When was your last adult spanking and why

About 30 seconds ago. I just got up from her knee

It was last week. By my boyfriend, in front of my mom!!! I was at my mom's and fell sick. Not too much though. When my boyfriend called, I was sleeping. So he spoke with my mum. He asked her to keep me at her house for a few days till I recover. She was more than happy to take care of me. But I am irregular with taking my meds on time. My mum kept lecturing me. I used to take meds only after she nagged and later started skimping on them again. My boyfriend would call all the time to check on me and sure as hell, mum told on me. He said he's coming right over. I had no idea. So initially I was happy to see him but it was short-lived. After hugging and kissing me, he gently said that he knows I have not been taking my meds regularly. But I am not that ill, I protested. He gave me an angry glare. My mum came into the room by then and started filling him in on all my antics about being careless about my health. I saw his expression getting angrier and angrier. I tried to argue that I took my meds some of the time and wasn't that careless. Without any warning, I found myself on his knees with my upper body resting on the bed. My mum was aghast. She asked him what he was doing. He said you'll see. With that, he proceeded to flip up my skirt and pulled my panties down. I was wriggling and squirming but he had a very firm hold on me. He rubbed my entire bottom a few times. And then the bare bum spanking started. My mum was surprised at what was happening in front of her. I had already started crying and pleading but the spanking continued with the crisp sounds heard all over the room. Thank God, my younger sister wasn't home. She would have so enjoyed seeing me get punished on my bare bottom. He kept spanking and scolding about how childish I had behaved by not taking care of my health and troubling my mom. She exclaimed, let her go. Her bottom is all pink. My boyfriend stopped. But he made me crouch low on the bed, body touching the bed, knees fully bent and my pink bottom sticking up and on display. Just a different version of standing in the corner. With me in that position and sobbing, he and my mum started talking. He told her she should have spanked me more when I was a kid. Then I wouldn't have been such a brat. She reluctantly agreed. It was sooo embarrassing, being spanked in front of her and then stay with my bum on display while they spoke. He also suggested to her to take my temp rectally if I feign being well and not taking my meds and asked her to keep him abreast about everything.

My last one was yesterday. Now my “Daddy” does usually give me a somewhat gentle reminder most days of 4-12 swats with his hand. Most days that is enough to satisfy my needs to remind me to behave and makes me very happy. I was told at one point yesterday if I didn’t stop being so impatient I was going to be getting a lot more than a reminder. That was enough to stop my nagging about things we needed to get done. Later in when he took me into my little Library to deal with things he gave me a dozen stokes with the Canadian School Strap which had me squirming a lot, then several swats with his hand (likely around 12) and finally 6 swats with his flip flop sandal. I apologized for my behaviour thanked him and then got up. As always once I was no longer bent over the chair he hugged me and told me that he loved me. Later on I confessed to him that even though by about the 3rd stroke of the strap I really wanted him to stop, I stated that if he is hoping to effect an impact of change probably a good two dozen strokes is a minimum to really get me thinking about my behaviour (I quickly retorted too my own statement that my bum was sore and I was not in anyway asking for more, which made “Daddy” smile). But he told me that both he and my husband have noticed much improvement but he understands that being so much a core of my personality it won’t change over night. I feel very lucky. A sore bottom makes me feel deeply loved and cared for. I realize for most people they won’t understand but know a significant number reading this forum do understand. Erotic spankings can be fun but a good old fashioned punishment one, one well passed where I would say “stop” fulfills my need (for anyone who is concerned, any serious distress or physical need to truly stop would easily happen by speaking my Daddy’s name and telling him so, some might see this as not a true punishment spanking then since I could theoretically stop it but I have several times been reduced to tears, Daddy has a deep concern for my wellbeing and I honestly don’t have any fear letting him give me whatever he wants).

It was almost a year ago. I was over my Domme's house and she had her friend (Domme in training) sleeping over. She had me serve her and she was not satisfied with the service and attention that was paid to her. When she woke up and had breakfast, we had some small talk when I was ordered to the living room and was told to pull down my pants and underwear and bend over the arm of the couch. That's when the two ladies took turns spanking me with the large paddle she has just for the occasion. I must have gotten a hundred spanks total. Then I was made to stay in the position when one of them put on her strapon and lubed me then entered me and continued to her climax .

Not a spanking as my wife is in the hospital BUT she finally felt good enough to tell me " I can't wait to get home so I CAN SPANK you!"

I was spanked jut last weekend. My wife had reminded me ( twice ) to put out the trash but I forgot and it stunk up the garage badly. Also I left my computer on and she saw I had been watching porn. Two major offenses that resulted in her giving be the belt on my bare butt and corner time.

My husband and I had gone to a dress up restaurant last night and I had worn at his request a summer dress, sheer nylons held up with six garters attached to an open bottom girdle, a lacy low cut bra, and high heels. No panties were prescribed nor allowed. He is always particularly turned on when I dress up that way. We had a lovely dinner with him paying very close attention to me, putting his hand up my leg running his hand over my sheer nylons under our secluded table any number times. He could have seduced me right then and there in the restaurant if he had attempted to do so.

When we got home, I fully expected that we would having some overdue love making with each other pleasing each other in the many ways we have learned the other likes so much.

However my husband immediately announced for me to go our bedroom and sit down on the bed which excited me no end as I know he likes to slowly remove my clothes as we make out prior to having our special moment together.

Instead, he came in with a wooden hairbrush and announced that I was overdue for a good old fashion spanking and he would be taking advantage of the kids being gone for the night on a short trip with their grandparents. Whoa, I did not expect that at all and as he pulled me over his knee, I began to protest but that only heightened his determination to spank me with he describes as a "good and proper" spanking.

That being said, he raised my summer dress above me waist and placed his hand on the satin back of my girdle and patted my bottom for a few minutes explaining that he felt that I had been needing a spanking for some time and he started out spanking me first lightly with his hand. (while I again protested not to spank me, it was entirely consensual) After I was my bottom was thoroughly warmed up with his hand over that tight girdle, he picked up the dreaded hairbrush and began to really lay it on pretty hard making me yelp, but also turning me on. After a thorough spanking with the hairbrush, he laid me on my tummy on the bed and while we were both fully dressed (except for him lowering his pants just enough, he entered me from behind with a tremendous burst of energy and we both soon were gasping for breath after he reached his climax and me my orgasm...the best we both have had in quite some time. After we caught our breath, he stood me up and slowly removed all my clothes and I removed his. We had a shower together and I have to say my sore bottom really felt the hot water on it. After we got in bed, we kissed and made out...he applied lotion to my bright red bottom and we made love again before we fell asleep in one another's arms. My husband was right!! "I was overdue for a good and proper spanking" and may be again in the near future!! Smiling as she rubs her still tender bottom. Denise

Mine was Last night. I did receive it because I asked for it before some assplay with boyfriend. It was my second one as an adult and I loved it. It was the second time he used use the flogger and I loved that too.

In response to the well written narrative by Denise which she openly said it as well as it can be, there are times when a spanking is the very best event that can be given to person's bared butt. So when you know the time has come, openly request it be given to you and enjoy the time afterwards which again as Denise so accurate described, it will be better then "good!"

Back to the Office:

I was called back to the office Monday. The last time I was there my friend broke his paddle at lick 86 or7. I gave him instruction for a new one. I told him to coat it several times with vanish or shellac to make it stronger, he did and it was. He also made it longer and wider. This time I was given 300. 200 before being made to ejaculate and 100 after He gave them in lots of ten, very hard. After having the pleasure drained from me, I knew I was in trouble. He really tuned me up for those last hundred. I was trying climb over that table. I don't ever recall crying from a spanking but this time it was close. He then showed me a note from a "friend" that I add to his punishment and he does the same for me. I had to bend back over the table and a medium size plug was inserted, after cumming that did not feel a bit good. I had to walk around with that thing up me while he took an order over the phone then stand behind a counter with only a shirt on hiding my genitals behind the counter while he gave the guy his order.

I still turn red thinking about it. This is one session I will never forget.

I don't mind "riding the plug" but I hate anything put up my behind after I have cum.

Then while he was examining my mouth, I bit his finger on purpose. (...) He continued to check out my teeth and again I could not resist and bit him.

Time for him to acquire a nice dental gag!

So far, none of my adult spankings have been due to any particular reason. I craved a warm bottom and was lucky to find a woman willing to help. The last was a few months ago from a spanko friend who undressed me and had me lay face down on a massage table. She began with her hand and then tested her extensive collection of implements on my bare butt. She repeatedly took me to the edge of my pain tolerance and then backed away. At the end, my ass had felt most of her collection and was bright red. It was fantastic.

While my experience to-date is spanking fun not for real or invented punishment, I would enjoy a spanking for accountability on some particular behavior and/or invention of a 'reason' in some sort of role play (e.g., strict female boss or strict neighbor who is upset by my behavior).

The other day I asked her when was she going to send back a package of new clothes that did not fit me, as this was asked 3 times before she was fed up with my questioning her & told me to bring her MY spanking brush, yes a Vermont Bath Brush!

I was spanked last night for whispering a cuss word after dropping and breaking one of my favorite decorative dish. Cussing is not allowed in our house. Fortunately the kids were at the their grandparents and husband had me over his knee right away and panties down for a good old fashion spanking. But that led to something pretty special between us even though my buns were quite pink when he got done. He always makes me loved and cared for when he spanks me and for sure it is a turn on for both of us. Denise

5 days ago, one of the ladies who keeps me in line gave me a good workout, over her knee, with her sturdy wooden hairbrush.

Late this morning. I still cannot sit down very well.

I spank myself all the time just because I get aroused from it sometimes. Today I bought a new diaper pail and opaque bags. I’ve wanted a specific diaper pail for some time now. I haven’t decided whether to use the semi- see through bags or try to conceal their contents from the garbage collectors and potentially the neighbors. Anyhow, I hung one of my paddles next to my diaper pail and every time I changed my diaper, I gave myself one swat with the paddle as hard as I could swing it. The first one bruised pretty good but the subsequent ones don’t seem to want to bruise. So far I’m up to 9 diapers so 9 swats with the paddle. I’m on diuretics so this may get to be a little uncomfortable lol!

Just a few minutes ago. It’s a discipline day and my wife will give me spankings throughout the day. Just now 20 medium hard whacks with a belt on my bare bum. Three hard Wallace’s on my front. It stings.

Last time I spanked someone was with a thin plastic dowel, basically a cane. A woman I was dating. She was nervous but wanted it, asked for it. She had such a beautiful white creamy smooth bottom! I didn't cane her as hard as possible but it was hard enough. She muffled her yells in the pillow and later admitted how much it hurt. She had pink welts on her cheeks that I looked at over the next few days. One welt lasted for weeks. I took photos of her bottom right afterward that I still look at to this day.

I last got spanked by a female friend several years ago because I was going through some terrible personal issues that she was kind enough to listen to and help me with. Once she asked 'what can I do to help?' and I said 'honestly, I think I need a spanking, like a really hard spanking.' she was surprised no doubt but took me seriously. I was serious, she knew. So I went face down on her couch and pulled my pants down to my thighs. I remember she said 'bare bottom?!' and I said 'yes please, 10 please.' And she gave me 10 hard painful swats with her bare hand. And that was that. We hugged. No, there was no sex. Honestly it was cathartic.

This morning because she wanted to!

It was about 23 years ago while I was staying with my girlfriends dad and step mom while I attended medical programs and trade school. Not sure what my last one was for but I know for sure she did burn my butt up like usual.

About 3 years ago. I am not allowed to touch myself when my friend is here

My mistress gave a good whipping last Sunday.

A few days ago.

I’ve been going through a lot of emotional stuff including a divorce and other things.

I had not been able to have an emotional cry but needed one.

I asked a friend if he would spank me.

At first he said What? But agreed

I pulled down my pants and he gave me several hard smacks.

I burst into tears, something i really needed.

Sorry for anyone going through a loss such as this such as you, ( been there ) but can also possibly add that you / ex's sexual interests didn't meet your needs, and requiring another to bring relief out. I think that you have other sexual desires that weren't brought up, or poo-pooed by him. Be open like here in your next relationship adventure.

My last spanking was last Saturday. As I cannot host got a room for the night. I met another male Spanker who is within a half hour of where I live. We made arrangements for him to spank me that night. I picked him and we got to the place I was staying. Once inside we both got the implements out we bought. He stripped me naked before going over the knee. That night he spanked me 3-4 times then.

Mine was this past Friday (12/17?21). Another demerit paddling. Luckily. it was only one demerit this time- 10 paddle smacks over my husband's lap. Of course, my pj pants and panties were down for that awful Laser Stinger paddle! I despise that paddle!!! -Gabi

.Of course, my pj pants and panties were down for that awful Laser Stinger paddle! I despise that paddle!!! -Gabi

Sounds like you love to hate it. Have fun!

I’ve been advised by a few here that I’m in need of having my back, front and legs becoming a beautiful shade of red with their administrations by their hands and various implements🤔😉🤣

I think many just like an enema, a paddling can be a love/hate thing… 😃

They hate the paddling, but love the emotional release and the after glow on there bottom reminding them. 😃