Spreading your legs for the doctor

I love the idea of laying in a hospital bed, doctor sits down on the edge of bed, gloves on, lube on two fingers, tells me to relax and spread my legs, as he is gently nudging my knees to fall open, and caressing my inner thigh as he inserts his fingers inside me.

When I was growing up I used to hate it when the doctor would say “Ok now spread your legs for me” or “ok now open your legs for me”. I think the reason I hated it was the “for me” part, I don’t know why it bothered me so much.

I did get butterfly feelings in my stomach though when it would happen, knowing that I was so exposed and vulnerable.

I believe that you disliked your doctor saying "for me" because it implied that you were personally submitting to his will. The action being taken was for his benefit. The benefit he received was construed as sexual in nature. Your submissive nature is why you also experienced arousal in addition to embarrassment.

Yes I love this. It’s the part you almost want to resist but want to spread open wide for the doctor. Usually I know I haven’t opened wide enough and like when his gloved hand gently but firmly edges my knees wider apart and I am fully exposed.

Oh I love it, surrendering myself to my doctor either in play or for real.

Ohhhh yessss I get sooo excited the day before my usual yearly gyno exam.When I actually get up on the table,and either put my feet into the stirrups or put my knees ontop of the knee supports.I am already very very excited and very wet.I can't wait to feel the speculum and my doctors fingers going into me.I also think she knows how excited I get,but has never said anything to me.

It would be very exciting if they said “spread your legs” however I think I’m usually told - “separate your knees” or “let your legs fall to the the side” or “relax your legs to the side” - it would be really nice & exciting to be bluntly told “open your legs” or “spread your legs” also “keep your legs open” - I would love for my legs to be lifted and placed in knee rests so I couldn’t close them. I’d also like to be in foot stirrups and have a gloved hand gently ease my knees further open if they drifted inwards too much..

Do the ladies here prefer knee supports or foot slings for leg support ?

I would love either - anything which keeps & hold my legs wide apart.

Do the ladies here prefer knee supports or foot slings for leg support ?

I’ve only encountered foot stirrups at the OB/GYN appointments that I’ve had. I’ve always wanted to try the knee supports personally, but they don’t seem to be common here in the U.S.

All of my patients will be required to spread their legs wide open. Your feet/legs placed into the stirrups. I want to examine you vaginally

Bluebella would you like it if your bare legs were raised and positioned into the gynaecological examination stirrups and then black leather Velcro straps wrapped around your legs, firstly just above your knees, then just below your knees, then around your tummy and above your breasts. A strap is also placed around your forehead, preventing you from looking down at what is about to happen to you. Although the Doctor may remove this during the examination and tilt the head angle table adjustment upwards so that you can witness certain parts of your check-up, head restraint maybe replaced during this part of the exam, forcing you to witness some of the medical procedures that you’re about to receive. I’m sure you’ll appreciate this choice by your Doctor. Your wrists are secured firmly with your arms outstretched at 90% to the examination table on supports. Your ankles finally secured into the foot rests. Right then, are we ready to begin?

I’ve always wanted to try the knee supports personally, but they don’t seem to be common here in the U.S.

An interesting comment as I had thought that they were becoming more and more common in the US over the past few years... but apparently not so widespread as of yet. Stand by ladies, I am sure they will be coming to your clinic soon.

Doctor Geoff

@Nath42 - yes I’d like it very much indeed!

The nurse stands by the bedside with a thermometer in her hand and says, "open wide..."

then with a smirk she says, "I ment your MOUTH!"

At first this use to make me nervous, but now I know it just part of the exam

I love saying that to my patient while playing exam😃

No. To me it is like putting my socks on...bleh. nothing.

But in play, now that is something else. And I like when I don't comply 100% and my play doc / enemate @flalovin slaps my thighs or spreads me.

I know somethings are coming my way. Some pain, some pleasure, vaginally and anally.

I enjoy a play dr helping with him spreading my legs knowing his hands are touching my legs with anticipation the excitement for what comes next is a turn on.

Though I go to the doctor for missed periods, mostly it is due to stress and I know my gynec will scold me for being stressed (yes she scolds). But still when I am told to position myself on the gynec chair, I like laying with legs spread for her to examine.

I wonder how many women become noticeably wet before or during a pelvic exam. I can imagine that once you know a doctor and have a good rapport with him/her you might find the procedure stimulating. I used to see a therapeutic massage therapist. I used to get hard when she would massage my upper thighs. The first time I apologized profusely. But every time after that we both just ignored it.

The doctor moves his hands down my thighs slowly while he is opening my legs and moving my feet further apart. Moving the light closer to my vaginal area that he is inspecting. Taking his time to do a complete inspection. Probing with lubricated fingers while moving my vaginal area and bottom into various positions during the check up.

In real life, the words have no effect. During play, the Doc can phrase it any way he likes and use any tone he likes (firm and demanding preferred). Every little thing adds to the anticipation and nervous excitement for this patient.

My doctor normally scoots me and spreads my legs for me. They may say, ok, let’s get you ready, and then they guide me to the end of the table and up into the knee supports.

This is such a pivotal part of exams and how the act is requested. The phrase ‘’spread your legs'' isn't as clinical as ‘'please relax your knees for me'' (as I gently helped to open them) or ‘’just let your knees fall naturally to the side for me please'' as I may gently assist. Each patient can vary in the phrase she likes to hear but it always is such an elevated phase of the exam realizing that yes, its time to check your genitals.

Yes it is and when a Dom says it to

There are rather gentle orders to take off your panties to examine, prepare for the exam or just put your knees into knee supports. Open legs for me was looking like sex proposal..😃

In the professional world a doctor will always use the correct words in a more then appropiate way.

In my own world, I enjoy teasing the patient with my words. In Dutch vocabulary I enjoy to use diminutives without making things cheap. It gives a different dynamic (look and feel) to the words. Making the patient much more aware what is going to happen.

In Dutch vocabulary I enjoy to use diminutives without making things cheap. It gives a different dynamic (look and feel) to the words. Making the patient much more aware what is going to happen.

Oh yes, Dutch words, especially diminutives give a very condescending feel to an exam and gives the doctor or nurse an extra layer of authority, as if they are talking to an adolescent.

The old ORR clinic that was located in Antwerp also had Dutch speaking personnel. The nurses especially had a real knack for sounding like they were treating someone with a limited medical knowledge or mental capacity. Just like many real life nurses I've encountered in real-life hospitals.

There is a feel to using Dutch in medfet that cannot be replicated in English I find.

There are rather gentle orders to take off your panties to examine, prepare for the exam or just put your knees into knee supports. Open legs for me was looking like sex proposal..😃

Indeed, I do not think that these orders are suitable for a consultation in real situation.

As far as I'm concerned, after the interview, I ask the patient to go to the consultation room, telling her that we will start by examining her breasts.

It is therefore she who decides to get naked or to undress only her bust. Most often she gets naked directly.

For this part of the consultation, the patient does not place her feet in the stirrups.

Once the breast palpation is done, I simply ask her to settle down for the abdominal examination.

With a simple formula, I tell her to use the stirrups and to put her buttocks quite close to the edge of the table.

As a result, her legs naturally parted to be wide enough for the placement of the speculum.

If necessary, we can take advantage of the palpation of the abdomen to help the optimal positioning of the pelvis and thighs.