Spreading your legs for the doctor

I get more of a "relax your legs" and "scoot down more"

Words like "spread your legs", "open your legs a bit more" and "come a bit closer" send shivers down my spine and even more so when accompanied by a gentle hands helping out. I don't like "scoot" for some reason.

That's why my wife and I purchased a GYN exam table. Spread wide up stirrups opens up all possibilities. Her lady parts are optimally available for what you may want to do.

I just read through the last several posts. It started my imagination.

It made me imagine being an OB/GYN, KNOWING that while i'm examining a patient as a professional for her own health benefit, that she's getting off by the procedure. And then to imagine having a series of patients in a given day, a given week, where a high percentage of them, would all be secretly getting off on it

That would get me really into it. I'm the doctor, just being professional and doing what I'm supposed to do. They're the patients, being subjected to what the procedure calls for. They don't let on how much they're really digging it, but since i got inside info, I know but never let on that i know. It would be this unspoken thing.

In reality I think a lot about the unspoken. Occasionally i get told I have no idea how many women really dig me, even though I swear the chicks that say this are pulling my leg, or don't have an accurate picture themselves. but if they're right, so goes the unspoken word.

Then i consider the workplace. An environment where sexual harassment is taken so seriously, employees think twice before hitting on, flirting, using sexual innuendo. But what if folks didn't have to worry, and spoke out honestly about what's really on their minds. Again, the unspoken word.

The unspoken words and sentiments.......

Healthy44 I am imagining you doing my exam but instead of the unspoken word you tell me exactly how my body is betraying me, the embarrassment would just get me even wetter.

Healthy44 I am imagining you doing my exam but instead of the unspoken word you tell me exactly how my body is betraying me, the embarrassment would just get me even wetter.

If I thought that telling you that was having that effect on you, i would make sure i did, and tell you about it as much as possible. Once i find successful cause & effect, I stay right on it. Then it would become a question of "how wet" i could get you.

If i thought women were getting wet because of what i was doing, my patients would have to become really discreet, or i would lose my license in no time. Something would make me feel obligated to max out the wetness and not leave it hanging.

I'm a kinda thoughtful & sweet guy like that. 😉

To date four first three were only teen exams one was a full adult exam. Never had a Doc say spread your legs the routine was place your heels fully in the stirrups. Scoot to end to table. Let your knees drop fully to the sides. First one was somewhat humiliating total exposure to a male not my lover was a strange experience at the time . My last one gave me erotic feelings. The line bear down and cough with his gloved fingers in side me, and to relax my vagina for the speculum insertion are a total turn on experience for me.

I have had a doctor tell me to spread my legs a few times. Usually, though, it's slide down to the end of the table and let your knees fall apart,

I can not remember exactly what my gynecologist said to me last September. I think maybe he just told me to place my legs in the supports.

"Spread your legs, (baby)" is what your partner says.

I never heard a doctor say "spread your legs". It is considered almost vulgar in a medial practice.

The phrase is SEPARATE your legs.

I have never said "spread your legs ". I always say "put your feet in the stirrups, slide down until you feel yourself about to fall off the table and let your knees drop wide apart as if to touch the walls". I swear I say the same thing over and over. It's really revolting the lack of originality.

Um rest your feet in the stirrups and slide all the way down as far as you can go until I say stop, let your legs fall to the side, followed by I'm going to touch your thigh so you feel comfortable and then Proceeds explaining every thing being done. 10 minutes from start to finish. Purely clinical. If a doctor said spread your legs I would die laughing. And go home.

I'd rather just position my fingers on the inside of the thighs to slowly push them apart until i had the angle i need.

Who was that, Depeche Mode, that said "Words are very unnecessary - they can only do harm" 😉

Who was that, Depeche Mode, that said "Words are very unnecessary - they can only do harm" 😉

Boy are they wrong about this situation! The right words are necessary.

I'd rather just position my fingers on the inside of the thighs to slowly push them apart until i had the angle i need.

If a real doctor did that, the patient would think they were being rough and un-understanding of the patient's feelings about the intimate nature of the exam. Explanation is needed first, especially for new or younger patients.

Zity members have a very small group of women who get turned on by this. The vast majority of women do not.

I love when my hot male gynecologist asks me to spread my legs nice and wide for him and when he puts his manly hands on my legs and opens them all the way to how far apart he needs them to be, he usually has me open my legs pretty wide for him

Push the thighs apart? In real life? I don't think so. Verges on assault.

I've never been told to "spread my legs". What I typically hear is more like 'relax and let your knees fall out to the side' or something similar, each doctor being a little different.

But I do enjoy having to do so at the doctor's instruction. That moment of having to open my legs wide for the doctor is so arousing, such a rush of emotions, the nervous embarrassment and excitement, the vulnerability in opening your legs. And when you do its like surrendering yourself and your trust in this person, this stranger essentially, the doctor.

It's a definite high point to the exam, especially after the anticipation of waiting to hear it, knowing it is coming as you settle into position with your feet in the stirrups, then hearing those words, the instructions and having to comply and do as the doctor says. Not having opened my legs wide enough, I like when the doctor's gloved hands touch each of my thighs and gives a gentle 'nudge' outward, not so subtly directing me, while telling me to "relax and let your knees drop out further to the side".

The PA that examines my wife says something along the line of "Please place your feet in the stirrups, slide your bottom to just over the edge of the table, and let your knees fall open to the side as wide as you can". She has never been told to spread her legs, except by me, of course!

Definitely agree with everyone here in that my physician has never said "spread your legs" for an exam. I think I'd be like..."I'm sorry, what?"

It's always been "relax and let your knees fall out to the sides as far as you can."

As for a play exam, a "spread your legs for me" is pretty naughty ??

My husband often says "spread your legs" to me when we are having sex and I think it would be good if he said it to me when he is giving me a play exam. So when you read this DrZ, that is what I want. 😈 😜

As for a play exam, a "spread your legs for me" is pretty naughty ??

RNinCA, I think I like this idea! Even in my play exams, I've pretty much always said something like, "Relax and let your knees fall open." But this is just a little bit edgy -- not so much that it makes the scene unrealistic, but certainly enough to be fun given the right dynamic. 😉

"Spread your legs and let me in or else I will spank you "

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- said no Doctor Ever 😁 😁

I don't think they tell you THAT! I am told to scoot my bottom down to the edge of the table, and then put my knees in the stirrups to hang. The cool air brushes against my pussy. Only during my pediatrician exams did I lay on the table without stirrups but the doctor spread my legs, didn't ask ME to.

My doctor always says ,"okay now just let your legs fall open and try to relax".

Yup frog position I just hated that.

As for a play exam, a "spread your legs for me" is pretty naughty ??

I completely agree ! Hearing him say that ......oh my ! No lube would be needed . ??

That's it! I'm going to start studying to be a doctor.

One time I purposely kept my knees together so that the doctor would use his hands to gently open my legs. When he said "let your knees fall open as far as possible" it really turned me on. There's something about being shy and being gently but firmly encouraged/forced to expose myself and submit to a very thorough exam that captivates me.

I love it!!! I'm jealous of all of you who are put in the stirrups and THEN the doctor spread them wider!!.. although, I'm sure my body would arch from excitement and fall off the table.?

It is definitely a big part of my fantasy exam!!!

When they tell me to relax my knees I could O right there.