Crying

I have never cried during a spanking. I would like to, but it never seems to happen. If the spanking is hard, I will scream sometimes when the paddle hits my butt, but I have never been spanked to tears. Still, I find that a lot of stress is released when I am severely paddled, and I don’t mind a few bruises.

Geeze. Plain and simple, you were NEVER spanked hard enough.

Spanking is a regular part of our Dom/sub scene's. About once a month we have a full on mental and physical abuse role play. It usually involves a rough spanking and verbal abuse. I LOVE it. The crying, and mental draining allows me to release anger and negative energy. I cry easily so its not hard to bring me to tears.

Geeze. Plain and simple, you were NEVER spanked hard enough.

I'm not sure I agree with this. Pain is only in your mind.

I agree with Moppy, I think for me the physical pain is not enough to make me cry. I have been paddled hard enough to make some dark bruises. While I never intended to get bruised that way, I wanted to be spanked hard and long enough to make me cry.

I think I need a mental element to make that happen.

It would also probably have to be a true punishment as in disappointing my spanker/dom for me to get into that head space I most likely need.

I need to cry if I am being punished. I am fortunate enough to have a Dad figure in my life who doesn’t play at spankings. Many spankings including some for wrong doing do not leave me in tears but when I am brought to tears I feel closer to him and have a greater desire to please him not so much as to avoid another spanking, although it is true a punishment spanking is not so much something I want as something I need. I can have lighter playful spankings that are erotic and keep more hard but if I am being punished even if I start hard by the 3 or 4 hard swat I am soft, although even when crying my soft cock will sometimes drip precum. After a good cry I feel so loved, so while I play both ways tears are important if not needed for me.

I used to cry when my parents spanked me, but since I've been an adult spanking hasn't made me cry.