The confidence of a man is certainly a key factor as is his demeanor, the way he holds himself, poise, sense of humor, intelligence, and of course phsycially attractive, is what will turn my head when I have a look at a man. Most times it is a man I see out in public or somewhere that will catch my eye and of course I may daydream or fantasize about having him and it is a fun fantasy. The men I fantasize about are usually my age or a little younger and are more in the column of 'What If?' The fantasy world ehanced by a ride on my Sybian or at the point of my vibrator against my clit while enjoying an enema. Great fun to think about and to get off to, but my reality is a lot better. 😉 🌹
My reality is that my men I have sex with are or have been men I know personally, and they are in their 50's or 60's. 🌹 They are witty, funny, thoughtful, considerate, and we both know they can have me or I can have them when and how we want. They don't look like Brad Pitt may be a little gray or thin in the hair department, not rich, but they do very well, have dad bods, maybe should pluck their eyebrows more than they do, or stand closer to a razor blade in the morning, but they are my friends those I have taken are with me because that is what we want. I wouldn't trade them for any studs I fantasize about or a Chip-n-Dale kind of guy.
That kind of relationship took time to build between us, the men I do, and before ZITY.BIZ I never acted on that outside of my marriage. With a man that is, there was Sarah, but she was another story. ; The guys I have wouldn't look twice at any woman who is over 50 and thinks that guys over 60 are invisible. They would probably consider those women as too stupid and too shallow and wouldn't have much use for them. As a matter of fact one guy that I would like to have has remarked that he knows of some women who are over 50 or even 40, must not have got the memo that their looks aren't what they used to be. That goes for some guys that I know, too.
Be confident NOT arrogant. My men are confident that when we are having sex, that the fireworks are preferred and we go for the home run, but sometimes just being in the ball park and touching all the bases is where it's at. 😉
Fantasy is one thing but my reality can't be beat. 😉 😃