Prostate Stimulators

Had a session once, here in the UK, with a Domme. The usual tie and tease and a bit of spanking and her demainding I lick her vulva.

Then she wrapped an electrode round my scrotum and another round the cock head and turned on the power in a rhythmic rising and falling intensity. After a while she inserted a ribbed electrode in my anus. It was bi-polar and the stimulating parts of it, the electrodes, were against my prostate gland.

She turned the power on that and adjusted the frequency to a rhythm which felt like someone was knocking on my prostate. I came a huge gush of semen way up in the air. Some splashed on her but most on my belly. Brilliant. Recommended

My boyfriend likes it too now as long as i use a gloved finger( so my nails dont hurt him) and lots of lube.i too want to try a vibrator on it but he aint into that idea yet lol. he cums alot more when i do this and usually i will give him a hand job or something.

Painful-v-pleasureable depends on whose in control of the power box. If it's a Dom/me and you've asked to be punished then the knob (including your knob) will be adjusted accordingly.

Best ask for erotic stimulation. It's unique, The initial sensation which will go away, just as when the prostate is pressed with a finger, can be disconcerting because you feel as if you want to pee and don't want to make a mess. Don't worry, you won't pee but you will make a mess, all over your belly!!!

The feeling of semen being milked out of you by the prostate is the best sensation i have ever felt. The first time my wife did this to me, she was amazed by all the sperm that had leaked out on to the bed. I have never fully orgasmed from having my prostate stimulated, but very close. I probably would have if i would of left my penis alone. Has anyone else?

Guys, I hate to be overly technical BUT, milking the prostate does NOT produce sperm or semen. It produces PROSTATIC FLUID which forms about 20-30% of the semen volume. Prostatic secretions include proteolytic enzymes which is why semen starts out thick and stringy and after 15-25 minutes becomes thin and watery. It also contains acid phosphatase, and prostate-specific antigen.

SPERM comes from the testes and just before ejaculation, passes through the vas deferens, mixes with the seminal vesicle fluid in the ejaculatory duct and then goes into the urethra to mix with other fluids on its way out.

The SEMINAL VESICLE produces a thick fluid which comprises 50-60% of the seminal volume, and contains proteins, enzymes, fructose, mucus, vitamin C, flavins, and other compounds. This is the fluid that gives freshly ejaculated semen its thick consistency.

SEMEN is only really formed when you have an orgasm and ejaculate. Semen is the combined product of sperm, prostatic fluid and seminal vesicle fluid. A real doctor isn't going to massage your prostate for a semen or sperm sample. They will have you masturbate into a cup.

Normal semen volume is 2 to 5 ml, which is 1/2 to one teaspoon. Sorry guys, no half pint loads here.

http://www.umc.sunysb.edu/urology/male_infertility/SEMEN_ANALYSIS.html

I must say, I love the way we are able to use this valuable website to share information with one another, debunk rumors and misinformation, and offer support in exploring our physical and sexual bodies. That is the primary value of a site like this, and feeling free to raise questions, challenge falsehoods, and share our own personal stories is what it is all about. This thread contains solid information, technical support, and good old encouragement for those who are contemplating widening their horizons into a new dimension of play and experience.

I would merely like to add that the concern expressed by "Tyler", that prostate massage can be bad for your health falls into the same kinds of constraints that were once attached to masturbation and other pleasurable occupations. It is bunk, pure and simple. The danger of injury from too vigorous manipulation of the prostate is mitigated by the fact that the recipient will immediately be able to distinguish between a pleasurable touch and a painful one in this intimate portion of his anatomy, and will very likely signal his enjoyment of the lack thereof to his partner or playmate. Considerations of cleanliness and clear communication between participants aside, the benefits of this kind of activity will far outdistance any potential risks -- and as in all kinds of intimate relations, will lead to a deeper understanding between those involved, and hence a strengthened bond of affection, gratitude, and pleasure.

As they say in the Olympics -- "let the games begin!"

Does anybody have any tips on how to give a prostate massage?

The best way I can describe it is to do it the same way as you would have your G-spot massaged. Have your boyfriend lie on his back. Straddle his legs so you are facing him. He can be in the "frog position" with his legs falling apart or with his knees drawn up and your legs under his or his legs can be flat in the bed if he is comfortable that way, only you will have less access to his anal area, but it still works. Facing each other makes for a wonderful experience as you can see each other's face and talk, or at least smile at each other when you do this. Lubricate your fingers and your boyfriend's anus and rectum, get the sphincter to relax and accept one, then a second finger (three or four fingers are also good if you can insert them or fist him, but that's another post), hold your palm facing upward, and make the "come here" motion with with your index and middle fingers. You don't have to go in very far. If you insert your fingers all the way (you don't have to jam them in and reach for his ribcage) and make a stroke with your fingers from an extended position, pulling forward to his inner anal ring, (you will feel it from the inside) you will have well covered his prostate and he will thank you for it! If you are masturbating him at the same time, try to time your penis strokes with the rectal/prostate strokes. They can be in sync with each other or alternating with each other. My husband likes it best when the forward stroke on the prostate coincides with the pull stroke on his penis.

Make sure your nails are filed short and smooth. Have fun!

A sensational ejaculation can be arranged by using an electrostimulator such as a tens with one elactrode connected to the base of the penis and the other made of an insulated wire with a small metal ball at the end which is placed on the prostate. What a ride! It takes some practice and adjusting but oh God when it is right!

A number of years ago I purchased a G - Spot Vibe. Basically a smooth dildo about 10" long with the last inch bent at a 45 degree angle. I put an old style Trojan condom ( no little sperm catcher on the end ) on it to keep it clean. I give myself a small enema with a bulb just to clean out the lower end. Then lube up me and the toy. Relax and slowly insert with the bend on the end pointing toward my belly button. Not everybody's prostate is exactly in the same place. Body weight, height & size can make it vary up to a couple inches. Once it's in about half way, twist it around a little. In a little farther , twist again. Eventually you find the "SPOT". Then it's twist, wiggle, in & out and whatever feels good. That's what works for me and after a while pre - cum and semen just starts lightly flowing out of even a soft penis. Add a little hand action up front and the results can be a blast !!!

I bought one of the Eros prostate massagers and it seemed to do the trick - had to wriggle it about a bit though first to hit the spot.

It is hard to get the right angle and pressure yourself. If you can find someone to help I am sure you can make it happen. Most of the toys out there have not worked in my experience. Has anyone found a toy that works for a hands free orgasm with prostate massage?

I was the patient. I arrived at my doctors office and after filling out paperwork, was led to the exam room. The nurse told me to remove all clothing waist down and knock when done. I had the regular gown on and when the nurse reentered, I was placed in stirrups. Doctor (female) entered did a visual pelvic and anal exam, then did what she called a deep pressure prostate exam (which it was). Then she started actually massaging with one, then two, then three fingers, two inside and one below my scrotum. The pressure was intense and after many minutes of internal rubbing, I started to release semen. I really wanted to have an orgasm but no way since this was all medical driven. The stirrups really leaves a person WIDE open in view for everyone. Anyway, I have to say that intercourse is much better and it seems that I have stronger orgasims. I am going to have my wife try but she wants to go to my next exam first

The "P" spot is only about 3" inside. My lover will sometimes reach it with her finger as an adjunct to a HJ or BJ.

It's easily reached with a vibrator. In the past, I have sounded to the prostate and used a vibrator to reach it from the back. The sensation was "urgent"...almost electric, and led quickly to strong ejaculation. You have to be careful not to lose control and hurt yourself with the sound, though.

Have your wife use the probe of a enema/douching bag. Dependent upon your anatomy, you can use either the straight, narrow one (perhaps 1/2") or the one that is flared to about one inch.

As it goes in, you will know when it is at the prostate. Have her "fuck" your anus with it in short, quick strokes. She can also press it into the prostate once ejaculation starts and force out quite a bit more semen, but I have not found that enjoyable.

A few things about the wider, flared probe is that it will stay in on its own and not be easily pushed out. Also, this one may have ridges and valleys at the flared end where the holes are located, and rolling it in her fingers while she "fucks" you is very good.

And a last thing: Both probes have holes in them which will allow air to pass in and out as she "fucks" you, which will reduce the "full feeling".

There is a device intended for veterinary use and for artificial insemination. I forgot the name of it, but it uses an electric current applied in the right place to cause a bull to ejaculate "on command".

It doesn't sound practical for human use and I assume it would be a very expensive gadget.

Actually there was such a device on the market in the late sixties-early seventies. It was called the Auto-Suck and plugged into the cigarette lighter. It originated to my knowledge in sotuhern CA and I believe that it was advertised in Playboy. No, I never saw a real one nor used it but it was designed to allow drivers pleasure on their commutes.As to how functional and efficient it was, I have no idea. The fact that it was just a passing fad/toy would imply that it was not satisfactory to the general public.

I have also tried using a narrow "g-spot" type vibe anally while sounding to the prostate up front. Much to keep track of and you don't want to let the "urgency" cause you to man-handle the sound and hurt your insides. Done right and in the right mood, orgasm and ejaculation can be almost overwhelmingly intense. I'd like to have this done with a skilled woman's hands but I'd get lost in the experience and act like an idiot!

Last night after 3 deep enemas, I decided to sit on the toilet & just barely insert the tube so the water would run over my prostate and then into the toilet. I had the bad higher than normal so the flow would be greater. I found it early & the feeling was incredible. After the 2 liter bag emptied, I lubed up my Aneros & stroked my prostate with it. After 10 minutes & 2 dry orgasm, I got a flexible vibe & stroked my prostate with it. I believe the sitting position was a good position for me as I have tried it many times before & never was able to drip any fluids. My arms got tired after 30 minutes, but I believe with practice I'll be able to milk my prostate dry. And if I can't I have a number of a lady who has posted on Craigslist who specializes in prostate milking.

Was this the electric Prostate stimulator called the PES System?I've heard of it on Nip Tuck Where A girl Inserts the stimulator up a guy and you get a ejaculation with electrical

shock alone no stimulation.Does it work?.With so many spinal surgeries I can no longer have an orgasm and I'm thinking of purchasing this item.Anyone out there give me any ideas please!

Was this the electric Prostate stimulator called the PES System?I've heard of it on Nip Tuck Where A girl Inserts the stimulator up a guy and you get a ejaculation with electrical

shock alone no stimulation.Does it work?.With so many spinal surgeries I can no longer have an orgasm and I'm thinking of purchasing this item.Anyone out there give me any ideas please!

Electroejaculation does work. It is a commonly used medical procedure for men who have had spinal injuries, major abdominal surgery or injuries and are unable to ejaculate.

I can't say if you will have success with the PES product. You might. For a few hundred dollars for the power box and rectal and penile electrodes, it would cost less than the medical procedure. It might be worth it.

😃

I am afraid to try anything electrical especially on my prick. :'(

But thank heavens I don't need to. I get the most wonderful prostate orgasms when my Jannie stuff's her four fingers - and mre when she succeeds with her whole 😉hand - in my gut. Her fingers pressing on my prostate brings both dry - and very wet orgasms 😜

When I return the honor she actually gushes from her arse - clear liquid 😘

Naturally we have series of enemas - both of us - before that play - and they are not bad either 😮

Pity on people who haven't found their anal pleasures yet 😃

My first wife was the only one that gave me a prostate massage during sex My second wife never did. I do massage my prostate every once in a while though and I would love if a woman would do it at anytime during times while we are alone. 😃

I've never tried prostate massage, but I hear that it produces VERY intense orgasms. Maybe someday I'll meet a woman that would be willing to try that.

I too have used a small g-spot vibe for prostate stimulation. Seems to do the trick much better that Aneros... No wonder, we all have slightly different anatomies, for some the Aneros hits the spot, for others it doesn't. Still a skilled woman is on top of my wish list.

So I've been reading alot about prostate massages and guys having orgasams from enemas. I tried slipping a guy or two the finger(most guys just freak out), but never got him to "get off" in any way. can someone enlighten me as to how I should be doing it right ? ..also is it the pressure or just the excitement as far as enemas causing a guy to cum ?

A good way to get started is to have him lay on his back and you to straddle his legs, with his legs over yours so you are face to face and let his legs, bent at the knees just fall apart. Begin by either masturbating or oraling him. While you are in the heat of the moment playing with his penis and balls, use lubrication all over his balls and butt cheeks/anal area and begin by just making circles with your finger very lightly over his anus. After a minute or two or three, you can begin to make motions of slight penetration, until finally your finger is finally deep inside him. The key here is not to make it seem like all you want to do is get inside his ass. What you want to do is make the anal penetration seem like a complementary part of other things you are doing to his genitals.

Have fun!

Ok here is the most important thing about prostate massage.

Women are built to be penetrated and so anal penetration is only a short distance to a differnt hole..

Men are programmed to be the penetrator,, for a man to receive anything in his ass requires a huge change in thinking...

sure the nerves are there to allow him to enjoy anal play, but the brain first has to be willing!

Many/Most guys are under the false impression that anything having to do with anal automatically means gay,, which is not true,, gay is attraction to someone of the same sex,, anal is not related to gender at all, everyone has an anus....

Truth is over 1/3 of the penis is inside the mans body,, if you use gentle pressure to follow the shaft down toward the root you find it passes in front of the anus and goes inside, where there is a bulb shaped organ, the prostate,,, this complex structure has the urine tube from the bladder going thru the center (like a doughnut,) and also the semen is stored and mixed and pumped from there during ejack-ulation.. gentle pressure can make a guy feel like he is both pissing and/or cumming...

the largest sex organ is the brain!

Switchable...., yes, that's the idea. (but everyone should wear a glove--no reason not to be hygenic--under the fingernails stuff)

Actually, curling the finger up may create a compulsion to finish--I don't want it to go so fast.

^^^^ Well, I guess that depends on how clean you are and if you are "poking" your spouse or regular partner. My husband and I actually go into each other "in the raw" because we have been fluid bonded for so many years, we don't worry about contracting anything unusual. We are also very good about handwashing.

Thank you for the replies. so by rubbing this spot how will I know it's working? I've read about milking and tried it once but nothing like from what I've read happened,..like this big cum rush, and long flow of clear fluid and stuff. As far as being clean I always wash my hands and wear a latex glove, being an EMT once I understand Basal Substance Isolation. But can't figure out how to get a guy to cum this way. lol!

These are excellent response posts and I cannot add a great deal to the technique. I would like to mention that an experienced female can use the prostate massage for control; if you want him to produce a lot of ejaculate, you can tease the organ for about a minute or up to four minutes and then make him wait for about an hour, viola, he will blast a big load. The technique is also popular with hookers who are doing a "double" and need to expedite the second orgasm (provided one had been requested and/or is included in the arrangement). The man is brought to a turgid enough state to enter the second girl and while he is sliding in and out, girl number one slides her finger into his rectum, and gently curls her finger forward. This stimulation most always results in an instant ejaculatory reflex. As a male, I can attest that this works and that one is cognitive of the gland after the second orgasm; there is a subtle soreness to the little bugger. It's not that uncomfortable and is a reminder of the recently experienced pleasure.

After a male is trained by his lady to accept her manipulation of the gland, a lot of pre-ejaculatory seminal fluid may be expressed in the process. I used to have a girl who liked to take the sticky fluid from the little pool on my belly and rub in on her nipples. Very erotic.

Thank you for the replies. so by rubbing this spot how will I know it's working ? I've read about milking and tried it once but nothing like from what I've read happened,..like this big cum rush, and long flow of clear fluid and stuff. as far as being clean I always wash my hands and wear a latex glove, being an EMT once I understand Basal Substance Isolation..but can't figure out how to get a guy to cum this way. lol!

So I've been reading alot about prostate massages and guys having orgasams from enemas. I tried slipping a guy or two the finger(most guys just freak out), but never got him to "get off" in any way. can someone enlighten me as to how I should be doing it right? Also is it the pressure or just the excitement as far as enemas causing a guy to cum?

Waterbaby, I'm going to go so far out on a limb answering this for you that it is about to break off the tree and the guys may want to kill me. The things is, I've been in more guy's assholes and stimulated many more prostates than they have, so I speak from experience. What they say about their own asshole/prostate doesn't count because they exaggerate so much.

As far as the big rush and super abundant cum flow, it's a fake. Yes the flow is increased, you can get them to drip or exude prostatic fluid while massaging their prostate and if you masturbate them for an extended period of time before allowing them to orgasm or if you stimulate them, stop, and wait ten or twenty minutes before allowing them to orgasm, the seminal fluid flow will be increased because the body will have prepared for and "expected' an ejaculation, except they didn't. Waiting then causes a portion this fluid to be stored for the next time, and so there is an increase in volume, but it isn't a garden hose expulsion of semen.

Yes, the sensation is VERY intense, especially when the rectal stimulation is by fisting, especially very deep fisting, like up to his rib cage. I have been with a few men who have really screamed as they convulsed as this was done. Is one or two fingers rubbing the prostate doing this, I don't think so, but a massive prostate massage with four fingers or fisting causing great pressure on the prostate--absolutely.

As far as guys cuming from prostate massage alone, most guys will lie about it and say they do. Trust me, the proportion of men (not teenagers who can cum in literally ten seconds by squeezing the head of their penis twice) who can do that is at most a tenth of the proportion of women who can cum without touching their clitoris.

The technique I posted earlier in this thread works very well for my husband and other men I have done this for.

Regarding the pressure of the enema causing a "prostate induced orgasm" is also about nil. If that were true, guys would be having orgasms as they held in their farts at business meeting. Pressure is pressure, and many enemas are under less pressure than a good fart you have to hold in at a social occasion. It would be the excitement that is causing the men you are seeing to cum, and since you to are on the younger side (20's), the men you see may be more excitable than the middle and older aged men posting here.

Don't worry about your technique just because you don't get the response you have read about. To paraphrase what George Costanza used to say on Seinfeld when he wanted to break up with a woman, "It's NOT you, it's THEM."

Have a lot of fun, experiment a lot, and don't believe all you read.