When was your last adult spanking and why

Yesterday my "Daddy" bent me over and gave me a hard hand spanking for disresepctful and impatient behavior. And because he has had to repeated remind me to chew with my mouth closed, i got 6 strokes with the school strap... my butt is still a bit sore but I hugged him so hard after...

My last adult spanking was over a year ago. It was administered by a male friend, not for any particular reason (I just needed a spanking). I was sent to get the wooden spoon, which is a big handmade one. He ordered me over his lap, pulled my dress up and knickers down. I got about a dozen fairly hard smacks. When I got up, he gave me a gentle hug. I went to bed with a sore bottom.

I never had an adult spanking :-( My last and only spanking was when I was 5.

Poor @Southern_Sass ! While I have a number of issues with spanking children (have been pushed very close, but never spanked mine) spanking makes adult relationships so much more delicious! They just add layer upon layer of romance, intimacy, delight, and so much more. Hope you end up over someone's knee soon!

I was spanked last Monday night by my girlfriend, and I spanked her also, as we were watching the NCAA Finals basketball game on television. It was a betting night. She's from Texas, and was rooting for Texas Tech. I liked Virginia. We were bare bottomed, since we were both liable to be spanked at any time. When her team committed a foul, I gave her five swats with a paddle. She, in turn, gave me five each time Virginia fouled. As the game went on, our blows became harder, since we each thought the other was getting in some serious shots and wanted to retaliate.

Yes, betting spankings (and other erotic actions) is something we both enjoy. We wound up very red-bottomed and happy. Paying off a different bet on the outcome of that game is a whole 'nother story.

Like the late Paul Harvey's broadcasts, we all want to know the rest of story Mid Sierra. lol My husband and I also do sports bets and I ended up on the losing end when Texas Tech folded at the end....what a game. I got paddled the point difference after the overtime period. Ouch!!! You two!! A paddling after each foul....wow!!! I can imagine your bottoms being very red and sore, but what fun you had. I like your idea about after each foul.......I might just borrow that next basketball season!!! or adopt it for football season!! or number of fish caught this summer. Thanks so much for sharing!! Don't forget telling us the rest of the story!! Denise

@Denise asked for the rest of the story, about my bet on the outcome of the NCAA Finals basketball game. A good bet is when each person risks something they don't want to lose, in anticipation of gaining something they would like to have or like to enjoy. While my girlfriend and I spent the evening swatting each other's butts based on fouls called during the game, the overriding bet was on the outcome of the game. The prize/penalty? Anal sex. True, it isn't quite within the spanking topic here, but spanking was a prelude to the end-of-game payoff.

Virginia, my team, was looking very good in the first half, while her team, Texas Tech, wasn't quite keeping up. Still, it's hard to predict. In anticipation of the outcome, we gave each other enemas at half-time so the loser, whichever of us lost, would be ready. Now my girlfriend is reluctant to have anal sex, and does so maybe two or three times a year, reluctantly, but she enjoys using her strap-on, which I dislike as much as she dislikes anal. I've felt the strap-on a few times since we've been together, and depending on how gentle she is with it, it ranges from uncomfortable to painful. There are times I think she purposely rushes things, just to increase my pain, when she nails me with it.

Late in the second half, I began lubing anus her since Texas Tech was so far behind. (Yes, fun in its own right.) As Tech managed to come storming back, she decided I needed lubing as well, so we'd both be prepared for the outcome of the game. We were both on the edge of our seats as the clock ticked down, with our asses literally on the line, as the game got closer and closer. As you may know, the game was tied when the clock hit zero. Overtime was going to happen. But my girlfriend's odd logic said that since Virginia, my team, hadn't won, I must pay the forfeit. She wouldn't accept the fact the game wasn't really over yet.

Next thing I knew, I was on my knees in front of the television, watching her adjust her strap-on. As the overtime period started, she began penetrating me - and telling me how much I deserved it for backing Virginia. As the overtime period progressed, her thrusts into my bottom, already quite sore from all the spankings, became even more energetic. Well, Virginia pulled the game out of the fire, winning the national championship, and our roles were reversed. It was she who was penetrated, after the addition of more lube, with me pushing far enough into her that my body was rubbing her crimson cheeks, until we finally reached a point of mutual satisfaction.

The bet didn't quite turn out the way I had expected, but I have no real complaints. For future bets, I'll make sure she understands that only the final score will be used to determine the winner.

My sister's ex (nephew's dad) has always been a good buddy of mine. After I quit my job, again, he joked that I needed my ass whooped. It started out as a joke, but after a good talk we decided to go through with it. He undid my pants and pulled them down and I bent over with my arms on his kitchen table. He smacked me as hard as he could 28 times (my age) and then yanked down my undies and did the same thing.

About an hour ago. Met a new spanking friend who is interested in paddle spankings and The razor strop. We had lunch and decided we would proceed with busting my ass.

We went to my house which is isolated and can't be seen from other houses. I love the idea that other people can hear me being paddled so we went out to an enclosed area at the back of the house and opened the windows. There are people close enough that the sound of a paddling could be heard. It probably just sounded like someone hammering but it was a thrill to me to have bend over slightly and be paddled ten lick repeatedly over some worn out shorts. His paddle was longer than a school or Spencer paddle and many holes drilled and beveled into it. he pulled my shorts up into the crack of my butt and gave me sets of ten with a full swing. He must have given five sets and by that time my ass was on fire.

We went on into the house after that because it was now time for the butt baring. Over his knee I went for a rapid fire heating of the buns with a smaller paddle. Next was me bending with my hand flat on the bed for several sets of ten with his long paddle, the last set I was almost doing the paddle dance, but not quiet. Over several pillows on the bed to let my hind parts get acquainted with his razor strop, which after at least 50, probably more, the two became old friends.

Back over the knee for the small paddle which caused a me to do a hunching motion and an accident on to his thigh. Thank goodness he was sitting on a towel. After I was forced to clean his thigh and my towel with him holding my hand behind my back. I then had to go hands on the mattress to be punished for my loss of control. He shows no mercy because of my unaroused state and this time after about fifty licks I was doing the dance of one who's ass was being set ablaze by a hard paddling.

I learned my lesson, or did I? We are going to meet again next month. He said the next time he will get the point across more throughly if I made another mess. You can be sure I will not climax for at least a week before our appointment.

I thanked profusely and he left.

About an hour after he left, as I was writing this I heard hammering from the next hill over, was I being answered?

Rob

About a week ago AT LAST! It was a foreplay spanking with a bath brush! It did hurt, but not much and not a hard or long spanking, It did get my wife wet, and me excited........!

A day later I bought her a big bunch of flowers, with a note thanking her for my spanking, and asking for more spankings, much more often! I hope she will give me a REAL PUNISHMENT spanking soon, keeping me in place by sitting on my back, NO safe word, NO warm up, NO mercy, till i can no longer beg or plead understandably!

2 weeks ago with a deerskin flogger. I wasn’t expecting to be spanked. I was tied to the bed on my back with blindfold and ball gag. He whipped my breasts and thighs. It was super hot. I had been saying no to being spanked for a bit so he decided it was time to do it anyway

This past Friday because I craved it so bad. Then watched Fifty Shades of Grey with my husband!

I'm not an SM or spanking fetishist. I'm a switch, and my kinks are limited to my own little eclectic collection of quirks including rubber, sneakers, enemas and anal, D/s and bondage. But I'm genuinely curious about this thread's subject. What is it that is appealing about getting spanked so that you crave it from time to time? I understand that it is arousing to you, but that's all I know. (Yes, you could easily ask me the same query about any of my 6 or 7 interests.) Is it really that it has to induce real significant physical pain, or is the point that it's more the symbolic act that the spanker is somewhat controlling you by spanking you? Or something else? For me, real physical pain like heavy spanking (or even a severe cramp in an enema, which is a longstanding kink of mine) immediately turns me off, de-arouses me, so in addition to not liking pain, it ruins my arousal and sex drive.

But if I happened to find a new switch partner someday who wanted to spank me lightly, I could enjoy it a bit just as a new manifestation of her acting Domme to me along with other actions, as long as it wasn't really painful. For example, if she gave me an enema, the added spanking would be another act that would intensify making the enema hard to hold and therefore an act of dominance from her.

So why do you good folks want and crave to be spanked?

Thanks,

Eric

Eric, I am not sure anyone has ever asked me why I like to be spanked before, or if they have I don't remember.

I like to be spanked for several reasons. For one I find it sexually stimulating. I too am a switch so being dominated excites me on many levels. The other reason is because up until I got sick I was a nurse and always in charge of things, always the boss so to speak. Sometimes I need to not be in charge and I need to answer for things I have done. I need to not be in charge for a change. It's a way of being accountable.

Depending on my mood depends on how hard and how long I like to be spanked. Doc has always been a good judge of both things for me and is one of the reasons I trust him enough to spank me. I am not a pain slut but I do enjoy spanking pain done right. In order for me to take hard spankings one has to work up to it. I can't handle hard spankings right out of the gate. I do not at all enjoy whips from a cane or a whip. As a matter of fact canes scare me because of an incident I suffered at the hands of someone who didn't know what they were doing and watching that same man beat his wife with that cane. I like an open hand or a leather paddle the best. I also like a riding crop done right.

I hope this helps you some Eric. I'm sure others have tons of reasons other than mine.

Mashie

Mashie,

Sounds like you enjoy spanking as sexual stimulation mostly from the feeling of being dominated, no? Which makes sense to me being a switch who really enjoys feeling submissive, especially during enemas. With some element of enjoying a certain level of pain, perhaps. What do you think is appealing about the actual pain from spanking (or anything else). That's the part I don't get because as I noted, pain completely de-arouses me, turns me off sexually.

Eric

It gives me such a rush!

It's not the pain I don't think because as I said I am not a pain slut. I enjoy a little bit of pain because without it I would still feel in control of things and sometimes I just need to not be in charge. I know I am not explaining myself very well and I am sorry about that.

Mashie

Mashie,

No, not true. You're explaining yourself very well on what I consider a confusing subject. Thanks,

Eric

The thought of being spanked hard gets me hard, after I have been spanked very hard I am rock hard for well over a week (like a rock almost instantly). Those are reasons enough for most but when I am spanked by someone I care a lot about I feel exceptionally loved after. Like getting a dozen hugs and numerous kisses. "Daddy" spanks me and I feel like the luckiest "boy" and I feel cherished in a very special way. If I have done something wrong it also helps me feel better things cleansed away a good scrubbing away any feelings of guilt (a sort of reset switch). It also for me can help make changes that I want, my husband is not into spanking but after many times leaving my towel in the shower rather than putting it back on the towel bar he grabbed it and snapped me 4 times i did yipe and then I hung it up, for whatever reason that was enough encouragement to ensure I always hang up my towel. And while I only got spanked once or twice a year at most growing up it also reminds me of my fathers love. Everyone will have different answers but this is mine.

What is it that is appealing about getting spanked so that you crave it from time to time?

Eric, when I'm spanked I like it to hurt, and to feel sore afterwards. When a man puts me over his knee for punishment, it's a 'good pain' and a real turn on.

I relate to what Canuck Brat said about how good it feels to be a 'kid' getting a 'parental' spanking.

I only get turned on by spankings on my bottom, probably because it's embarrassing. I like to go over my spanker's lap because of the shame of lying face down and bottom exposed. I like the control my spanker has over me in that moment, and the contact with his body.

Jilly,

Interesting. Thanks. Makes at least a bit more sense now. So all that bottom spanking, "good" pain, trusted spanker, embarrassment, et.al., translates into arousal for you? Perhaps analogous to how a restrained/bound, "forced," long, large, possibly crampy enema from a trusted Domme makes me aroused? Thanks,

Eric

I was spanked last night by my ma'am/gf with her wooden spoon because I was not listening to her when she told me to behave and settle down.

Today, I was sent to a friend's office, taken to a back room and paddled. It had been a long time since I was called to the office to be paddled.

He stripped me down to my thin pair of "spanking shorts," a pair of thing triathlon shorts. We had discussed a 100 lick paddling a few days before but I wasn't up to getting a Lon hard paddling also I begged off for fifty. He accommodated me giving me 5 sets of ten very hard swats with a large school type paddle with holes drilled in it.

After 50 he dropped my shorts and bent me back over the table and, like it or not, I was going to get it bare bottom. At the end of the third set my ass broke his paddle. No, I was not let off. He went into another room and got a thicker paddle just like the other except thicker. The last twenty were given with that monster, I guess as punishment for breaking the other one.

I don't think I will beg off again. A lesson well learned.

I was spanked a couple of nights ago by my b/f, he said that he thought my skirt was too short! Any excuse to give me a spanking I guess, since I was wearing pants that day.

I'm only rarely a spanker or spankee. I do hope you enjoy (whatever that means to you) your BF spanking you.

Eric

My last adult spanking took place when I was 18. I had recently passed my driving test and had a little Fiat Mirafiori that I drove too fast and probably without due care and attention. One night I came home quite late in the dark and entered the driveway much too fast and being inexperienced misjudged how quickly I could stop. I drove straight into the back of my Dad's Rover. It made one hell of a noise and caused a lot of damage. My dad went ballistic and although I hadn't been properly spanked by him for years, he grabbed hold of me, bent me across his hip and walloped my butt hard about 20 times. I don't think he intended to do that initially, it was just instinct. I was mortified and I remember trying not to cry and might even have smart mouthed him (which would have earned me more) but none the less I did cry and I remember him telling me that even at 18 I was still not too old to be given a good hiding if he thought I needed it. Thankfully that was the last time I was spanked!

The other day.

I literally asked for it, as it enhances and heightens sensations in the moment.

What I would like is to be spanked over the knee rapidly.

Husband prefers not to do that. His parents spanked infrequently, so I think he does not feel entirely comfortable with the act.

About 6 months ago I contacted a Misstress / Dominatrix , I told her I fantaized about being spanked the way I was as a child. She told me that there will be no sex , none at all , we agreed on the fee . I told her how my Mom spanked me with a strap bent over my bed naked from the waist down. She gave me a safe word, asked me how server I wanted it. I told her I wanted it to be uncomfortable to sit for 3 days. Everything was agreed to and set. I was at the appointed place at the appointed time. She was wounderful , she fell right into the roll. She had me crying like a baby when it was over. There was a big stress that was now off my sholders, a big tention thst was gone. I left with a sore behind , really sore. But with a happieness in my heart.

My last spanking was given to me last night by my wife. It will happen every night for the next 6 or 7 days because she is on her period. She says while she suffers the period I will a spanking each day

I’ve posted this on another thread I’m Sure,

First though a clarification, as it depends on how some folks define spanking,

For me that definition is really smacking with the hand, I’ve not been disciplined in that manner since 8years of age,

However for those of you that define spanking as encompassing all forms of discipline,

The last time I was caned was not long after coming of age to adulthood at 21,

It was I later found out a set up by a friend, as I visited his home, and ended up mixed in with a group of sixth formers his schoolmaster father was punishing.