Prostate Stimulators

Have done this many times to the hubby when inserting the jelly for a good enema. Sometimes get so into it we dont get the enema done!

Yes i was introduced to it a few years ago by a woman i know who is a nurse. I have to say i never orgasmed better any other way and feel much better after she does that.

About three years ago I discovered the feeling of having my prostate stimulated during a routine exam. I felt kinda weird because it was my male Dr. who did the exam. We joked about it even to the point of him saying it's a good thing you didn't need a second opinion (while he held up 2 fingers). Anyway, as time passed i have come to enjoy receiving a prostate message during oral sex and the climax that results from it. This lead to enemas to be good and clean for the occasion, you see were I'm going here...

Could anyone tell me if its possible to masturbate my prostate to orgasm? Iv heard of prostate milking and my wife has fingered me, yes I liked it lol. Its was very different and didn't hurt. It is hard to explain what I felt but it was good! My doc also did a prostate check,she was not the most beautiful woman in the world but it caused me to get one big erection. I was very embarrassed. Anyone with ideas let me know

Your wife is not your urologist, difference between this two ladies one is experienced with you, the other is experienced with human '" pipes and hoses "'.

Both have access, but you have to lead your wyfe to found your prostate, to give you an idea , when one or two finger are shoved in your ass the " prostate target" is at the root of your penis or not far from. Do you ever ask to your wife if rubing / stroking her clit make her wet? no because in general, usual and common situation this will arouse her, well for the mens it is the prostate, I ask my urologist to let me feel where is my prostate and I have very strong feelings, ready to juice without the feel of the spasms of orgasming, he is a man and he have a complete view of my sexuality, better than my wife, the same as my lady lover, I have no sexual attirance for him, and in a few seconds I was ready to looze control, without any sexual context.

When your wife is searching your prostate, tell her what you feel, she have to feel a spheric little bulge, once she found it, she have to found the right pressure on it.

Never forget to be as clean as possible inside.

I do not come by prostate massage either. But it is sooooooooo wonderful when my sexy lady takes care of me this way. She has an extre incentive since she knows she will get a good enema and licking afterwards.

We planned for it tonight and I am so ready since it has been a while!

Guys, don't feel sorry for yourself for not being able to cum with prostate stimulation alone. We know you like the prostate stimulation in conjunction with other stimuli to make you cum and while you are cumming, and it can intensify your orgasm, but by itself, with VERY RARE exception, it won't make you cum.

I have been with many guys and spoken with numerous Dommes, and the consensus is that VERY VERY VERY FEW guys can cum with prostate/anal stimulation alone. The great majority of men who say they can, lie.

I've always enjoyed it immensely, but never reached orgasm from it. It was just a wonderful enhancer.

Massaging the prostate can be real erotic, give one very intense orgasms. a butt plug can work wonders, I would insert one, then rock back and forth on the bed to create a massaging movement. slowing down the orgasm, making it last longer just heightens the experience. Enemas can have the same effect, the weight of the water will massage the prostate. Especially if you move around when you are full of fluid.

It is much easier to prostate play with a partner. I've found that massaging your own prostate with your finger just doesn't give the same stimulation than if someone else is massaging your prostate. Of course, if you have a toy, it's easy to stimulate your own prostate, but it's still more exciting when someone else is helping.

I've been lucky enough to have experienced a couple 'good' prostate massages in my lifetime, not as many as I would have liked, and always on the 'prowl' for someone that knows how to do this.

One thing I had found was that if someone has short fingers, they're not going to be able to reach it! That is unless they stick their whole hand in there...

My ex had short fingers, and just couldn't reach it. And I have yet to find, or purchase a 'toy' on the market, that feels as good as a finger massaging it. (And I've tried a lot)

As far as 'forcing' an orgasm from just a prostate massage, I had never experienced that. Yes, that milking of pre-cum, but not a full blown orgasm. Though I had experienced orgasms by having dildos used on me. Was probably more of that combination of the penetration, possibly combined with the dildo hitting the prostate. But I still think more of the penetration aspect of it.

Sometimes depends how aggressive, intense or wild it gets too. Sometimes there is more stimulation in the back, which tends to overpower sensations in the front.

But for sure, a good prostate massage, although not taking a man to an actual orgasm, could still feel like one long intense orgasm 'to him'. At least from my experience.

Got to remember that a woman's orgasm can last for 'minutes', where that little 'high feeling' when a man cums only lasts for a few seconds, before it's all over and done with.

Again, from my experience, having a good prostate massage actually feels like I'm having a 'very long', (as long as the massage continues), intense orgasm, without actually cumming. A whole lot nicer than those few seconds...

I love playing with my prostate before and especially during masterbating! its so much fun to clean out with a nice enema and then slide toys on up there and just rub back and forth and all over my prostate. i also like collecting all the cum that drips out as a result, and when im done, drink it right down the hatch (not every time but most).

i always fantasise about a girl with a strap-on fucking me and playing with my prostate gland while cum just drips and flies all over the place. then after a long session of playing with me and fucking me, i will reward her with a good hard fucking!! in any and all holes she wants it!!

anyone else here into this kind of thing? maybe stories or any girls into playing with guys asses and prostates 😃 it would be nice to hear some feedback on this post

I find the idea playing with a guys prostate and taking him right to the edge and leaving him there a real turn on. I just think its a shame there aren't more guys open to the idea of being taken by a strap on!

Curious, thats a huge turn on for me too!!!! i wish you could do this to me. i know it was only a short plurb but you made me very excited talking about it 😃 i would love for you to take me with your strap-on, bend me over and fuck the shit out of me until im just about ready to explode...then its my turn to have some fun with you! 😉

It is easy. The first step is to make him feel comfortable. Do not say anything to humiliate him. If he likes enemas, a prep enema is a great way to get things started, but by no means essential.

Either knee/chest or on back with knees drawn up will work well. For the first time, on the back is best as you can make eye contact. Use pelnty of lube, and put the PAD of yur index finger over his sphincter. Tell him to relax and take slow, deep breaths. Apply gentle pressure, and let your finger "fall in". Now, flex your finger as if to signal "come here". You will feel the gland, which is about the size of a walnut. It will feel like the tip of your nose or a gum eraser. Massage gently with a back and forth motion, and/or circular motions. Read his response as you do so.

:-)

I need to find a good prostate toy. My ex could find my prostate and I've had a few GFs that could, but I can't seem to find it on my own. Time to go toy shopping. It's too good a sensation to miss out on.

ldb

Here are a few suggestions for receiving or giving yourself a prostate massage to orgasm. It's best to wait a few days without masturbating or having sex before trying this to make it easier the first time. First lay on your side and bring your knees up in line with your hips or so as in the fetal position. Lift the free leg up enough to push your testicles towards your anal area. Keep your penis in front pointing towards your belly button. Lay the raised leg down pressing the thighs together slightly. This places the prostate closer to the anus.

Next insert an index finger into the well lubricated anus and slide it in aiming towards the belly button and slowly press forward gently. Stroke slowly at first sliding the finger towards the left and then the right, then center. Swirling the finger according what feels pleasurable. Increase tempo as desired and slowly, but suddenly the pleasure will intensify and orgasmic pulses will occur. Once the pulses start its impossible to stop them, unlike a penile orgasm.

A very slender dildo or probe could also be used to reach further inside, but a finger is more erotic.

I've explained to my wife that prostate massage helps me cum, perhaps that was the wrong thing to tell her. She now has little problem donning a glove and going in after it, which I'm glad about. But its turned into anal stretching and stimulation in order for me to achieve a good orgasm. I know that's not the idea behind true prostate massage.

But I do love the stretching feeling, and the touching of my prostate. I'm working on getting her to stuff more fingers up in me and to push harder. Unfortunately her wrists can't take the pressure, she ends up with wrist pain, for which I always feel guilty, until the next time I request it.

I may have to buy one of those fist-shaped rubber dildos but that'd probably freak her out, and then there's the problem of where to keep it hidden from the grandchildren.

I've tried to massage my own, but am never sure if I'm doing it correctly. Occasionally I can feel a nice pressure/ urge to pee, but have trouble holding the position. Anyone ever have any success doing it solo? What position did you use?

I need to ask my gf to try it on me. I know she loves it when I play with her ass- she owes me the favor of playing with mine.

I see a video of a man milking him self , he used a stiff dildo and don't make a lot of move , seems that he just hard pushed on his prostate .

I ask to the urologist who I visit twice a year , to let me feel my prostate , it is a man and there was nothing sexual in my request , but I told him that my wife had so much difficulties to found this part of me .

I was on the right position on the right seat , an urologist chair ,

he shoved is finger inside me and told me this your prostate , what I feel was unbelievable ,

he was may be pushing on the prostate since 5 seconds and I was on the edge to be milked without any volonty of this , my "semen" was out of my control ,

5 - 10 seconds more and he make me dry , more easily as I write it ,

and once more it was only medical and instructionnal ,

a girlfriend who use this option can exhausted her young lover with any pain ,

and he will ask for more .

Young ladies have to learn this massage , they will have a lot of love back from her lover .

The best orgasm I have ever had was while being fisted and the fist being gently rotated as I was about to come. It must stimulate the prostate. My wife is not into anal at all but I have a gay friend who loves fisting me. :-)

We have been into fisting for a number of years now, and have yet to find and stimulate my prostate in a way pleasurable enough to achieve a milking.

Interested to hear if others are having the same difficulty.

The Aneros is the best hands free device for self prostate milking that I've seen, but there's no substitute for a woman's well placed index and middle fingers.

I have tried this on my sub several times... each time was unseccesful... I am not sure if I am doing it right or not.. we ever bought a prostate massager but still no luck..

does anyone have any advice/infomation or could post some links to some websites that could help?....

You really don't need a massager. All you need is your fingers.

The best way I can describe it is to do it the same way as you would have your G-spot massaged. Have your boyfriend lie on his back. Straddle his legs so you are facing him. He can be in the "frog position" with his legs falling apart or with his knees drawn up and your legs under his or his legs can be flat in the bed if he is comfortable that way, only you will have less access to his anal area, but it still works. Facing each other makes for a wonderful experience as you can see each other's face and talk, or at least smile at each other when you do this. Lubricate your fingers and your boyfriend's anus and rectum, get the sphincter to relax and accept one, then a second finger (three or four fingers are also good if you can insert them or fist him, but that's another post), hold your palm facing upward, and make the "come here" motion with with your index and middle fingers. You don't have to go in very far. If you insert your fingers all the way (you don't have to jam them in and reach for his ribcage) and make a stroke with your fingers from an extended position, pulling forward to his inner anal ring, (you will feel it from the inside) you will have well covered his prostate and he will thank you for it! If you are masturbating him at the same time, try to time your penis strokes with the rectal/prostate strokes. They can be in sync with each other or alternating with each other. My husband likes it best when the forward (pulling towards you) stroke on the prostate coincides with the pull stroke on his penis.

Thanks Switchables, I will show this to my wife and we'll try again. We're mainly into fisting so can't wait to see your post on stimulating the prostate with a fist.

We have tried to find my prostate a number of times, but she does not seem to be able to either find it or touch it in a way that stimulates it in a pleasurable way.

Many times when she fists me she reaches some spots both deep inside, and close to the outer sphincter which result in the most incredible spurting spasms which can be very intense. I need to wear a condom, and I can often fill up to 3 condoms in a session. I think that these could be prostate spasms, but that the fluid is urine and not prostate fluid. Maybe with your experience you can tell us how to tell the difference. The fluid is sometimes very clear, but can also be yellowish. I don't think that this could be prostate fluid as there is just too much volume.

We are also currently playing with catheters and are trying to stimulate the prostate from both inside the urethra and through the rectum, and would appreciate to hear your comment on if there is any danger in damaging the urethra or bladder by fisting with a catheter inserted.

I can't wait for my wife to feel my ribcage from inside, she has however not yet managed to get to the elbow...your husband is a lucky man!!! 😁

Just to chime in late about the aneros. I have one and really like it. If I hang out for 10-20 minutes with it inserted, sometimes, my rectum starts to contract about it and it's the wildest feeling. I've also ejaculated with it inserted, also a completely different ejaculation. I like the device. The only odd thing is that sometimes I have the involuntary contractions and sometimes I don't. Not sure what that's about.

Good instruction switchablesusie....we are gonna give it a shot too...wish us luck

Prostate milking is number one on my anal play list. I have told my girlfriend that it should be a once a week order for her She has small hands and I like it hard. Her fingers get tired very quickly

Maybe someday she can get a friend that will do it for her and she can help.

A prostate massage after an enema combined with a slow but well oiled hand job while you're in the upright on your knees and elbows position can produce the most shattering orgasm. I have also used a tantric masseuse that pleasures the "male sacred spot" while she masterbates you to near completion often and then one earth shattering climax. yes a prostate massage is great.