@SwitchableSusie, @Moppys_jalopy, and @sweetkissestoo are absolutely correct about confidence.
I had no confidence with the young ladies that I liked while in school. In fact, I had only two dates while in high school and the first one was a complete disaster. I mean, you know your date is not really interested in being with you when she wants to go to the mall before the movie, and you find out it's just so she can talk with all the guys that work at different stores there.
By the time I graduated high school, I was beginning to gain a little confidence, but we moved to another state within a weeks time.
I got to our new home, started attending trade school, and started working part time in retail. That's when it happened!
I was working along side beautiful young ladies. Some in high school still, some in college. One cute little blond caught my eye, so I finally got up enough nerve to ask her to go out on a date. To my surprise, she said yes!
We actually never did go out, but just her saying yes gave me a confidence boost that started growing fast! Like a snowball, getting bigger, as it rolls down a snow covered mountain side.
I was always a bit of a cut up and clown, but I began using it in a very flirtatious way with the young ladies I was working with.
That's when I learned the secret that I later called "People Want What They Can't Have". I made sure that any young lady that I was interested in, saw me having fun with other guys and GALS. However, I didn't give them the time of day. I would be friendly with them, but was always keeping them on the fringe, so to speak.
By the time I would ask them out, many actually said, "I thought you would never ask!"
During this time I started developing some what of the "Bad Boy" reputation, but it was not actually who I was at all. Other people were labeling me with this rep, just because they saw me dating many different young ladies. I just let them think what they wanted and was enjoying the dating scene like I never thought possible.
I became very confident in who I was and in talking and interacting with people. Especially the ladies!
So I have to agree that it's confidence, not age, that attracts.
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