Prostate Stimulators

I have been "massaged" so many times I lost count. You don't cum from this exercise per say, what happens is there is an aboudance of preseminal fluid that will/can be released thru the correct procedure. There is a special area at one end of the prostate that is in fact a type of valve. Massaging this area along with the rest of the gland will force the fluid thru that valve (for lack of a better word) and into the urethera and out of the penis. Part of the enjoyment of this is that the person doing the "milking" will also massage the penis and cause the fluid to come out of the penis. A good massager will know what to do with that fluid when it comes out. :😃

Excellent post, Ms. Switchable Suzie. Cannot give you enough credit for accuracy and content. The process is pleasurable to most men and there are quite a few who are too macho to allow anything up their ass. Age does make a hell of a difference, too. The teenage male is a semen factory. I could produce two full loads within 5 to 10 minutes of each other from age 14 up into my early to mid twenties. Things slow down after that. One other thing I have an off subject comment to add is the wonderful scent of the natural female vaginal lubricant. I love to be body painted with it...

I have a Venus 2000 and it comes in quite "handy" if you'll pardon the pun. It's rhythmic, never misses a beat, and goes forever (or until you turn it off). I use it with clients quite often... "look ma, no hands!!" It's just a little noisy, but being milked by a machine could be a cool fantasy too.

Howdy,Read your reply and am very interested in your post.Have had over 7 surgeries and on much pain meds.Due to spinal injury;I can't have and orgasm thru masturbation :'(.Have read about electrical prostate orgasm and would like to find out more.I only get on-line once in a while but would much like to hear about this product It has been a long time for sexual satisfaction!!!!! :'( :'(

I was familair with a lab technician many years ago who enjoyed massaging prostates. She used to interpret PAP smears, and she suprised me once, to my delight. She very lovingly asked to massage my prostate, and as the prostate fluid would drip from my penis tip, she wanted to collect it on slides. She did so. Then she instructed me to masturbate, which I did without question, and as I was pumping, she stated the reason why she needed my semen was to place it on various glass slides, put cover slips on, then place them at her work station... why? She said "that way, you will be with me every day", which made sense. Well, as I was about to release, she arranged about 6 slides, and she helped aim my penile head appropriately, and we managed to hit most of the slides (u know...men, we get out of control and cum all over the place).

Besides being pleasurable, it seems to me that prostate massage has legitimate health benefits, at least for those of us in the over-40 crowd.

We are told to do regular self-examination of skin, testicles, and breasts. So why not the prostate?

My wife checks mine monthly, examining it for size, shape, and texture. Most importantly, she checks it for change from previous examinations. Very pleasurable, but worthwhile from a health point of view too.

So, ladies, for the sake of the guy in your life, check it out.

I have cum several times with various anal devises inserted and without playing with my penis. I also have cum when using a higginson while sitting on the floor and filling myself.

It is a different sensation from sexual intercourse or hand play.

I've done this for my guy a few times. I remember the first time I snuck a finger in him his reaction would have been no different if I had stuck a hot curling iron up his butt.Hahahahah!! It was SO FUNNY! I didn't hurt him, he just wasn't expecting it.

Now when I do it I massage his anus externally first, then ask him if he's ready for me to enter him. Though I surprised him that first time, he loves for me to do this to him. It's amazing what 2" of your index finger can do to make a guy have the most mindblowing orgasm, without even touching his genitals. As for using enemas, I will give him the enema first and get that out of the way so he'll be cleaned out real good. I won't give the enema and prostate massage together because I'm afraid he might have an accident, BIG ACCIDENT. I don't care to deal with the mess. I always keep my nails trimmed back because of my job, but I also use an exam glove as an added safety measure. This helps to insure I don't tear him inside his rectum with what little fingernails I do have and plus it's cleaner too. I know alot of women won't come anywhere near their guy's butt with their fingers, but there are benefits in giving him a prostate massage. First it relieves stagnant prostatic fluid that has been stored if he's not been that sexually active. This has been shown to also help prevent prostate infections and possibly cancer. Secondly, by periodically massaging his prostate, you might find lumps or swelling that a doctor may not discover in time during a yearly routine physical. Finally girls, this is one of the most intimate gifts you can ever give to your man. And don't think for one minute he hates having it done because it makes him feel gay. This is the same lame excuse every man uses the first time his girl sneaks a finger in him. It probably has more to do with his pride. I believe it was Playboy Magazine that once did a column on prostate milking, and it was said that around 90% of men would like for a woman to do this, but most will not admit to it.

Nurse Nikki,

When you do a prostate massage, do you use your index or middle finger? Also, what position for the male, or at least your b/f, works best for the massage?

Thanks

Jeez, I love a good prostate massage. Especially nice if on knees and elbows, straddling your partner's lap, getting massaged and masturbating at the same time. Once my wife gave me a rough prostate massage and a BJ at the same time - that was fantastic.

I usually use my index finger. Your hand doesn't tire as easily this way and you really don't have to insert your finger much further than 2" or so to achieve the desired effect. As for positioning , I find it much more easier and intimate if my boyfriend is laying on his back, legs spread,and his knees drawn up. This way I can sit between his legs and have easy access to his rectum and genitals. I can also maintain eye contact with him. When a guy is in this position, his prostate is compressed inward toward the wall of the rectum, making it easier to locate and apply more pressure. My boyfriend enjoys this position better also because he loves for me to put him in a more vulnerable situation.

Perhaps there are different types, as you will, of prostate milking. A few years ago I developed prostitis and went in for an exam. The doctor "espressed" some fluid onto a slide--but it was not pleasant, and actually hurt a bit. In the past, I have had very plesant experiences with a dildo. So I suspect that the plesuure depends upon the technique.

Lucam,

Watch out! I was doing some anal play with pressure on my prostate a few days before my annual physical. My PSA jumped up enough that I was referred to a urologist who sent me for a prostate biopsy. I suggest you refrain from messing around with your prostate for a week before you have a PSA test.

I wouldn't recommend a prostate biopsy to anyone, but I did like the feeling of the ultrasound probe moving around in my anus and rectum for 30 minutes or so.

ArousedFreak, Know exactly what you are talking about, same thing happened to me a couple years ago.I ended up at the urologist but didn't have to go through biopsy or ultrasound.I was able to hold him off for a couple months and then had my psa checked again.it was back in the normal range but never as low as it had been. I went every six months and the last time it was a year. I have to go again next week.I have already got the psa test done and it's still in the normal range and even lower than last test but now it's time for the finger.I never did have the nerve to tell the doctor about the anal play and he didn't ask thank God.

You don't want to engage in sexual intercourse, or masturbation for at least 10 days before they run a PSA blood analysis. My urologist would always have me wait for 10 days after he performed a rectal exam checking my prostate. He told me that these activities would raise the PSA levels and give a false reading.

It was uncomfortable because of the pressure, but I wouldn't call it pain. They might have injected a painkiller such as lidocain in my rectal wall which may or may not have helped - I didn't feel a needle anywhere. Some of the discomfort was felt at the tip of my penis. When I mentioned that, the doctor said that the nerve endings for the prostate are in the penis. That explains why when I milk my prostate, I feel the sensation in my penis.

The doctor would load a hollow needle in the Trans Rectal Ultrasound probe, the ultrasound technician would move the probe to the proper place, then the needle would be fired into my prostate to get a specimen and retracted. I would hear a clanking as that happened, but no pain resulted from it. They took 12 samples. I was told that I "tolerated" it well. I think part of the toleration was the enjoyment of having my butt exposed and feeling something moving around in my rectum.

I relate the above because it might help someone else who must undergo a prostate biopsy. Please please don't ever think about turning it into a medfet activity.

Solo-E

I'm sure there is a wide range of experiences with prostate biopsies. Mine isn't what I would call painful; uncomfortable and long would be a better description. I probably did have the anesthetic, but it was not painful. I may have had an exceptionally good ultrasound technician and doctor.

Of course I can't make promises about what someone else would experience. But I think if someones PSA is high, or drastically increases; a biopsy shouldn't be avoided just because it might be painful.

Nurse Nikki,

My wife has tried this with me only a couple of times. She says it makes her finger, hand and arm tired. She has short fingers. Any suggestions. Also, I think she feels I must have some gay tendencies for me to even ask. I haven't for awhile and even when I have it's because I'm feeling pretty desperate for the feeling. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks!

^^^^ Tell your wife that you are doing it with HER, not some guy. The "gay tendency" thing is fallacious.

Next, tell your wife that the prostate is ontogenetically similar to her G-Spot except that (among a couple of minor differences), her sexual hot spots are mostly associated with the same hole! 😁 😁 😁 😁

I fairly regularly use P massage during masturbation. I find it to be easier to get at the spot by inserting a long smoth object with a rounded head - about 1" in diameter. Many small vibrators I have seen are too pointed - a somewhat flattened works better for me. It seems to work best for me when I am standing - perhaps right up to the bathroom sink. The spot for me is just a little farther in than my left hand can comfortably massage for an extended period. No big discharge here either - maybe some small drops. A great precursor to actual ejaculation, though. Very very erotic for me when a female conducts the exam!

I always give my male partners a prostate massage. Those familiar with enemas like it, but those unfamiliar with enemas love them. A lot of men are not anally inclined. Those are the ones who are truly bowled over and left speechless by a prostate massage. Now if only these men could find my G-Spot as easily and reliably as I find theirs.

Prostate massage is part of the digital rectal examination (DRE) routinely given to men by urologists in order to look for nodules of prostate cancer and to obtain expressed prostatic secretions (EPS) for examination under microscope.

In the late 1990s, some doctors tried prostate massage in conjunction with antibiotics for the treatment of chronic bacterial prostatitis with uncertain results.[1][2] In recent trials, however, prostate massage was not shown to improve outcomes compared to antibiotics alone.[3] As a consequence of these findings, prostate massage is not used in the treatment of any medical disorder today, and prostate massage should never be performed on patients with acute prostatitis, because the infection can spread elsewhere in the body if massage is performed.[4]

In addition, prostate massage can be risky. Some of the documented consequences are life-threatening periprostatic hemorrhage,[5] cellulitis, Fournier's gangrene,[6] septicaemia, possible disturbance and metastasis of prostate cancer to other parts of the body, and hemorrhoidal flare-up.

Electroejaculation is a procedure in which nerves are stimulated via an electric probe, which is inserted into the rectum adjacent to the prostate. It is most commonly encountered in animal husbandry for the purpose of collecting semen samples for testing or breeding.

Wow, this is all quite surprising. Never knew that there were these risks. Hard to really see how this can come from prostate massage.

Like anything it can be over done. I have used a vibrator on myself in the past and a couple times overdid it to the point that I felt like I had a constant urge to urinate for a couple days after. To me it is a wonderful experience. I've been hinting to my wife in hopes she might try it while she's giving me oral, but no such luck yet. Not going to stop yet.

The video's on yuvutu are really hot. Thanks for the link.

Well gang yahoo! I just had my first prostate massage a member of this site was visiting here in Atlanta ga (we met before in LR ARK). After a great clean out we were talking about different anal play. She ask if I ever had a prostate massage. Sheepishly I answered no. This beautiful woman asked me to turn over again. She took control big time spreading my legs and small pillow under me she began lubing my anus. Before I knew what was happening she was inside me rubbing something in there oh my god felt great she was in no hurry either she kept doing something with her fingers or thumb all at once I went limp all over did she turn me gay.

For comfort and hygiene, wear a nitrile or vinyl disposable glove on the hand that will be touching the anus. Using a water based lubricant, stimulate the outside of the anus, relaxing the sphincters and stimulating the highly concentrated nerve endings. Try circular strokes and smooth glides with one or two fingers. Experiment with speed- slower touch often feels more pleasureble

Once the anal sphincters begin relaxing, use slow and subtle strokes to begin penetrating- never force your way in. The man receiving the prostate massage can focus on breathing and gently relaxing the pelvic muscles and breathing deeply. This relaxation is one of the most beneficial aspects of prostate massage.

After one or two fingers are gently inserted, locate the prostate by massaging towards the perineum (the part of the pelvic floor between the scrotum and anus). You will feel a walnut-shaped gland with a distinct texture. From this angle, you can feel the two sides of the prostate with a ridge down the center. This ridge is where the urethra is passing through the penis. Begin massaging by lightly sweeping from the far side of one lobe towards the center, then repeat on the other side. Alternate massaging each side from the outer edge towards the center, aware that you are manually expressing the fluid from the small ducts into the urethra. With your other hand, you can stimulate the perineum or penis.

Begin the massage with very light pressure, and communicate with your partner. If there is any tenderness or pain, reduce pressure or stop the massage. If the pressure you are using feels good, continue the massage. You can increase pressure gradually, always communicating with your partner about what feels most pleasurable. Reading about a massage technique can only get you so far. You can learn prostate massage in the privacy of your own home with online flash videos. You and your partner can watch these videos together, learning new techniques while communicating about what looks exciting and also taking the time to explore any questions or concerns. Online video is an excellent resource, as you can come back to it over time to refine your skills and refresh your technique. Manual stimulation of the prostate is the most direct and often the most pleasurable form of prostate massage. Using toys designed for prostate stimulation, however, can be an effective and pleasurable way to benefit from prostate massage. There are toys designed for both internal and external stimulation. The Aneros is an internal massager that is designed to stimulate the prostate as you clench your pelvic muscles. This can be done in as little as five minutes a day in the shower. External massage devices such as the Prostate Cradle work by stimulating the prostate with deep pressure at the perineum. If you do not feel the prostate gland, it is possible that your fingers do not quite reach your partner’s prostate. If you cannot comfortably massage his prostate manually, or do not want to use your hands, consider using a tool such as the Aneros or Crystal Wand. These tools can be fun for everyone, no matter how large or small your hands are! Once you gain more comfort with your partner, you can enjoy a wide range of prostate massage experiences. Men and their partners are discovering that prostate massage is a healthy, pleasurable practice that can be learned and shared in the privacy of home. Exploring prostate massage can create profound trust and intimacy within a loving relationship. Take it slow and communicate with your partner, and enjoy sharing the healthy pleasures of prostate massage.

Prostate milking usually causes emission of prostatic fluid only, though you may feel like you're going to have an orgasm, as others have noted. The genuine orgasm and sperm ejaculation you can get from the enema nozzles effects♦ is a more "complete" experience.♦

I have been lucky enough to have a few partners who would stimulate my prostate. One found this very enjoyable and would occasionally add this to our sex play. She would have me lie on my back, legs toward my chest., so I could see her face, and her mine. She would use a glove and lots of KY.

What you may not know is that when the prostate is touched there is an immediate sensation in the glans, or head of the penis. It is similar to the feeling I get at the onset of ejaculation.

I mentioned this to my lover at the time, and as she slowly entered me she would squeeze the head of my penis at the exact same moment that she first touched my prostate. The feeling was incredible.

Prostate massage and masturbation by your lover is quite intense. One occasion, she had me bend over and inserted a small plug that I sometimes had placed in her backside.. She said “I want you open.” The eroticism was incredible. I wore the plug while pleasuring her, and then she removed it, and began prostate play.

There is nothing like the first time, and the time after that and the time after that, o well ready for another prostate massage...lol.

Start with a low warm water enema. You do not need to clean the whole colon just the rectum. Be sure your finger nails are trimmed short with no jagged edges.

Use a vinyl glove on the hand you intend to do the massage with.

On the index finger place a gob of KY Jelly and carefully and slowly work it into the anus. Lubricate the entire anal area. There are two sphincters or an outer and an inner ring. There is no rush take your time. Relax this area until the finger can slide easily inside.

When you can insert the finger fully, bend it slightly towards the mans penis. Feel for a walnut size protruberance through the rectal wall. Be carefull. Imagine you are massaging an eyeball. Slide the finger from the center to the sides. Work both sides.

It may be that you can insert a second finger which will give you more control.

Good luck.