Prostate Stimulators

The prostate therapy is best done with a fist inside you, this explosion of feeling the hand up in you touching and massaging the prostate will give you once in a lifetime the life experience of orgasm. Good luck

I was going to buy an Aneros, but instead I bought a vibrating prostate massager. It seems to be working pretty good, but I was wondering if anybody had experience with both the Aneros and with vibrating prostate massagers and could tell which is better.

Outstanding experience, glad that you found someone that knew how to work the "easy button". That can be the most intense thing in the world and even gets better when you add in some electrostimulation to the mix. Best part of it is the total control your nurse has over you with that pressure on the prostate.

Prostate stimulation combined with stimulation to the penis will result in the best orgasm you've ever had.

Ladies if you want to do something real special for your man, this is it. If he is hesitant, be persistent and once you've tried it he will be hooked!

😃My partner [Barb]and I have been into vaginal fisting for years now, on occasion we also party with a gay (male) couple whom love to be fisted by us, recently during one of our (anal evenings) I gave one of my "G-men" a most sensual prostate massage while Barb went down on him. When he finally "exploded" she got quite the load and they guy was actually shaking some. He replied where the "F' did you ever learn to do that. I'm curious if other ladies help guys that way often? I use to love helping my late husband that way but frankly he didn't like it but once in a great while.

Great post, BJ (that is a dual moniker, eh?). This site is a little difficult to cross reference, but there is a tremendous amount of prostate references on here as there should be considering that manly organ is right in the path of an enema. As a victim of prostate cancer and the resulting radical prostectomy in 1993, I miss my little buddy, my orgasms are now what I call a "girly" quiver. Please ladies do not interpret that as an insult or put down, you have that all important vagina among a lot of other attributes. However, it is impossible to describe the sensation of spurting out a load. In reading, I visualized your gay friend shaking as his central nervous system went involuntary. egirlky has described the prostate as sponge like and that is true initially, especially as the fluid builds up in the gland, then the thing becomes suddenly smaller and walnut like as the moment of ejaculation nears and then the throbbing occurs..... I would love to have witnessed this scene, you as the ringmaster,the total momentary abandon of the male, and the submissive work of Barb as she delt with the flood of gism. Give us a little more detail of the sensuous technique you use....

I too cannot reach orgasm by prostate massage alone. By it is nice as a foreplay of during masturbation and also helps to increase the production of precum (althought it is not really a precum that you drain. I think orgasm obtained with your (or your partner's) hand is the best.

Some devices may work quite well, but there's really no substitute for a female partner's fingers, especially if she knows what she's doing. It just feels so much better. It's also extremely intimate and erotic to maintain eye contact with your girl when she's doing this. My girlfriend sends me into orbit every time she milks me, giving me those sultry looks, and at the same time masturbating me. When you pop off, it's much more intense than it is when you ejaculate during intercourse. For those of us who have had this done, we know it's a real treat you never forget. It's actually kind of addictive, because when a girl does this to you that first time, you're going to want it done every time after that. Hahahaha! One hell of a naughty little trick a girl can use to get her way.

There's really only two good ways to massage a man's prostate. The most effective, direct, and beneficial method is to do it rectally. The other "less direct" way is to massage the perenium(between the anus and testicles). The rectal method is more beneficial because you can actually free built up stagnant fluids that have accumulated inside the prostate. Besides being much more in the way of "healthy" it also feels better for the man and it's an intimacy builder between couples. I try to do this for my signifigant other about once a month, but once every 3 months can produce excellent results. Many men who have a tendency to get prostate inflammations can benefit from having this done, but never do it during an actual inflammation or infection, because it can be dangerous. It remains to be proven though if prostate milking actually helps prevent cancer.

This is one of the few "procedures " i do on my husband. For us its not part of med play, where he is the doctor but an intimacy thing. There definitely seems to be a benefit to it and he definitely finds it enjoyable.

I have seen many videos and read many stories about this but i have never had it done to me.... I think i'm missing out. :'( I have tried using a smallish dildo but never getting any sensation apart from the feeling of a dildo up my bum...

Seems to be difficult to found the spot,

a strong pressure is necessary

the specialist where I am going two times a year,

let me feel that "thing", he is a man and do it just like a doctor,

nothing else than "here is your prostate Monsieur"

Oh my god he pushed some seconds and I was ready to "ejaculate"

It hapend in an NON EROTIC SITUATION and I don't have the control anymore.

So be sure it exist, but it is not easy to found,

When he or she will reach your prostate, she or he can dried You

Good feelings

Me

Two months ago, I had a referral to see a urologist because of an abnormal DRE and elevated PSA levels at a routine physical. After some questions, he suspected it was either BPH or an infection and wanted to get a urine culture/expressed prostate secretions test, which was essentially a prostate massage in a medical setting. [/font][font=verdana]He gave me a cup to pee in and had me collect urine midstream, and then stop before I had fully emptied my bladder. (If you haven't tried it before, it's quite uncomfortable.). Next came the massage. I was bent over the table, while he sat, so that he was staring straight at my butt. He donned a glove and lubed up and had me glove up as well so that I could hold a glass slide under my penis. He spreads my cheeks and without warning, he pushed in and went right for my prostate, and started firmly moving his finger over it repeatedly. I started to get semi-hard, and I could feel some fluid working its way down my urethra. Maybe halfway through the exam, he had me bear down and slid a second finger in for a more thorough massaging. It was slightly painful actually, and I was feeling a deep ache in there and my hemorrhoids were getting really irritated. By the time he was done, I was highly aroused. (The whole thing took maybe three or four minutes). He then grabbed my penis with his other hand and milked the length of the shaft. I was mortified and felt like I might “lose control” when he did that. When it was done, there was a large drop of secreted fluid on the slide, which he whisked away for examination under a microscope and culturing. After that, he made me finish peeing for a post-expression urine sample.[/font][font=verdana]It was probably one of the most embarrassing exams a guy could get --the urologist admitted as much. He could tell I was clearly embarrassed and told me that almost all the men he's done it to found it be humiliating, but that there really wasn't a dignity-sparing way of doing the exam. Still, I got some peace of mind from the visit. It turned out it was prostatitis and after a 6 weeks of cipro, my PSA was back to normal.

I asked my husband if I could give him one...he did turn one down, hahaha! He says his prostate has been checked out 4 times in his life and he says each time it hurt and it felt like he would urinate all over!! I didnt think prostate exams would hurt???

It depends on the doctor. My last one hurt pretty bad. It hurt for about a day. Some doctors are gentle and some cause pain.

Medfedcouple- husband

I love my yearly prostate exams from my lady doc. I had prostate massage for the first time back in college, when I was found to have an enlarged prostate.

My experience was much more pleasant than Kevin's. The nurse & female doctor positioned me on my knees, with my head resting on my arms on the exam table. This left me, also, in a very exposed & vulnerable position. The doctor gently rubbed lube around my anus, and then gently probed with first one, and then two fingers. I could feel her stroking me, and I have to say I loved it from the start. I got embarassingly erect, and turned my head away. (Her telling me this was normal was not particularly helpful...)

The nurse used a slide to catch some of the fluid, and I nearly came when she touched me...

(It turned out I was okay - I just have a big prostate...)

I have a longer story about an episode at massage school I'll post later.

Years ago I was having problems with frequent urination both daytime and nighttime. I went to a young male urologist who put me through a cystoscope exam and finally prescribed several current medications to take care of the problem. After several months and no relief I ended up seeing the older doctor in the practice because my doctor was unavailable. After looking over my case he said he wanted to try an old fashioned remedy and see if it would cure my problem. He suggested that I undergo a once a week prostate massage for four weeks and see if that helped. Since the new drugs had not done any good, I agreed and he gave me my first treatment that day. A month later I didn’t need any drugs and the treatments did what they were suppose to. He has since retired so 10 years later now that my symptoms are beginning to return, I am hesitant to return to the urologist who may only want to try drugs even if they don’t work.

The meds for BPH are of some help, but not a great deal. Personally, I believe in intervention that will actually help the situation. For BPH, before the condition gets too severe, find a urologist familiar with the various laser prostate reduction procedures and visit him.

I had the Evolve laser procedure performed about a year ago. My bother score went from 27 to less than 1. It has stayed at less than 1.

The advantage of the laser procedures over TURP are quicker recovery, less loss of blood, little or no hospitalization, and much less risk of complications.

Speed

At age 60, i have been diagnosed with BPH {benign prostate hyperplasia}, an enlargement of the prostate that most males will experience sooner or later as they age. No big deal so far, it reduces the flow of urine, sometimes I have to "milk" my penis to finish. While researching BPH on the web, I stumbled onto information on prostate massage. Several sources claim that it is intensely pleasurable for most men and some claim that it leads to orgasm for most. Enlisting the able fingers of my wife, who had never shown much interest in anal play, I now am treated to a massage every 2 or 3 days. I tell her that it's necessary to avoid an even larger prostate and more problems. I do find the massages pleasurable, and almost always become erect, but have not had an orgasm and can't see it happening without more stimulation than just her finger up my ass. What I have discovered though, is that I enjoy the submissive aspect of being bent over and and "taken" that way. I guess playing the aggressor in sex for most of a lifetime makes the novelty aspect of these massages the best part. Do any of you other males have experience with prostate massage? And do you orgasm?

I have tried the Aneros it's okay but nothing like a good finger. I used to have a local massage place that a BBW girl there did an great job. She would massage my back until I was nice and relaxed but leave me face down. Then would drip the oil between my crack and let it all run down there, and would tickle by balls and head until I was hard as a rock and pull my penis backwards between my legs. Then she worked a gloved finger in it was a lot easier to get the prostate while I was flat down on the table. If I was on my back then she had to curl the finger too much and she had a hard time reaching it. This is much like the doctors do it with the old bend over the table on your elbows. While she milked the prostate she would tickle the head of my penis with her fingers as it was sticking out backwards between my legs. She was able to control my orgasm by using different pressures and movements on the prostate. She would let up and extend my pleasure this went on for at least 30minutes then she went all out and I came so hard I thought I saw starts. When I got up I was shaking because my legs were weak I went to see her several times over the last 10 years but local police started to bust these massage places and I didn't want to risk it. Some were even using video tapes and using the pictures to go after people who came in the door. Don't really understand this country how backwards it is when it comes to just one person pleasuring another.

GREAT thread! I'm happy to have the chance to give my viewpoint.

As many of my fellow forum-members are aware from reading my posts, I have a wonderful medplay partner who I think the world of.

One of the best things about our medical scenarios (and the non-medical ones too) is that he loves to have his prostate massaged. Luckily for me, he was patient enough to teach me how. There is nothing like the feeling of entering him with a well-lubed, gloved finger, finding the prostate gland and then stimulating him. His reaction is entirely gratifying. He also enjoys having his testicles squeezed or his penis stroked while my finger is doing its work. Oh, if only I had another hand, I could do all three at once.

Gentlemen; if this is something you'd enjoy and you haven't already told your partner; by all means, do so! Let her know what feels good to you. Ladies; let your man be your guide. I promise you, you'll both get a lot out of it (pun fully intended!). I love pleasing my partner this way, and evidently, he loves it too!

Play On!

LadyDoc

Communicate with your partner, show and tell her(him)what you feel, you will have more chances to reach after some trials the climax, it is just like bicycle or swimming before to do it it is so hard to do it, once you can it so easy.

Good luck, I wish you that the juices will be with your partner

Yours and every other male's prostate lies just inside the anal sphincter and its forward toward the scrotum, not toward the tail bone. It takes a while to explore one's anal region, always use a glove, lots of lube and gently insert your index finger inside the rectum and feel around until you feel a soft gland that is the size of a small walnut. As you massage the area, you should feel some stimulation and a pleasurable feeling. Its not the easiest thing to do by yourself until you get the hang of it. You can do this standing up, lying on your left side which is the position doc's use when doing a rectal exam or you can lay on your back, bring your legs up and apart and explore for there. Once you ID the area you will know just how far to go. You can also look at a pic of the male anatomy and see just where the prostate is located.

My name is tom and my e male is tomb259@yahoo.com or via this site. I have been into enemas for years and work in health care when they were given all the time.

Hopes this helps. Tom

Over the years I have often massaged by husband's prostate just to be trying something a bit different. First time I hit it, he could have outran a Harley out on the interstate. But I got better. 😁 (now he only outruns Smarts)

Then a few years ago, he revealed his own little kink, to which we still practice off and on today. So during his "down" time, I learned how to drain him by prostate milking. Not really much different than a massage, just slower and more intense.

After reading Suzy's post I felt a lot better about myself. I read about prostate stimulation the other guys talk about and I wondered if something was wrong with me. While the nerve endings in my anus are very perceptive I get no extra benefit from trying to stimulate the area around my prostate, I even find it a little painful at times.

One of the most important treatments for chronic prostatis is, or was prostatic massage. If you get a lot of secretion produced on massage, you should suspect a chronic infetion of the gland. If the fellow hits the roof as soon as you touch the gland, suspect an acute infection and if it feels craggy rough and enlarged , he may have a maligbabcy. a benign prostatic enlargement on the other hand,feels elastic and loses the crease betwwn the two lobes of the gland. Bear in mind that these are merely clinical observations and may need further investigation if abnormalites are present. It takes a good deal of experience to detect the state of health of the gland but that is what clinical experience is all about

Everyone has their own preferences, waterbaby, so the first time is always a time to learn.

Put on a nitrile glove, lube it up real good, slip a finger in just a little and let him show you what feels good.

I had a prostate massage by a uro about 15 years ago. I felt a little thrill when he said he was going to do this, but it turned out to be just a bit uncomfortable. I was bent over the exam table, he handed me a glass slide to hold under my penis, and he slid in a finger and did what felt like a one-finger handstand on my prostate. No rubbing, but just a very strong pressure for a while. Probably only a few seconds, but it seemed like longer. The result was a single drop of clear fluid on the slide, and a dull ache for the next 5 minutes.

Suzie, once again I worship you. You are so interesting. I only wish I could have met someone like you when I was a young man. We would have made music together!

I know this is a little "after the fact" - but- once you're in don't be too aggressive. The prostate is vital and not equipted for roughness.

Go slowly and side to side with gentle pressure. A long gentle massage is better than a quick "slam bam". And safer too.