th grade when I was taken OTK by my teacher (for really doing nothing, I swear!). Since then I have looked for every opportunity to learn about spanking, read about spanking, perhaps even witness a spanking done in a store to an errant kiddo. Then the internet was invented, and I thought I would be forever sated filling my spanking needs.

Then lo, a web site that connects spankers and spankees was thrust into my knowledge base. After trying to make a connection I finally found a lady who was needing some disclipline. We talked online, and discovered that we were both switches. Meeting her for the first time was terribly difficult, because I wasn't sure if 1) my bottom was up to receiving, and 2) my hand was capable of giving. She was warm and friendly and inviting, and eventually told me, "Well, it's about time we got down to business, isn't it?" She pulled my trousers down, but left my underwear in place as she guided me across her knees. She spanked me with just enough force to let me know that I was, in fact, receiving a spanking from her.

Then my heart skipped a beat when she drew my underwear down, exposing my bottom to whatever she was going to do to it. I was receiving my very first bare bottom OTK spanking, and I was in heaven!

Because me wife is soooooooo not into the spanking scene she knew that any marks or bruises would be hard to explain, so she carefully turned my buttocks red without going overboard. I was truly and completely spanked, and the warmth remained with me for a long, long time.

But it didn't stop me from sitting in that armless chair, pulling her pants down around her ankles, and drawing her across my knees to begin her session. She had admitted to me that she had not been faithful to her diet, and that she had been putting off completing several reports her work required. It was obvious to me that she needed a good old fashioned butt whupping! I started spanking her over her panties, but it soon became obvious that she needed a much more severe punishment. Soon her panties were deposited along side her pants, and I began to intensify my swats. After 15 minutes or so of some really hard spanks I stopped, and started rubbing her bottom.

This was about a year ago. Since then we've gotten together about once a month for our special sessions. First, she always pulls my pants and underwear down to my knees, and then over I go. I guess we set the sstandard for our meetings, because just like the first one, she gets her bare bottom OTK spanking right after mine is done. We've graduated a bit to using hairbrushes, small paddles, a large paddle, and leather belts. She always warms my bottom but good, and she has taken some really severe bottom beatings from me, usually leaving her with bruising, welts, and the occasional blood blister. And we couldn't be happier!

Soooooo ... when was my last adult spanking? TOO LONG AGO!! (I'm hoping to get over to see her this week!)

I was spanked bare bottom about 5 month's ago by a Dominant Lady friend for over eating, drinking and not do chores properly. She is a great spanker and the feeling afterwards is remaining some days.I will meet her again this week. Wonder what reason she will found to take me over her knee and how she will put my poor bottom into fire. I will stay overnight, so a strict bedtime spanking is possible.Lookinf forward to it.

This morning.

Most of my spanking friends male and female have been gone, busy or a couple of them under the weather. My wife has been on an extended trip so I was a bit cut off.

I have been depressed as hell and not communicating with my friends that were available.

Last week I make contact with with a friend really let me have it, both verbally and with several straps, paddles and canes. What a boost! We had a great visit afterward and share a tremendous view of downtown.

My wife came back this week and found me down, I had recovered somewhat after my friend illustrated the immense joy of having ones endorphins raised by the application of vigorous corporal stimulation to posterior.

This morning my wife applied a very spirited antidepressant to my balls and butt. I received a spanking on my balls that will have me walking like a rodeo cowboy for a few days, the then ejaculated me thoroughly then turned me over face down at the edge of the bead and applied a a fifteen inch solid wooden paddle to a pair of buttocks that definitely did not want to feel that that sting. It burned like hell but it sure beats Prozac.

I'm back under treatment.

I was spanked by my partner the night before last. We are both lesbians and have a very healthy spanking relationship.

Last Sunday, we were going out, my wife noticed me wearing worn out jockey shorts, & I was already disagreeing with her about my clothes. I was spanked with a bath brush, about 50 spanks. I knew I should have had a longer spanking or a follow up later in the day, it never happened.

About three hours ago. I've just been a bit b---chy lately, blaming my husband for not spending time with me when he's been putting in extra hours at work and helping my mom. Tonight he took a belt to me and I must admit it was deserved.

ONLY adult spanking was at around 40, was done by another guy, straight friend. He might be on this site so I'll word this carefully, but he was around 45 at the time, former prison guard - big, smooth, medium brown, good looking, solid build at 6'1" around 210. Not someone to cross, but I'd been riding his bumper about some bad choices (like stocks and jobs) over a period of time. Finally Kevin had a blowup with his GF and after he told me ALL about it for way too long over too many beers, I started laughing and asked "OK Casanova, when's the wedding??"

He got up from the kitchen table MAD and said "Follow me." Walked me into their bedroom, sat down, wrestled me over his knee, yanked down my Levis and shorts and swung for the fences - big hand that was as hard as a board. I yelled and swore and kicked and threatened him, but was held in place by the visegrip on the back on my neck, I didn't move until he said OVER. Hurt like hell for quite awhile, I was sitting on yellow/purple bruises for a week. Can't say I want to replay, but was kinda hot at the same time, my white ass being turned into Rudoph's red nose. Wish someone had gotten pictures, maybe there'll have to be a next time just for that purpose.

I got spanked a few nights ago because I was "being a brat" and wouldn't listen to my boyfriend. He had me put my ass in the air, keeping my face pressed to the bed, and started spanking my bare cheeks until they turned pink and hot. Sometimes he'll pleasure me after a spanking, if I take it well. But I was squirming during it, so he didn't want to reward my behavior. I'm hoping to get another one soon.

I was spanked 2 weeks ago. I started to chat with a guy who likes to wear diapers like me and we found out we live close to each other so we agreed to meet, he showed up wearing a diaper, I was out of diapers and was wearing panties. He decided that I should have worn a diaper like him so we went back to his place where I was stripped to my panties and made to stand in the corner, he then called me out of the corner, at this time he had stripped to his diaper, he pulled my panties down and took me over his lap and spanked me with his hand and a paddle, it really stung and hurt. It must have been a sight, a guy wearing a diaper spanking a guy in panties. After my spanking and corner time he diapered me and we went out to dinner.

Diaperboijimmie, for what it's worth, I would have paid to see that. I won't lie to you when I tell you that guy on guy action, no matter what the action, for the most part is either very interesting or exciting to me. You said it must have been a sight...I would have loved to see it. Just thought you might like to hear that from me.

Mashie

I just received my first adult spanking from a really nice disciplinarian, I'm married but husband won't spank me so I found someone who will make me be a more obedient wife. Anyways it started otk clothes on with hand, hairbrush, paddle and wooden spoon, and then eventually went to bare, the paddle hurt soooo bad as did the hairbrush, I seriously thought my ass would fall off!!! Then I was made to lean over arm of couch and he took his belt to me that really made me holler!!! My ass is so sore right now and of course I have to keep it covered so my husband doesn't know.

The last time I had a play exam I was bent over the table and spanked hard. Then they got a brush and did some more. That was before the first enema, and then again after I was clean.

My last spanking was yesterday. I have been pushing the envelope for quite a while I guess daring my boyfriend to spank me. He texted yesterday and I thought he was coming over for sex. He had told me to be on the bed with my ass in the air and not to have anything on - including a jockstrap. I guess that should have been a clue, but it wasn't at the time. Even when I heard him removing his belt I didn't think anything of it, but as soon as that first swat landed across my ass I knew things were about to get real, real fast.

I'm not sure how many he gave me, but over 24 hours later my ass is still sore and hot. I know I deserved it, but damn it sure hurt. He said I have more coming with the paddle next time.

HI, I actually haven't had a real spanking in a long time. I like to get them sometimes when I'm with my BF because it makes me excited sometimes.. I have actually been always kind of into the idea and like to watch the stuff online and read stories. I am scared of pain but I feel like I need one sometimes to help me change some habits I've been trying to get out of. Not sure how to go about seeing if there might be a nonsexual spanker somewhere nearby to be a " disciplinarian" I am scared I wouldn't want belts or all that, just a hand. Don't want like my bottom beat but you know just one to help get me out of habits. How do I coax my bf? I get scared because I live in an apartment and don't want people to think I'm getting abused. Spankings make you cry. It's suppose to because you gotta be punished for stuff sometimes. Another one I have a desire to try to roleplay and I'm scared to ask my BF would he maybe do it with me.. I don't want him to think I'm too weird.

Like I have this weird thing in my head that I would like to pretend to be a little girl. Overalls and all and maybe a depends ( diaper) or something and do something naughty. Do like I see in some of the videos where they make the girl stand in the corner and be talked to like I was a bad girl. You know the idea. A "safe word can be used and all" no not like 50 shades of gray that to me is scary type stuff.. but my fantasies want me to experiment more. Not sure how to do some of them. I don't want everyone i know to know that i like being spanked for pleasure. I don't want everyone I know in my life to know I'm also being spanked like a little kid if I can find one as a adult.

I would want to make sure the person thought i need discipline, i kind of want someone that isn't like really nasty. I have a anxiety issue too but some because of situations I am in. I don't want to just jump into all out war on my behind. I'd rather ask my bf.. and one of my trusted friends. I won't either because I have a rule personally because he is married. I wouldn't want his wife to think something like cheating was going to happen.

I feel like I need one though. ( i have a hard time getting myself to not use FBook as therapy when I'm upset. I want to break some habits I have that aren't healthy for me, even possibly for over worrying about stupid stuff (lol) and causing myself to get into trouble from lack of patience. I use to have tons but it has gotten harder to be patient. I felt comfortable asking these because I saw so many varieties of answers and don't want to feel too ashamed to ask. I would like to be pulled otk and for some reason the vulnerability of everything down there.. I guess is why I am so interested in this stuff...

How do I get a satisfying one? Even if it resulted in me crying for the nonsexual ones.

On, or about every August 14th, I get my birthday spankings from friends and family. It's a tradition in our home, but, at age 51 (plus one to grow on!), it gets embarassing. Also, painful because i usually get 6-8 birthday spankings- all on my bare bottom!

We have a great marriage but about once or maybe twice a year my conduct with my male friends offends my more religious wife. We settle it with my getting my bare butt paddled. It has been that way for yrs. It settles things and there is no lingering anger or harsh feelings. Since there is no argument I have told her what happened knowing its got to cause a bare paddling. We have a great trust level and no one else knows so no issue of embarrassment or shaming. Its odd, when I am doing the stuff with my male friends (which is going to get my butt paddled) I am thinking, "it won't hurt that much". When I am bending over about to get it I am thinking, "its going to hurt and I am a damn fool". Summer it seems to happen more but last one was January. Any other guys like me in the whole world?

My last spanking was actually yesterday. My birthday was Friday but when I was with my family yesterday I realized I still had not gotten my birthday spanking. So while my heart raced a mile a minute and my stomach did flips, I decided to ask my mom, who is in her 70's, to give me a birthday spanking. I didn't think she would but she took me over her lap and spanked my bottom 38 times, plus one to grow on of course. I haven't had anyone willing to give me a birthday spanking in years and never did have the courage to ask either of my parents, especially since I don't live at home anymore, to spank me but I was glad mom spanked me this time.

I have had the immense pleasure is being the giver of spankings for some naughty young ladies from about 1990 to about 2004 or so. I was told often that I should also be on the receiving end. Last night I got my first spanking (I am 71 years old) from a 31 year old year old phenomenal female. When she realized what my age was she laughed and told me I looked to be about 50! It was a great time for both of us and I realized that I had needed another spanking since mom gave me one when I was a teenager!

My wife,who is a great wife, paddles my butt a couple times a yr--for very serious reason---I take it right out of the shower--I just bend over and hold my shins and she paddles my naked butt and it hurts like crazy---then things are fine between us---I never got a paddling i did not have coming in spades---she puts up with alot---I do want it over asap when I got it coming I do not want to wait which is fine with her---she needs to vent her anger so we might as well get it done with---It works for us each marriage is different

Way too long ago.

Its been a long time. Prob about a year or so.

Master took me to the back side of our property in the truck, not telling me why we were going. When he stopped, he ordered me out of the truck and told me to strip. He came around to the passenger side, bent me over the front seat of the truck, and spanked my bare ass red with purple splotches. He had me squirming bad with his big hands slapping me hard!!

When I asked why, what did I do to deserve this, his answer was "just because"

Two weeks ago when I was stranded near an old spanking buddy in Central North Carolina. I met up with him and was given spanking that I will remember as well as several other "punishments."

I had a devil of a beating from him. Man he know how how to swing that board. He did give me a small enema to prepare me for later. After a very through strapping, caning and a paddling for which I had to be restrained, he had his way with me very deeply then I had to finish him off orally, He first wore the condom he used and after I had sucked that thoroughly and he was satisfied it was clean he proceed to turn me on my back and make me bring back him to life. With a semi erect pole he put it down my throat but he couldn't cum again like he used to.

It was my turn for pleasure as he went back in to my butt with his finger and jacked me off, I then had to stand slightly bent and take a school style padding with a real school padded he had obtained somewhere. That was just like the old days, it hurt and I did not want it. He knew how to apply that paddle to great effect, With every swat I went up on my tiptoes. I love to be paddled even when I don't want it and there is nothing sexual about. I get off on it the next day.

A few hours before I finally got out of there I went by for brief visit, he again applied the strap and paddle , but we did not have time for a lot of fooling around. This time I arrived with an erection. He said "You will not enjoy this one as much as the last one,"

He quickly jacked me off, then made bend slightly like he has so many times in the past the applied fifty with his school paddle that I described above. Again I was brought up to tip toes with each swat. I started to straighten up when he put the paddle down, but he said not so fast and applied 25 with the strap. I stayed in position as knew he likes even numbers. Sure enough he picked up a different paddle that he said a shop teacher friend had his students make for him. He gave 25 stingers with that one that left me sitting on blisters cross country. He told me he uses that paddle his fiend had made for him on that friend almost weekly as they are dating. He said about 1/2 the paddlings he gives his shop teacher boyfriend are a prelude to sexual activity and 1/2 are punishment paddling just like he gave me. He said his boyfriend hates the punishment paddlings as he makes him ejaculate prior to the "boarding" as he calls it. During those "real" paddlings his boy friend lament ever having that paddle made.

I gave him his customary thank you that he demands after every session I have ever had with him and hurried to the airport, sporting a very sore blistered ass.

I was worth the trip to see him again.

My last adult spanking was about a week ago due to staying up way too late. Let's just say I'll do my best to not repeat the offense!